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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
Fri May 26, 2017, 10:44 AM May 2017

Hitting a woman is one of the most unshakable taboos. With that as a predicate

Hitting a woman is one of the most unshakable taboos. With that as a predicate what percentage of Deplorables would countenance Trump hitting a female reporter?


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Hitting a woman is one of the most unshakable taboos. With that as a predicate (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 OP
they were fine with him sexually assaulting women. 63 million people were. La Lioness Priyanka May 2017 #1
Yup. ismnotwasm May 2017 #22
Some of his ardent supporters would likely be gleeful leftstreet May 2017 #2
she deserved it, she provoked him, it's ok if the president does it, he can pardon himself, unblock May 2017 #3
Hell, Corey Lewandowski's rumored to be coming back. nt Tommy_Carcetti May 2017 #4
Hitting a woman is not taboo. athena May 2017 #5
Just because there is a taboo against certain acts doesn't mean the deplorable won't flaunt them. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #6
athena's point is that there is no taboo. It is illegal and attitudes may be shifting Caliman73 May 2017 #9
Being illegal and being taboo are not mutually exclusive.... DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #10
"Every nine seconds in the U.S. a woman is assaulted or beaten." athena May 2017 #11
"Explain again how there is a taboo against hitting women? " DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #13
Here is the statistical comparison of murder vs. domestic violence against women. athena May 2017 #21
That is true Caliman73 May 2017 #12
It is taboo to every man and woman who isn't (d)eplorable or a (D)eplorable. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #14
Perhaps. I agree with you. Caliman73 May 2017 #18
I don't see where the disagreement is. DemocratSinceBirth May 2017 #19
The disagreement is on the use of taboo Caliman73 May 2017 #20
It's taboo in the same sense as beating a child inwiththenew May 2017 #16
The truest thing Chump's ever said... ADX May 2017 #7
This I would not put past our current administration: Doreen May 2017 #8
Can't find the report Ohioblue22 May 2017 #15
After what I saw on Twitter this morning, these assholes would encourage it. Initech May 2017 #17

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
2. Some of his ardent supporters would likely be gleeful
Fri May 26, 2017, 10:48 AM
May 2017

Those creepy types who blame women for all their failures to begin with


unblock

(52,253 posts)
3. she deserved it, she provoked him, it's ok if the president does it, he can pardon himself,
Fri May 26, 2017, 10:49 AM
May 2017

and he apologized* like a good christian and we're all about forgiveness so stop with your liberal agenda and support the president in his time of crisis or get out of the country!


*(of course donnie's "apology" would actually be "regret" that the reporter provoked him and anger that the media is making such a scandal out of it, but the rank-and-file would just run with it....)

athena

(4,187 posts)
5. Hitting a woman is not taboo.
Fri May 26, 2017, 10:51 AM
May 2017

What are you talking about? Have you ever looked up the rates of domestic violence?

Click on the link and look carefully at the numbers:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/23/domestic-violence-statistics_n_5959776.html

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
9. athena's point is that there is no taboo. It is illegal and attitudes may be shifting
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:12 AM
May 2017

However, it is still fairly acceptable among a disturbingly large segment of the population. If you think about the movies of the 40's and 50's, you see men slapping, cuffing, and throwing women around because they were being "petulant". That was only 60 or so years ago.

There has been a taboo against incest. There is a taboo against child molestation and hitting women is not celebrated but I think that attitude against it is driven by politics and legality more than some strong ethical inclination against it.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
10. Being illegal and being taboo are not mutually exclusive....
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:16 AM
May 2017

And being legal and being taboo are not mutually exclusive either. And there are things that aren't legal that aren't taboo.

athena

(4,187 posts)
11. "Every nine seconds in the U.S. a woman is assaulted or beaten."
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:19 AM
May 2017

"Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women—more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined."

Just a few days ago in Washington, D.C., a bunch of Turkish thugs punched and kicked a female protester. Where is the outcry, if hitting a woman is so taboo?

Explain again how there is a taboo against hitting women?

References:

http://domesticviolencestatistics.org/domestic-violence-statistics/
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/05/26/us/turkey-protesters-attack-video-analysis.html

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
13. "Explain again how there is a taboo against hitting women? "
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:25 AM
May 2017

Because a person who hits a woman is seen as deplorable or (D)eplorable by everybody but the person doing the hitting.


Two Americans are murdered every hour:

https://www.fbi.gov/news/stories/latest-crime-statistics-released

Just because something is prohibited doesn't mean it doesn't occur.

athena

(4,187 posts)
21. Here is the statistical comparison of murder vs. domestic violence against women.
Fri May 26, 2017, 12:04 PM
May 2017

The number of homicides per year is 15,809, but the population of the U.S. is 318.9 million (2014 statistics). That means your probability of being murdered in one year is rougly 1 in 20,000. The average life expectancy in the U.S. being 78.8 years, your probability of being murdered is roughly 0.4%. (This number, in fact, includes death by domestic violence. 1,613 of the murders that took place in 2014 were females murdered by males in single-offender, single-victim incidents, and in 93% of the cases in which a relationship or lack of such could be determined, the woman knew her killer.)

In contrast, one in three women has been a victim of some form of physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime.

You cannot compare a 33% chance of being physically abused to a 0.4% chance of being murdered, and argue that abusing a woman is taboo the way murder is. Abusing women is all too common and accepted in this society. Just because you think something is wrong doesn't make it taboo.

References:
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/homicide.htm
http://www.vpc.org/studies/wmmw2016.pdf
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/23/domestic-violence-statistics_n_5959776.html

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
12. That is true
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:21 AM
May 2017

I said nothing about the relationship between illegality and taboo except to say that hitting women is not necessarily a taboo, although it is illegal and especially in domestic violence, laws have been changed in the last decades to give women more protections. What I am saying and what I think athena was saying is that hitting women is not as repulsive a thing to many men as we would like to believe.

Attitudes are changing but we aren't quite at taboo yet.

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
20. The disagreement is on the use of taboo
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:53 AM
May 2017

let alone the framing as "the most unshakeable taboo"

There are taboos out there that are much more widely held than not hitting women.

inwiththenew

(972 posts)
16. It's taboo in the same sense as beating a child
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:35 AM
May 2017

Women in general are smaller and weaker than men so a man pounding on a woman is frowned upon by society as a whole because of the disparity of force. Much like an adult beating child is frowned upon.

That doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
7. The truest thing Chump's ever said...
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:06 AM
May 2017

...is that he could shoot someone on 5th Avenue and wouldn't lose any votes.

His base is as deranged and demented as he is. Birds of a feather...

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
8. This I would not put past our current administration:
Fri May 26, 2017, 11:07 AM
May 2017

law 1: Beating a female of any age is legal two times a week.

Law 2: Any female of any age that has been abused in any way will not qualify for health insurance or life insurance.

Would that surprise any of you?

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