I read your line: You People Need To Relax... And I about choked!!! The last time I heard that recommendation was Nov 8th 2016. I was trying to prepare dinner while listening to election returns. As the horror of the evening began to sink in, tears streaming down my face, I looked at my spouse and said "It's happening. He is going to win." His response was "You just need to relax". I have seriously never had a complete come apart like I had that night after his comment. Worst fight we've had in 27 years together. It felt like the bottom fell out of my world as I know it did for many of us. He's never said those words since....smart guy.