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you know-I just give the fuck up (Original Post) demtenjeep Aug 2017 OP
Please don't give up. If you need to talk call this number:1-800-273-8255 yardwork Aug 2017 #1
keep on the sunny side wasupaloopa Aug 2017 #2
Good god man, don't push them over the edge with that! NightWatcher Aug 2017 #5
Don't give up. Zoonart Aug 2017 #3
If you have a Jeep, that doesn't suck. Shit always gets bad before people rise out of complacency! TheBlackAdder Aug 2017 #4
Watch this. Eko Aug 2017 #6
its news, family, health, devastation, hate, hassle and on and on and on demtenjeep Aug 2017 #7
take a break from the news steve2470 Aug 2017 #9
It feels that way now, but resolution will come. It always does. bettyellen Aug 2017 #10
Sis it's called life malaise Aug 2017 #11
Yes it sucks. But you have to make yourself happy. Vilis Veritas Aug 2017 #15
"Don't boo. Vote!" - Barack Obama LBM20 Aug 2017 #8
I get it. blogslut Aug 2017 #12
Please don't! cilla4progress Aug 2017 #13
everything sucks... you are correct handmade34 Aug 2017 #14
I gave up three years ago. Best decision of my life. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #16
i feel yer pain samnsara Aug 2017 #17
No way, bro or sis! DonaldsRump Aug 2017 #18
Please don't give up DesertRat Aug 2017 #19
Don't give up ProudLib72 Aug 2017 #20
know how you feel rurallib Aug 2017 #21
Don't give up, please. smirkymonkey Aug 2017 #22
I agree with you. nancy1942 Aug 2017 #23
Here ya go. This doesn't suck. :) pangaia Aug 2017 #24
Turn off the news fallout87 Aug 2017 #25
Sure until tomorrow morning when we start over again grantcart Aug 2017 #26
I want to give up too. But I can't. neeksgeek Aug 2017 #27
Truth is, we only have a limited number of fucks to give NotASurfer Aug 2017 #28
give up?? WHY? bluestarone Aug 2017 #29
I've been through toddwv Aug 2017 #30
Nope, nup - you and I will *NEVER* give up! UTUSN Aug 2017 #31
We've All Felt This Way; That's How They WANT You To Feel ChoppinBroccoli Aug 2017 #32
Here's a hug lunatica Aug 2017 #33
I'm happy to say that I knitted a lovely sweater in record time secondwind Aug 2017 #34
I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER SINCE I GAVE UP HOPE! BamaRefugee Aug 2017 #35
Youll never walk alone bluecollar2 Aug 2017 #36
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
2. keep on the sunny side
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:33 PM
Aug 2017


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Zoonart

(11,878 posts)
3. Don't give up.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:33 PM
Aug 2017

Take a time out from the news. Do something you love. Reach out to a friend. Take care of yourself.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
7. its news, family, health, devastation, hate, hassle and on and on and on
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:39 PM
Aug 2017

it just doesn't fucking stop

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
10. It feels that way now, but resolution will come. It always does.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:44 PM
Aug 2017

Be there and stay strong with and for those you love. Find solace in supporting them as well as taking care of yourself. Take a mental health brake from the news if you need to. Treat yourself as best you can.

Vilis Veritas

(2,405 posts)
15. Yes it sucks. But you have to make yourself happy.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:57 PM
Aug 2017

A good friend from a very poor country who came here as a young man, reminded me that in our life how even in our struggles, there is light somewhere, it is your job to find it or make it for yourself.

I'm here in Houston with water at my door.

Life is good.

Peace

blogslut

(38,016 posts)
12. I get it.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:45 PM
Aug 2017

I understand. I've been talking people off ledges for so long I've just about run out of will.

Do something normal to distract yourself. Make something. Fix something. Clean something. Do something nice for somebody.

cilla4progress

(24,769 posts)
13. Please don't!
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:45 PM
Aug 2017

We need you! I bet everyone here feels the same way as you some days. I am standing by as my normally emotionally level husband is going through what
I believe is clinical desperation.

You are needed and important. And loved.

handmade34

(22,757 posts)
14. everything sucks... you are correct
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 08:50 PM
Aug 2017

right now there is so much going wrong and I cry and I scream and I worry for others

but it is wonderful to see people help each other in crisis... and about an hour ago, I picked up an SPLC booklet that included a quote...

When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of Truth and Love have ALWAYS won....they can seem invincible, but in the end (the tyrants) always fall. Think of it always. Mahatma Gandhi



The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
16. I gave up three years ago. Best decision of my life.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:06 PM
Aug 2017

It's freedom, and to hell with other peoples' opinions. It happens sometimes, to some people. Nothing to be ashamed of.

My fuck dispenser is permanently, irreparably broken.

DonaldsRump

(7,715 posts)
18. No way, bro or sis!
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:36 PM
Aug 2017

I felt exactly like you just a few days ago.,

I watched Obama's 2004 DNC speech and videos of his victory in 2008 and 2012 on Friday night, because I was longing for better days. I started to cry and my family got me through it.

HRC lost by the smallest of margins, and it took an international illicit/illegal conspiracy to defeat her. THAT IS NOT THE USA!

Look at what's happened since Charlottesville. I am hugely gratified about America. There is an enormous number of folks like us, and a few asses (including the "President&quot who are off the radar. But please keep in mind that the bulk of both the USA and the rest of the world is appalled.

As Jesus, Gandhi, and all persons of goodwill say, "this too shall pass"...

Peace and Love!

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
19. Please don't give up
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:39 PM
Aug 2017

I feel like that sometimes and after a good night's sleep things always look better.
Sending cyber hugs to you.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
20. Don't give up
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:41 PM
Aug 2017

The majority of the WORLD is with you. It's only a small minority of idiots and spineless congress people who are doing this. If you give up, they win.

rurallib

(62,448 posts)
21. know how you feel
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:44 PM
Aug 2017

especially when once we could sort of look to our government as a port of last resort - and now the crazies are running it.

but we need you badly to help drag us out of the mire.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
22. Don't give up, please.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:46 PM
Aug 2017

I know everything seems awful right now, but I am convinced that goodness will prevail. These bastards can not get away with this much longer. Karma is coming for them.

nancy1942

(635 posts)
23. I agree with you.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 09:58 PM
Aug 2017

I wish I could give some encouragement but I can't quite do it right now. Sometimes it does just plain suck.

neeksgeek

(1,214 posts)
27. I want to give up too. But I can't.
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 10:24 PM
Aug 2017

My wife heard my depression about current events, and suggested that I just stop reading or viewing the news. I immediately replied, "No, I've got to know what's happening. I can't allow myself to become ignorant, or just turn away."

I take a break sometimes.

I'm personally trying to do as much positive activity as possible. A friend asked what I meant, and I said "I just want to be as good a person as possible." As a counter to the evil being shoved in our faces.


NotASurfer

(2,154 posts)
28. Truth is, we only have a limited number of fucks to give
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 10:31 PM
Aug 2017

There are times when the tank is empty, nothing left, I've had all I can stands and I can't stands no more.

And we walk away. Not that we don't give a fuck so much as just not having any left to give.

That's normal. But don't despair for demten. Life goes on, other hands will take up the reigns.

And then the thing that doesn't feel possible happens: you wake up one day and discover that you have a fuck to give again. It's a rare case of autogenisis. And fucks always multiply.

bluestarone

(17,034 posts)
29. give up?? WHY?
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 10:33 PM
Aug 2017

i'm so dam proud of my wife and myself no matter what dump does I KNOW WE ARE ON THE RIGHT SIDE OF THIS!! and we will not let the asshole complete his plan (i'd rather go down fighting than give up) We all need to take a breath and fight on OUR TIME WILL COME!!!

toddwv

(2,830 posts)
30. I've been through
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 10:39 PM
Aug 2017

Surgery to place an LVAD before which I had to be fibrillated back to life with paddles.
I'm currently recovering from getting a new heart.
I don't have a job, I don't own a car, I don't have a gf/wife, I'm deeply in debt with medical bills and student loans, and I live with my parents.
My skills are outdated, I'm tired all the time, my medications make me shaky and moody and promote weight gain, and a flu could potentially kill me.

All of that and I'd rather live during a difficult journey than die during an easy one.



ChoppinBroccoli

(3,784 posts)
32. We've All Felt This Way; That's How They WANT You To Feel
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 11:08 PM
Aug 2017

Every time I turn on a radio or see an article written online with a comments section at the end, I see the endless stream of bile and hatred spewed out by RWers, and just like you, I sometimes get so frustrated by it that I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle that will never end, and I sometimes feel like giving up. That's by design. That's why the higher-ups in the Republican Party pay people to flood the phone lines and the comments sections with hatred. Because they know it's discouraging. They WANT you to feel discouraged and they WANT you to give up. Don't give them what they want.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
34. I'm happy to say that I knitted a lovely sweater in record time
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 11:44 PM
Aug 2017

when I turned the TV off. Get out there, take a nice walk, count your blessings, and know that we WILL survive this Presidency.

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