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Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:05 PM Oct 2017

Judge grants rapist joint custody of victim's child.

Last week, Michigan Judge Gregory S. Ross granted a rapist joint custody of his victim's eight-year-old son.

The rapist, Christopher Mirasolo, was convicted of raping the woman when she was 12 years old, resulting in her becoming pregnant. Nine years later, after the woman applied for assistance from the state, Judge Ross gave Mirasolo the woman's address, ordered that Mirasolo be added to the child's birth certificate, and granted him custody rights and parenting time--all without her consent.

Note that the rapist did not ask for any parental rights, custody, or to have his name added to the birth certificate. The mother didn't even know that custody was in question. But, the judge showed an appalling lack of judicial sense.

See:

http://www.mlive.com/news/saginaw/index.ssf/2017/10/man_did_not_seek_joint_custody.html

http://www.eclectablog.com/2017/10/judge-who-awarded-michigan-rapist-joint-custody-with-the-woman-he-raped-as-a-child-had-other-options.html

There are a couple of petitions circulating to remove the judge from the bench.

See:

https://act.weareultraviolet.org/sign/judge_ross/?t=2&akid=9195%2E2152271%2EAOmfq7




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Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
1. What in the devil is wrong with these judges? Makes no sense whatsoever.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 05:48 PM
Oct 2017

Not only raped at 12, but then carried the baby to term? That's bad enough. Now, bring the rapist back into her life and share in custody? Good lord. What could possibly be his reasoning?

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
3. i am pretty sure its so the state can go after him for any..
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:39 PM
Oct 2017

.. state assistance she and child may have received.

When I was a hospital social worker working with single moms, if the woman applied for public assistance, the state would insist on the name of the father so they can go after them for child support. Many pregnancies indeed were the result of rapes...or one night stands or some other situation where the FOB (father of baby) had NO right to be in babies life. So..... I encouraged the women to just say 'unknown' on the birth certificate.

So..in the above case the FOB may not even know anything until the state sends him a bill for hundreds or even thousands of $$ for repayment.

And why isn't that SOB FOB in jail? And why isn't he registered as a sex offender who shouldn't even be around children. If that's the case then maybe all the judge did was acknowledge him for child support reasons.

Lets hope.

Volaris

(10,271 posts)
5. He raped a child. Why isn't he still in prison???
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:45 PM
Oct 2017

If he IS still in prison, the amount of child support he would be required to pay is next to nothing (to my knowledge it's income-based), if he's not in prison...WHY is he not in prison HE RAPED A CHILD!!!

Doesn't matter what the judges reason is, it isn't Good Enough. Yes, remove him from the Bench. Do that YESTERDAY.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
6. He is a convicted sex offender.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:45 PM
Oct 2017

"A Sanilac County Circuit judge has granted parenting time and joint legal custody of an 8-year-old boy to a convicted sex offender who allegedly raped the child’s mother nine years ago."

http://www.detroitnews.com/story/news/local/michigan/2017/10/06/rape-victim-attacker-joint-child-custody/106374256/

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
10. Not to change the subject
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:14 PM
Oct 2017

But did you say that in the case of one night stands, fathers didn’t have rights? Or am I just misunderstanding your list?

I agree, otherwise, 100% — although I don’t really care if the judge was trying to get the state reimbursed for welfare. That seems like an insane and petty reason.

brush

(53,784 posts)
11. 12-years-old? IMO the parents needed to do the right thing for their child
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 10:55 PM
Oct 2017

Who leaves a decision like that to a child?

Now she has to share custody with her rapist.

WTF?

missingthebigdog

(1,233 posts)
8. The Judge has stayed this decision
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 06:48 PM
Oct 2017
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.detroitnews.com/amp/106496800

It appears that the judge may not have known the circumstances in this case. Neither the mother nor the rapist participated- mom is getting public assistance of some kind, so child support enforcement brought the case "on her behalf." This particular judge may grant joint legal custody by default in these cases.

None of that excuses any of what has happened, but is a possible explanation, at least...

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
9. good to have decisions based on limited facts
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:08 PM
Oct 2017

the judge should resign or at least hold himself in contempt of court for a year .......... jail time

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