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Kaleva

(36,340 posts)
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:17 PM Dec 2017

Matt Lauer is looking at a serious downgrade in his lifestyle

He had a 25 million dollar a year contract with NBC. That's gone.

His soon to be ex-wife will very probably get a significant chunk of their combined assets. On top of that, she'll probably get alimony.

Matt's employment prospects are pretty dismal now.

And I wouldn't be surprised if he gets hit with civil lawsuits. Attorney fees alone with be expensive.

Not saying I feel sorry for him. Not one bit. He deserves everything that's coming.

What is interesting is that this is another example of how a supposedly very smart individual can justify in their mind reckless activity which has the potential to destroy their life. Humans are not rational beings.

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Matt Lauer is looking at a serious downgrade in his lifestyle (Original Post) Kaleva Dec 2017 OP
A man who has it all, fabulous job, fame, wealth, beautiful wife, home, children. Irish_Dem Dec 2017 #1
Remind me of the billionaires DangerousUrNot Dec 2017 #13
Yes, no amount of money will fill their dark souls....nt Irish_Dem Dec 2017 #20
A terrible failure BeyondGeography Dec 2017 #34
Yes a life many would give anything for, and he just threw it all away. nt Irish_Dem Dec 2017 #42
Another example of humans being a failed species. democratisphere Dec 2017 #2
25 million to make NBC many times that, basically. NYC Liberal Dec 2017 #9
I have no doubt that he has plenty to fall back on. cwydro Dec 2017 #3
Going from beloved celebrity to shamed monster Corvo Bianco Dec 2017 #8
Absolutely. cwydro Dec 2017 #43
There is still alimony sometimes after long marriages TexasBushwhacker Dec 2017 #16
I feel very sorry for her. cwydro Dec 2017 #44
She tried to divorce him 10 years ago TexasBushwhacker Dec 2017 #46
One interesting aspect: dixiegrrrrl Dec 2017 #31
He had a morality clause WhiteTara Dec 2017 #51
Child support? Definitely (if they have kids) brooklynite Dec 2017 #47
That makes more sense to me. cwydro Dec 2017 #49
I heard bdamomma Dec 2017 #4
OOPS! Meant to reply to Rollo ATL Ebony Dec 2017 #37
Iread that he expects to get $30 million in severance from NBC... Rollo Dec 2017 #5
Hopefully his wife and kids will get half of that. Laffy Kat Dec 2017 #22
Or a woman. Aristus Dec 2017 #23
I read that he's not getting any severance. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2017 #27
NOPE -- money has dried up for this creep! ATL Ebony Dec 2017 #38
Network is not going to pay severance or early buyout. Lauer gets nothing. Lil Missy Dec 2017 #45
Agreed. He got too full of himself. brush Dec 2017 #6
That was a truly horrifying story... whathehell Dec 2017 #28
He wasn't smart. He was a terrible interviewer.... targetpractice Dec 2017 #7
Well, he has proven he has the creds to work for Fox. jalan48 Dec 2017 #10
Even Fox fired Bill O'Reilly and Roger Ailes TexasBushwhacker Dec 2017 #14
This is what happens whentheir brains are in their zippers BigmanPigman Dec 2017 #11
hoping these perverts or perverts-in-training get the message Skittles Dec 2017 #12
These types of men will feel the sting of their careers ChubbyStar Dec 2017 #29
Too bad so sad Lotusflower70 Dec 2017 #15
Sad. If I'd had $25 million for even one year, Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #17
Beats working at a job you hate 80 hours a week. Kath2 Dec 2017 #19
Absolutely. Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #21
That's nice. Kath2 Dec 2017 #24
Sorry. Ms. Toad Dec 2017 #30
If he saved AT ALL he is set for life. Kath2 Dec 2017 #18
Yeah, but the kind of life you or I might be used to Retrograde Dec 2017 #32
Poor baby. Kath2 Dec 2017 #33
Might make for a good garage sale. safeinOhio Dec 2017 #25
NBC says they will pay him nothing and the wife left yesterday for the Netherlands to live..nt monmouth4 Dec 2017 #26
O'Reilly has been itching to get back in the game kskiska Dec 2017 #35
I'm sure whatever Lauer will be "downgrading" to will seem pretty fabulous to most people DFW Dec 2017 #36
Oh, the poor thing! herding cats Dec 2017 #39
If anyone feels sorry for him, just look up the Lauer - Clinton debate exchanges. Baitball Blogger Dec 2017 #40
You go, Hill... Rollo Dec 2017 #48
You say that like it's a bad thing... Wounded Bear Dec 2017 #41
Given his multi-million dollar annual salary over decades, I think he'll manage OK. nt LAS14 Dec 2017 #50
I did listen to him for years mainstreetonce Dec 2017 #52
At least one of the incidents described by Lauer"s victims sounded more like rape than harassment VMA131Marine Dec 2017 #53
Cant feel sorry for anyone whose months salary would set me for life Lee-Lee Dec 2017 #54
I live on 15k a year and I'm sure Matt could too Kaleva Dec 2017 #55
Agreed no fucks to give dembotoz Dec 2017 #56

Irish_Dem

(47,369 posts)
1. A man who has it all, fabulous job, fame, wealth, beautiful wife, home, children.
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:23 PM
Dec 2017

But it is not enough for him. He puts it all in jeopardy by sexually harassing women.

BeyondGeography

(39,379 posts)
34. A terrible failure
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 01:49 AM
Dec 2017

Never liked him at all, but it’s sad to watch anyone throw away his life like that, not least for the impact it will have on his family.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
3. I have no doubt that he has plenty to fall back on.
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:25 PM
Dec 2017

I’m sure he’s invested a good amount and making the money he’s made all these years? God only knows what he’s worth.

I’m not a fan, but I’m pretty sure he’ll be fine.

Is there still such a thing as alimony? I thought that went by the wayside awhile ago.

Corvo Bianco

(1,148 posts)
8. Going from beloved celebrity to shamed monster
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:38 PM
Dec 2017

Seems the significant slap in the face to me. As earned.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
43. Absolutely.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 08:59 PM
Dec 2017

And he’ll be completely erased from NBC Today Show history - that’s gotta hurt.

He’ll never work again.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,213 posts)
16. There is still alimony sometimes after long marriages
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:01 AM
Dec 2017

They've been married 20 years and have 3 children. 2 of the kids are still quite young.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,213 posts)
46. She tried to divorce him 10 years ago
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 09:15 PM
Dec 2017

when she was pregnant with their 3rd child. The divorce papers included the words cruel, inhumane and hostile. But they stayed together "for the kids". She lives with the kids in the Hamptons full time and he only comes in from the city on the weekends. He's criticized her for her child raising skils too. She's taken the 2 youngest children with her to the Netherlands, where she is from.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
31. One interesting aspect:
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 01:12 AM
Dec 2017

Most people of his stature have employment contrat. The employer (ABC) guarantees a payout if they fire the star or if the length of the contract cannot be competed. There may or may not be a signing bonus.
Bonuses, stock purchases, etc. sometimes come into play.

So the employer ( news, studio, etc) faces quite an instant payout if they fire the guy for no reason.

Hopefully they put in a weasel clause for something like this.

alimony depends on state law and often pre-nup agreement.

brooklynite

(94,725 posts)
47. Child support? Definitely (if they have kids)
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 09:28 PM
Dec 2017

Alimony? Not if his kids ice gets a share of jointly held assets.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
49. That makes more sense to me.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 11:03 PM
Dec 2017

I’ve read he forked over 5 million to keep the marriage intact.

No idea if that’s true or not.

I’m sure she’ll be seeing some serious money, but I still feel sorry for her.

bdamomma

(63,919 posts)
4. I heard
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:27 PM
Dec 2017

that his wife left the country. I don't blame her at all.

You know money doesn't buy happiness.

Rollo

(2,559 posts)
5. Iread that he expects to get $30 million in severance from NBC...
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:27 PM
Dec 2017

Not sure if that's settled.

I don't feel sorry for him, but then I've never been a fan to begin with. I rarely if ever watched his show (usually working during that time). He sounds like the kind of Lothario that has done well in the entertainment business, but who also needs to move over to let those with better morals and behavior take their place.

Just as you-know-who needs to move over and let a real man take over the Presidency.

Laffy Kat

(16,386 posts)
22. Hopefully his wife and kids will get half of that.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:14 AM
Dec 2017

Really not fair their lifestyles have to change through no fault of their own.

ATL Ebony

(1,097 posts)
38. NOPE -- money has dried up for this creep!
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 05:38 AM
Dec 2017

"Matt Lauer won't get paid rest of $20 million contract after NBC fired him"
http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/matt-lauer-paid-rest-20-million-contract-nbc/story?id=51535097

Matt Lauer will not receive a payout for the rest of his million-dollar contract, an NBC News spokesperson confirmed to ABC News today.

The disgraced former "Today" show anchor was fired after a colleague accused him of "inappropriate sexual behavior in the workplace," the network said Wednesday in a memo obtained by ABC News.

In a statement released one day later, Lauer, 59, said some of the allegations are "untrue or mischaracterized," but "there is enough truth in these stories to make me feel embarrassed and ashamed."

Lauer, who had just signed a contract last year that would put him in the anchor chair through 2018, had a contract worth a reported $20 million, according to Variety.

He had been at the "Today" since 1994 and became an official co-anchor three years later.

brush

(53,841 posts)
6. Agreed. He got too full of himself.
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:30 PM
Dec 2017

I can't imagine the hubris it takes to summon a woman into your office and use your power over her to bend her over a chair and screw her because you wanted to, her feeling not a concern.

That actually happened and the woman passed out from the shock of being used like that.

Lauer had to summon assistance to get her medical help.

Did he put her clothes back on her so no one knew what he had just done to her?

Did he clean her up?

WTF goes through someone's mind to do something like that.

Someone who help him get the unconscious woman out of his office had to suspect something, but he kept his job for years after that.

Karma strikes hard sometimes, even if it takes a while.

Even though he's been making multi-millions a year for many years, he's going cough up a lot of dough. I don't think he is the saving type since he just tried to get NBC to pay the rest of his contract.

He was rejected. Karma struck again.

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
7. He wasn't smart. He was a terrible interviewer....
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:37 PM
Dec 2017

...almost as bad as David Gregory. He only asked binary "yes or no" questions. For me, watching him was worse than hearing fingernails scratch across a chalkboard.

BigmanPigman

(51,626 posts)
11. This is what happens whentheir brains are in their zippers
Sat Dec 2, 2017, 11:43 PM
Dec 2017

instead of their larger heads. Maybe he will say as a defense so he can still save some credibility, "It was testosterone poisoning. I am a victim too".

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
29. These types of men will feel the sting of their careers
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:49 AM
Dec 2017

They don't give two shits about their family. I know, only too well.

Ms. Toad

(34,087 posts)
17. Sad. If I'd had $25 million for even one year,
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:02 AM
Dec 2017

I'd be set for life.

But then I'm the ding dong who chose a 67% pay cut to move to a job I love, but where I work 80-100 hours a week.

Ms. Toad

(34,087 posts)
21. Absolutely.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:09 AM
Dec 2017

My mantra is that I love my job - but I would love it just as much if there was only 50% of it. Rarely a day goes by that I don't get a heartfelt thank you - out of the blue - from someone. No money can buy that.

Kath2

(3,089 posts)
24. That's nice.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:16 AM
Dec 2017

In insurance claims you usually get a heartfelt FU screamed at you every day. Along with being called a bitch every day.

Ms. Toad

(34,087 posts)
30. Sorry.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:50 AM
Dec 2017


I'm probably one of your cranky customers, if it is health insurance.

It took me 200 hours of effort to resolve a $100 mistake that the insurance company and the hospital made. The insurance company made the first error and spread its own error out over three separate corporations, none of which were permitted to talk to the other. Once I finally got that resolved (after three surgical procedures in which they made the exact same error), they sucked back the money they paid from the out-of-network corporation and repaid it through the in-network corporation, then the hospital treated my copay as having been sucked back by the insurance company and started dunning me for the unpaid bill.

I wouldn't have sworn at you or called you a bitch - but I definitely had to get pretty firm at times because - at least at this insurance company - part of the job of the customer-facing reps was to prevent the customer from moving up the ladder.

I can't tell you how many times I immediately asked to speak to a supervisor, only to be told that the person who answered the phone had to try to help me first. So I'd launch into exactly what had gone wrong, how it had gone wrong, and what needed to be done to fix the problem. I'd tell them exactly what to look for in files I'd never seen (because in 200 hours you can learn a lot about a computer system you've never seen). More often than not, 30 minutes after the call started, they would still try to put me off by telling me they would look into it and call me back. I got tired of that by the 3rd time no one had called me back and I had to start all over a 4th time with a new rep.

I'm sure I was not a pleasant customer - and folks like you shouldn't be put in the position of having to resolve problems you can't solve - all-the-while blocking access to people who have a slightly better chance of resolving the problem.

When honey doesn't work (which I always started with, and it almost never worked), I'm afraid I got pretty cranky. I know that it wasn't the fault of the person on the other end of the line, but that person was in charge of making me go away - and I was completely at a loss for how to get through that person to the one with authority to solve the problem.

I'd love suggestions for how to get to the actual problem solvers without needing to be so demanding when being polite isn't getting me anywhere.

Retrograde

(10,153 posts)
32. Yeah, but the kind of life you or I might be used to
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 01:20 AM
Dec 2017

He's more attuned to the "finer things", so that while $25M may seem like enough to keep you or I for our foreseeable lifespans, someone like Lauer will just be scraping by

kskiska

(27,045 posts)
35. O'Reilly has been itching to get back in the game
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 01:54 AM
Dec 2017

and even appeared on Hannity, but with this flood of abuse reports I doubt he'll ever do any substantive work again. He was paid off, though, and won't go broke, unfortunately.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
36. I'm sure whatever Lauer will be "downgrading" to will seem pretty fabulous to most people
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 02:11 AM
Dec 2017

When he's selling umbrellas on 7th Avenue during rainstorms to tourists caught in the rain, THEN we'll know he made it all the way down the chain. Don't hold your breath, though.

herding cats

(19,567 posts)
39. Oh, the poor thing!
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 05:48 AM
Dec 2017

He has to subsist on the 10's of millions he's invested now?! My heart is breaking... not.

He's rich as fuck. He's fine. So he has to sell some of his foreign estates, poor baby. I bet he pulls through just fine and still walks away with an elegant roof over his head and opulent healthcare and other perks. Hell, he just got one hell of a tax break handed to him! The money he saves on his dividends alone will be massive.

Baitball Blogger

(46,757 posts)
40. If anyone feels sorry for him, just look up the Lauer - Clinton debate exchanges.
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 12:26 PM
Dec 2017

Joy Reid covered it this morning. In retrospect, he was pushing the right-wing memes and wouldn't allow her to finish her statements.

Hillary was asked about Lauer's job loss and she responded, (paraphrasing) Every day I believe more and more in karma.

mainstreetonce

(4,178 posts)
52. I did listen to him for years
Sun Dec 3, 2017, 11:55 PM
Dec 2017

And I always knew about the split marriage and suspected him of hitting on female guests or cohosts,but you could tell he was close to his kids and had a good relationship with them

If he loses his kids,he has lost a lot more than money.

VMA131Marine

(4,148 posts)
53. At least one of the incidents described by Lauer"s victims sounded more like rape than harassment
Mon Dec 4, 2017, 02:54 AM
Dec 2017

He should see some jail time for that so it seems to me that the consequences for him will be fairly light,

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
54. Cant feel sorry for anyone whose months salary would set me for life
Mon Dec 4, 2017, 07:17 AM
Dec 2017

25 million a year?

Give me that $2,000,000+ he made last year and let me invest it and I’m set for life. I’ll retire today and not think twice and live a better life than I live working.

His “downgrade” will end up being still 10x what I live on. I think he will manage to survive.

Kaleva

(36,340 posts)
55. I live on 15k a year and I'm sure Matt could too
Tue Dec 5, 2017, 06:50 AM
Dec 2017

Last edited Tue Dec 5, 2017, 08:01 AM - Edit history (1)

But regardless, he's going to see a serious downgrade in his lifestyle even if he still remains well above the majority of us.

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