Personal advice needed.
I think my wife may be having an affair or not being fully honest with me. I need your help to figure out whether she is or isn't. Here is the situation......
She has been going over to this guy Ivan's house for years. At first she said she was going there to “network.” I have to admit this paid off and she made out like a bandit over the years. There were a few times we almost went under financially, but Ivan's friends always came through with a great deal for her.
A few years ago she started going over there a lot and would always come home with tons of money. I am talking megabucks. So we were filthy rich on paper but still over leveraged with loans to pay for all our properties. A couple of years ago she said Ivan introduced her to new friends who were going to help us get back in the black so we'd never have to worry again.
And she was right. Things got way better. We made some great deals and made boodles of cash but since then she has changed. She is hypersensitive about any criticism about Ivan or any questions I have. She surrounds herself with friends of Ivan and constantly tells me how nice Ivan is, how strong he is, what a great guy he is and how much she admires him etc. I finally got concerned and then jealous and asked her if she loved him and if they were having an affair. She got all huffy and said “I hardly know him” and “I never even see him when I go there” and stuff like that. I thought that was a little weird. Also, she won't let me touch her cell phone or look at her private bank accounts and she has insisted we file separately on our taxes.
I asked some of her new friends if Ivan was having an affair with her and they all gave me the same song and dance. “They don't know him.” or “Never talk with him.” They tell me to “Stop worrying and enjoy the money.” Meanwhile my wife refuses to talk to me about him anymore but keeps getting calls from him or his friends and I keep finding notes from friends who are talking to Ivan and she keeps doing favors for him. If I ask her anything directly about him, she goes nuts on me and makes outrageous accusations about things I never did. I find I have to argue with her about these accusations about me rather than getting any answers to my questions.
Do you think I have anything to worry about? Or should I just trust her. Thanks in advance.
(Satire alert - think US citizens and Trump/Russia)
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LOL
Guess my advice of running like hell applies though 
Nicely done, btw. 
I was trying to be funny with my post by playing a role similar to the one US citizens find themselves in. We are all "married" to this twisted unfaithful, serially dishonest accidental President who is totally up to no good with the Russians (Ivan). I am having trouble making my sarcasm more obvious, which pretty much makes it lose its humor. But with this loon in the White House we are all losing track of what is real. I'd like to think I could move out if I was in the situation of my original post but I am not sure I could. I haven't even looked into getting a passport yet.
