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Serious question - how many DUers over the age of 60 (Original Post) malaise Nov 2017 OP
I'm assuming this is in reference to some news story, right? pnwmom Nov 2017 #1
Texas ReTHUG Barton, Weiner et al malaise Nov 2017 #4
See this, if youre brave: spooky3 Nov 2017 #6
Barton enid602 Nov 2017 #31
Weak of eyes would do better. Pope George Ringo II Nov 2017 #74
Poster boy enid602 Nov 2017 #83
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Nov 2017 #68
Joe Barton (R) from TX send nude photos to LisaL Nov 2017 #11
Yeah, I just saw the scribbled-on one in Twitter. What a narcissistic dolt. nt pnwmom Nov 2017 #22
Were they at least 14? guillaumeb Nov 2017 #32
67 and no TexasProgresive Nov 2017 #2
I'm 70. I get more offers of nude photos in my email than I do about my Nigerian inheritances. rzemanfl Nov 2017 #3
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! Me thinks you win this thread malaise Nov 2017 #9
Yeah, that's freaking nuts njhoneybadger Nov 2017 #5
i see what you did there. n/t Tansy_Gold Nov 2017 #21
I'm betting........ MyOwnPeace Nov 2017 #77
75 dwilso40641 Nov 2017 #7
malaise saidsimplesimon Nov 2017 #8
68-Would never have even considered it and I am not a prude. It just seems very, very stupid to put OregonBlue Nov 2017 #10
Malaise. Do you really think anybody will tell the truth? And how would you know if they did? pangaia Nov 2017 #12
LOL OldHippieChick Nov 2017 #13
That's it right there malaise Nov 2017 #24
My generation (baby boomers) took polaroids onenote Nov 2017 #34
and we had to take the film to be developed and returned.... dawg day Nov 2017 #50
70 and no nude e-mails ever. Shrike47 Nov 2017 #14
73 here. kskiska Nov 2017 #15
4-8 times a day I try to at lease let everybody know I'm still kicking! juxtaposed Nov 2017 #16
Well no NastyRiffraff Nov 2017 #17
Just goes to show the IQ of the people we are electing. OregonBlue Nov 2017 #18
It's beyond stupid to do this shit, period. (n/t) PJMcK Nov 2017 #23
Maybe so, but did we blame the women whose nude selfies were hacked and published onenote Nov 2017 #35
Why would anyone post nude pictures online? PJMcK Nov 2017 #43
It's stupid for politicians of either party to have affairs. But they do. onenote Nov 2017 #37
We just found out that Clinton should have resigned for his. LisaL Nov 2017 #39
Maybe you think so. I disagree. onenote Nov 2017 #47
wrong ! stonecutter357 Nov 2017 #129
spoken in the voice saidsimplesimon Nov 2017 #64
70, and, I'll go check my spam folder and get back to you. JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 2017 #19
ROFL malaise Nov 2017 #25
ADMIT IT, JUSTABOZOONTHISBUS Skittles Nov 2017 #115
Well, sure. Isn't everybody's? JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 2017 #122
Not photos, but, well... Wounded Bear Nov 2017 #20
Not I - close lisa58 Nov 2017 #26
Im (well) under 60. Never received nor sent them. I really dont get sending them online since it anneboleyn Nov 2017 #27
Same here. It has always seemed to me like an incredibly stupid and risky thing to do. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #114
I've been on the net since the early 90's nocoincidences Nov 2017 #28
66, and no. guillaumeb Nov 2017 #29
Not only republicans, of course. See,e.g., Anthony Weiner onenote Nov 2017 #38
True. With all the publicity one would think that people would understand guillaumeb Nov 2017 #40
Weiner had to resign for adult sexting. LisaL Nov 2017 #41
Weiner resigned because he lied about sexting multiple twitter followers, onenote Nov 2017 #61
This story just took a dramatic turn onenote Nov 2017 #105
62 here shanti Nov 2017 #30
Ewwwwwwwwwwww! malaise Nov 2017 #72
No nt Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #33
Many years ago a girlfriend gave me some Polaroids. (yeah, I'm that old) Yonnie3 Nov 2017 #36
62 and hell no!! kairos12 Nov 2017 #42
Not over 60, but this has never been a thing for me. cwydro Nov 2017 #44
I often send them out. OilemFirchen Nov 2017 #45
K&R, LOL. Or, "is this a terminal condition?". KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2017 #51
...And the CORRECT ANSWER is.... Stallion Nov 2017 #117
K&R... spanone Nov 2017 #46
I'm over 60 and have not flotsam Nov 2017 #48
70 Y.O. male, and never, never, never. KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2017 #49
I don't want to know anyone who would want a nude photo of me. CanonRay Nov 2017 #52
Well...I only been 60 for a week so it's a might soon for me to vote. CincyDem Nov 2017 #53
Belated Happy Birthday malaise Nov 2017 #85
A very young 68. L. Coyote Nov 2017 #54
We sent nude daguerreotypes in our day. nt marybourg Nov 2017 #55
Cave drawings. They're probably still there. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2017 #73
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Wipes eyes. Bows deeply irisblue Nov 2017 #92
DUzy malaise Nov 2017 #94
Bwahahaha But they're ART VOX Nov 2017 #108
Hope It Was Warm! ProfessorGAC Nov 2017 #121
68 and no, but my husband took photos of some partially clothed... Tikki Nov 2017 #56
Probably a few, but I delete them before I open them DFW Nov 2017 #57
I am over 60..answer NO Stuart G Nov 2017 #58
60 and I've never sent a nude photo nor do I want to receive one from anyone blueinredohio Nov 2017 #59
Been on the internet since AOL and that damned log on warble with the modem dhol82 Nov 2017 #60
Never... radical noodle Nov 2017 #62
I haven't. H2O Man Nov 2017 #63
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Nov 2017 #69
I mysteriously ended up on Fredericks of Hollywood mailing list Brother Buzz Nov 2017 #65
Nah malaise Nov 2017 #89
never trof Nov 2017 #66
Only of my dog. spiderpig Nov 2017 #67
Love it malaise Nov 2017 #71
I'll be 61 in January TexasBushwhacker Nov 2017 #70
I'm a 59 Year Old Male--I Gratefully Receive But Don't Reciprocate Stallion Nov 2017 #75
Haha...on one of those new fangled cell phones? Maybe not... Sancho Nov 2017 #76
Well when I was in the category of... discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2017 #78
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Nov 2017 #97
Your face is too cute discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2017 #125
I've got some being developed at the Fotomat. n/t cloudbase Nov 2017 #79
"At Fotomat, your photo matters!" Jim Lane Nov 2017 #106
God forbid! greatauntoftriplets Nov 2017 #80
It's so funny you posted this. Earlier today, as I sat laughing at the Barton photo, Vinca Nov 2017 #81
Seriously I am freaking shocked malaise Nov 2017 #95
This was literally my husband and my conversation tonight! erinlough Nov 2017 #110
Back in the day, we had no internet C_U_L8R Nov 2017 #82
LOL i thought you were plling how many were 60+ Takket Nov 2017 #84
I don't even like looking at myself nude in the full mirror, louis c Nov 2017 #86
Never riverwalker Nov 2017 #87
Never sent. Once, though, MineralMan Nov 2017 #88
age 73...never. n/t frogmarch Nov 2017 #90
This guy fits your demographics. DURHAM D Nov 2017 #91
Good effin' grief malaise Nov 2017 #119
Just turned 60 Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Nov 2017 #93
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Nov 2017 #96
68, and I can't even stand to be in holiday group photos. VOX Nov 2017 #98
Not me nt doc03 Nov 2017 #99
When I first heard of sexting, my immediate thought was, "God, how stupid can you get." highplainsdem Nov 2017 #100
It's not like there were no ways back then... hunter Nov 2017 #101
I always wondered about the target market for the Polaroid "Swinger"... The_jackalope Nov 2017 #109
Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Nov 2017 #120
64, never sent or received. SammyWinstonJack Nov 2017 #102
Ive never even taken a selfie Lebam in LA Nov 2017 #103
Neither have I! I thought I was the only smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #116
Sounds like we are twins Lebam in LA Nov 2017 #123
Me either. I don't like being photographed, even with clothes on The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2017 #126
At my prime the sight of me in all my glory was not for the faint of heart KentuckyWoman Nov 2017 #104
I'm 71 left-of-center2012 Nov 2017 #107
Lots of good, morally upstanding responses on this thread. The_jackalope Nov 2017 #111
I suppose some did, I was never that stupid. I never wanted it coming back to haunt me. erinlough Nov 2017 #112
Well I was a professional photographer back then. The_jackalope Nov 2017 #113
68....HELL NO ! SoCalDem Nov 2017 #118
Over 60 and like everyone in our generation we know that internet photos grantcart Nov 2017 #124
Nope, not from friends and acquaintances Vogon_Glory Nov 2017 #127
Never. ghostsinthemachine Nov 2017 #128
You have a listserv you aren't telling us about? Don't bogart that. nt fleabiscuit Nov 2017 #130
Huh? You lost me there malaise Nov 2017 #131

rzemanfl

(29,565 posts)
3. I'm 70. I get more offers of nude photos in my email than I do about my Nigerian inheritances.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:40 PM
Nov 2017

They get deleted the same way the inheritance letters do. Sent? Give me a break.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
8. malaise
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:40 PM
Nov 2017

I am laughing, not at you, with you. Nudity is not my thing, protection of minors is. Serious answer, yes, spam mail and hackers

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
10. 68-Would never have even considered it and I am not a prude. It just seems very, very stupid to put
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:41 PM
Nov 2017

nude or private pics of yourself out where others might be able to access them. On the other hand, I'm 68 and I doubt anyone would want to access them.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
12. Malaise. Do you really think anybody will tell the truth? And how would you know if they did?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:41 PM
Nov 2017



I'm not telling, ...either way.



OldHippieChick

(2,434 posts)
13. LOL
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:41 PM
Nov 2017

This is so NOT what my generation did. We are now too old to want to see one another in the all-together. Many would have participated had they been able I am sure.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
34. My generation (baby boomers) took polaroids
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:08 PM
Nov 2017

Or they took film photos and had them developed. They couldn't transmit them online because there was no such thing.

But if there was, I have no doubt plenty of people would have.

As for that generation now that it's in its 60s -- well, there are lots of things my father wouldn't have done at age 60 that I would have no problem doing.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
50. and we had to take the film to be developed and returned....
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:25 PM
Nov 2017

by some leering clerk. This would discourage us from taking such photos.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
17. Well no
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:43 PM
Nov 2017

It would never occur to me to send one, and I hope I never receive one.

BTW, it's beyond stupid to do this shit if you're a politician in the age of the internet.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
35. Maybe so, but did we blame the women whose nude selfies were hacked and published
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:09 PM
Nov 2017

or did we blame the hackers for invading their privacy?

PJMcK

(22,037 posts)
43. Why would anyone post nude pictures online?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:17 PM
Nov 2017

The hackers were bad. No question about it.

But the material was out there. Why would women make these personal pictures available in cyberspace? We've heard time and again that the internet is permanent. If you post it, you have to own it.

Regardless of all of this, I believe we live in a dangerously restrictive society that denies far too much about human sexuality.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,350 posts)
122. Well, sure. Isn't everybody's?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 08:37 AM
Nov 2017

I only go into the spam folders to read the articles, of course.

Happy Thanksgiving!

(There are also some amazing ways to get rich, all sent to us in our spam folders. Who knew?)

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
27. Im (well) under 60. Never received nor sent them. I really dont get sending them online since it
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:05 PM
Nov 2017

is so risky, and that’s even when you know and trust the person to whom you are sending them. I always seemed to be in long-term relationships, and these photos seem to be sent to people that the sender is trying to entice into a sexual relationship (I guess — nude art is beautiful but not these nude selfies that we’ve been seeing lately!) Of course the problem is they are out there forever and why a CONGRESSMAN would do this is just totally beyond me. There is a recklessness about it that is amazing.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
114. Same here. It has always seemed to me like an incredibly stupid and risky thing to do.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:34 AM
Nov 2017

Once they are out there, you never really know where they could end up. I just don't understand why so many people take the chance.

nocoincidences

(2,220 posts)
28. I've been on the net since the early 90's
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:06 PM
Nov 2017

and I am now approaching 70. Not one from anyone. But I don't hang around sites that would elicit it.

I am just a boring person.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
29. 66, and no.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:06 PM
Nov 2017

But I am not a GOP politician. That subset of Americans apparently sends and receives many such photos.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
38. Not only republicans, of course. See,e.g., Anthony Weiner
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:13 PM
Nov 2017

Stupidity in this regard crosses party lines. But people still can't come to grips that there is no such thing as "privacy" any more.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
40. True. With all the publicity one would think that people would understand
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:14 PM
Nov 2017

that whatever you post or email might show up in the news.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
61. Weiner resigned because he lied about sexting multiple twitter followers,
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:35 PM
Nov 2017

some of whom were decades younger than him, none of whom he had any actual relationship with, and because, in his own words, it was "most important" that he leave Congress and work on healing his marriage.

Much different set of facts. Barton, scum as he is in terms of his politics, was separated from his wife, and communicated with women he had an intimate relationship with.

I didn't think (and don't think) what Bill Clinton did disqualified him from being President and I don't think what Barton did disqualifies him either. That said, I hope the voters in Texas vote him out of office for whatever reasons that they might have.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
30. 62 here
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:06 PM
Nov 2017

And I have never and never would send anyone, not even a partner, a nude pic, not my style. I have, however, received a dick pic once, when I was online dating many years ago. It wasn't even someone I had been talking to, it was out of the blue, and it disgusted me. He got a piece of my mind!

Yonnie3

(17,444 posts)
36. Many years ago a girlfriend gave me some Polaroids. (yeah, I'm that old)
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:10 PM
Nov 2017

Not completely nude, but close. I didn't ask for them and never showed them to anyone. When we went our separate ways, I put them in the wood stove.

She never would tell me who took them, but said they were taken for me.

ProfessorGAC

(65,076 posts)
121. Hope It Was Warm!
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:57 AM
Nov 2017

A cold day and to stay motionless that long! You could have frozen!
BTW: would a nude daguerreotype constitute double exposure?

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
56. 68 and no, but my husband took photos of some partially clothed...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:31 PM
Nov 2017

models (draped) for his photography classes...always with model's releases.

He never sent any to anyone..he just turned is his best photography to his instructors for critiques and a bit went into his portfolio.


Tikki

DFW

(54,407 posts)
57. Probably a few, but I delete them before I open them
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:33 PM
Nov 2017

So, I guess I'll never find out.

But Marina from Minsk (or whatever this week's flavor is) hasn't stopped trying.

Stuart G

(38,436 posts)
58. I am over 60..answer NO
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:33 PM
Nov 2017

Never sent nude photos of anyone, never received nude photos of anyone. I cannot imagine getting nude photos of someone I have no interest in, or sending nude photos of myself to anyone at anytime.

dhol82

(9,353 posts)
60. Been on the internet since AOL and that damned log on warble with the modem
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:35 PM
Nov 2017

That was the early 90’s. Still remember getting an internet list book, about the size of a large magazine. That was all the sites one could access.
Did not think about nude pix then and now you would need eye bleach if I sent one.

Brother Buzz

(36,444 posts)
65. I mysteriously ended up on Fredericks of Hollywood mailing list
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:44 PM
Nov 2017

That's gotta count for something, right?

TexasBushwhacker

(20,202 posts)
70. I'll be 61 in January
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:00 PM
Nov 2017

And yes, I've sent a boyfriend a selfie of my boobs, but not with my face. Not recently though. The last time was probably 7 or 8 years ago.

Stallion

(6,476 posts)
75. I'm a 59 Year Old Male--I Gratefully Receive But Don't Reciprocate
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:09 PM
Nov 2017

its pretty common among women in younger generations. No way in hell I'd be sending one out though--I'm selfish that way

Sancho

(9,070 posts)
76. Haha...on one of those new fangled cell phones? Maybe not...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:12 PM
Nov 2017

Running around naked in the 60s - absolutely.

Believe me, Polaroids leave something to be desired (even though I've seen 'em). If there had been phones with cameras 2000 years ago, then teens would have sent pictures.

I guess what doesn't make sense are 30-40+ year olds sexting. Seemed to make sense when you're young, but not as much now.

Age changes your perspective.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
78. Well when I was in the category of...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:22 PM
Nov 2017

...someone that anyone would look at nude, that would have involved buying a stamp and some Polaroid film.
But to answer the question, no, that's a big NO. Hell no.
But I'm not quite 60.

Here's reasonable facsimile for you. Full disclosure; the wife says I need a haircut.




 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
106. "At Fotomat, your photo matters!"
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 11:16 PM
Nov 2017

Confessing that I still remember their advertising slogan is, arguably, more embarrassing than would be confessing to having sent nudes.

Vinca

(50,278 posts)
81. It's so funny you posted this. Earlier today, as I sat laughing at the Barton photo,
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:26 PM
Nov 2017

I was wondering what on earth would compel anyone - especially an older person - to do such a thing. I asked my husband (age 70) if he would have ever in a million years sent a picture of his dick to someone. We're not prudes, but I really don't understand the sending "necked" photos thing at all.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
95. Seriously I am freaking shocked
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 09:43 PM
Nov 2017

at the Barton photo - what would make someone do anything that gross.

erinlough

(2,176 posts)
110. This was literally my husband and my conversation tonight!
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:16 AM
Nov 2017

That and we made a pact that if either of us ever did we’d get a divorce.

Takket

(21,577 posts)
84. LOL i thought you were plling how many were 60+
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:34 PM
Nov 2017

didn't expect the additional text when i clicked on it lol

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
88. Never sent. Once, though,
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:51 PM
Nov 2017

A serious girlfriend in high school gave me a topless Polaroid photo of herself. I kept it until we broke up, and then destroyed it. I told her it no longer existed. 1962.

Response to malaise (Original post)

VOX

(22,976 posts)
98. 68, and I can't even stand to be in holiday group photos.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 09:50 PM
Nov 2017

Back when, the Polaroid camera was the tool of choice for "whoopie" pics, and after the laughter died down, they went into the fireplace!

highplainsdem

(49,004 posts)
100. When I first heard of sexting, my immediate thought was, "God, how stupid can you get."
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:01 PM
Nov 2017

I'm still amazed anyone can be stupid enough to do that.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
116. Neither have I! I thought I was the only
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:37 AM
Nov 2017

one. I'm am the polar opposite of what an exhibitionist is. I do not like drawing attention to myself and I don't like having my picture taken.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
126. Me either. I don't like being photographed, even with clothes on
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:32 PM
Nov 2017

and there are not many cameras whose lenses could withstand an image of me with them off.

KentuckyWoman

(6,688 posts)
104. At my prime the sight of me in all my glory was not for the faint of heart
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:28 PM
Nov 2017

at 70 something it would like cause a tear in the space time continuum.

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
111. Lots of good, morally upstanding responses on this thread.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:17 AM
Nov 2017

It was the 1960s, for god sake. Michelangelo Antonioni's movie "Blowup" had just made photography THE hot hobby in 1966.

Of course there were nude pics floating around, lots and lots and lots of them. And of course some current DUers took and/or received them. The odds of anything else are the same as the odds of Jared actually having a faulty memory.

Yeah, Barton is a sleazebag, but I let go of my pearls on the issue of nude photographs in about 1967.

Eyes on the prize and all that.

erinlough

(2,176 posts)
112. I suppose some did, I was never that stupid. I never wanted it coming back to haunt me.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:23 AM
Nov 2017

I’m not a pearl clutcher by any means, but if I wanted to look at someone’s junk I did it in person, not through a camera.

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
113. Well I was a professional photographer back then.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:29 AM
Nov 2017

There are probably enough skeletons in my closet to stock a catacomb.
The issue isn't the pictures. It's how, and by whom, they get used. That's all I'm saying.

Your self-preservation instincts were good. Lots of people don't have them, and if it's not photos that catch up with them, it's hot little notes on non-biodegradable paper, or something else equally incriminating.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
124. Over 60 and like everyone in our generation we know that internet photos
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:48 AM
Nov 2017

should only be about cats and grandkids, in that order.

Vogon_Glory

(9,118 posts)
127. Nope, not from friends and acquaintances
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:36 PM
Nov 2017

But if some good-looking gal over 55 wants to send some to me, that’s fine (Just make sure that everyone else in the picture is over 18).

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
128. Never.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:42 PM
Nov 2017

Once upon a time I had a very a active and varied sexlife.

I couldn't imagine getting that randy now.

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