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smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:00 PM Nov 2017

Black Friday. Love it or Hate it and why?

Personally, I hate it. I would rather stab myself in the eye than participate. There is no material object than I want enough to justify getting up early, standing in long lines, dealing with huge, rude crowds and all the general chaos.

I hate shopping on an ordinary day and buy most of what I need online anyway. Just wondering what people here think. Also, I am wondering what workers think if you are affected by it. If you do work those shifts, do you make extra money? And if so, is it worth it?

Discuss.

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Black Friday. Love it or Hate it and why? (Original Post) smirkymonkey Nov 2017 OP
I don't like crowds and lines mvd Nov 2017 #1
Option 3: Ignore it... Wounded Bear Nov 2017 #2
I ignore it completely. MineralMan Nov 2017 #3
Pretend it doesn't exist. MontanaMama Nov 2017 #4
Cyber Monday make more sense. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #7
...but then you can't complain about Amazon destroying brick & mortar stores brooklynite Nov 2017 #28
I dont complain MontanaMama Nov 2017 #29
I neither love not hate it. I'm just indifferent to it, marybourg Nov 2017 #5
The high holy day of the Sacred Church of Consumerism? HopeAgain Nov 2017 #6
cue Reverend Billy... handmade34 Nov 2017 #17
Serendipity Friday Cartoonist Nov 2017 #8
Hate it!! LeftInTX Nov 2017 #9
I hung out with the puppy, drank coffee, read the paper last 48 hours. Throck Nov 2017 #10
I hung out w/ my sister's puppy when everyone when shopping. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #15
Had fun with it for a few years when with friends Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #11
Also many retailers are putting stuff online.... LeftInTX Nov 2017 #12
Participate in the past no major need this year dembotoz Nov 2017 #13
Snort. Asking DU whether it likes or hates Black Friday. nt Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #14
Care to elaborate? It seems that we are getting a lot of varied responses here. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #16
I went to Petsmart yesterday afternoon. tammywammy Nov 2017 #18
I shopped crazycatlady Nov 2017 #19
I don't leave the house on Black Friday Siwsan Nov 2017 #20
Went for the first time. Had fun. Might do it again. nt hack89 Nov 2017 #21
Love it, only because I always take my kids on a car ride while my wife shops. Tommy_Carcetti Nov 2017 #22
I chill on BF... tenderfoot Nov 2017 #23
From 2011 CrispyQ Nov 2017 #24
No feelings one way or another. cwydro Nov 2017 #25
Hate it snowybirdie Nov 2017 #26
Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Initech Nov 2017 #27

mvd

(65,180 posts)
1. I don't like crowds and lines
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:03 PM
Nov 2017

I did shop at Kohl's on Thanksgiving night, but that was it. Love Christmas season but not a big fan of Black Friday.

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
4. Pretend it doesn't exist.
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:21 PM
Nov 2017

Deals aren't that good. Hate crowds. If I'm going to shop, I save it for Small Business Saturday or Cyber Monday.

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
29. I dont complain
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 07:43 PM
Nov 2017

about Amazon. They do what they do well and small local businesses do what they do well.

marybourg

(12,637 posts)
5. I neither love not hate it. I'm just indifferent to it,
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:21 PM
Nov 2017

as I am to numerous elements of current popular culture.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
6. The high holy day of the Sacred Church of Consumerism?
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:21 PM
Nov 2017

Reckless consumption, gluttony and waste...what's not to like?

Cartoonist

(7,323 posts)
8. Serendipity Friday
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:28 PM
Nov 2017

I went to my local medical marijuana center and was surprised to see a long line.

I didn't mind when I got inside. 25% off and a free gram to the first 450 customers.

LeftInTX

(25,567 posts)
9. Hate it!!
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:28 PM
Nov 2017

Not much discussion needed.

I've never been a big shopper the rest of the year.

I don't go to malls. I frequent local strip centers instead. The ones with Barnes and Noble, Ulta Beauty Supply, Sally's Beauty Supply, Best Buy, Bath and Body Works, Lowe's, Bed, Bath and Beyond etc.) With all of the selection at these types of stores and at my age, there is no need to go to the mall.

The rest of the year, I try to avoid shopping on Saturdays.

I even avoid grocery shopping on Sundays.

I don't like crowds.

It is Saturday afternoon after Black Friday, if we have a shopping loving crowd on DU, they are probably out and about right now! Unfortunately, they probably won't get a chance to read this thread.



 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
15. I hung out w/ my sister's puppy when everyone when shopping.
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:53 PM
Nov 2017

It was heaven. I love that dog! I had her all to myself!

Blue_Adept

(6,402 posts)
11. Had fun with it for a few years when with friends
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:33 PM
Nov 2017

Don't have much use for it now since most of what I want I get through amazon with cheap movies and that's about it. My youngest daughter had a blast doing it Friday morning with friends and just being out and picking up some fun stuff. She scored some good deals cheap to get things for friends for Christmas, which at 15 with a limited budget is a good thing.

LeftInTX

(25,567 posts)
12. Also many retailers are putting stuff online....
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:40 PM
Nov 2017

Walgreen's used to carry a special dry mouth product, they stopped carrying in stores, so I buy it online.

I buy a sprinkler from Nelson which they only carry online.

The only way I can buy my nail stickers is through an online company called Jamberry.

dembotoz

(16,844 posts)
13. Participate in the past no major need this year
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:47 PM
Nov 2017

Didn't leave the house yesterday.
Doesn't bother me other folks do.
Merchants move a lot of stuff and that is good

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
18. I went to Petsmart yesterday afternoon.
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:58 PM
Nov 2017

They sent me a coupon for a free small bag of cat food with no exceptions good only in store Friday. My cat eats prescription food and a small bag is $23. There were no fights over the Science Diet c/d.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
19. I shopped
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 03:01 PM
Nov 2017

I normally don't like Black Friday, but when I was hanging out wtih a hometown friend, she wanted to go shopping so I went along with it.

It was crazy but we had fun.

The rest of the weekend I am adding more things to my Etsy shop for Cyber Monday and the rest of the holidays.

Siwsan

(26,295 posts)
20. I don't leave the house on Black Friday
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 03:15 PM
Nov 2017

Actually, most years I don't leave the house from Wednesday through 'Black' Friday. When this house was built, it was out in the country. Now it is in the 'retail' part of town. There's a big mall, right down the road, in one direction, and a whole lot of 'strip malls' in the other.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,199 posts)
22. Love it, only because I always take my kids on a car ride while my wife shops.
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 03:19 PM
Nov 2017

We stay far away from stores, and usually go to a nature park or museum.

snowybirdie

(5,240 posts)
26. Hate it
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 03:48 PM
Nov 2017

Mass marketing to the sheeple, convincing them to buy, buy, buy. Even What it means missing out on Thanksgiving. I spend the day traveling southward.

Initech

(100,105 posts)
27. Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It Hate It
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 04:01 PM
Nov 2017

The commercialism of it continues to reach new levels of insanity every year. No, you do not need to give someone a $5,000 TV, or a $50,000 luxury car. Especially in this climate where most Americans barely have $1,000 to their name. Companies like Best Buy and Target have turned the simple act of gift giving into a fucking contact sport. Like you must go for broke during the holidays and spend $5,000 more than the next guy / woman. And don't get me started on the luxury car companies and their winter sales events. I think advertising ruins everything and this is one of those things that it has ruined.

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