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Archae

(46,337 posts)
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 01:32 PM Jul 2012

I'm trying to help my Mom, this is her first Presidential election without my Dad.

My Dad died two years ago, he was VERY right-wing.
(Regular Rush listener)

So now my Mom is going to be voting without my Dad's input, and I'm trying to educate her.
I hope the facts I show her are sinking in.

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I'm trying to help my Mom, this is her first Presidential election without my Dad. (Original Post) Archae Jul 2012 OP
Don't Be Disappointed if She Votes Republican SoDesuKa Jul 2012 #1
Is she religious? NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #2
Missouri SoDesuKa Jul 2012 #3
LOL NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #4
By all means, lets use religious bigotry SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2012 #5
Your "concern" is noted. Odin2005 Jul 2012 #6
Rolleyes noted as well SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2012 #8
These folks are so transparent aren't they NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #9
What in the hell are you talking about? SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2012 #10
The "We are better than that crap" is why we lose elections. Odin2005 Jul 2012 #15
Thanks for your honesty SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2012 #17
What??!! Shankapotomus Jul 2012 #7
Nope. I think you shouldn't insult other DUer's mothers lunatica Jul 2012 #12
I am defending her Shankapotomus Jul 2012 #14
My Mom depended on my Dad for her opinions for decades. Archae Jul 2012 #13
Print this OP by Mortos out and have her read it. lunatica Jul 2012 #11
I know your heart is in the right place but I think maybe your wording on this is a bit off. Marrah_G Jul 2012 #16

SoDesuKa

(3,173 posts)
1. Don't Be Disappointed if She Votes Republican
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 06:42 PM
Jul 2012

You Mom may end up voting for Romney because "he has such a nice smile."

NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
2. Is she religious?
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 06:45 PM
Jul 2012

First get the camera ready and then ask her what she thinks about a guy who believes The Garden of Eden is in Missouri.

Worked on my mom.

She said she would vote for a Muslim over a Mormon.

Don

SoDesuKa

(3,173 posts)
3. Missouri
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 06:51 PM
Jul 2012

You can see the Gateway Arch from the Garden of Eden. Don't believe me? You are definitely NOT saved.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
5. By all means, lets use religious bigotry
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 07:06 PM
Jul 2012

And that makes us better than Republicans how?

Why not just tell her the truth about the two candidates, and emphasize why President Obama is the better choice for her and for the country?

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
8. Rolleyes noted as well
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 07:10 PM
Jul 2012

But it doesn't answer the question - why not just tell the truth about the two candidates and point out why President Obama is the better choice? Why stoop to the level of Republicans and do the very same thing that we as Democrats (rightfully) criticize them for doing?

NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
9. These folks are so transparent aren't they
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 07:43 PM
Jul 2012

They would cut their own mothers throat to win an election and then they try pulling that kind of nonsense on us and expect it to work.

Don

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
10. What in the hell are you talking about?
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:08 PM
Jul 2012

"These" people and "they"?

I think it's wrong to use religious bigotry to try to sway voters in an election. I think it's wrong when Republicans do it and I think it's wrong when we as Democrats do it.

I'm not going to apologize for expecting that as Democrats, we should hold ourselves to a higher standard than we hold Republicans. When Republicans went after Keith Ellison because he is a Muslim, we as Democrats were rightly outraged. But now it's OK to go after Mitt Romney because he's a Mormon?

There are so many things to go after Romney about that are valid - why stoop to the level of the Republicans?

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
15. The "We are better than that crap" is why we lose elections.
Mon Jul 16, 2012, 08:57 AM
Jul 2012

This is WAR, and I don't care how slimy it is as long as it damages the GOP. We are not dealing with reasonable people.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
17. Thanks for your honesty
Mon Jul 16, 2012, 03:29 PM
Jul 2012

And if that's the path that the Democratic party wants to take, so be it. But if that is the way ahead, then we should at least cut out the hypocrisy of complaining when they do it, but cheering when we do it.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
7. What??!!
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 07:08 PM
Jul 2012

Why does your Mom need anybody's input to vote? Tell her to realize who she is...she's an independent adult woman. She doesn't need some man to hold her hand and tell her how to vote. This is 2012.

Can we get some of our enlightened feminist duers to step in here?

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
14. I am defending her
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 11:09 PM
Jul 2012

She is an adult woman. She does not need the input of anyone to decide how to vote.

Archae

(46,337 posts)
13. My Mom depended on my Dad for her opinions for decades.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:56 PM
Jul 2012

My Dad didn't *COMMAND* my Mom to have certain opinons, but what he thought did influence her. A lot.

Now she has to form her opinions entirely on her own.

It's not easy for her.

One good thing, she does trust me for political information.
So in my family, I'm the source for political facts.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
16. I know your heart is in the right place but I think maybe your wording on this is a bit off.
Mon Jul 16, 2012, 09:17 AM
Jul 2012

Your post says this:

Woman always had man to tell her how to vote.

Man dies

Another man must step in to tell her how to vote.

From a female standpoint, your post really hits a nerve.

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