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11 year old girl's reaction to being adopted: (Original Post) Kingofalldems Oct 2017 OP
Precious. Thanks for posting this. nt tblue37 Oct 2017 #1
That is so lovely! redwitch Oct 2017 #2
Mazel tov, Tannah! Jake Stern Oct 2017 #3
Speaking of adoption videos (I'm almost embarrassed to admit this) frazzled Oct 2017 #4
That was lovely LittleGirl Oct 2017 #7
So sweet.. Duppers Oct 2017 #5
Me, too! Scarsdale Oct 2017 #20
Oh, Scarsdale Duppers Oct 2017 #23
Every kid complains about their parents! If your kids aren't complaining you aren't doing your job Maraya1969 Oct 2017 #27
I had tears flowing -- soooo touching. Glad he's experienced true love, it's made a difference. ATL Ebony Oct 2017 #29
OH WHAT A FEELING! rurallib Oct 2017 #6
They already look zentrum Oct 2017 #8
That's not the adoptive mom, that's the school office manager. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #11
I like that Jackie! Cracklin Charlie Oct 2017 #12
Ooops. Thanks. nt zentrum Oct 2017 #28
oh the feels. Thank you for this one. TeamPooka Oct 2017 #9
Ms. Alexander must feel everything is worth it for moments like that. Boomerproud Oct 2017 #10
That guy looked really thrilled about it, lol. Congrats to Tannah & her new family! catbyte Oct 2017 #13
Proof that it's not all bad out there. But what's up with that guy walking back and forth.... George II Oct 2017 #14
I thought the PDA between a school official and the child was more unusual, but that's apparently AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #15
K&R for sheer joy meow2u3 Oct 2017 #16
That guy must be the vice principal. Gotta be. Kingofalldems Oct 2017 #17
What a lovely moment! smirkymonkey Oct 2017 #18
I hope it is an open adoption and they keep her in touch with as many biological relatives StevieM Oct 2017 #19
I'd rec this clip all day long. BobTheSubgenius Oct 2017 #21
Wow! Tears of joy. raven mad Oct 2017 #22
Awesome! Lump in my throat. Fla Dem Oct 2017 #24
I've got a cat that does that to me. Ligyron Oct 2017 #25
This also happened in my family HelenWheels Oct 2017 #26

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
4. Speaking of adoption videos (I'm almost embarrassed to admit this)
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:44 PM
Oct 2017

We were watching Dancing with the Starts Last Night (OK, there was really nothing on TV last night; don't laugh), and they were asking the contestants to dance to the theme of their most memorable year. There were some tear-jerker stories among them (the football player whose baby daughter had a rare eye cancer and they had to do an experimental operation to avoid total excision of the eyes or something), but this one was touching in a different way. This young singer, Jordan Fisher (though he clearly has had dance training too) picked the year he was legally adopted by his grandparents. His mother had had him when she was 16, and was a drug addict and couldn't take care of him, so the grandparents took him in. Finally, they were able to officially adopt him.

Here's a video of the whole mushy thing:

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x63xiuy

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
20. Me, too!
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:27 PM
Oct 2017

Then I thought back and wondered if MY kids would have been happy to have someone else adopt them?? They constantly complained about the rules I tried to set, so I think they would have welcomed some other Mom rescuing them!

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
23. Oh, Scarsdale
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 09:59 PM
Oct 2017

I think if your rules were reasonable, your kids would have complained about any normal parents' rules.

My son complained about the rules in this house. But by the time he got into grad school he was thanking us and apologized for his former behavior.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
11. That's not the adoptive mom, that's the school office manager.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:46 PM
Oct 2017

(According to the info in the subtitles and the article)

Tannah Butterfield is the kid.
Jennifer Fischer is the adoptive parent.
Jackie Alexander is the school office manager in the video delivering the news.

George II

(67,782 posts)
14. Proof that it's not all bad out there. But what's up with that guy walking back and forth....
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:14 PM
Oct 2017

.....could he at least crack a smile?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
15. I thought the PDA between a school official and the child was more unusual, but that's apparently
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:29 PM
Oct 2017

just me.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
19. I hope it is an open adoption and they keep her in touch with as many biological relatives
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:01 PM
Oct 2017

as possible.

I also hope they get her copies of her original birth certificate before the state seals it away forever.

Her identity and heritage should not be wiped out. Good adoptive parents know that they should be cherished.

HelenWheels

(2,284 posts)
26. This also happened in my family
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 02:25 PM
Oct 2017

My granddaughter and her husband adopted an eight year old girl who they had fostered for two years. They started adoption procedures well over a year ago but it takes so long for the adoption to go through. They had a big adoption party for her that was attended by many friends and family members. It was a very happy time for all.

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