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The family of an 8-year-old soccer player said her team was disqualified from a tournament in Nebraska because organizers thought she was a boy.
Mili Hernandez, who is one of the best players on the Omaha Azzuri Cachorros' 11-year-old squad, was about to play in the finals of the Springfield Soccer Club tournament on Sunday when she was told that her team had been disqualified because she "looks like a boy."
Hernandez's parents said they showed organizers her insurance card to prove that their daughter, who wears her hair short, is a girl.
"Just because I look like a boy doesn't mean I am a boy," Mili Hernandez told local TV station WOWT 6. "They don't have a reason to kick the whole club out."
Mili's father, Gerardo Hernandez, said his daughter "was in shock. She was crying after they told us ... They made her cry."
After receiving the news about the disqualification four hours before kickoff, Gerardo Hernandez showed tournament officials Mili's health insurance card to prove she's a girl, but "they didn't even want to take it," he said.
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http://www.espn.com/espnw/sports/article/19553403/nebraska-soccer-tournament-bans-8-year-old-girl-team-looks-boy
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Link to tweet
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Renew Deal
(81,866 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)The headline as well.
underpants
(182,834 posts)Heard about this yesterday
ExciteBike66
(2,358 posts)soccer players are lesbians!
WhiskeyGrinder
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http://www.omaha.com/news/metro/omaha-youth-soccer-player-disqualified-after-gender-confusion-gets-shout/article_0d8f2e55-243c-5725-b8cf-29cb0e3013cc.html
The situation started when someone its unclear who told tournament organizers Saturday that a boy was playing on a girls team, said Bill Bianco, attorney for the Southern Sarpy Activities Program, which organized the tournament.
They checked the roster and noticed that Mili, who has short dark hair, was listed as a boy on the teams regular-season roster and the roster for the tournament, Bianco said.
Though the Sarpy Activities Program doesnt really think Mili is a boy, Bianco said listing a male player on a girls team roster is a violation of tournament rules.
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Is it picky to object over a roster? Yep. Does it happen at the tournament level? Seen it more times than I can count. Does the organization have to follow the process and policy it has in place? Absolutely, unless it wants an even bigger shitshow on its hands. Was Mili's team kept from playing because people thought she was a boy because of her short hair? Indirectly, yes, but that was not the defining issue.
Bradical79
(4,490 posts)So someone claimed she was a boy, but the league was going by the paperwork, not because they thought she looked like a boy. Still should have checked it out and let them play, imo. They're little kids.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)Rosters are set in stone after a certain point, and everybody knows it. Someone on the team screwed up.
GoCubsGo
(32,086 posts)My parents always cut my hair that short when I was a kid. I was frequently confused as a boy--until I hit puberty, a point at which there was no question that I was a girl. I was never kept from playing in soccer tournaments, but that's because there were no girls soccer programs at the time. Poor kid. Those idiotss owe her an apology.
JoeStuckInOH
(544 posts)WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)She is listed as a boy on the roster. It's a misprint that was never corrected. In many youth sports, you have several months to correct a roster after filing it with your governing body. But there's a deadline after which no roster changes can be made. The officials look terrible in this story, but the team manager screwed up, too, if the OWH story is correct.
JoeStuckInOH
(544 posts)can't screw up the roster. Doesn't matter what the player looks like or not.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)I wouldn't say it's manufactured, as that implies deliberate misreporting. It's just run-of-the-mill sloppy local TV news getting picked up as gospel.
lpbk2713
(42,760 posts)WTF does hair length have to do with anything at all?
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)It inspired someone to complain at the playoffs, and led to the discovery of the roster violation, for which the team was disqualified.
hunter
(38,318 posts)JoeStuckInOH
(544 posts)lpbk2713
(42,760 posts)There are no special rules or considerations and everyone gets along just fine.
sarisataka
(18,672 posts)physical difference. "At this age" should be considered as there is little to no difference between boys and girls.
I recall reffing a league about 10 years ago when an all girl U14 team played in the boys league. At the beginning of the season parents on other teams chuckled, but they didn't stop to think girls go thru puberty earlier than boys. At the end of the season parents grumbled that the girls were the champions because they had an unfair size advantage. Only one boys team managed a draw...
hunter
(38,318 posts)Girls middle school age are more powerful than boys, and it seems to me they are more focused playing as a team.
My sister is also an accomplished adult player. She once played in a men's vs. women's match that made the news because the men's team behaved very badly when it became clear they were going to lose.
Nonhlanhla
(2,074 posts)Grownups (supposedly) who are humiliating an 8 year old girl, and for what earthly reason?They are likely causing psychological harm on her. As the mother of an 8 year old girl this makes me so angry.