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vlyons

(10,252 posts)
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:21 PM Oct 2017

In retrospect, what did you like best about Obama?

Now that Trump keep flashing his butt-ugly stupidity every day, I have come to really appreciate how careful he was in his speech. He frequently would pause in mid-sentence to consider and choose the best word of phrase to communicate his thoughts without unneccesarily riling up rancor.

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In retrospect, what did you like best about Obama? (Original Post) vlyons Oct 2017 OP
The fact that I could go about my day calmly knowing that there was an adult holding the reins. Squinch Oct 2017 #1
no drama obama lapfog_1 Oct 2017 #2
For eight years I could wake up without thinking, "What the fuck did he do now?" rzemanfl Oct 2017 #3
His complete LACK of insanity. He was so totally stable, Pathwalker Oct 2017 #4
He is one of the most mentally healthy people to ever hold the office. phleshdef Oct 2017 #5
No scandals zipplewrath Oct 2017 #6
No scandals bdamomma Oct 2017 #36
Ya gotta go back to Carter zipplewrath Oct 2017 #60
his intelligence & steadiness sweetroxie Oct 2017 #7
His mind-blowing brilliance. The man seems to know everything Glorfindel Oct 2017 #8
I could go to sleep at night w/o wondering what kind of shit I was going to wake up to Motley13 Oct 2017 #9
He made me feel safe. n/t LuckyCharms Oct 2017 #10
Basically that I didn't wake up afraid to put on the news every day. n/t LisaM Oct 2017 #11
He got the ACA "Obamacare" done. JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2017 #12
He was the only politician in my lifetime who could grab me LanternWaste Oct 2017 #13
His sense of decency. CentralMass Oct 2017 #14
He was born with a sense of decency. amerikat Oct 2017 #44
All of... 3catwoman3 Oct 2017 #15
this bluestarone Oct 2017 #42
He is unequivicably a much better person than I am or will ever be. Brains, dedication, courage, mulsh Oct 2017 #16
His Calm Maturity Coupled with Stunning Brilliance Leith Oct 2017 #17
Obama was/is trustworthy. lpbk2713 Oct 2017 #18
Not waking up every morning and checking the news to see if he'd started a war (n/t) Spider Jerusalem Oct 2017 #19
Your description has a one word expression in English. Republicans won't like it. DFW Oct 2017 #20
It's called right speech vlyons Oct 2017 #25
I loved that he and Michelle never, ever lost their cool! lunatica Oct 2017 #21
Honesty madokie Oct 2017 #22
His smile and his sense of humor. Vinca Oct 2017 #23
Aside from politics, I liked how the Obamas made the White House the people's house. demmiblue Oct 2017 #24
His equipoise Billy Jingo Oct 2017 #26
My wife and I were talking about this and I have to say that it is his humanity. Caliman73 Oct 2017 #27
His kindness and humanity. yardwork Oct 2017 #28
his humility and the fact that neither he nor Michelle ever forgot their roots rurallib Oct 2017 #29
The fact that he was an intelligent, humane grown-up. Paladin Oct 2017 #30
That he was a great president in all the ways that matter and his charcter is second to none. applegrove Oct 2017 #31
Reading this thread brought me to tears. yardwork Oct 2017 #32
He is everything that Trump is not and Trump wishes he could be! imanamerican63 Oct 2017 #33
He wasn't Bush. ananda Oct 2017 #34
His maturity and obvious empathy tymorial Oct 2017 #35
Everything. Everything mentioned above. smirkymonkey Oct 2017 #37
His humanity. That and he always reminded me of Spock kydo Oct 2017 #38
He was a professional bdamomma Oct 2017 #39
He brought some normalcy back to government. Willie Pep Oct 2017 #40
Entire world was jealous of America of this Brilliant Man leading us ... MyNameIsKhan Oct 2017 #41
Barack had the decision making maturity, stature, inner confidence, ability to keep focused on .. dubyadiprecession Oct 2017 #43
He is calm, reads stuff before making decisions and he is sane. nt Blue_true Oct 2017 #45
His dignity. nancy1942 Oct 2017 #46
He didn't start any new wars Dirty Socialist Oct 2017 #47
President Obama Girl powers Oct 2017 #48
Pres. Obama was a genuinely good person and told the truth...agree with him or not... Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #49
Honesty. Competence. Confidence during tough times. Leadership. Nt Weekend Warrior Oct 2017 #50
Safe... Mike Nelson Oct 2017 #51
Stability redstatebluegirl Oct 2017 #52
Everything! coolsandy Oct 2017 #53
Smart, sane and "of the people, by the people and for the people!" democratisphere Oct 2017 #54
His grace under pressure leftynyc Oct 2017 #55
He never gave me nightmares of dying in a nuclear holocaust. GoCubsGo Oct 2017 #56
The fact that he saw each and every American as valuable to society and treated all with respect, woodsprite Oct 2017 #57
Intelligence. Compassion. Competence. C_U_L8R Oct 2017 #58
his smile..it was comforting.. samnsara Oct 2017 #59
He was/is a THOUGHTFUL ADULT. bullwinkle428 Oct 2017 #61
That, his intelligence treestar Oct 2017 #62
You nailed it. He was a deliberative thinker. Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2017 #63

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
1. The fact that I could go about my day calmly knowing that there was an adult holding the reins.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:25 PM
Oct 2017

I trusted him and thought he was a man of honor. I felt that he would represent me with intelligence and, again, honor.

lapfog_1

(29,205 posts)
2. no drama obama
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:25 PM
Oct 2017

he was given perhaps the shitiest hand to play and played it exceptionally well.

imagine he coming into office now, with a decent economy and mostly peace in the world (negating what trump is trying to stir up)

rzemanfl

(29,565 posts)
3. For eight years I could wake up without thinking, "What the fuck did he do now?"
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:27 PM
Oct 2017

Last edited Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:41 PM - Edit history (1)

How was I to know Dubyah was Drumpf-lite?

Pathwalker

(6,598 posts)
4. His complete LACK of insanity. He was so totally stable,
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:27 PM
Oct 2017

so eloquent, so cool, so Presidential. And he sang wonderfully, too. Sigh.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
6. No scandals
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:29 PM
Oct 2017

8 long years with a very hostile congress and they really could cook up no scandals. The two worst were Bengazi which was a total joke, and Patraeus' infidelity, who was a Bush hold over. No way to pin it on Obama.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
60. Ya gotta go back to Carter
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 09:36 AM
Oct 2017

Really, between Iran Contra, all the way through to the missing emails of GW's administration, you can't find a "scandal free" admin until Obama.

Glorfindel

(9,730 posts)
8. His mind-blowing brilliance. The man seems to know everything
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:30 PM
Oct 2017

And he's able to share his knowledge in a manner that is understandable without being condescending. You're right about his careful speech. Thanks for a very interesting question.

Motley13

(3,867 posts)
9. I could go to sleep at night w/o wondering what kind of shit I was going to wake up to
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:31 PM
Oct 2017

We have lost respect from the rest of the world. We are no longer the leader of the free world, how long will it take us to get that back?



JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,343 posts)
12. He got the ACA "Obamacare" done.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:40 PM
Oct 2017

Yeah, it's not single-payer, and there's no "public option" insurance available, but it's a big step in a good direction.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
13. He was the only politician in my lifetime who could grab me
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:42 PM
Oct 2017

He was the only politician in my lifetime who could grab me, excite me and inspire me with the grandeur and beautiful brilliance of oratory.

amerikat

(4,909 posts)
44. He was born with a sense of decency.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 09:48 PM
Oct 2017

You can't fake that. He loved his wife and children and understood that others did too.
His honesty and ability to distill the information into policy. Sure do miss him.

mulsh

(2,959 posts)
16. He is unequivicably a much better person than I am or will ever be. Brains, dedication, courage,
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 04:57 PM
Oct 2017

looks, sense of humor he's hands down much superior to me.

In fact in my lifetime he is the only politician or public figure I can honestly say that about & I just turned 60. Sorry MLK, RFK etc.

my basic proof: He is able to live happily with his wife, teen age daughters, and mother-in-law. which is sort of joke until you examine its implications.

Leith

(7,809 posts)
17. His Calm Maturity Coupled with Stunning Brilliance
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:00 PM
Oct 2017

While still staying in touch with his inner "every person."

lpbk2713

(42,757 posts)
18. Obama was/is trustworthy.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:04 PM
Oct 2017


You could depend on him to keep his word and to do what he said he would.
This asshole we're stuck with now can't be trusted for one second.

DFW

(54,397 posts)
20. Your description has a one word expression in English. Republicans won't like it.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:09 PM
Oct 2017

Being careful in what you say, thinking things out before saying them, the word that describes that approach is "conservative."

Republicans think they own that word, and that it means the opposite of "liberal." And in Republicanese, of course, it does. But in English, it does not. Republicans hate hearing that Obama was FAR more conservative than any of their wild-eyed radicals, but as far as the English definition of the word goes, he embodied the concept.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
25. It's called right speech
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:28 PM
Oct 2017

In Buddhism, it's that part of the Noble 8-Fold path call "Right Speech," which is to never lie, never use harsh words, to speak gently, and to not use words that cause dissention within the community. Quite a contrast with that fool in the WH now.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
21. I loved that he and Michelle never, ever lost their cool!
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:11 PM
Oct 2017

Now we have someone who can't find his. He never got the satisfaction of seeing President Obama angry.

Oh! Among other things I also love the way Obama put him down at the Correspondent's Dinner that year. Everyone laughed their asses off at Covfefe.

Vinca

(50,273 posts)
23. His smile and his sense of humor.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:35 PM
Oct 2017

He's got great comedic timing. Sadly, I'm convinced his Trump jokes at the press event were the catalyst for "The Moron" to run.

demmiblue

(36,855 posts)
24. Aside from politics, I liked how the Obamas made the White House the people's house.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:45 PM
Oct 2017

The warmth they displayed as first family was infectious and genuine. Trips to area schools/shelters, Bo & Sunny, the vegetable garden, Girl Scout camp outs on the White House lawn, the science fairs, the hours staying up late to respond to letters from constituents, ALL the holidays, Michelle and Carpool Karoke, the people who were suprised by the FLOTUS and POTUS during White House visits (especially older African Americans), the comraderie between Barack and Joe, the celebration of the arts, etc..

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
27. My wife and I were talking about this and I have to say that it is his humanity.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:36 PM
Oct 2017

People talk about how they would like to have a beer with W Bush, how he's just a "down to earth guy". I just thought W was kind of a dunce. A jovial clown. I don't have anything particular against a class clown, but it just isn't my cup of tea.

I would love to have a beer with President Obama. I cannot imagine the conversation we could have about a myriad of topics, cause the man was cerebral, but seemed super easy to relate to. He was just a human being who was doing the best he could (obviously he had a vast array of tools to do the job, but you could see the gears turning and the work he was doing. President Clinton was folksy and friendly, but there was still an little air of superiority there. I never saw that with President Obama. He was just solid. His intelligence was just there, just a part of him. He never put it in peoples' faces. Those who saw him as an elitist were just probably not very smart and were threatened by a Black man being smarter than they are. Me, I like to learn so I would have picked Obama's brain on all kinds of stuff.

rurallib

(62,416 posts)
29. his humility and the fact that neither he nor Michelle ever forgot their roots
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:38 PM
Oct 2017

he would actually read letters to him and respond.

As a side to this - the fact that he understood he was not the office, he was merely the current occupant.

imanamerican63

(13,798 posts)
33. He is everything that Trump is not and Trump wishes he could be!
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:40 PM
Oct 2017

Honest to a tee! Not at a golf course either!
Gentle! Knows how to show sympathy and plays well w/others!
Well respected! Did not crave for respect from the American public!
Outstanding speaker! He is eloquent with his words and does need the best words to get his point across!

Did I miss anything?

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
37. Everything. Everything mentioned above.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:46 PM
Oct 2017

We had it so good with him. I can't believe how low we have sunk with this assclown in the Oval Office. He is a disgrace to the office and Obama elevated it. I would do anything to have him and his family back.

kydo

(2,679 posts)
38. His humanity. That and he always reminded me of Spock
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:47 PM
Oct 2017

I loved Spock. He made a better human then most of the humans he served with.

Obama is one of the best humans to walk this planet.

That orange creature isn't even human. I think most people on this good earth will be happy when it ceases to exists.

bdamomma

(63,868 posts)
39. He was a professional
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:54 PM
Oct 2017

a wonderful speaker, articulate, passionate, caring, just felt you were safe, and he cared about people......sigh
and a warm smile, and was not born with a silver spoon in his mouth.


I welcomed the change that came to America.......and felt we were moving on and growing up as a people and a nation.


Now look at us.....................I need not to say anything else.

Willie Pep

(841 posts)
40. He brought some normalcy back to government.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:58 PM
Oct 2017

Or at least tried to. Obama can't be faulted for the craziness of the GOP. But after the disastrous Bush years it felt good having a normal person at the helm of the Federal government again.

dubyadiprecession

(5,711 posts)
43. Barack had the decision making maturity, stature, inner confidence, ability to keep focused on ..
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 09:20 PM
Oct 2017

his agenda and stay above the fray. Plus, his political opponents, like John McCain respected him.

Don the con has money, but can't buy what Barack had.

nancy1942

(635 posts)
46. His dignity.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 10:36 PM
Oct 2017

A quality the current squatter in the White House will never have. He doesn't know the meaning of the word.

Demsrule86

(68,582 posts)
49. Pres. Obama was a genuinely good person and told the truth...agree with him or not...
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 06:04 AM
Oct 2017

I didn't like the TPP as written, but I knew Pres. Obama had a different view of trade when I voted for him. I will never forget the joy in 08 and 12 after working my fanny off to get him elected...and 12 was tough. It turned out fine,but it was tough. He was a great president and is a great man. My family had a picture of Roosevelt amongst family pictures...and I still have it...and have added a Picture of Obama and his family...one of the Christmas cards I received...enlarged it and framed it. He like Roosevelt saved this country. People don't understand how dire it was in 2009...without President Obama's careful strategy using the Fed mostly since the Republican traitors were more than willing to let the country fail in order win election...we would have had another depression. Also,He saved the autos and my husband's job...without President Obama, the country that gave birth to the automobile would have no longer manufactured them just as we don't make electronics and clothing these days.

Mike Nelson

(9,956 posts)
51. Safe...
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 07:17 AM
Oct 2017

...competent, conservative (small "c&quot , and classy.

PS: He has "a very good brain," unlike some other Presidents!

PSII: His "scandals" were FOX news fakes. We lose people, sadly; other Presidents lose more (like Reagan in Lebanon). And, his "crimes" according to FOX are not crimes because his did (Executive Orders) what he thought legal - and other Presidents have been more successfully challenged for doing unconstitutional stuff!

President Obama will be considered one of the Greatest.


redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
52. Stability
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 07:20 AM
Oct 2017

I didn't wake up every day wondering what he had done to us overnight. I was not appalled at his behavior in public. I did not worry that the white supremisists were taking over. He family was beautiful and stable, he was able to put together a complete sentence. I could go on and on. Truthfully, now that we have this monster, GWB looks sane.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
55. His grace under pressure
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 07:28 AM
Oct 2017

His ability to face the ugliest the right wing threw at him and hold his head high and continue doing what he thought was best for his country.

GoCubsGo

(32,084 posts)
56. He never gave me nightmares of dying in a nuclear holocaust.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 07:39 AM
Oct 2017

And, he never had me saying "I wish I could move to Canada." every five minutes. What I liked best was that he actually gave me hope that our country would get better than it is. That hope is long gone. I wish I could move to Canada.

woodsprite

(11,916 posts)
57. The fact that he saw each and every American as valuable to society and treated all with respect,
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 07:41 AM
Oct 2017

Trump sees everyone as something to use or discard for his own or his cronies enrichment.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
62. That, his intelligence
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 11:04 AM
Oct 2017

humor, smile, tact, considerateness, baby-whisper abilities, kindness, honesty, so many things.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
63. You nailed it. He was a deliberative thinker.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 11:07 AM
Oct 2017

And as someone who is also a deliberative thinker--I express myself much better in writing where I can pause and edit as opposed to speaking from the stump--I really appreciated that from the President.

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