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http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-brightbill-roy-moore-evangelical-culture-20171110-story,amp.htmlOp-Ed Roy Moore's alleged pursuit of a young girl is the symptom of a larger problem in evangelical circles
We need to talk about the segment of American culture that probably doesnt think the allegations against Republican Senate candidate Roy Moore are particularly damning, the segment that will blanch at only two accusations in the Washington Post expose: He pursued a 14-year-old-girl without first getting her parents permission, and he initiated sexual contact outside of marriage. That segment is evangelicalism. In that world, which Moore travels in and I grew up in, 14-year-old girls courting adult men isnt uncommon.
I use the phrase 14-year-old girls courting adult men, rather than adult men courting 14-year-old girls, for a reason: Evangelicals routinely frame these relationships in those terms. Thats how I was introduced to these relationships as a home-schooled teenager in the 1990s, and its the language that my friends and I would use to discuss girls we knew who were in parent-sanctioned relationships with older men.
One popular courtship story that was told and retold in home-school circles during the 1990s was that of Matthew and Maranatha Chapman, who turned their history into a successful career promoting young marriage. Most audiences, however, didnt realize just how young the Chapmans had in mind until the site Homeschoolers Anonymous and the blogger Libby Anne revealed that Matthew was 27 and Maranatha was 15 when they married. Libby Anne also drew mainstream attention to Matthew Chapmans writings, in which he argued that parents should consider marriage for their daughters in their middle-teens. At that point the Chapmans stopped receiving quite so many speaking invitations.
(Big SNIP after paragraphs about home schooling evangelicals, family camps to arrange marriages, and Phil Robertson, etc. )
The allegations against Roy Moore are merely a symptom of a larger problem. Its not a Southern problem or an Alabama problem. Its a Christian fundamentalist problem. Billy Grahams grandson, Boz Tchividjian, who leads the organization GRACE (Godly Response to Abuse in a Christian Environment), believes that the sexual abuse problem in Protestant communities is on par with that in the Catholic Church.
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no_hypocrisy
(46,122 posts)Loretta Lynn was 15 when she married Mooney (age 21) one month after meeting him.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loretta_Lynn#Birth.2C_parents_and_siblings.2C_and_famous_relatives
Jerry Lee Lewis married Myra Gayle Brown (first cousin, once removed) when she was 13 and he was 22.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerry_Lee_Lewis#Marriage_controversy
It's how things were/are done in some parts of the South with the blessings of their churches.
lindysalsagal
(20,692 posts)I was just wondering, and it's a little scary: Some states allow marriage with a court order especially in the case of a teen pregnancy. Holy crap. All you have to do is knock her up, and bingo! Her parents and a judge might just give her to you.
I had no idea.
Alabama minimum is 14. MIssissippi is 15. Montana is 16. NY 14. WOW!
We have child labor laws, but not marriage laws. That's messed up.
https://www.thespruce.com/legal-age-marriage-laws-by-state-2300971
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)that we criticize for being poor on women's rights.
lindysalsagal
(20,692 posts)The median age for marriage for women is 4 points lower than in high-median states.
http://www.pewresearch.org/2009/10/15/the-states-of-marriage-and-divorce/
dalton99a
(81,516 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)on the website for GRACE. Several were really good, explaining what churches must do when they discover sex offenders and victims within the church.