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JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 04:34 PM Jun 2017

Comedians Normally Don't Offend Me...

I didn't think Kathy Griffin's severed head was particularly funny, but I wasn't offended. Daniel Tosh's rape joke didn't offend me. Jim Jefferies doesn't offend me when he uses the C-word. Anthony Jeselnik's dark humor cracks me up, even when it's about pedophilia (or dead children). Neal Brennan doesn't offend me when he uses N-word (but he said he was on the list). Bill Maher's not my favorite, but trying to make him out to be a racist because he said the N-word is ridiculous.

You know what kind of people do offend me? The ones that want to take away my healthcare, my social security and poison my planet for profit. The people who steal elections offend me. The people who want to take away a woman's right to choose offend me. Actual bigots offend me. Homophobes offend me.
Most republicans offend me, but comedians not so much.

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Comedians Normally Don't Offend Me... (Original Post) JimGinPA Jun 2017 OP
O dear, Turbineguy Jun 2017 #1
Who said it was either/or? If it's THAT hard to stand in solidarity with POC or women I think bettyellen Jun 2017 #2
I Didn't Think It Was Racist In Context... JimGinPA Jun 2017 #5
Well if hundreds of POC telling you it's racist but you think you know better.... bettyellen Jun 2017 #6
Their own opinion. LakeArenal Jun 2017 #15
Hundreds of POC, including this biracial one, is saying it is not. Exilednight Jun 2017 #30
You could choose to defend it without claiming others "didn't get" a very simple joke- bettyellen Jun 2017 #32
There was a lot more to he joke than just the type of slave Exilednight Jun 2017 #33
You mean the Gone with he Wind/ Malcom X/ farm/Slave labor angles - yeah we got that too. bettyellen Jun 2017 #34
No. There was more to it than that. Exilednight Jun 2017 #35
Do enighten us. bettyellen Jun 2017 #36
What made it funny, in an ironic way, is the person he made the Exilednight Jun 2017 #37
Well yeah, it was about shitty labor situations and hyperbolicly comparing them to slavery... bettyellen Jun 2017 #38
That statement you made is exactly why I say it went over many Exilednight Jun 2017 #41
So he wasn't comparing low paid field work to modern slavery- and saying nope I work indoors dude? bettyellen Jun 2017 #42
He was straight up calling Sasse a wannabe slave owner. Exilednight Jun 2017 #43
Well if you insist on being literal, it's not so much black people in those fields.... bettyellen Jun 2017 #44
? A wanna be slave owner but no connection to modern serfdom.... bettyellen Jun 2017 #45
What he said!!! njhoneybadger Jun 2017 #3
Agree!!!! nt jrthin Jun 2017 #4
And that's perfectly fine. That's your right. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #7
Black Comedians That Joke About White People Don't Offend Me Either JimGinPA Jun 2017 #10
Well said. Too many hand wringers. Cattledog Jun 2017 #8
This issues you mention that do offend you... NCTraveler Jun 2017 #9
Common sense and perspective is so rare billh58 Jun 2017 #11
Well stated LostinRed Jun 2017 #12
Wasn't he quoting Gone With The Wind? LakeArenal Jun 2017 #13
Let Us Not Forget... StarzGuy Jun 2017 #14
Basically you are admitting that you have no standards for decency or respect for others. Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #16
No, Basically I Am Only Admitting To Having A Sense Of Humor... JimGinPA Jun 2017 #17
I don't find putting down others for their race, sex or orietation to be funny.... Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #18
Maher Called Himself A House N______ JimGinPA Jun 2017 #19
He's a privileged white man trying to compare himself to a fucking slave. Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #20
No, He Told A Fucking Joke When He Was Invited To Work In The Field JimGinPA Jun 2017 #21
And? This isn't the first time he peddled bigoted language and/or jokes at the expense... Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #22
Whatever... JimGinPA Jun 2017 #23
Example number 1, casual dismissal of said outrage using terminology like... Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #24
Post removed Post removed Jun 2017 #25
You literally refuse to consider the perspective of others at all... Humanist_Activist Jun 2017 #27
As Do You ProfessorGAC Jun 2017 #31
Allies who tell me Tosh rape jokes are funny? Those aren't my allies. bettyellen Jun 2017 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author billh58 Jun 2017 #28
Very well said. Snackshack Jun 2017 #26
K & R billh58 Jun 2017 #29
Tosh rape jokes are funny? Not here buddy, keep that to your self. bettyellen Jun 2017 #39
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
2. Who said it was either/or? If it's THAT hard to stand in solidarity with POC or women I think
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 04:40 PM
Jun 2017

you could spend some time thinking about why ya so hard. Peer pressure? Respect if others is "too much work"? Can't do that and be a good dem- as most POC and women already do?

Also- people are complaining the joke was racist - and it was. When you pretend it's a blanket commendation of him as a racist that's dishonest and minimizes our voices.

That's no way to be an ally. You pretend like ya too much work to be respectful and have solidarity with the base or the damn party- yet you waste time defending a blowhard hypocrite, really?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
6. Well if hundreds of POC telling you it's racist but you think you know better....
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 04:58 PM
Jun 2017

It's time to recalibrate and realize your feelings aren't the biggest issue here. HBO and Maher himself can admit it's problematic but you just gotta die on this hill,eh?
What's THAT about?

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
30. Hundreds of POC, including this biracial one, is saying it is not.
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 04:36 PM
Jun 2017

I believe the joke, along with its meaning, went over the heads of many.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
32. You could choose to defend it without claiming others "didn't get" a very simple joke-
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 04:43 PM
Jun 2017

Based on the concept of who's a house slave and who's a field slave. I think most fifth graders get the distinction. There's a huge difference between understanding it and thinking its okay- is that really difficult to understand? "Humor" is often like that.

Why do you need to stoop to insulting people to defend this man's remarks? That's incredibly divisive.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
33. There was a lot more to he joke than just the type of slave
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 04:56 PM
Jun 2017

remark.

The fact that you failed to address the rest of the joke proves my point.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
34. You mean the Gone with he Wind/ Malcom X/ farm/Slave labor angles - yeah we got that too.
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 05:08 PM
Jun 2017

As I said before, why do you assume it was intellectually challenging for anyone to understand? It wasn't at all.
Why do you assume if understood, it would automatically be funny? That's a huge leap.

Those are some big assumptions- and patronizing ones.
I'll assume you're smart enough to see why. Give me the same respect next time.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
37. What made it funny, in an ironic way, is the person he made the
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 07:02 PM
Jun 2017

statement to. He was holding a mirror up to his "guest" who actually does hold the views that Maher expressed to him. Through the joke, he exposed Sasse with a backhanded slap of a comment.

Sasse set himself up, and Maher took the shot we all wish we could have.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
38. Well yeah, it was about shitty labor situations and hyperbolicly comparing them to slavery...
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 07:07 PM
Jun 2017

Is that it? I thought we covered that, but sure.

The only part I actually found funny? The aftermath where Maher fulfills his own phropecy and becomes the "house slave" by betraying his mantra to "never apologize" for a corporate payout. Quite the comeuppance for the anti PC crusader, wasn't it?

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
41. That statement you made is exactly why I say it went over many
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 07:29 PM
Jun 2017

People's heads.

Maher wasn't making a comment about "shitty labor situations".



 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
42. So he wasn't comparing low paid field work to modern slavery- and saying nope I work indoors dude?
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 07:34 PM
Jun 2017

How does he make that analogy- without making the analogy? What exactly is wrong w my interpretation?

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
43. He was straight up calling Sasse a wannabe slave owner.
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 07:52 PM
Jun 2017

It wasn't about comparing people. It was about saying "if this guy (Sasse)had his way, every black person in America would be a white person's property." And that statement is not hyperbolic, it's the truth.



 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
44. Well if you insist on being literal, it's not so much black people in those fields....
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 08:00 PM
Jun 2017

But you're saying it was never about the fields and slave wages at all? It's not about kids and Mexicans exploited labor but how people like Sasse want to export other vulnerable populations? Is it also a veiled reference to how the prison industrial complex does that? Not sure what's going on in Iowa that owning slaves is a thing you casually joke about. What's the backstory?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
45. ? A wanna be slave owner but no connection to modern serfdom....
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 09:12 PM
Jun 2017

Unless you mean child slaves or Mexican slaves... that's seems to be mixing a lot of metaphors.

I think this makes less sense than any answer I got in my thread asking. No one else has this take on it that Sasse is so key except as a convienient foil for the joke the (republicans wishing they had to pay nothing to workers in) fields gave him an oppprtubity to run with.


It's not that complicated. Not at all.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
7. And that's perfectly fine. That's your right.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 04:58 PM
Jun 2017

Now try asking Afam voters, who's votes the democrats need to get any of the things in the list passed, if n-word jokes by white comedians sit right w/ them. Try asking women, who marched historically after the inauguration, and are the driving force of the resistance if "C-word" and rape jokes by male comedians offend them.

It is quite possible to be offended by both.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
9. This issues you mention that do offend you...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:40 PM
Jun 2017

Are only realities only when the initial offense becomes accepted.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
11. Common sense and perspective is so rare
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:02 PM
Jun 2017

these days, and outrage is so much easier. This is why the USA is such a litigious society, which is right down Trump's alley. You called me a what? I'll sue...

LostinRed

(840 posts)
12. Well stated
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:02 PM
Jun 2017

Like George Carlin said words are just words it's the intention and person that says them. We all know bill Maher isn't a racist

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
13. Wasn't he quoting Gone With The Wind?
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:09 PM
Jun 2017

Offended by a quote from a famous novel. Plus he was talking about himself. Not someone else.

I just wish we could get to a point where we concentrate not on people who say offensive things and focus on the ones that do offensive and reprehensible things.

P.S. Anthony Jeselnik...... So dark and funny.

StarzGuy

(254 posts)
14. Let Us Not Forget...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:11 PM
Jun 2017

...those that steal Supreme Court Vacancies as did McBitch McConnell and the entire republican cabal.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
16. Basically you are admitting that you have no standards for decency or respect for others.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:34 PM
Jun 2017

And you are proud of this fact?

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
17. No, Basically I Am Only Admitting To Having A Sense Of Humor...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:40 PM
Jun 2017

And can only shake my head at those who don't.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
18. I don't find putting down others for their race, sex or orietation to be funny....
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:41 PM
Jun 2017

That's punching down.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
21. No, He Told A Fucking Joke When He Was Invited To Work In The Field
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:54 PM
Jun 2017

He's privileged because many people consider him funny and/or insightful. He donated a million dollars to help re-elect Obama and (from what I've heard) dates mostly woman of color. Peddle your racist charges elsewhere.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
22. And? This isn't the first time he peddled bigoted language and/or jokes at the expense...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 07:59 PM
Jun 2017

of minorities. This isn't brought about in a vacuum, after all. He's your run of the mill, lowest common denominator entertainer, I do find most of his fanbase to be infuriating though, particularly in their thoughtless bigotry and lack of awareness for the feelings of others.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
23. Whatever...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:08 PM
Jun 2017

As I've previously stated, he's not among my favorites. My intention was not to defend him per se, but rather to point out the misguided focus of the current poutrage.


footnote- I really doubt you have any actual knowledge of his fanbase.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
24. Example number 1, casual dismissal of said outrage using terminology like...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:13 PM
Jun 2017

"poutrage". Shall I go on?

By the way, the focus isn't on Maher, but on the misguided defenders of his use of the n-word, they need help, for they lack the introspection and empathy necessary to put themselves in the shoes of someone who is offended by Maher's careless and hurtful use of the n-word.

Response to Humanist_Activist (Reply #24)

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
27. You literally refuse to consider the perspective of others at all...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:36 PM
Jun 2017

and you claim I'm the one with the narrow mind?

Let me ask you something then, if you ever go to a home game, do you ever go north of Delmar?

Response to Humanist_Activist (Reply #22)

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