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SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 02:58 PM Oct 2017

Parents in New York town could face jail, fine under new anti-bullying law

By ABC NEWS Oct 10, 2017, 9:55 AM ET

Parents in a New York town could end up in jail if their children are found to have bullied others, thanks to a new law.

Victoria Crago began advocating for the law in North Tonawanda, New York, after she said her eighth-grade son was attacked by a classmate right in front of her.

“This young man just sucker-punched him right in the face and hit him as hard as he could,” she told ABC News of the May incident. “What really alarmed me about the situation was the brazen act of violence in front of a parent.”

Crago said “It was really traumatic for both of us.”

The student accused of attacking Crago's son was charged with third-degree assault. His case was transferred to family court and he is now working with a probation officer, court records show.

The probation officer did not respond to ABC News’ request for comment.

Crago created a Facebook page to call out pervasive bullying in her town. The outrage made public by Crago's Facebook group prompted lawmakers to pass the anti-bullying law that puts pressure on parents.

Parents could be fined $250 and sentenced to 15 days in jail, according to North Tonawanda City Attorney Luke Brown. Parents could face punishment if their child violates the city's curfew or any city law, including bullying, twice over the course of 90 days.

"In reality, what we're looking for is to engage the parents in the process and try and work on a solution," Brown said.

The new law is modeled after a similar push in Wisconsin to hold parents accountable, according to Brown. The law went into effect in North Tonawanda Oct. 1.

“We hope to never need to use this law but it's there in extreme cases,” North Tonawanda City School District Superintendent Greg Woytila said. “But we need to do a better job and we are continually trying to do that.”

Nearly 30 percent of students from sixth- to 12th-grade say they have been bullied, according to StopBullying.gov, a bullying prevention and awareness website run by the U.S. Departments of Education, Health and Human Services and Justice.

Bullying is most common in middle school, the website reports.

The law has received some backlash from parents who claim it goes too far.

“You can’t make parents parent their kid,” one commenter wrote on Facebook.

Crago hopes the new law sends a clear message to parents that they will pay the price for their kids’ behavior.

“Watching your child harmed in front of you is a terrible thing,” she said. “I don’t wish it on anyone."

http://abcnews.go.com/Lifestyle/parents-york-town-face-jail-fine-anti-bullying/story?id=50386384

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Parents in New York town could face jail, fine under new anti-bullying law (Original Post) SummerSnow Oct 2017 OP
You cant make parents parent their kid, Thomas Hurt Oct 2017 #1
Here's hoping the process includes parenting skills classes and empathy training rather than going WhiskeyGrinder Oct 2017 #2
I agree, this starts at home. SummerSnow Oct 2017 #3
A lot of kids learn to be bullies by watching their parents interact with others. appleannie1943 Oct 2017 #4

Thomas Hurt

(13,903 posts)
1. You cant make parents parent their kid,
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 03:02 PM
Oct 2017

The fundies want you to allow them to be proselytized with school prayer, abstinence, and creationism, why not this...

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,347 posts)
2. Here's hoping the process includes parenting skills classes and empathy training rather than going
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 03:07 PM
Oct 2017

right to fines and jail time. That doesn't seem helpful to me, especially since so many bullies learn their trade at home.

appleannie1943

(1,303 posts)
4. A lot of kids learn to be bullies by watching their parents interact with others.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 03:14 PM
Oct 2017

I have seen this with a couple of my grandkids. Their other grandparents were instrumental in their lives after my son died and all they ever heard was "someone should beat the s**t out of that *)&^Y)&." and their grandfather bullying the rest of the family around. Everyone always solved disputes with their fists or with verbal abuse.

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