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An anonymous call to the Missouri Childrens Divisions child abuse hotline likely saved the life of the 10-year-old Kansas City girl known so far only as LP. She weighed just 32 pounds and apparently was locked in a filthy closet for perhaps days on end.
But the child, weak and abused as she was, is the true hero of the story. When a police officer entered her mothers apartment and called out, Is anyone in here, she answered yes.
What we know from awful child abuse cases of the past and there have been too many in Kansas City, as columnist Mary Sanchez relates here is that adults go to great trouble to hide these kids. They are emotionally as well as physically abused and they know that the consequences of speaking up for themselves can be terrible.
But this girl did.
Read more here: http://voices.kansascity.com/entries/abused-child-closet-showed-great-courage/#storylink=cpy
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)AsahinaKimi
(20,776 posts)I can only hope she can receive the love and care she needs before she starts to view the world as a totally cruel place. We learn about the world in our early lives, much goes below the surface, and carries into our later lives. I hope she will find out there is more to the world than cruel vicious people.
OKNancy
(41,832 posts)Quantess
(27,630 posts)I thought it was a lot longer than that, since neighbors who lived there for years did not know the girl existed.
lapislzi
(5,762 posts)How can humans behave so cruelly?
I cannot for the life of me imagine what this mother is going to say in her own defense, to defend the indefensible.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)Nope. A bitch wouldn't treat her puppies this way. This woman isn't human, but she doesn't deserve the right to be compared to any animal. She's scum. And I hope I'm not offending scum.
My God, there are people in this world that make me wish things I feel guilty about. I have a whole list for this piece of trash.
Little girl, it gets better. I promise. It seems you already have one guardian angel. Whomever that anonymous voice was, thank you, thank you, thank you.
I feel bad about the very bad thoughts I am thinking for this "mother." These thoughts do not elevate me as a human being.
But...I am not as evolved as I wish I was. I'm glad I won't have to be dispensing justice in this case.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)We think them and that little voice in our head just goes on a rant about how wrong we are to be so cruel. That's evolution. We learn from our irrational and violent thoughts. This woman obviously doesn't have that little voice in her head.
Sometimes, those "evil" thoughts kick that little voices ass, though. I'd call it a draw in this case.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)but stories like this make me question my stance on the death penalty.
SouthernLiberal
(407 posts)Right now, I just wish that I could reach out and hug her. She needs to know that that there are good people in the world, and I am sure that she needs to feel loved. There is nothing we can do to the mother that will make anything better for this child. There are a lot of ways in which we, as a society, can fail her. I hope that we don't. She deserves so much better.
siligut
(12,272 posts)The two sisters are apparently healthy. Persons with personality disorders practice scapegoating and that is what this sounds like to me. Mom needs a mental examination and treatment.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)very common in abusive families where the parent has a personality disorder. Mental examination and treatment, however, doesn't work for most personality disorders. Personality disorder is not the same as mental illness - it rarely improves with treatment.
tblue37
(65,408 posts)who is the womans current boyfriend. I am quite certain that this little girls treatment is related to her being the child from the mothers previous relationship.
The boyfriend was not charged, so he might not have demanded or expected such treatment for this child, but just as Susan Smith killed her sons because she thought it would further her relationship with the man she was interested in (who did not want children), this mother might have felt that locking away this little girl and trying to negate her existenceboth figuratively and very nearly literallywould win her points with her current boyfriend.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)At least there was someone left to take the call and authority to enter the house.
bluesbassman
(19,374 posts)handling issues like this for profit, will end up turning out like this? Or will it just be another statistic like the inmate who was deprived of medical attention and died three months short of parole.
The GOP leadership knows what their policies will lead to, the rank and file and teabaggers don't even have a clue. I don't know which is worse.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)When mental illness knocks on their own door, they do their "praise God for making me humble" dance. Yeah, humble doesn't come with a Caddy insurance policy that covers mental health care, the best schools and nannies, etc. When it happens to the rest of us, it's not a "gift from God", they say it's a punishment.
Making a profit off of the tragic lives of the poor and minorities in this country is how they pay for their sins against humanity. The mental gymnastics they go through to force their God into their mold is astonishing.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)ljm2002
(10,751 posts)...and I hope and pray she will get all the love and care she deserves, and can have a good life. It seems it may be hard to provide her with a strong psychological foundation, but miracles do happen. I think she needs an outpouring of love from many different sources, and of course strong and prolonged psychological therapy. (the physical care she needs goes without saying)
Also her sisters need love and prolonged attention and psychological therapy. Although they were not physically abused, they have been psychologically twisted by living in such a situation, and if they are not attended to for as long as it takes to un-twist them, they too will suffer -- and possibly their children as well.
This is a case that follows a pattern; it seems once or twice a year we hear about one of these cases, where one child was singled out for extreme abuse while the others live a "normal" life with the family. But there is nothing normal about it, and those children are damaged as well.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)but, sometimes, it is very hard to stay that way.