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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:11 AM Sep 2017

I can't bear to watch, but I can't bear not to watch.

That's the Catch-22 of storm coverage this morning. My wife's sister and her husband are holed up in a strong house in Ft. Meyers that is on "high ground." They text now and then, but mostly we're watching MSNBC's coverage of the storm.

It's anxiety producing, but not watching has the same effect. I'm trying to imagine that decision if I were living there and sheltering in place. There's probably not enough Xanax on the planet for that situation.

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I can't bear to watch, but I can't bear not to watch. (Original Post) MineralMan Sep 2017 OP
Understandable greeny2323 Sep 2017 #1
I am really surprised Cantore can walk without a tilt anymore. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2017 #17
It's like the people that walk on mountains csziggy Sep 2017 #19
Yep. I too have a brother and his wife in Fort Myers FLPanhandle Sep 2017 #2
So far, it's not bad, compared to Houston. Houston got 30 inches of rain, plus high winds.... Honeycombe8 Sep 2017 #3
The City of Houston averaged over 40 inches of rain TexasBushwhacker Sep 2017 #14
Oh, yeah...30" was JUST the main storm. It rained before and after. I forgot! Honeycombe8 Sep 2017 #18
Well, they need to so what's best for the city in the long term TexasBushwhacker Sep 2017 #22
Exactly. I see it where I live. The city/parish must just rubberstamp anything the developers Honeycombe8 Sep 2017 #24
The short answer is yes CentralMass Sep 2017 #15
Ft. Myers is on the coast, with a river running through csziggy Sep 2017 #20
Fingers crossed for them nycbos Sep 2017 #4
My brother and SIL in Clearwater finally decided to go to a shelter. I'm somewhat Nay Sep 2017 #5
I would not stay anywhere in Pinellas County on that peninsula! csziggy Sep 2017 #21
Oh, I know. My brother and I are natives, grew up in Largo. I just couldn't Nay Sep 2017 #23
My Cousin Is 25 Miles East Of Ft. Meyers... JimGinPA Sep 2017 #6
The Browns game comes on at 1 underpants Sep 2017 #7
I was hoping the Panthers would be on at 1, but not until 4:30pm. mnhtnbb Sep 2017 #10
PSA: it's Fort Myers, not Fort Meyers. nt Dreamer Tatum Sep 2017 #8
Don't watch national news - it's all bunk. Go to local news (I'm in Clearwater) Heddi Sep 2017 #9
An addition -- like I said, I'm in clearwater. We stayed bc we were in Europe for 2 weeks Heddi Sep 2017 #11
The track as of 12 pm has the eye HAB911 Sep 2017 #12
See you after the storm. MineralMan Sep 2017 #13
Easy. Turn it off. Done. n/t X_Digger Sep 2017 #16
Woo hoo! 38 hours without power, now back up with minimal damage! HAB911 Sep 2017 #25
Yay! Excellent! MineralMan Sep 2017 #26
I was glued to MSNBC when Irma was nearing my sister's home Gothmog Sep 2017 #27
Yes, us too. MineralMan Sep 2017 #28
 

greeny2323

(590 posts)
1. Understandable
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:13 AM
Sep 2017

It's understandable because all you can do is wait.

FYI, Jim Cantore of the Weather Channel is in Fort Myers so he will provide good coverage from that area.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
17. I am really surprised Cantore can walk without a tilt anymore.
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 03:55 PM
Sep 2017

Storms are not official until we see him in the wind and water.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
19. It's like the people that walk on mountains
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 07:02 PM
Sep 2017

Just make sure you take turns which leg is uphill or on the windward side. That evens things out!

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
2. Yep. I too have a brother and his wife in Fort Myers
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:15 AM
Sep 2017

We text a bit but I try not to bother them. It's stressful enough sitting through a hurricane.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
3. So far, it's not bad, compared to Houston. Houston got 30 inches of rain, plus high winds....
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:19 AM
Sep 2017

Irma is expected to drop between 6 and 10 inches of rain. The real danger with Irma will be the storm surge. Houston didn't have to worry about a storm surge (thank goodness).

Is Ft Myers in a place where a storm surge can affect it? I think so, but not sure.

I know a couple with dog who are hunkering down in FL. Don't know why they didn't leave.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,196 posts)
14. The City of Houston averaged over 40 inches of rain
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 01:39 PM
Sep 2017

The Cedar Bayou area, in eastern Harris County, got over 50 inches. It's been a wild ride. Thankfully, the statewide death toll stands at only 70. The evacuation for Hurricane Rita, which ended up not hitting Houston, had it's own death toll of over 100.

I do hope that the mayor and city council treat this as the new normal. We have had heavy flooding for 3 years in a row. There are some homes that have flooded each time. Those homes should not be rebuilt. It's just nuts. Accept the buyouts and start over. The county can turn those areas into greenspace that can absorb water.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
18. Oh, yeah...30" was JUST the main storm. It rained before and after. I forgot!
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 05:54 PM
Sep 2017

I'm in SW La. I should know that. I agree that some homes should not be rebuilt. And they should rethink their expansion plans to allow for fields of SOIL for drainage. I doubt they do. It comes down to money.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,196 posts)
22. Well, they need to so what's best for the city in the long term
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 07:46 PM
Sep 2017

and quit approving what's best for the developers in the short term. The developers don't care if their homes flood. They've made their money.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
24. Exactly. I see it where I live. The city/parish must just rubberstamp anything the developers
Mon Sep 11, 2017, 01:30 PM
Sep 2017

or builders want to do. The cover lots of ground with concrete and put in a couple of drain pipes/culverts, and everyone signs off on that as fixing any drainage issues that may occur.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
20. Ft. Myers is on the coast, with a river running through
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 07:04 PM
Sep 2017

Storm surge up the river will be serious. Plus, the eye will go through or close by.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
5. My brother and SIL in Clearwater finally decided to go to a shelter. I'm somewhat
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:29 AM
Sep 2017

relieved as I think it's so much better than their apt building. But still wish they had driven up to visit us. So far, everything is going well.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
21. I would not stay anywhere in Pinellas County on that peninsula!
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 07:06 PM
Sep 2017

While there are "high" spots, nothing there is very high and it will catch water and wind from both directions. I went to college there for a year and have only been back twice in the forty five years since - not my favorite place.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
23. Oh, I know. My brother and I are natives, grew up in Largo. I just couldn't
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:12 PM
Sep 2017

believe he was crazy enough to stay. But at least he went to a shelter.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
6. My Cousin Is 25 Miles East Of Ft. Meyers...
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 11:39 AM
Sep 2017

She's riding it out & keeping us updated on FB.

My sister's step daughter is a deputy sheriff in Harris Co. (Houston). We went through the same thing with her during Harvey, except she was on emergency duty right after the storm. She's (mainly) worked at the courthouse the last few years but it's closed now, until further notice.

It sucks to worry about someone when you can't do anything for them.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
9. Don't watch national news - it's all bunk. Go to local news (I'm in Clearwater)
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 12:20 PM
Sep 2017

Much more meaningful and less fearmongering.

Here are some good resources with links to local news http://www.tampabay.com/projects/2017/hurricane-irma/

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
11. An addition -- like I said, I'm in clearwater. We stayed bc we were in Europe for 2 weeks
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 12:37 PM
Sep 2017

came back on Friday, didn't have time to hurricane-proof the house, get gas, gget the pets and hit the road. Plus, we're in a non-evac zone and a non-flood zone (even tho we have flood insurance). We got one of the last flights into Tampa before the airport closed, thankfully. Plus both my husband and I are nurses. I work at home but he works at a hospital and is compelled to show up to work on monday b/c he's on the post-hurricane RN team. So we couldn't evac if we wanted to b/c of his job.

Try baynews9.com, that's a local news channel that is on the cable TV here. While I'm a few hours north of Ft Myers, it's still giving news pertinent to that area, and it's a lot less fear mongering than CNN or MSNBC or any of the other national stations that are after ratings. having grown up in Hurricane Alley my whole life (SC and FL, practically) and have seen LOTS of fear-mongering pre-hurricane news (local and national). I'm really amazed this time at the restraint that local news has shown. They have been factual, honest, but not "GET OUT NOW BEFORE WE ALL DIEEEEEEE" like I saw years ago in SC before I think Floyd or some other hurricane.

At any rate, turn off the national news and find a local feed on the intertubes. I think it will give you a bit more comfort because that is driven for locals, not national ratings.

Best of luck to your family.

HAB911

(8,904 posts)
12. The track as of 12 pm has the eye
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 12:52 PM
Sep 2017

literally passing over my house in north Tampa sometime around 1AM. I wish it was during the day so I could see it. We put up our shutters yesterday and within the hour will be transferring some food into coolers, assuming loss of power sometime this afternoon. Have individual UPS units available to power my laptop which will allow me to watch local stations and CNN for a long time.

Good luck to your SIL! I'll be back on the other side!

HAB911

(8,904 posts)
25. Woo hoo! 38 hours without power, now back up with minimal damage!
Tue Sep 12, 2017, 03:22 PM
Sep 2017

Lost two very small trees that just leaned over from the wind because the ground was so wet, all is well.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
28. Yes, us too.
Tue Sep 12, 2017, 04:27 PM
Sep 2017

I was glad when it was over and my wife's sister found out there was no damage and she was OK.

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