I have a brother who was pretty racist
His first words to my future husband when I introduced him were : "Who's your dark Gucci friend?" I called him on it, finished the business K had and we left.
He was in and out of our lives around my mother's illness and passing. Some years later I connected with his adult children, only to be lectured and told to stay out of their lives.
A couple of years later my niece began dating and subsequently married a young black man. My brother screamed at me on the phone that he had told me to stay away from her. At the time she and had only had minimal exchanges on FB. He blamed me for their relationship.
Then he became a grandfather to a gorgeous little girl but was shunning his daughter by then. Two years later they all reconciled.He learned a bit about tolerance and living together. My niece is also raising handsome young stepsons for whom he stepped up as a grandfather.
This learning must occur on a national basis. Understanding that all are worthy and equal comes from interacting and acceptance.
My OT session will begin in a few. This was on my mind.
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I ask because I have seen this with super racist who then get color in thier family .
I know someone who married into a family with a racist mother . His mother inlay finally accepted him and told him she could see he was different 
They are ok they are different because they know them now. No attempt to know others and
all other POC ? Still hated
round me that we are all humans.
No one better no one worse we're humans
I seem to think it helps some see the light, well while around me anyway. Not sure if it changes any minds though. We can hope it does and Hope is a strong emotion,
Peace
Have a great week
