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Coventina

(27,121 posts)
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:01 AM Jan 2017

I've lost all hope. My country is not the country I thought it was.

When George W. Bush stole the election, I was full of white-hot rage that fueled me through his 8 years in office.

I was appalled at how Obama was treated for the past 8 years, but I thought it was just a vocal, but dying minority.

This new abomination, though. I go through life EVERY DAY running into Trumpers who think everything he's doing is just great.

No matter that he stole the election through Putin's help.

No matter that he's violating the Constitution right and left.

No matter that he's trashing our reputation all over the world.

No matter that he hates everyone but straight, white, Christian men. And is busy trashing everyone else's rights.

I'm just so disillusioned.

We can march and protest all we want, but nothing will change. He will just "fire" anyone who disagrees. And he'll get away with it.
Just like he's gotten away with not revealing his taxes, treating most citizens like scum, saying things that would disqualify anyone else.
No one that matters seems to care. He appears to be completely unstoppable.

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I've lost all hope. My country is not the country I thought it was. (Original Post) Coventina Jan 2017 OP
Trump wants you to lose hope. That's his strategy. C_U_L8R Jan 2017 #1
+1, thank you. NT enough Jan 2017 #5
This. +1 nt Tree-Hugger Jan 2017 #11
+1,000,000 highplainsdem Jan 2017 #22
Can you move or make new friends? yardwork Jan 2017 #2
Just call Trump supporters "good little boys" world wide wally Jan 2017 #3
If You Choose To Lose Hope And Retreat.... LovingA2andMI Jan 2017 #4
Here's an anecdote that might explain my situation: Coventina Jan 2017 #8
Time to teach, preach, and practice the Golden Rule! vlyons Jan 2017 #13
You aren't alone... Phentex Jan 2017 #19
Our sense of self-worth doesn't depend on externals. Be kind to yourself... Donkees Jan 2017 #20
Evidently this country is filled with ignorant, paranoid, fearmongering bigots with no job skills. LonePirate Jan 2017 #6
I have hope, protests are getting bigger, people are getting angrier, they are awakening. ck4829 Jan 2017 #7
Don't lose hope! vlyons Jan 2017 #9
Don't give twitler any satisfaction BSdetect Jan 2017 #10
To paraphrase JRR Tolkien in Lord of the Rings anamnua Jan 2017 #12
There are more of us...and we are awake. cry baby Jan 2017 #14
Hang in. It's easier to move forward with your eyes open. nolabear Jan 2017 #15
I haven't. The tubes are barely warming up. mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2017 #16
I suspect he'll get the 'boot-n-ass' before babylonsister Jan 2017 #17
Now's not the time to go weak-kneed. kstewart33 Jan 2017 #18
Channel your anger into action crazycatlady Jan 2017 #21
Take a couple of days off---then get back in the fight. Paladin Jan 2017 #23

C_U_L8R

(45,003 posts)
1. Trump wants you to lose hope. That's his strategy.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:03 AM
Jan 2017

Stand up, fight back.

Trump does not have power over you.

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
2. Can you move or make new friends?
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:08 AM
Jan 2017

Everything you say is true. We've discovered that half the country is meaner and stupider than we thought.

So, we have to resist and figure out a way to take back the country. To do that we have to stay strong. That means surrounding ourselves with as much strength and positivity as possible.

I wish you strength and peace.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
4. If You Choose To Lose Hope And Retreat....
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:10 AM
Jan 2017

That is your right but, don't expect others to follow your suit. WE HAVE A DEMOCRACY TO SAVE and #TheResistance Is Strong and going nowhere - unless they take us ALL OUT - ALL Being The MILLIONS of US.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
8. Here's an anecdote that might explain my situation:
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:19 AM
Jan 2017

Friday, when the "Muslim ban" was announced, I sent out an email to all my fellow faculty at the college where I'm a professor, outlining how it was going to directly affect one of my students (an Iraqi).

College professors, right? Those left-wingers who can always be depended upon to support humanitarian causes?

Ha!

I got blasted for sending out the email, saying "I don't want to be involved in politics" (read: I don't care about my students).

2 faculty, Veterans, replied that I had basically insulted them and their service in keeping this country safe.

So much for supposed "liberal academia."

My heart is just really broken right now. And I'm feeling very alone.

I don't know where you guys are, that you are getting all kinds of support. It just doesn't seem to exist where I am. I'm jealous, I admit.

Moving is out of the question for me. I'm tenure-track (after being an adjunct for a decade). I can't afford to give this job up.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
13. Time to teach, preach, and practice the Golden Rule!
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:32 AM
Jan 2017

The main reason IMHO that our country has gone astray is that far too many people have a broken moral compass, lost their sense of morality and ethics. We don't teach ethics in school any more. And people are so consumed with the pursuit of money, that for them, money is a higher value than the happiness of people. Money is nice, but it doesn't create lasting happiness.

EVery religion teaches the Golden Rule of "Do unto others, as you would have others do unto you." And you don't even have to b e religious to understand that practicing the Golden Rule is in everyone's self interest. So when you get selfish emails from your professor collegues, remind them about the Golden Rule.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
19. You aren't alone...
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 11:06 AM
Jan 2017

seriously I know many of us feel the same way. It is heartbreaking. I waver between anger and frustration to just plain sadness and disbelief.

One moment of hope was at the women's march. While standing and waiting, I met so many people who are feeling the same way. I met people who have never been involved in anything before but felt they had to at this point. I met an older women who said "Y'all know I was doing this 45 years ago, too."

I don't know how you can find support in your area but I suspect there are more people feeling like you do who don't know how to deal with it or connect with others about it.

Send the emails. Speak your mind. Do what you feel is right.

Donkees

(31,420 posts)
20. Our sense of self-worth doesn't depend on externals. Be kind to yourself...
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 11:06 AM
Jan 2017

...so that you put your heart into nurturing your vulnerable student.

LonePirate

(13,426 posts)
6. Evidently this country is filled with ignorant, paranoid, fearmongering bigots with no job skills.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:10 AM
Jan 2017

They are essentially acting like zombies who have not turned as of yet.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
9. Don't lose hope!
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:23 AM
Jan 2017

Channel your emotions into action. Put on and pull up your hero britches. Nothing lasts forever. You may be depressed now, but look in your heart for the courage needed to fight this evil. Use your common sense to see the light that dispells the darkness and hopelessness and chaos that Trump spreads on whatever he touches. Don't panic, because panic implies paralysis. You will be far more effective if you calmly look evil in the face and say "Boo!" Stay calm and focused on getting progressives elected at all levels.

Get involved with a local Dem or Indivisible.org group in your area. We need everybody to stand up, to speak up, to be a fearless hero in the fight against greed, stupidity, and hatred. Everyone matters!

BSdetect

(8,998 posts)
10. Don't give twitler any satisfaction
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:27 AM
Jan 2017

He's simply a malignangt narcissist who will be dealt with very soon I hope.

cry baby

(6,682 posts)
14. There are more of us...and we are awake.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:33 AM
Jan 2017

Take a break, then when you're ready, get up, speak up, and show up.

I live in a small town in very very red east Texas. I find solace and energy through my local democratic women group.

nolabear

(41,987 posts)
15. Hang in. It's easier to move forward with your eyes open.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:36 AM
Jan 2017

I had hoped we were better en masse too. Now those of us who are will find out what we're made of.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,493 posts)
16. I haven't. The tubes are barely warming up.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:54 AM
Jan 2017

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babylonsister

(171,070 posts)
17. I suspect he'll get the 'boot-n-ass' before
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 10:59 AM
Jan 2017

too much more time goes by. He's bound to say something that will even outrage the r/w, or take away some benefit that will outrage everyone. It will happen; he's a train wreck.

kstewart33

(6,551 posts)
18. Now's not the time to go weak-kneed.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 11:02 AM
Jan 2017

Trump is not unstoppable.

If his outrageous behavior continues, the pressure will build and build on the Repubs.

The key is to embarrass him, humiliate him, because he simply cannot take it.

He will continue to overreact and then will do something that even Repubs will oppose. Not publicly, but privately and pressure on Repubs will increase.

This is far, far from over.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
21. Channel your anger into action
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 11:09 AM
Jan 2017

For every vocal Trump supporter you encounter, choose to donate $5 (or what you can afford) to Planned Parenthood, ACLU, your state or local Democratic Party, etc.

Show up at your local party meetings, work with candidates running for local offices, or run for office yourself.

Paladin

(28,264 posts)
23. Take a couple of days off---then get back in the fight.
Tue Jan 31, 2017, 11:19 AM
Jan 2017

You'll kick your ass for the rest of your life if you don't. If you need some encouragement, pull up some footage of the French Resistance fighting the Nazis in the streets of Paris. That's where things are headed in the United States of America, right now.

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