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Renew Deal

(81,866 posts)
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 11:53 AM Jun 2017

Nebraska soccer tournament bans 8-year-old girl's team because she 'looks like a boy'

The family of an 8-year-old soccer player said her team was disqualified from a tournament in Nebraska because organizers thought she was a boy.

Mili Hernandez, who is one of the best players on the Omaha Azzuri Cachorros' 11-year-old squad, was about to play in the finals of the Springfield Soccer Club tournament on Sunday when she was told that her team had been disqualified because she "looks like a boy."

Hernandez's parents said they showed organizers her insurance card to prove that their daughter, who wears her hair short, is a girl.

"Just because I look like a boy doesn't mean I am a boy," Mili Hernandez told local TV station WOWT 6. "They don't have a reason to kick the whole club out."

Mili's father, Gerardo Hernandez, said his daughter "was in shock. She was crying after they told us ... They made her cry."

After receiving the news about the disqualification four hours before kickoff, Gerardo Hernandez showed tournament officials Mili's health insurance card to prove she's a girl, but "they didn't even want to take it," he said.
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http://www.espn.com/espnw/sports/article/19553403/nebraska-soccer-tournament-bans-8-year-old-girl-team-looks-boy

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Nebraska soccer tournament bans 8-year-old girl's team because she 'looks like a boy' (Original Post) Renew Deal Jun 2017 OP
. NCTraveler Jun 2017 #1
They disqualified the entire team Renew Deal Jun 2017 #2
It states that in the article. NCTraveler Jun 2017 #3
How horrible underpants Jun 2017 #4
Next thing you know, Nebraska will discover that some ExciteBike66 Jun 2017 #5
The ESPN article is spun from a TV report, which differs from the local newspaper story: WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2017 #6
Makes more sense Bradical79 Jun 2017 #18
Meh, once you're in league play like this, there's not a lot of wiggle room. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2017 #19
She has my sympathies. GoCubsGo Jun 2017 #7
Did they eventually end up letting the team (and girl) play? nt JoeStuckInOH Jun 2017 #8
No, the team was disqualified for a roster violation. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2017 #10
Well, if it was a roster issue then this WHOLE issue is manufactured outrage. JoeStuckInOH Jun 2017 #13
It's stemming from a knee-jerk TV article that national sites are picking up. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2017 #16
Aside from everyone involved in that decision being a total asshole ... lpbk2713 Jun 2017 #9
It doesn't. But a misprint lists her as a boy on the roster. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2017 #11
I gotta ask... why do they even have "boys" and "girls" teams at this age? hunter Jun 2017 #12
Cooties. nt. JoeStuckInOH Jun 2017 #14
My 14 yo grandson plays on a mixed gender soccer team. lpbk2713 Jun 2017 #15
It is a perception of sarisataka Jun 2017 #20
My sister is a soccer Amazon and coaches kids that age. hunter Jun 2017 #21
This makes me so angry Nonhlanhla Jun 2017 #17
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
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Tue Jun 6, 2017, 11:55 AM
Jun 2017

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WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
6. The ESPN article is spun from a TV report, which differs from the local newspaper story:
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:03 PM
Jun 2017

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http://www.omaha.com/news/metro/omaha-youth-soccer-player-disqualified-after-gender-confusion-gets-shout/article_0d8f2e55-243c-5725-b8cf-29cb0e3013cc.html

Mo Farivari, president of the soccer club Mili plays for, blamed the disqualification on a typo on the team roster listing Mili as a boy.

The situation started when someone — it’s unclear who — told tournament organizers Saturday that a boy was playing on a girls team, said Bill Bianco, attorney for the Southern Sarpy Activities Program, which organized the tournament.

They checked the roster and noticed that Mili, who has short dark hair, was listed as a boy on the team’s regular-season roster and the roster for the tournament, Bianco said.

Though the Sarpy Activities Program doesn’t really think Mili is a boy, Bianco said listing a male player on a girls team roster is a violation of tournament rules.

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Is it picky to object over a roster? Yep. Does it happen at the tournament level? Seen it more times than I can count. Does the organization have to follow the process and policy it has in place? Absolutely, unless it wants an even bigger shitshow on its hands. Was Mili's team kept from playing because people thought she was a boy because of her short hair? Indirectly, yes, but that was not the defining issue.
 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
18. Makes more sense
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:37 PM
Jun 2017

So someone claimed she was a boy, but the league was going by the paperwork, not because they thought she looked like a boy. Still should have checked it out and let them play, imo. They're little kids.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
19. Meh, once you're in league play like this, there's not a lot of wiggle room.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:43 PM
Jun 2017

Rosters are set in stone after a certain point, and everybody knows it. Someone on the team screwed up.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
7. She has my sympathies.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:09 PM
Jun 2017

My parents always cut my hair that short when I was a kid. I was frequently confused as a boy--until I hit puberty, a point at which there was no question that I was a girl. I was never kept from playing in soccer tournaments, but that's because there were no girls soccer programs at the time. Poor kid. Those idiotss owe her an apology.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
10. No, the team was disqualified for a roster violation.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:25 PM
Jun 2017

She is listed as a boy on the roster. It's a misprint that was never corrected. In many youth sports, you have several months to correct a roster after filing it with your governing body. But there's a deadline after which no roster changes can be made. The officials look terrible in this story, but the team manager screwed up, too, if the OWH story is correct.

 

JoeStuckInOH

(544 posts)
13. Well, if it was a roster issue then this WHOLE issue is manufactured outrage.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:29 PM
Jun 2017

can't screw up the roster. Doesn't matter what the player looks like or not.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
16. It's stemming from a knee-jerk TV article that national sites are picking up.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:32 PM
Jun 2017

I wouldn't say it's manufactured, as that implies deliberate misreporting. It's just run-of-the-mill sloppy local TV news getting picked up as gospel.

lpbk2713

(42,760 posts)
9. Aside from everyone involved in that decision being a total asshole ...
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:25 PM
Jun 2017



WTF does hair length have to do with anything at all?



WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
11. It doesn't. But a misprint lists her as a boy on the roster.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:27 PM
Jun 2017

It inspired someone to complain at the playoffs, and led to the discovery of the roster violation, for which the team was disqualified.

lpbk2713

(42,760 posts)
15. My 14 yo grandson plays on a mixed gender soccer team.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:31 PM
Jun 2017



There are no special rules or considerations and everyone gets along just fine.

sarisataka

(18,672 posts)
20. It is a perception of
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:47 PM
Jun 2017

physical difference. "At this age" should be considered as there is little to no difference between boys and girls.

I recall reffing a league about 10 years ago when an all girl U14 team played in the boys league. At the beginning of the season parents on other teams chuckled, but they didn't stop to think girls go thru puberty earlier than boys. At the end of the season parents grumbled that the girls were the champions because they had an unfair size advantage. Only one boys team managed a draw...

hunter

(38,318 posts)
21. My sister is a soccer Amazon and coaches kids that age.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 02:24 PM
Jun 2017

Girls middle school age are more powerful than boys, and it seems to me they are more focused playing as a team.

My sister is also an accomplished adult player. She once played in a men's vs. women's match that made the news because the men's team behaved very badly when it became clear they were going to lose.

Nonhlanhla

(2,074 posts)
17. This makes me so angry
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 12:35 PM
Jun 2017

Grownups (supposedly) who are humiliating an 8 year old girl, and for what earthly reason?They are likely causing psychological harm on her. As the mother of an 8 year old girl this makes me so angry.

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