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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI have a question about Joe Barton's dick pic.
If the recipient consented, why did she make it public?
onenote
(42,714 posts)Sometimes these things get accessed without the consent of the parties.
OnDoutside
(19,962 posts)angrychair
(8,702 posts)I have a question about Joe Barton's dick pic.
Vinca
(50,278 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)susanna
(5,231 posts)mountain grammy
(26,624 posts)I just had to see this thread.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)(Been traveling and haven't followed this closely)
I know many women who receive dick pics without consent. Just being on Match does not mean they want to see peen.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)procon
(15,805 posts)sarah FAILIN
(2,857 posts)But feelings changed and she put it out there to get even. Or maybe her spouse found it and got even..
TrollBuster9090
(5,954 posts)red dog 1
(27,820 posts)Isn't that very similar to what she has to look at every night?
TrollBuster9090
(5,954 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)Quit fat shaming him. Just because you don't find him attractive, doesn't mean others don't.
moriah
(8,311 posts)There may be no such thing as "unattractive people" in that everyone finds love somehow, and not everyone gives a damn about the skin envelope.
But there are definitely unattractive photos.
And that's one.
njhoneybadger
(3,910 posts)trixie2
(905 posts)democratisphere
(17,235 posts)Would that photo be called a Dickie?
moriah
(8,311 posts)... perhaps using "dickie" to refer to dick pics IS appropriate.
It might even teach people the difference between self and dick, potentially, if put into routine use. "Send me a selfie -- not a dickie".
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)The ability to clearly differentiate between the two types of pics could potentially eliminate the horror of opening unwanted Dickie pics.
MLAA
(17,298 posts)tavernier
(12,392 posts)Eat your heart out, George Clooney!
madville
(7,412 posts)If it was a consensual picture that the receiver wanted to get and it was originally shared within an adult relationship.
I would defend a female politician if an ex-boyfriend posted a nude picture of them they had shared within a private relationship.
angrychair
(8,702 posts)In the case of this family values anti-LGBT, climate-change denying troglodyte, I have no mercy or sympathy because I promise you he has been paving a path of destruction to our natural world and shoving money into his pockets as fast as he can and doesnt lose a second of sleep that he is sentencing the poor and marginalized to a certain death.
Nothing
madville
(7,412 posts)A privately shared nude photo within an adult relationship (that the subject had no intention of being made public) is now considered something that one must apologize for. I personally don;t have much sympathy for him either, I'm thinking of the overall media frenzy that is swirling around all this type of stuff now.
angrychair
(8,702 posts)And I would never want to infringe on a relationship between consenting adults but its hard to show any sympathy to assholes like this who would never be that discerning or understanding.
LeftInTX
(25,380 posts)it doesn't quite meet revenge porn.
It is more of a "nothing burger". He is powerful and knows better..
moriah
(8,311 posts)He's claiming they had a consensual relationship that didn't relate to his career, then she shared out his photos, and he threatened to go to the law if she continued to distribute them to ruin his career.
If she'd been a staffer of his, it wouldn't be "revenge porn" -- it'd be prima facie evidence of sexual harassment.
GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)Yeah honey-pie Congress member. I would love to see your incredible dick pic. I promise I will keep it private.
You just cant make this shit up.
L. Coyote
(51,129 posts)that's all it takes to screw the whole country?
alarimer
(16,245 posts)It might not have been the recipient.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)the woman was upset she wasn't the only one Barton had the relationship with. Per Washington Post article, she found out there were other women, started to communicate with them.
Horse with no Name
(33,956 posts)to women who allegedly "wanted it"....I really feel like I need a shower......
sarcasmo
(23,968 posts)L. Coyote
(51,129 posts)Russian hackers.
shanny
(6,709 posts)and then they weren't. It's called revenge porn for a reason.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)about multiple other women and started communicating with them. Barton was also married at the time he was having a relationship with this woman, but I guess she still got upset.
Pukes are hypocrites, many men of all political persuasions are pigs, many women are no prizes either. I'd rather focus on policies,not personalities or personal failings.