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SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
Sat Nov 11, 2017, 01:24 AM Nov 2017

FYI to predatory men..(you know who you are)

First off, I am a 68 yr old married woman with 3 grown sons..

I was molested as a child (age 6 to 13)..It messed me up, but I prevailed and went to college...had a career ...raised three well-adjusted men..have been married for nearly 48 years...no alcoholism, drug use, domestic abuse..

There are some things we know about you predators.., but perhaps you do not know about yourselves (or try NOT to know)..

We,especially when we are very young, do not want:

to see your dick
to touch it
to kiss it
to have you put it anywhere near us

we do not want you to :

touch/fondle us
kiss us
make us your "special friend"/"angel"/"honey"

you may think you are flattering us by paying attention to us, but most of us would rather NOT have your attention.

Perhaps we are afraid of what you might do if we do not "play along"..perhaps we are worried that your threats to our family might be real..perhaps we think no one would believe us...who knows..

many times we do not tell right away...we will tell as soon as we feel safe enough, even if it's too late to see you punished

the facts are simple.

if you are so twisted that people of your own age will not go out with you , it's a problem with YOU.. You are a vile creature if you can only pleasure yourself, by molesting children far younger than yourself..

we also know that you do not "grow out of it", even if society prods you to marry for the sake of your career..we know you will continue to "do your thing" even if it's your own children you abuse...

the only way you stop is if you are prosecuted/jailed or you die.

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FYI to predatory men..(you know who you are) (Original Post) SoCalDem Nov 2017 OP
K&R Solly Mack Nov 2017 #1
Well put and nicely written FakeNoose Nov 2017 #2
I think castration would deter a few. BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #3
Thank you. knr nt The Polack MSgt Nov 2017 #4
Thank you and I am sorry for what you went through. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #5
👏🏾. 👏🏾. 👏🏾. 👏🏾. 👏🏾. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2017 #6
they know the attention is unwanted Skittles Nov 2017 #7

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
2. Well put and nicely written
Sat Nov 11, 2017, 01:33 AM
Nov 2017

I'm sorry that there are probably no sexual pedators reading this on DU. But you never know.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that at such a young age too. It was probably someone close to your family and trusted. What a world!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
5. Thank you and I am sorry for what you went through.
Sat Nov 11, 2017, 03:07 AM
Nov 2017

I appreciate your post and I hope that your message was heard by those it was intended to reach.

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