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Cicada

(4,533 posts)
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:26 AM Nov 2017

Too risky to nominate a man in 2020

We have an advantage because Trump has sexually assaulted women and is a sexist pig. But if even Al Franken can be linked to sexual misbehavior I can’t be confident that any man might have past problems. And then the Repub will say that the Dem is no different. I think I’m about as supportive of women as anyone can be but thinking back to graduate school I am ashamed of some things I did. A male nominee is risky. Better to go with Klobuchar, Harris, etc.

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Too risky to nominate a man in 2020 (Original Post) Cicada Nov 2017 OP
mkay snooper2 Nov 2017 #1
KamalaHarris2020. femmocrat Nov 2017 #2
I like her but I can hear it now: "California Liberal!" CTyankee Nov 2017 #7
I prefer Klobuchar for that reason n/t TexasBushwhacker Nov 2017 #19
Rural/Suburban America lost the "values" argument when they put a Fascist in charge of it. HughBeaumont Nov 2017 #30
Gillibrand. KPN Nov 2017 #3
I think she is currently out of favor for throwing Bill Clinton under the bus. femmocrat Nov 2017 #11
Possibly. But that may actually work to her favor -- maybe not within the DNC, KPN Nov 2017 #36
I love KG Dorian Gray Nov 2017 #53
I'm on board with her at least. It's got to KPN Nov 2017 #71
Nope. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #55
We should nominate and vote for a woman because she's a woman! yallerdawg Nov 2017 #4
It's too risky to nominate a human. A good, loyal, well-trained dog would be an rzemanfl Nov 2017 #5
I said we should have President Kirkman (Designated Survivor)! femmocrat Nov 2017 #15
Have you ever seen how dogs behave if they are not neutered? LisaL Nov 2017 #18
One question: H2O Man Nov 2017 #28
Nuetered. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #31
Would have to be. LisaL Nov 2017 #32
Would it have H2O Man Nov 2017 #39
Definitely a rescue dog. As long as it doesn't tweet I don't care where it shits. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #42
Just a thought, H2O Man Nov 2017 #44
Drumpf has papers? n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #68
Can't be a female MichMary Nov 2017 #48
It's past time for a woman to have a chance at making things better. Hoyt Nov 2017 #6
I'll be voting for avocado toast. Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #8
Well, if you need something totally above suspicion, and immune to any accusations, LisaL Nov 2017 #14
Only if its gluten free. Nt redwitch Nov 2017 #52
We need a dynamic moderate Democrat to win in 2020; male or female. democratisphere Nov 2017 #9
A sincere question: H2O Man Nov 2017 #29
Dynamic personality. Moderate Democratic positions. democratisphere Nov 2017 #41
We can't attract Republicans NCDem777 Nov 2017 #57
Compromise. We can never make all of the people happy all of the time democratisphere Nov 2017 #59
But Obama can't run for a third term. DFW Nov 2017 #49
We need an Obama-like person to be our candidate. democratisphere Nov 2017 #51
apparently bdamomma Nov 2017 #10
I think we should nominate only women for the next few cycles oberliner Nov 2017 #12
Yes, because there is no way somebody can accuse them of something. LisaL Nov 2017 #17
That's not the reason oberliner Nov 2017 #20
So does Drumpf, just not in the same way.... n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #37
does Rachel Dolezal count? From her interviews she could make a good politician snooper2 Nov 2017 #21
No, we should nominate people who are actually qualified oberliner Nov 2017 #22
Didn't you just post that we should only nominate women? LisaL Nov 2017 #24
Yes oberliner Nov 2017 #25
I am not going to discriminate based solely on gender. LisaL Nov 2017 #26
And you think women are immune from the accusations? LisaL Nov 2017 #13
Yes, pretty much Cicada Nov 2017 #60
I think the last 200+ years agrees with how risky a venture nominating another man is. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #16
I would not mind a female Presidential candidate sharp_stick Nov 2017 #23
How about the best candidate who can win, regardless of optics? n/t X_Digger Nov 2017 #27
Some candidates may seem best but then blow up Cicada Nov 2017 #61
Nonsense, there are plenty of honorable male candidates BoneyardDem Nov 2017 #33
If there is nothing factual in candidate's history, it can be invented. LisaL Nov 2017 #34
...for either gender, crap can be invented BoneyardDem Nov 2017 #46
The risks are hidden Cicada Nov 2017 #62
There are hidden risks in both genders BoneyardDem Nov 2017 #63
Don't shoot yourself in the foot. kentuck Nov 2017 #35
" H2O Man Nov 2017 #40
Smells like sexism Fullduplexxx Nov 2017 #38
and a foul stench it is. nt njhoneybadger Nov 2017 #43
It is sexism. But ok sexism. Cicada Nov 2017 #65
So discrimination against a male Democrat in favor of a less powerful person, a woman,? Fullduplexxx Nov 2017 #67
Why is sexism or racism bad? Cicada Nov 2017 #70
Duckworth or better yet Gabbard NCDem777 Nov 2017 #45
cannot get behind Gabbard BoneyardDem Nov 2017 #47
I can't stand Gabbard. She met with Trump. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #56
It's been too risky for eons! No more! Corvo Bianco Nov 2017 #50
I will vote in the primary for whom I consider the best candidate with who has the best chance of Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #54
I'd go the other way.. Baconator Nov 2017 #58
How about Varys? Maybe it's time for a eunuch Bradshaw3 Nov 2017 #64
Let me see if I understand: You are saying that every US male is tainted by Trump's actions? Thor_MN Nov 2017 #66
After Hillary and the pedophile ring treestar Nov 2017 #69

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
7. I like her but I can hear it now: "California Liberal!"
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:37 AM
Nov 2017

It's the same deal as Bill de Blasio has: New York City Liberal!

They would be accused of "not understanding our values" pushed by the RW.

I thought maybe we could advance a good female Dem by pushing for Klobuchar but learned here at DU some progressives have problems with her.

and Kirsten Gillibrand is a New York senator...

(sigh) I want a good progressive woman on our ballot. But the more that comes out about how voters in 2016 were secretly voting for Trump but lying in the polls, the more I get despondent. (sigh)

HughBeaumont

(24,461 posts)
30. Rural/Suburban America lost the "values" argument when they put a Fascist in charge of it.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:04 PM
Nov 2017

They can't play that card any longer. How long are we going to let "values" be a cloak for assholiness?

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
11. I think she is currently out of favor for throwing Bill Clinton under the bus.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:40 AM
Nov 2017

She might not pass the "purity test."

KPN

(15,647 posts)
36. Possibly. But that may actually work to her favor -- maybe not within the DNC,
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:16 PM
Nov 2017

but otherwise -- with I's, many Ds, and others.

At any rate, if she's out of favor within the DNC for having a correct view, then one has to question the DNCs priorities/fidelity to values really.

Dorian Gray

(13,498 posts)
53. I love KG
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:08 PM
Nov 2017

I know people were upset with her comments re: Bill Clinton. But.....

Out with the old and in with the new.

I'm all on board with another female running for president of our party.

KPN

(15,647 posts)
71. I'm on board with her at least. It's got to
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 06:44 PM
Nov 2017

be someone who stands a good chance and has the right purpose/philosophy/priorities, etc.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
4. We should nominate and vote for a woman because she's a woman!
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:31 AM
Nov 2017

Hillary supporters told y'all that for two years!

Shoulda listened!

rzemanfl

(29,566 posts)
5. It's too risky to nominate a human. A good, loyal, well-trained dog would be an
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:34 AM
Nov 2017

improvement over Drumpf. I'm not even fond of dogs, but it would be too difficult to locate a cat in emergencies.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
15. I said we should have President Kirkman (Designated Survivor)!
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:47 AM
Nov 2017

The fictional character with a cast of writers. We would do far better than we are doing now.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
18. Have you ever seen how dogs behave if they are not neutered?
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:50 AM
Nov 2017

They are not calling some men "dogs" for nothing.

H2O Man

(73,579 posts)
39. Would it have
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:36 PM
Nov 2017

to have papers? Or possibly a shelter dog, that is paper-trained?

I think you are on to something we should explore fully.

H2O Man

(73,579 posts)
44. Just a thought,
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:57 PM
Nov 2017

but if it could be trained to piss and shit upon Trump's papers, it would be ideal.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
14. Well, if you need something totally above suspicion, and immune to any accusations,
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:44 AM
Nov 2017

toast might be best.

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
41. Dynamic personality. Moderate Democratic positions.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:40 PM
Nov 2017

Certainly. We need to attract centrist and moderate redumbliCON votes to secure our Democratic Congress and WH.

 

NCDem777

(458 posts)
57. We can't attract Republicans
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:23 PM
Nov 2017

without alienating our own base. To wit: We nominated Hillary in part because her strong national defense views (interventionism) would attract people concerned about Trump's isolationism.

Instead, we drove off a substantial number of anti-war voters

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
59. Compromise. We can never make all of the people happy all of the time
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:41 PM
Nov 2017

regardless of their political position; left, right or center. We need to appeal to the largest collective majority of people.

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
51. We need an Obama-like person to be our candidate.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 01:58 PM
Nov 2017

Wish Obama could return for a third term. The quest continues on........

bdamomma

(63,913 posts)
10. apparently
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:40 AM
Nov 2017

we have not grown up enough to join the rest of world to have a woman leader when other countries in the world have no problem of having a woman leader. Just saying

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
17. Yes, because there is no way somebody can accuse them of something.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:49 AM
Nov 2017

Like, Hillary was a woman and she was never accused of anything, ever. And it turned out so well because she was elected over the guy accused by multiple women of harassment. Oh, wait...

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
20. That's not the reason
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:50 AM
Nov 2017

I would say we need to balance out the fact that the first 44 US Presidents were all men (and all but one was white).

I think we should have 44 women in a row.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
24. Didn't you just post that we should only nominate women?
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:54 AM
Nov 2017

Which presumably means that even qualified men shouldn't be nominated.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
60. Yes, pretty much
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:44 PM
Nov 2017

Millions of years of evolution seem to have made us males sort of jerks. I will understand when in the future women decide we are more bother than we are worth and start having only daughters.

Or maybe crsprcas9 will allow us to fix our genetic defects.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
16. I think the last 200+ years agrees with how risky a venture nominating another man is.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:48 AM
Nov 2017

"Too risky to nominate a man in 2020"

Lets make a change!!!!!

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
23. I would not mind a female Presidential candidate
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 11:54 AM
Nov 2017

at all but I'll never vote for one in a primary simply because she's female, she's got to be IMO the best candidate.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
61. Some candidates may seem best but then blow up
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:47 PM
Nov 2017

When an unforeseen problem is discovered. Fortunately I find Klobuchar the best candidate anyway.

 

BoneyardDem

(1,202 posts)
33. Nonsense, there are plenty of honorable male candidates
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 12:07 PM
Nov 2017

Obama's behavior was above reproach when it come to treating all persons (including women) respectfully.

Perhaps the potential candidates from all genders needs to look at their own background and history before deciding to put their names forward.

 

BoneyardDem

(1,202 posts)
46. ...for either gender, crap can be invented
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 01:15 PM
Nov 2017

and that crap generally more easily debunked than attempts at covering up than a true transgression.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
62. The risks are hidden
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:51 PM
Nov 2017

A man may seem great, may be great, but then we learn something disappointing. Al Franken is a perfect example. I love him, would be ecstatic were he President, but in a race against Trump charges about Trump being a sexual assaulted would be muted. We need someone who can scream at him full throated and we can not be sure that we men will not have some hidden problem in our past.

 

BoneyardDem

(1,202 posts)
63. There are hidden risks in both genders
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:02 PM
Nov 2017

hence the need for a candidate to know what is potentially problematic in their own history and run for public office accordingly. I cannot and will not vote for a candidate based on the "possibility" of a risk.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
65. It is sexism. But ok sexism.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:03 PM
Nov 2017

Discrimination has two flavors. Regular discrimination and invidious discrimination. As a man I am not worried that I will suffer in any serious way from anti male discrimination. Because we men have so many advantages I have little risk. Discrimination against those in power has little chance of causing much harm. Discrimination against minorities however who are not in power is scary as hell. The majority might really pass laws forbidding minorities from voting, from owning properties. So a white person calling a black person nigger is way way worse than a black person calling me a soda cracker.

So discrimination against a male Democrat in favor of a less powerful person, a woman, does not really bother me. The potential for harm to males in general is not high so this discrimination to achieve a good goal is ok with me.

Fullduplexxx

(7,867 posts)
67. So discrimination against a male Democrat in favor of a less powerful person, a woman,?
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:16 PM
Nov 2017

Well we all draw our lines in the sand but you dont fight sexism with sexism .imo.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
70. Why is sexism or racism bad?
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 05:11 PM
Nov 2017

We oppose them because they do harm. Last I heard, admittedly years ago, 98% of dollars spent by California for contracting went to white men (counting share ownership of corporations etc). So I favored a program which gave minority owned contractors extra points in contract awarding decisions for five years. Then that advantage for that contractor expired. That is racism or at least an advantage based on race. That is a form of racism I support because it does good. I understand that there is a slippery slope but I support the distinction between discrimination, which in some cases is ok with me, and “invidious” discrimination which does harm.

We must think about WHY we oppose discrimination and tailor our actions to eliminate the harm some, most discrimination causes.

Otherwise you agree with those who oppose affirmative action, possibly. At the least you play into their hands.

 

NCDem777

(458 posts)
45. Duckworth or better yet Gabbard
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 01:03 PM
Nov 2017

One is a disabled woman (which will bring out disabled voters). The other is staunchly antiwar.

Pro-war Dems can't beat Rethugs in a Presidential contest

Demsrule86

(68,632 posts)
54. I will vote in the primary for whom I consider the best candidate with who has the best chance of
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:12 PM
Nov 2017

winning...and vote for whoever wins.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
66. Let me see if I understand: You are saying that every US male is tainted by Trump's actions?
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:08 PM
Nov 2017

Sounds kind of sexist to me that each and every natural born male US citizen over the age of 35 is equally guilty in your mind of sexual misbehavior. That kind of generalization has a name and it's called sexism, no matter who it is about or who says it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
69. After Hillary and the pedophile ring
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 04:17 PM
Nov 2017

I have no doubt they will go after any woman that runs with equal zeal.

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