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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThose of you who revel in condemning Trump voters as "deplorables"...
need to watch the documentary "THE BRAINWASHING OF MY DAD".
It is an eye-opener.
Not only does it show how minds have been destroyed by Fox news....it proves that they can be restored to balance.
Buckeye_Democrat
(14,855 posts)... those sources of hate and extreme over-generalizations!
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)by the right wing noise manufacturers.
RKP5637
(67,111 posts)virgogal
(10,178 posts)I've seen other opinions like this----that old people are too damned stupid to think for themselves.
I don't know the breakdown of voters for Trump but I'm sure they were NOT all old,drooling,Fox News watchers.
RKP5637
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Warpy
(111,270 posts)You haven't got that many years on me and I wasn't offended.
The truth is that people who haven't kept themselves educated through their adulthood (and note the presence of a 4 year college degree is irrelevant to this) are the ones who are going to be unsophisticated enough to be played for fools by slick outfits like Pox News.
Age is irrelevant to this. Don't know where you got that one. Intellectual laziness is a more solid predictor of being sucked in by right wing idiocy.
Bluepinky
(2,275 posts)My sister has been watching only Fox for more than one year now, and I'm thinking she's brainwashed. It's very disturbing to know that she still supports Trump and his agenda.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Bluepinky
(2,275 posts)peggysue2
(10,830 posts)Put the vid on my watch list. I saw his happen to my mother who became a Rush Limbaugh devotee. Angry and bitter, all the time.
The Wielding Truth
(11,415 posts)Bluepinky
(2,275 posts)leftstreet
(36,108 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,732 posts)because Fox is on all the time in so many places and because hate radio has cornered the market for radio talk shows. These media probably attract people who are already leaning conservative, and it's been demonstrated that people who identify as conservative tend to be more fearful and apprehensive in general than people who identify as liberal; they tend to be uncomfortable with change, new experiences, and people who are "different." The right wing media feed on and amplify the fear, discontent, alienation and anger of people who are already apprehensive about how their world seems to be changing. It's insidious, but it's been going on for at least 30 years and has produced millions of closed, angry minds.
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)You're absolutely right about fear and uncertainty and the conservative mindset that rejects change. It's just hard to imagine how long this 'brainwashing' can be sustainable when harsh working class reality hits more and more of the washed.
Sad all around
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)it is presented as being the fault of the powerless rather than the rich and powerful.
It is a weak and lazy way of thinking.
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)That right there
Decoy of Fenris
(1,954 posts)virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)It is just that some of us have been brainwashed into believing that people should be cared for, and treated with respect.
crosinski
(411 posts)virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Bradical79
(4,490 posts)Look at how many people detested Hillary Clinton without being able to have any rational discusion on why. Even among people who voted for her. This stuff is everywhere, but being immersed in it to the exclusion of other media sources and opinions causes the effect to be more extreme.
Edit: though I don't know that "brainwashed" is the right term. There's a defenite willful element involved in it. Just requires some introspection.
hamsterjill
(15,221 posts)Can we stop making excuses for Trump supporters and just go forward trying to circumvent them?
Perhaps some will come around at some point when something catastrophic affects them personally, but until then, I don't think we have the time to psychoanalyze and treat them.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)world-view that is anathema to this other one. Other times--far more hopefully--they have been provided with the critical thinking tools that helps them to discern bullshit from fact, AND, either they have an incentive to do so because it doesn't fly in the face of their own livelihood or advantage, OR their egos are fed more by doing right by others and having empathy, than by self service(which is at least in part a matter of what is valued in one's upbringing). Also, they are not neurologically empathy deficient sociopaths.
Orrex
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The high-minded person who makes the "brainwashing" diagnosis can, in one stroke, declare their superiority over those poor souls who've succumbed to this alleged brainwashing (e.g., "I can see that they were brainwashed, but I can resist it''), while self-righteously scolding Progressives who dismiss the diagnosis as post hoc bullshit (e.g., "If you don't accept my diagnosis, then shame on you for dehumanizing these poor victims'').
You can see similar examples of this throughout the thread.
RKP5637
(67,111 posts)is better, but with Comcast as their owner not a lot is to be expected. There are extremely wealthy democrats, wealth is not something only held by republicans. I've been surprised there is not a really strong middle/left leaning media on mainstream media. I guess what happens is hatred and shock sells, but because of human nature not a lot of people are interested in things are going well feel-good media. I think many people spin the channel and land on Fox News.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)total immersion has a cumulative effect.
MSNBC was getting there, and now they are moving in the opposite direction.
LEAN BACKWARD must be their new motto/
RKP5637
(67,111 posts)nothing from CNN or MSNBC! Imagine, a patient, and the only news you could get was Fox News.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)So, your example would be hell for me.
RKP5637
(67,111 posts)only have Fox News as a news source in patient's rooms. And their cable supplier was a major company in that area. They had purposely blocked other news sources.
luvtheGWN
(1,336 posts)you were no doubt in a corporate-owned hospital and therefore at the mercy of said corporation. At least if you were in a public hospital, you would have some say in the channels available to you.
RKP5637
(67,111 posts)CNN or MSNBC was too much for sick RW patients to handle.
emulatorloo
(44,131 posts)Not L O'D
Tiring of the campaign here to discredit Maddow and those others.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)and that depresses me.
emulatorloo
(44,131 posts)I've been watching from day one. I expect that's thier version of presenting "balance".
The liberal/progressive Evening shows have been their Crown Jewels since forever.
Hope that helps a little.
P.S it is very exciting to me how well Rachel and Lawrence are doing in the ratings these days.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Tiggeroshii
(11,088 posts)Something most people here would be outraged with.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)If we were labeling them due to some inherent or inborn quality in which they had no choice or control, then your objection might be reasonable.
But these are functional adults who have made the deliberate choice to endorse a pathological liar steeped in racism and bigotry and who might very well be a literal rapist. They weren't born as idiot racist fuckheads; they made the conscious decision in favor of idiotic racist fuckheadness.
In the same way that faux-Christians like to claim persecution when public schools aren't allowed to endorse the ten commandments, the claims that I am "dehumanizing" these idiot racist fuckheads are pure bullshit. That claim, in fact, is a gross offense against people who are *actually* dehumanized, such as the Muslims barred from entering the country and the women barred from access to healthcare.
You should advocate on behalf of a different group of victims, because your pet victims are working hard to destroy the country.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)the man in that film was transformed
Orrex
(63,215 posts)virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Orrex
(63,215 posts)Tell us which ones were brainwashed and how you can determine this. Tell us how, exactly, you can presume to know them better than they know themselves.
For starters, you can abandon any wishful thinking that their alleged vote for Obama is evidence of current brainwashing, because it could just as easily be evidence that they were brainwashed in 2008 and 2012.
Other than through wishful thinking, how have you determined that these idiot racist fuckheads were brainwashed?
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Have scientists found that gene?
Orrex
(63,215 posts)However, since your straw man has nothing to do with my actual point, I have no need to argue the point further.
You are imagining a false dichotomy, either that "people are born racist" or "people are brainwashed into racism." Nonsense.
It is entirely possible, indeed overwhelmingly likely, that people's attitudes develop over time and in response to a lifetime of stimuli and interactions. A sickening number of idiot racist fuckheads made the deliberate choice to vote for Trump, and you seem to imagine that a brainwashing scenario is more likely and preferable than the real possibility that some functional adults are idiot racist fuckheads.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Racism is by definition evidence of brainwashing.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Please be specific.
What behaviors outside of raw instinct are *not* brainwashing, in your view?
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Orrex
(63,215 posts)Your objection is not to brainwashing, then, but to brainwashing that you find aesthetically objectionable.
I wish that you'd mentioned that in your original reply, so that I would have known that your posts can be ignored.
LiberalLovinLug
(14,174 posts)You are saying that mass brainwashing is impossible. Look at North Korea. Obviously some are probably just pretending, but I've watched documentries on N K where people cry they are so overwhelmed with love and respect for their Dear Leader after a lifetime of only getting one message. Look at Nazi Germany.
I think we are afraid to admit that many of us, even if we call ourselves liberal, while we'd never deny rights or privileges to someone else based on their race or gender or sexual orientation, are more comfortable with others that grew up in the same culture, the same neighbourhood. Obviously because you have more to relate with them. It takes effort to reach outside your comfort zone and make connections with those outside of it. But for those of us that do, we know that the effort is worth it, and that we end up finding more in common than naught and things like skin colour or sexual orientation fades into superficiality.
That uncomfortableness though, especially in areas dominated by only one culture usually made up of one racial history as well, can be molded and altered into full blown xenophobia and then further into full blown racism and bigotry and irrational hatred with consistent and unrelenting drips of propaganda produced for that very purpose. It appeals to the part in a human that is socially lazy, that is eager to blame someone else for their own failures, that is susceptible to this kind of unrelenting brainwashing that is legitimized by professional production, graphics, and all the trappings of traditional news shows of the past.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)willing to accept. There are a lot of components to it, one of which is that people looking for safety and acceptance will adopt beliefs of their culture/communities out of those needs alone, and because within these communities, those beliefs are not taken to task, and because doing so makes you an outsider, people are less likely to not take these assumptions at face value. When you literally have "news" organizations confirming, reinforcing and steering the thinking of these communities, YES, its pretty fucking easy.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)And all brainwashing is not created equal.
The claim is that a statistically significant number of these 62 million idiot racist fuckheads is brainwashed. It is incumbent upon the claimants to demonstrate that this is so. It is not sufficient to say "See how they voted? They're obviously brainwashed."
JCanete
(5,272 posts)or not we are dealing with a phenomenon that we have to understand if we want to undo, rather than throwing these people into the category of "deplorable."
Point is, they are simply humans, being human.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)we are dealing with a phenomenon that we have to understand if we want to undo, rather than throwing these people into the category of "deplorable."
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Sorry. Unless you posit that they have lost all capacity for free will and rational judgment, then they threw themselves into the "deplorable" category when they voted for Trump.
Frankly I am disgusted by this ridiculous push to empathize with our abusers WHILE THEY ARE IN THE FUCKING PROCESS OF ABUSING US! Why the fuck should I tolerate any of that crap? Fuck that. Fuck them. And fuck the idea that we need to reach out to them.
I reject the claim that they are brainwashed because, ultimately, it is circular, regressive, and self-serving. If that fantasy--that they are brainwashed--doesn't bring them into the light of reason in large numbers (and there is ZERO evidence that it does), then it is a masturbatory exercise solely to maintain the fantasy that all are fundamentally good people who mean well.
Fuck that. Some people are assholes by virtue of their own actions.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)Again, how do you want to fix a problem if you want to diagnose it wrong in the first place? It has nothing to do with worrying about their feelings and everything to do with not mistaking the disease.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)It reeks of armchair pop psychology and won't, ultimately, do anything to solve the problem.
I like your disease analogy, though; let us identify the carriers of this idiot racist fuckhead sickness and quarantine them.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)think the evidence would correlate to my own beliefs here, even if, yes, my own grasp of current psychology and neuroscience is hardly on a professional level.
As to what will work and what won't, yes, knowing what causes something is kind of important. If you just assume they are bad people, born that way, well shit, I've heard that kind of thing before, usually not out of liberals lips, but okay.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Ah yes, the well-worn "You're not a real Liberal" strategy, which is every bit as silly and overwrought as the old "you're a bigot for not tolerating my intolerance" slogan.
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"If you just assume they are bad people, born that way, well shit, I've heard that kind of thing before, usually not out of liberals lips, but okay."
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That is, in fact, directly opposed to my argument, that these people are idiot racist fuckheads by deliberate choice. Since you misstate my argument, I have no obligation to defend your misstatement.
You and the OP are weirdly invested in the weird idea that these idiot racist fuckheads are the real victims, that they are good people who've been brainwashed into being idiot racist fuckheads. I am not interested in coddling my abusers, thanks. They are functional adults who must bear the consequences of their deliberate actions, and one of those consequences is to be revealed as idiot racist fuckheads.
Let those idiot racist fuckheads demonstrate that they are idiot racist fuckheads no longer. Until then, they can go fuck themselves.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)reality, and their skewed version of it does them no harm. Of course, without serious cognitive dissonance, there is no reason to question your own facts, so that is the kind of ignorance that while only harming others(save for global warming and the impact it will have on us all), is also pretty hard to strip away without using tactics that work.
I see. So your argument is that people knowingly choose to be unknowing. You have somehow managed to find a way to blame people for being stupid by saying that they have actually intelligently, consciously, chosen to be stupid. That's ridiculous, and I hope you would concede that if nothing else, those "choices" are at a far more subconscious level, and that they are responses to very human needs as directed by both biology and domestic/cultural norms and expectations.
Have you yourself ever held an untrue thought that you didn't examine for months, maybe years? Or have you always simply made the choice to know fact from fiction? Did you for instance, always know that the FDA's 4 food groups was a bunch of fucking hokum? Or did you assume, like a lot of school children, and bring that baggage into young adulthood, that there was something to that nonsense?
I myself, having no other frame of reference growing up, because it was the consensus of family, news, culture, understood Reagan to be a good President...hell, one of the best Presidents, so I had no reason to doubt that to be the case. Trickle down economics? I was told it had worked. Everything I heard suggested it had worked. I don't have to tell you I wasn't exactly a political scholar. If somebody came out of the woodwork and started telling me that not only was Reagan a horrible asshole, but my family and loved ones were horrible assholes for voting for him, I might have been less receptive to the first part. Sure, I had no investment in whether or not Reagan was a good President, even though I would have been skeptical about the characterization given my previous indoctrination, but this fucker doesn't know my family. I do. And that shit would have sounded way off the mark and made everything he was saying far easier to disregard.
You aren't just not getting through to these people...you are losing the next generation as well. It isn't about tying to cater to racist, homophobic, mean interests. Its just about not forgetting that these are people also trying to be good people, according to whatever fucked up sense of reality they are interpreting good through. That is where we should focus. Showing them reality. Yes, I know that is herculean, but do you actually think that calling somebody a bigoted asshole fucktard is going to make him go "hmmmm....yeah, that resembles me. He nailed it. What else does this person have to say that I should probably be hearing?"
At least admit that there is nothing at all to be won by going to war at the bottom with other people at the bottom. That's a fucking joke. It is paying no attention to the people behind the curtain, who sure, aren't doing all of the brainwashing work...they're just exploiting the ignorance and the divide...and they are conquering.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,234 posts)"Frankly I am disgusted by this ridiculous push to empathize with our abusers WHILE THEY ARE IN THE FUCKING PROCESS OF ABUSING US! Why the fuck should I tolerate any of that crap? Fuck that. Fuck them. And fuck the idea that we need to reach out to them."
Orrex
(63,215 posts)mountain grammy
(26,623 posts)there are about 10 million millionaires in the US. I'm guessing most of them voted GOP. there's a chunk of the nearly 63 million.. then there's those who worship money and people with money.. then there's the racist fuckheads, the vast majority, of course.
that said, I have watched the "brainwashing of my dad" and it's quite revealing. Most of his brainwashing came from radio. Right wingers are rich and that cash goes a long way in getting their message out. They often operate radio stations at a loss, whatever it takes. They will buy successful stationsn that feature liberal talkers and change the message. This is the corporate takeover of America and got serious in 1972. Schools started changing curriculums and talk radio became radical right wing. A perfect storm. Then Reagan. The rest, as they say, is history.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Tiggeroshii
(11,088 posts)Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)Orrex
(63,215 posts)And they will remain idiot racist fuckheads until they demonstrate that they are no longer idiot racist fuckheads.
I'm sorry, but I refuse to believe that 62,979,879 good, thoughtful adults succumbed to devious brainwashing techniques contrary to their fundamental nature. I don't doubt that some people were swayed in that manner, but the huge majority were already on board with the idiotic racist fuckheadedness that Trump was selling.
Indeed!
This is 2017 not 1017
If you can reach a state of semi-maturity WITHOUT ever once finding an example that hatred, racism, misogyny, bigotry, homophobia are WRONG - there's little hope for you. You are embracing it because you like it
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)can also change the direction of this country.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)We do not need them. We have the numbers.
What we need is an end to voter suppression, gerrymandering and GOP-driven election fraud.
We do not need the idiot racist fuckheads who looked at Trump and said "He's the best choice."
Your whole desperate narrative--that these are good people who were brainwashed into acting against themselves--is a lovely fantasy but is an excellent way to ensure Democratic defeat for the next ten decades or so.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)They need to actually win BEFORE they have the power to make the changes that you suggest.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)While we're busy "reaching out to" these idiot racist fuckheads, they'll be busy securing state legislatures and locking up their election-proof gerrymandering for the next decade.
NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)They voted for a bigot who never even tried to hide his bigotry. That makes them bigots.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Johnny2X2X
(19,066 posts)These people have been brainwashed to the point of mind control.
My mother, now an elderly woman, has been brainwashed. Here's the thing, each of us have both good and bad in them, each of us are afraid of things. The brain washing they endure preys on the worst parts of people and exploits their fears. I think most people don;t realize how vulnerable we all are to group think and bran washing like this. This is a sophisticated process we are talking about, one that took decades to accomplish.
And the Left is not immune to this either, millions of Bernie supporters bought the same lies that Trump supporters did when it comes to Hillary Clinton. I had college educated liberal activists I know posting absolute lie filled stories about Hillary on Facebook all through the primaries. And despite all of those stories being publicly exposed as lies, many of them still believe them. These are not dumb people, some are scientists, some are lawyers, they still believe obvious lies that have been publicly exposed. This is extremely powerful stuff that we simply don't know how to de-progam en masse yet.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Nonsense.
demosincebirth
(12,540 posts)my mother was a JFK democrat, hated Reagen with a passion, but started on cable news with CNN then moved to Fox late in the 90s/early 2000s.
By 2004 she was was disgusted by liberals like Howard Dean, who she would have loved prior.
Very few come back from it.
Johnny2X2X
(19,066 posts)My mother was the typical great stay at home mom, just an amazing person who valued honesty and compassion above all else. And she'd never turn away anyone when it came time to feed kids.
When we all got older she took a job at a pharmacy. The owner played Rush Limbaugh from 12-3 everyday. That was the start for her, she had no idea what she was hearing, but that guy had to be smart because he was on the radio. The FOX News is all she would watch.
I feel like those decades were all leading up to the last few years though. The internet and social media were just too much for people like my mom to wrap their heads around. She is simply incapable of spotting lies now, and that's one part because of the brain washing and one part that her generation simply aren't savvy enough to process mass information from social media and make sense of it.
I see it getting much worse before it gets better. This group in power knows full well they have brain washed minions following them and they fully intend to get the most out of that.
Cosmocat
(14,565 posts)I have been in all kinds of municipal offices in our state and I can't even count the number of times I walked a municpal facility and they had Rush blaring.
The girls who grooms our dog, sweet, her girls goes to school with ours, just a nice person. Went to pick up the dog and she had Laura Ingram going.
I agree completely, and have a hard time seeing how this does not get worse, probably much worse, before/if it bounces back.
Hell, we were 2 years removed from the W cluster fuck and this country saw fit to give them the biggest mid term win in our lives, 6 years later we have THIS ...
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)Conservative in her stay at home days, or a liberal?
When did you first notice she had switched over to the dark side?
Johnny2X2X
(19,066 posts)Voted for Carter. My dad still votes Dem, mainly because he spent his career in the UAW.
Mostly though, my mom was apolitical, just wasn't that big of a deal to her. Rush just got her outraged at everything and then it was like all the sudden one day she was a different person.
What I think the biggest takeaway from all of this should be is that this wasn't just something that happened by chance. This wasn't individuals who just happened to shape the way people think to make them brainwashed. This was an organized and concerted effort to brain wash millions of Americans. They knew what they wanted to do during the Nixon Administration. This took organization and planning over decades. This was literally a group of Republicans getting together and literally saying, "let's brain wash people." And then continually meeting over the course of decades to make sure their plan was working. This was a major project with clear goals.
I wonder if Russia was involved back then?
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)You and/or your father for that matter.
Do you remind her of her liberal days when she goes off on these far rightwing hateful rants or what?
Johnny2X2X
(19,066 posts)It's off limits now. She's just a confused like lady now, but she supports a white supremacist dictator.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)ConnorMarc
(653 posts)Does she currently still hate Reagan, or she's a fan like every other Republican/self-proclaimed conservative?
Cosmocat
(14,565 posts)Definitely still hated Reagen to the end ...
brush
(53,784 posts)Bluepinky
(2,275 posts)C_U_L8R
(45,003 posts)Fear is a powerful weapon.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)If these idiot racist fuckheads are so damaged that they would actively vote against their own best interests and their own true natures, then they are suffering from a self-destructive mental defect and should be confined for their own protection.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Would you rather be a victim of the side effects of right wing manipulation of the population?
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)Probably easier and faster to appeal to them
Decades of 'unbrainwashing' people who might be predisposed to hatred....not interested
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)OK.
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)How LONG would it take to deprogram these noble zombies you support?
Appealing to nonvoters would be FASTER, ergo...winning elections
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)This applies to voters and non-voters alike.
It actually doesn't take long to de-program.....the problem is to get your message to any of them undiluted.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Clinton won the popular vote by a large majority--how many more millions do we have to capture?
The issue is not numbers; the issues are gerrymandering, fraud and voter suppression.
We do not need to "reach out to" or "understand" these idiot racist fuckheads, because they do not want our outreach or our understanding. They want our silence and they want our subjugation, and they can go fuck themselves.
Whiskeytide
(4,461 posts)... percentage of those non-voters are also infected with this idiocy. We saw this last Nov. New voter registration was up sharply in highly conservative counties here in Alabama. Those were NOT Clinton voters. Trump pulled his own minions of racist fuckheads (to borrow Orrex's moniker) out of the swamps.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)I refuse to excuse their idiotic racist fuckheadness for the sake of a fairy tale that all 69 million of them are innocent victims of brainwashing. They are fully grown, nominally functional adults, and they are responsible for their own actions and the consequences of those actions.
If one consequence is that they are revealed as idiot racist fuckheads, then so be it.
My "rightness" has little to do with it. I have seen first hand that these idiot racist fuckheads do not, in the main, change their minds because of rational persuasion nor due to personal hardship. I am personally acquainted with dozens of these idiot racist fuckheads, nearly all of whom will suffer greatly under Trump's policies, yet they support him all the more fervently.
The reject fact. They reject reason. They dismiss personal hardship. It is not my job to persuade them, and I am not impressed by your preachy scolding in the meantime.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)How ambitious of me!
Yes, they reject fact and reason in the context of normal Democratic framing, which is based on empathy. So you need to frame arguments differently in order to reach them.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)And tell us how you know this. Tell us how, in your wisdom, you can presume to know them better than they know themselves.
Or better yet, fuck that. Scamper off on whatever quest flatters your worldview, but I find it naive and frankly insulting.
We do not need them.
catbyte
(34,402 posts)ignorance. It's just lazy and look where it's gotten us. If I thought there was any hope of changing their minds, I'd be all for it, but all they do is put their fingers in their ears, going, "LALALALALALALA, FAKENEWSFAKENEWSFAKENEWS" then turn the channel to Hannity. This is merely anecdotal, of course, but it's my experience.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Logic won't work on the right wing manipulated mind.
NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)but, not every brainwashed person will have somebody that is patient enough to take them through this process step by step. Or, if it's somebody's mom and dad that were brainwashed and the kids live out of state or out of the region - hard to do just on the holidays.
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Their overall desire for themselves & others to believe that Liberals are the problem. Also, it's ok to be racist, islamaphobic.... Finally, blame everthing that's wrong on Obama and Hillary. It makes for a simple view...a nice little hate filled package.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)it is clickbait, email, and the fact that MSM was often dragged in the direction of Fox, sometimes echoing their message.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)JHan
(10,173 posts)Their beliefs are deplorable and hopefully they realise that one day like this man did. I. Minds can be "restored to balance" but it depends on the Mind and whether that person is prepared to appreciate an alternate viewpoint. The only lesson I am interested in if I were to watch this were the methods used to reach out to him - that's where my empathy begins and ends, how to persuade more people to get on board with ideas that will make my life better ( And theirs in the process) which, btw, is the total opposite of how they vote - voting in ways to make others suffer only to suffer themselves as well.
And I won't group them all into the same category - there are variations of Trump supporters. You have your preservationists, your anti-government types, your anti-traders and your free traders, your run of the mill conservative, but ultimately their actions resulted in a horror show of a Presidency and bigotry wasn't a deal breaker for them at the ballot box.
I am a young black woman and I am all out of fucks to give. My pointing out the deplorable-ness of their views is not the damn problem.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)The problem with labeling them all as "deplorables" is that you cease to think about them as someone to persuade.
Think of it as deactivating land mines.
Have you ever read any books by George Lakoff?
JHan
(10,173 posts)George Lakoff utilizes empathy through understanding *how* to communicate with people - he wouldn't know how to do it if he didn't apply empathy. There's this assumption that empathy means you sign off on what someone does - when that's not what it means at all. A lioness has to empathize with her prey - what does it feel and what does it hear? How will it react in certain circumstances? what route will it take to escape? Is it sick and frail?
To understand the terrain you have to pinpoint precisely attitudes that exist and combat those attitudes. Don't sweep them under the rug or ignore them. You have to factor them into your strategy without coddling the people you wish to target.
Empathy does not mean you agree , or you ignore wretched views, but being better at empathy than your opponent is key to success.
And here's a riddle for you - we're making a choice here to reach out to them by deriding the word "deplorable" - the flip side of that is you ignore the righteous anger those on the receiving end of deplorable attitudes face everyday. "Deplorable" was politically problematic but it doesn't mean it wasn't a fair observation - it was more than fair, it was accurate. Many people I knew were waiting for someone to call out what Trump lifted up and what his supporters co-signed which is why I said - deplorable isn't the problem. Pointing out deplorable-ness is not the problem - developing better memes and strategies to counter the rise of deplorable attitudes should be the focus instead.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)that is the problem.
I have just been seeing a lot of posts that indicate an unwillingness to even consider "developing better memes and strategies".
JHan
(10,173 posts)And in some cases their anger is justified.
I think there's too much focus on personalities and not enough on countering trends, attitudes and challenging the way liberal ideas are disseminated and framed. You actually have liberals endorsing republican narratives about democratic leaders and some social movements. If we focus on causes and outcomes we'll be on surer footing and better able to connect to other different constituencies that ordinarily lean to the right. What we can't do is dismiss the ugliness because we also have to nurture and care about our base, and articulate their concerns as well. It won't be easy because the democratic coalition is huge - republicans have it a bit easier because they know all they have to do is suppress the vote and try to cause divisions.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)and I don't believe that there is any requirement to dismiss or minimize the negative behaviors and attitudes of the "deplorables", in order to influence their thoughts and feelings.
Do you feel that it is possible to nurture the base without focusing the ire upon the Trump voter, focusing instead on the puppet masters in the Republican party?
JHan
(10,173 posts)Maybe the only way things will change is with demographic shifts but it's possible to lay out an economic vision that targets rural areas. Why race attitudes play a part is because divisions are used to prop up US vs THEM narratives, and those attitudes need to be exposed. Which is why the whole identity politics spiel in the immediate aftermath of the election was harmful- we have to push the idea that cosmopolitanism and diversity are strengths, not weaknesses, and pinpoint the ways the puppet masters on the right breed divisive rhetoric not ignore the rhetoric or complain about people who expose it... And Make our issues personal- make it relevant to people's day to day lives.
Take the treatment of BLM - since it was trending in General Discussion yesterday. What BLM advocates is something every American could get behind. Poor whites should be supporting the movement and why? because they are too often the victims of civil forfeiture abuse by authorities. They too are victims of police brutality and scared by mass incarceration. It's democratic policy that aims to treat with opoid abuse in a robust way and deal with systemic injustices. And for a walled off conservative voter, appealing to their selfishness may be required - if poor people have access to affordable healthcare, good public schools, and feel optimistic about the future, that's less class resentment to worry about.
If we factor in on the health of the whole, and how it benefits the individual - health and security - then we may have a chance to break through to them. But we can't ignore the reality of harmful attitudes.
catbyte
(34,402 posts)what about those of us, like me, who don't have relatives or close friends like that? All of my relatives are either liberal or dead, and I have no friends who would touch Fox-PAC with a 10 foot pole. Do we just leave it up to others to do the deprogramming? That's what is sounds like, a subtle, longish process of constant deprogramming.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)First, I think that we need, as a party, to learn from people like George Lakoff. How we frame issues is critical to altering the minds of voters.
I think that the other thing that is needed is actually happening. We need to continue to drive the RW hate talk off the air. Boycotting advertisers has worked over and over again. We need to continue until Fox News completely changes its tune.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)NeoGreen
(4,031 posts)...and the Father in The Brainwashing of My Dad (I own a copy BTW), is that the Father was a nice guy to begin with...
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)and so many of them are.....
What amazes me is the "all or nothing" reaction. If only 15 or 20 percent could be persuaded, it could create create a landslide for Democrats.
jrthin
(4,836 posts)Not matter how they got there, they are. I understand that my executioner is in pain, but none the less, he/she will kill me.
unblock
(52,245 posts)the martrydom, the outrage, the righteous indignation, etc. -- these all have effects on dopamine similar to addictive drugs like cocaine.
niyad
(113,329 posts)have been brain-rinsed?
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)They probably haven't thought about it.
I AM assuming that they are NOT aware.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)And, because it flatters your fantasy of brainwashing, you refuse to consider that they may have deliberately chosen the path of idiotic racist fuckheadness.
Tell you what--why don't you lead with that? Go to them and say "I know what you want better than you do, and I know how you think better than you do. Heed me, o innocent balance-seeking voter, when I say that you have been brainwashed."
Good luck.
Cosmocat
(14,565 posts)conservatism absolutely is a virus that sucks the souls out of otherwise good and decent people.
There are very few who come back from it, however.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)You may take my quota of assigned half-wits and idiots who believe that 2+2=cat, and convince them that math in fact, is real... which is almost absurd a belief as is thinking a balance exists anywhere outside of physics and math, to be restored.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)elmac
(4,642 posts)Paladin
(28,264 posts)The best of them will see the error of their ways and rejoin us. The rest of them can fuck themselves.
BamaRefugee
(3,483 posts)Johnny2X2X
(19,066 posts)Seriously, terrible analogy. The two are nothing alike.
Seriously, WTF?
BamaRefugee
(3,483 posts)I'm personally not convinced, just as I'm TOTALLY not convinced when great numbers of the same deplorables believe that gays can also be "restored to balance", through prayer or whatever other means they deem necessary.
Solly Mack
(90,769 posts)A lot of people don't have the time to spare.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Solly Mack
(90,769 posts)Orrex
(63,215 posts)Instead of scolding their victims, for instance.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)if you have no interest in changing their thinking.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Well done.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Leaving them as they are, enables the Republicans.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)If you'll allow me to speak for myself, I would in fact point out that our resources would be better devoted to empowering disenfranchised voters and by encouraging greater turnout overall.
Off the top of my head, I'd guess that it's probably easier to get ten non-voting Democrats to the polls than it is to convince one idiot racist fuckhead to change his views.
If you really are interested in this issue, and you aren't simply engaged in some sort of "we're all brainwashed" fantasy, then you must recognize that motivating non-voters is a more cost-effective strategy than futilely trying to change the viewpoints of people who do not want to change.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)my desire to change RW minds in no way impedes our effort to get non-voters to the polls.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Your desire to change RW minds is an effectively futile effort, but go on with your bad self.
In the meantime, might I suggest that you take your scolding and stick it where your self-righteousness don't shine?
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)It is a wonderful alternative to discussion.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)And the ridiculousness of your position has little bearing on the discussion.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)explains the years of losses in legislatures nationwide. Your motto for the Democratic party would be...."We can persuade no one".
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Do you fail to comprehend it?
You have claimed--without evidence--that a statistically significant number of Trump's 62M voters were brainwashed. Absent evidence, that is a ridiculous statement.
You have put forth a self-servingly reductionist definition of brainwashing, and that is ridiculous.
You have prioritized the almost-certainly-futile effort to deprogram small numbers of these allegedly brainwashed people over the effort to get more people to vote. That is ridiculous.
You have scolded Democrats for their reluctance to empathize with the idiot racist fuckheads who elected their idiot racist fuckhead into the Whitehouse. That is ridiculous.
I have repeatedly dismissed your position as ridiculous. I have not claimed that it ridiculous to try to change people's minds.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)If you truly had, you would be aware that not only are their minds bombarded with "information" from Fox News and Rush Limbaugh, equal or greater damage is done to their minds from forwarded email and Facebook posts. They have a constant stream of disinformation flowing at them. Hopefully, I don't need to "prove" that to you. They are being brainwashed.
Because of my job, I have been forced to have intimate contact with large numbers of them. I have tried to refute their beliefs with facts in a comprehensive way, and that had no effect. I have tried re-framing issues à la George Lakoff, and did have success in turning some of them around.
https://thinkprogress.org/fox-news-viewers-are-the-most-misinformed-a-seventh-study-arrives-to-prove-it-and-vindicate-jon-f9cca9cc0093
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There is also a fascinating finding that those Republicans who do watch CNN/MSNBC are more persuaded than Democratic viewers are to accept global warming. In other words, Republicans in the study seem much more easily swayed by media framing than Democrats. Put them in the Fox information stream, just add water, and watch denialism sprout. Put them in another information stream, though, and something very different might happen.
Your refusal to accept all forms of culture as brainwashing is not surprising. No one wants to believe that they are brainwashed.
You misstate my position on efforts to deprogram. I only propose that Democrats change the way that they speak to voters in general, once again à la George Lakoff.
Losing races at the state and national level for a decade is ridiculous. Declaring efforts to change minds as almost-certainly-futile is ridiculous.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)Why else do you think I use the term "idiot racist fuckheads?"
Despite your repeated and dishonest effort to misstate my position, I do not believe that they were idiot racist fuckheads at birth, but rather that they have developed into idiot racist fuckheads over the course of decades.
You seem to imagine that a statistically significant number of these idiot racist fuckheads are poor victims, cruelly brainwashed by Roger Ailes into thinking mean things and voting against their interest.
In stark contrast, I recognize that these are functional adults who hold views that are abhorrent to me, and therefore I term them idiot racist fuckheads.
Despite your repeated mischaracterization, I absolutely accept that people can change their views. I used to be an idiot sexist fuckhead, but I like to think that I have successfully recanted those idiot sexist fuckhead attitudes. Equally, these idiot racist fuckheads may evolve and change their views, but it is not my responsibility to reach out to them---least of all while the wounds are still fresh and while their orange idiot god-king is actively fucking the country.
If they get their heads out of their asses, then it is indeed possible that they will no longer be idiot racist fuckheads, but that is their choice to make.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)If 10% can be shifted away it would have an enormous effect.
I would like to see Lakoff's framing methods tried at the national level.
workinclasszero
(28,270 posts)later, after their evil, racist, hateful votes destroy Medicaid, Medicare, SSI, SNAP, Social Security, meals on wheels etc?
I'll be sure to have pity on the poor unfortunates as I and my loved ones die like dogs in the street someday soon.
Hmm.....
OTOH, fuck those filthy hater bastards, I hope they get what they deserve in spades. In this life and the next!
FUCK THE FUCKING DEPLORABLES!!!!
pamela
(3,469 posts)Part of reprogramming the brainwashed is to make them uncomfortable identifying with their deplorable in-group. Look at the Bush years. In 2005 the Bush deplorables were proud to say they voted for him. By 2007-2008 Bush was so obviously horrible that anyone who still supported him was openly mocked. And guess what? Many of them not only stopped supporting him they denied they had ever supported him to begin with.
You're not going to deprogram a Trumpbot by coddling them. We are the majority, not them. If they are getting reinforced by other Trumpbots and then further reinforced by progressives who are trying to understand them THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE! When they realize that they are the minority, that most people despise Trump and think his supporters are disgusting, when identifying as a Trump supporter becomes so embarrassing and uncomfortable for them that they HAVE to open their hateful little pea-brains and listen to reason, then you might be able to change some of their hearts and minds.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)ConnorMarc
(653 posts)I don't think it's the best use of our time and energy to try to convince these people of anything other than what they already believe.
They simply do. not. care. only when and/if it affects them do they care.
They are more anti-Democrat than anything, including cutting off their own foot if they believe it will be something that Democrats don't like.
On other forums where Republicans are, they're one unifying thing they like, and often only thing is that, Trump win made Democrats mad, and/or make Democrats mad.
For that, they will continue to support him.
That's what you're dealing with folks.
They're animals.
stonecutter357
(12,697 posts)LaydeeBug
(10,291 posts)nanosecond sooner.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)LaydeeBug
(10,291 posts)In order to see the 'kind, gentle, Trump Supporter, you must first empathize with their rationale.
I do not.
They are bigoted AF. It's really that simple.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)their beliefs are harming us all, and I believe that something can be done about it.
Orrex
(63,215 posts)virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)that is all we need.
We also need to stop borrowing Republican frames like "tax relief"
Orrex
(63,215 posts)As to the former, I suppose we disagree on the percentage that can be reached in this manner.
tenderfoot
(8,437 posts)eom
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)you didn't enjoy that?
tenderfoot
(8,437 posts)not happening any time soon either.
Awsi Dooger
(14,565 posts)Hillary's comment may have been inept strategy but I don't fault the summary. I loved that Bill Maher said basically the same thing, that deplorables fit.
The white males, anyway. I am among that group. My contemporaries are simplistic angry males. They essentially have tunnel vision on every topic and every situation. Road rage is how they apply their voting mindset to traffic. I could go on and on.
Yesterday was the final day of the United States track and field championships, picking the team for the world championships in August. I was sampling one of the prominent track websites/message board when conversation turned to a steeplechase runner named Stephanie Garcia. She had a rough weekend with basically the yips while trying to jump the hurdles. It was a mental block. During the comments about her hurdling troubles suddenly somebody wrote that he didn't feel sorry for her because she was an ultra liberal. That veered the thread in a completely different direction. One poster after another jumped in to attack her, saying they would never consider her "hot" again or think of her the same way again, that being a liberal ruined everything. One person wrote that Garcia posts her "nut job" political views all over social media.
Very familiar on sports sites. I've mentioned that I see it all the time. The demographic skews young and white and male and hateful. Deplorable is hardly inaccurate.
Squinch
(50,954 posts)SOUGHT OUT those outlets to find confirmation of their existing biases against women and people of color.
No one "revels in condemning Trump(R) voters as 'deplorables'" We all truly wish they were not deplorables.
But they ARE deplorable because they actively sought out the messages of hatred and ignorance that confirmed what they wanted to hear: that they were better than everyone else, and everyone else is just a bunch of feminazis and hoods and thugs anyway.
Minds have not been destroyed by Fox news. Hateful minds FOUND Fox news.
So you go on ahead and spend your time and effort being a missionary who rescues the poor innocent deplorables from Fox News. Convert as many as you can. I'll be spending my time getting out the vote among Democrats.
NanceGreggs
(27,815 posts)nini
(16,672 posts)Is that better?
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)I just don't want people to give up on changing their viewpoints.
nini
(16,672 posts)Unfortunately they will only do that when they lose their safety nets and they will. They will lose their food stamps, healthcare etc..
Then and only then will be they think twice. Right now their hate for us fuels their views.. anything we want - they back the opposite even if it ends up killing them and their loved ones eventually.
Sad.. but true.
hatrack
(59,587 posts). . . and most of them never, ever will.
I have better things to do than trying to cut down cottonwoods with a spork.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)Not worth it and can't be scaled up. Great his family got him back, but this is a deep and systemic problem. Work on other voters who aren't susceptible to slurping every piece of shit hate they are exposed to.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)His family had to put up with his shit for decades. It wasn't until he moved to another environment as a very elderly person, where he didn't have as much contact with Fox and the internet that he finally had his views soften.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)JustAnotherGen
(31,828 posts)judesedit
(4,439 posts)We can't force people to learn new things. They have to want to. So....until that day comes, no empathy from me. To vote for that ass they had to be bigots to begin with. And as far as calling themselves Christians, forget it. They are far, far, far from it. It's really too bad they choose to watch and listen to that bullshit when the truth is out there begging to be heard. That's all
BeyondGeography
(39,374 posts)Stupid and misguided can happen to all sorts of people.
K&R
appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)Republican that left the president vote blank because she could not stand Trumpery. People I have known and actually liked for over 40 years voted for Trumpery. I can't call them deplorable because otherwise, they are really nice people even if a little on the uneducated side for the most part. And they believe what they hear on FOX.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)GotHillsback
(15 posts)He calls everything but Fox fake news, he laughs at me because I like Rachel Maddow. He calls her 'Madcow' so very rude. I try to educate him but he just laughs at me and says I'm a sheep off to slaughter. Really makes me mad, but he is my brother and I love him. Don't know how to handle it though.
DesertRat
(27,995 posts)I'm curious about the meaning of your user name.?
Also, regarding your brother, you might just want to agree not to discuss politics with him. That's how I handle my relationships with Repub. relatives.
GotHillsback
(15 posts)Yes I try not to go there with him, but he is persistent and try's to convert me. He is one of those type A macho men, that believes he is always right. He's also a hard worker, good husband and father and a war vet, so besides his politics I really respect him. I think he was brainwashed in the Army, it's like he never really left it. But your right I shouldn't let it bother me.
I picked that name because it seems I'm always trying to defend her because of all the R's lies about her, she is such an inspiration.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)It is by George Lakoff and Elisabeth Wehling.
It explains how to talk to the right wing mind and how to frame issues.
Have you and your brother always been on the opposite ends of the political spectrum?
GotHillsback
(15 posts)thanks I'll look into it. Yeah he has always been a hard guy and I've always been pretty passive. But he is also the one person I know that if I'm in trouble he'll drop everything and come to help. I made the mistake of talking to him about PTSD and it pissed him off. He said I don't get PTSD, I give other people PTSD. I just don't want to lose my brother over politics.
Alwaysna
(574 posts)instead of the twisted RW agenda is to run 30 second ads on YouTube targeting the age group ages 15years old and up such as a remake of the "crying indian" from the Keep America Beautiful organization. Now they could name it "Make America Beautiful Again ". By running short and touching adds that promote our ideals to this age group you will see a return on the investment in 2020 election. One of the adds should be the importance of voting. One could counter the RW message that to have empathy for others is a sign of weakness not strength. Another could encourage perceiving people different than them as still human to combat the dehumanizing name calling from the right etc. By promoting ideals rather than political parties will more likely to be accepted rather than rejected and labelext"bleeding heart liberal" . Just a thought.
JI7
(89,251 posts)for what they always were.
this wasn't like gw bush who pretended to be some regular guy and would preach all the compassionate godly crap. trump was openly a bigot and it was the main part of his campaign.
tblue37
(65,394 posts)ecstatic
(32,707 posts)African American woman in her 70s, and two immigrants: Late 50s Mexican American woman, 60s Jamaican American woman. The first two are repubs, the third fell for the "what the hell do you have to lose" pitch (SMH). They've all distanced themselves from trump but at the same time gently defend him and the rethugs. They believe trump when he says the bill won't cut medicaid. If trump says it, it must be true.
If the documentary is on YouTube, I'll send them the link.
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)I would never of though that I would hear a term like semi-deplorable in my lifetime...but that is who we need to speak to.
The Semi-Deplorables would be a great title for a movie or tv series.
H2O Man
(73,558 posts)Great film.
GatoGordo
(2,412 posts)Name calling only reinforces the negative stereotypes that tend to stick. And by this I mean no matter your political affiliation.
I don't expect I am going to get my brother (a swing voter) to vote Democrat in the future by calling him names now, anymore than him calling me a Marxist endears me to vote Republican.