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What's 12 inches long and hangs between Vladimir Putin's legs? (Original Post) Rocknrule Oct 2016 OP
Good one. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2016 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author uppityperson Oct 2016 #2
The joke does not assume homophobia jberryhill Oct 2016 #5
Huh, that could be. uppityperson Oct 2016 #7
I mean, there's no other way to convey the notion of physical love jberryhill Oct 2016 #9
They love each other is better than joking about gay sex. I self deleted but not again say not coo! uppityperson Oct 2016 #10
Think of it this way jberryhill Oct 2016 #14
But Donnie isn't female. That is the point. uppityperson Oct 2016 #16
It was not homophobic. Not in any way. Doodley Oct 2016 #6
Haa misterhighwasted Oct 2016 #3
LOL! Thanks for lowering my blood pressure. It was a little elevated after listening skylucy Oct 2016 #4
Unfunny Stinky The Clown Oct 2016 #8
They both happen to be men jberryhill Oct 2016 #11
There is something wrong with saying that attachment is a gay sex joke uppityperson Oct 2016 #13
It would work if Trump were female jberryhill Oct 2016 #15
But Donnie isn't female. That is the point. uppityperson Oct 2016 #17
So what? jberryhill Oct 2016 #19
Given the role of misogyny in the campaign, I don't agree that it would work mythology Oct 2016 #23
"the one on their knees in that situation as being weaker" jberryhill Oct 2016 #24
The point is bowing down to our kneeling in front of someone is not the joke here. uppityperson Oct 2016 #26
The joke is not "Trump is gay". The joke is that he services Putin jberryhill Oct 2016 #28
Please read this post. uppityperson Oct 2016 #30
Thank you. I agree. uppityperson Oct 2016 #12
It was not intended to be homophobic Rocknrule Oct 2016 #18
At least 2 of us see it as homophobic. You may not have many it to be, but it is. uppityperson Oct 2016 #20
As I was told here by a straight poster... Behind the Aegis Oct 2016 #21
Best wishes to you BtA and thank you for explaining it so clearly uppityperson Oct 2016 #25
You're welcome. Behind the Aegis Oct 2016 #32
This cluelessness shows you how deeply imbeded in our language homophobia and misogyny really are. ronnie624 Oct 2016 #29
Trump's hands laid end to end... Row_the_boat Oct 2016 #22
Offensive. KentuckyWoman Oct 2016 #27
that nasty old pig would grope anything he could get his tiny hands on. putitinD Oct 2016 #31

Response to Rocknrule (Original post)

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
5. The joke does not assume homophobia
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:34 PM
Oct 2016

If that's how Trump expresses his love for Putin, there is nothing wrong with the sex. What's wrong is his love for Putin, not that Putin is of the same sex.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
9. I mean, there's no other way to convey the notion of physical love
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:37 PM
Oct 2016

...between the two of them, other than by gay sex.

But the joke doesn't turn on them being both men.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
14. Think of it this way
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:43 PM
Oct 2016

Does the joke work with any combination of genders?

Yes, you'd have to change the article of clothing (a necklace perhaps) if Trump were female.

But it would still work if Trump were female.

skylucy

(3,739 posts)
4. LOL! Thanks for lowering my blood pressure. It was a little elevated after listening
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:27 PM
Oct 2016

to tRump bloviate, lie and insult for almost 90 minutes.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
11. They both happen to be men
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:40 PM
Oct 2016

The joke is about the passionate love that Trump has for Putin.

They both happen to be men.

What makes it funny is not the notion that they are gay, but the intensity of affection that Trump has for Putin.

There is nothing wrong with a man expressing physical affection for a man.

There is something wrong with a US presidential candidate expressing such attachment for a hostile dictator and his geopolitical ambitions.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
15. It would work if Trump were female
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:45 PM
Oct 2016

If Trump were female, it would work the same, changing necktie to necklace.

It can be expressed with any combination of gender, and does not turn on the fact they are both men.

(On edit: straight people have oral sex too)

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
19. So what?
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:51 PM
Oct 2016

The joke does not depend on the sex being gay or straight.

Yes, because Trump and Putin are both male, then it is sex between two men. But that's just an accident of this reality. In an alternate universe where Trump is a woman, the joke still works.

Sex is funny, no matter who is having it.
 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
23. Given the role of misogyny in the campaign, I don't agree that it would work
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:54 AM
Oct 2016

Of course given how homophobic the GOP is, I don't think the original joke is good either. Whether you want to admit it or not, our society has an association with being the one on their knees in that situation as being weaker, whether that's being gay or being a woman.

There are other ways to make your point about Trump being Putin's lapdog without at the very least toeing the line of a homophobic comment.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
24. "the one on their knees in that situation as being weaker"
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:56 AM
Oct 2016

Thus defining the servile posture of Trump to Putin. That's the point.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
26. The point is bowing down to our kneeling in front of someone is not the joke here.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:08 AM
Oct 2016

It is homophobia, snerking at the thought of it. That is the problem.

Rocknrule

(5,697 posts)
18. It was not intended to be homophobic
Wed Oct 19, 2016, 10:47 PM
Oct 2016

It would've worked just as well if the punchline was "Ivanka's hair" instead of "_____'s necktie".

Behind the Aegis

(53,962 posts)
21. As I was told here by a straight poster...
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:32 AM
Oct 2016

Don't "homosplain" to them!

I know you aren't GLBT, but an ally. There are more than a few that still think things like this are funny. There is a time and a place. Is it as horrible as tying us to a fence to die? Of course not, but it is one of those little "paper cuts" that so many think we "should get over it! It's just a joke!"



uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
25. Best wishes to you BtA and thank you for explaining it so clearly
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:06 AM
Oct 2016

If the joke were Trump being hauled around piggyback, of even clinging to Putin's coattail, that'd be funny. But snerk, snerk, a man on another man's penis? Snerk snerk. As far as "it'd be just as funny it it were a woman", no.

At any rate, thank you for the explanation. I hope it is read by others.

Behind the Aegis

(53,962 posts)
32. You're welcome.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:53 AM
Oct 2016

I was thinking more along the lines of the tie coming out the back of Putin's pants indicating Trump was kissing his ass would be actually funny. But, once again, we are the "butt" of the joke and then told, "it isn't about you!"

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
29. This cluelessness shows you how deeply imbeded in our language homophobia and misogyny really are.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:22 AM
Oct 2016

What would be the point in insulting someone by calling them gay, if there wasn't an element of contempt for homosexuality, generally? When you tell someone, "you suck" or "you're so gay", you're telling them they are contemptable and worthless. Telling a strait male he is gay or effeminate, is about the worst insult you can pay him. The homophobia and misogyny (the root of homophobia) are obvious to me.

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