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Turborama

(22,109 posts)
Wed Feb 4, 2015, 10:55 PM Feb 2015

Mother-of-six with learning difficulties can be put through forced sterilisation, rules (UK) judge

Source: The Independent (UK)

A mother-of-six with learning difficulties can be lawfully forced to be sterilised by authorities to prevent further pregnancies, a judge has ruled.

Health officials and social services bosses made the request to force entry into her home and detain her with “necessary restraint” to be able to carry out sterilisation.

They told Mr Justice Cobb that such moves were in the best interests of the 36-year-old woman – who has not been identified – at a hearing in the Court of Protection.

=snip=

Last year the judge ruled the woman could be restrained and sedated when giving birth to her sixth child.

Read more: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/mother-of-six-who-has-learning-difficulties-can-be-put-through-forced-sterilisation-rules-judge-10023496.html

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Mother-of-six with learning difficulties can be put through forced sterilisation, rules (UK) judge (Original Post) Turborama Feb 2015 OP
no word on whether the partner will also be sterilized. niyad Feb 2015 #1
No, because his life is not at risk. thesquanderer Feb 2015 #36
That sentence (if true) is what makes this procedure okay. It is based on health needs not level jwirr Feb 2015 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author uhnope Feb 2015 #2
There sure is a push for forced acceptance of whatever the current need is. midnight Feb 2015 #3
I wonder how many men who are sociopaths will be sterilized. THAT I would vote for. BlueJazz Feb 2015 #4
Too many socios. Men get better treatment & exemptions cuz they're impt. doncha know. appalachiablue Feb 2015 #15
Hear hear. Good point. applegrove Feb 2015 #25
+1000 smirkymonkey Feb 2015 #57
"Three generations of imbeciles are enough", christx30 Feb 2015 #5
SCOTUS should apply that to the Bush crime family, starting with Prescott. Or earlier on the appalachiablue Feb 2015 #17
Just the women, not the men. A few months ago there was an article posted by Duer appalachiablue Feb 2015 #6
And here's something from Sweden, of all places... Turborama Feb 2015 #8
'the issue needs to be examined' meaning delayed. Didn't say what the basis for appalachiablue Feb 2015 #9
According to this Wikipedia article compulsory sterilisation continued in Sweden until 2012 Turborama Feb 2015 #11
Also: 17 European Countries Force Transgender Sterilization (Map) Turborama Feb 2015 #12
The requirement is to be sterilized before the sex change is done. Yo_Mama Feb 2015 #23
I wouldn't call that "forced" sterilization TexasMommaWithAHat Feb 2015 #55
Incredible and barbaric. Didn't realize this was so widespread in the 21st century... appalachiablue Feb 2015 #13
If this is medically necessary it is not like what happened in Peru. My daughter had endometreosis jwirr Feb 2015 #42
Okay! Where are the baby's daddy? dawn frenzy adams Feb 2015 #7
According to the article 840high Feb 2015 #10
Little know fact: persons with learning difficulties are now allowed to have relationships and evern jwirr Feb 2015 #45
Do you mean learning difficulties as in dyslexia & ADHD or intellectual disabilities? appalachiablue Feb 2015 #47
Excellent point. I usually use the words developmental disabilities but the person I was answering jwirr Feb 2015 #51
I understand, there is confusion sometimes & the two sound similar but are quite different. appalachiablue Feb 2015 #52
Thank you for pointing that out and your work. I am going to stick with my phrase from not on. jwirr Feb 2015 #53
Maybe history does repeat itself MFrohike Feb 2015 #14
I found myself getting into more WWII history & Nazi policies several years ago. Didn't appalachiablue Feb 2015 #18
The article says that all previous children have been removed from the couples care. mackerel Feb 2015 #16
As a social worker there are often two options when it comes to developmentally disabled couples jwirr Feb 2015 #46
BEWARE ALL EUGENICS -- the idea is horrible and dangerous, especially forced cloudythescribbler Feb 2015 #19
According to the article the judge said its not about eugenics cstanleytech Feb 2015 #20
Of course the judge would say that Turborama Feb 2015 #21
Ya some did but in this case in the here and now the lawyers appointed to represent her cstanleytech Feb 2015 #22
Who appointed the lawyers? Turborama Feb 2015 #24
The courts because she supposedly isnt capable and yes I know exactly what cstanleytech Feb 2015 #26
BTW, bringing up Action T4 might seem overly hyperbolic Turborama Feb 2015 #27
Oh there is no "might" about it at all. cstanleytech Feb 2015 #28
Well, that's your opinion which you are entitled to, of course` Turborama Feb 2015 #30
Hey its good that they are concerned because like I said this type of thing needs to monitored. nt cstanleytech Feb 2015 #39
How do you think a situation in which a pregnancy would threaten her health would be described? muriel_volestrangler Feb 2015 #31
.Let's just say you seem to trust them more than I do. Turborama Feb 2015 #37
Enforced hospitalisation is also authoritarian, but sometimes it is best for the health muriel_volestrangler Feb 2015 #38
Decisions of this magnitude should always be difficult ones to make and I hope they remain difficult cstanleytech Feb 2015 #40
Look I hear what you are saying and I share your concern but as a woman i know that many jwirr Feb 2015 #48
Guardians, in conjunction with the courts TexasMommaWithAHat Feb 2015 #56
A drug addicted woman KT2000 Feb 2015 #29
There are many cases like you are describing. And it is a real problem. Especially since those kids jwirr Feb 2015 #49
The able bodied community fingrin Feb 2015 #32
I'd also add that the health threat of another pregnancy is to the mother, not the father muriel_volestrangler Feb 2015 #33
Thought so fingrin Feb 2015 #34
Thanks for taking the time to offer some perspective Cal Carpenter Feb 2015 #43
Worked with persons with ID for 45 years. Had very few clients who were sexually active. I do agree jwirr Feb 2015 #50
Good. Nihil Feb 2015 #35
No, my guess is it simply doesn't matter to them (n/m) ProudToBeBlueInRhody Feb 2015 #44
Well, LynnTTT Feb 2015 #54
I raised a crack baby. It's no picnic. The biological mother mackerel Feb 2015 #58

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
36. No, because his life is not at risk.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 09:44 AM
Feb 2015

From the article:

“This outcome has been driven by the bleak yet undisputed evidence that a further pregnancy would be a significantly life-threatening event for [the woman].”

Having a child would be life-endangering for her, regardless of who the father is. The reverse is not true.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
41. That sentence (if true) is what makes this procedure okay. It is based on health needs not level
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:14 AM
Feb 2015

of IQ.

Response to Turborama (Original post)

appalachiablue

(41,145 posts)
17. SCOTUS should apply that to the Bush crime family, starting with Prescott. Or earlier on the
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:33 AM
Feb 2015

other line, Capt. Walker the slaver who died on the shores of Maryland.
'Five generations of criminals are enough'.

appalachiablue

(41,145 posts)
6. Just the women, not the men. A few months ago there was an article posted by Duer
Wed Feb 4, 2015, 11:23 PM
Feb 2015

Judi Lynn about 300,000 poor, indigenous women in Peru who were sterilized by the Minister of Heath, a UN Dept. (and USAID I think) in the mid-late 1990s during Clinton. The women were forced, tricked or intimidated into going to tent clinics for the procedure. Most of the women are now around 45 years of age and childless with no family or state support network to help them as they grow old. But eugenics, sexism and bigotry are alive and well. In the US, a few months ago an old, white AZ state senator said immigrant women should be sterilized. I believe he resigned; don't recall the reason or his name.

appalachiablue

(41,145 posts)
9. 'the issue needs to be examined' meaning delayed. Didn't say what the basis for
Wed Feb 4, 2015, 11:48 PM
Feb 2015

sterilization was. Recall that Sweden was one of the later countries in Europe to end 20th cent. eugenics sterilizations, maybe as late as the 1960s- what criminal US & European policy. Cruel world, especially if you aren't rich.

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
11. According to this Wikipedia article compulsory sterilisation continued in Sweden until 2012
Wed Feb 4, 2015, 11:59 PM
Feb 2015

However, I can't find an authoritative source to back this up: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_sterilisation_in_Sweden

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
23. The requirement is to be sterilized before the sex change is done.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:57 AM
Feb 2015

But sex changes generally effectively do sterilize a person, and I think the sterilization requirement was so that no medical harm could be imputed.

What I mean is that they do not want to prevent people from having kids after they have had a sex change - they rather want not to do the sex change if it involves imputable harm to the person, which medical harm involves sterilization of a person. Removal of organ function - sex change operations do involve sterilization.

The hormones alone that are involved in gender reassignments would generally mess up reproductive capacity.

The complete operations are a sterilization. A female transitioning to a male will generally have a complete hysterectomy (uterus and ovaries along with breast reduction. A male will have the testicles removed and the penis is removed but a lot of tissue is supposed to be kept to be reformed into a clitoris/vagina with nerve sensation.

Now, one could argue that sterilization beforehand is just another unnecessary step, but it does make matters clear, and if the person has hesitation about sterilization, I don't think that person is psychologically prepared to fully transition.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
55. I wouldn't call that "forced" sterilization
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:04 PM
Feb 2015

Men don't have ovaries and a uterus.

And transgender men undergoing FTM hormone therapy have increased risks if they keep their ovaries and uterus, since the ovaries and uterus were not meant to receive an onslaught of testosterone. I would imagine that has something to do with the law in those various European countries, which have actually been pretty progressive in the area of trans rights.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
42. If this is medically necessary it is not like what happened in Peru. My daughter had endometreosis
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:30 AM
Feb 2015

that was effecting her whole life - 15 years of deep depression and pain. The doctor suggested using a medication to see if sterilization would help her. We used the med for one year but then it had to be stopped because no one had ever used it longer. The alternatives were go back to the depression and pain or sterilization.

At that point in our state I had to go to the courts and get permission for the surgery because in the past this had been used as a eugenics measure. The courts asked me and the doctor one question: is this medically necessary and why.

She had the surgery and has been fine ever since. Having children was never an option for her as she does not understand sex and related issues at all. Her disability requires total care and constant supervision for safety issues.

Courts need to have the option to use sterilization for medical reasons and HOPEFULLY they will be given the truth and not bigoted reasoning to come to the conclusion. But sterilization cannot just be made illegal.

dawn frenzy adams

(429 posts)
7. Okay! Where are the baby's daddy?
Wed Feb 4, 2015, 11:24 PM
Feb 2015

The daddies impregnating a women with learning difficulties need to be investigated.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
45. Little know fact: persons with learning difficulties are now allowed to have relationships and evern
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:34 AM
Feb 2015

get married and have children. There are not many of them that reach that level of ability but those that do are not discriminated against. At least in my state. The father most likely also has learning difficulties.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
51. Excellent point. I usually use the words developmental disabilities but the person I was answering
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:10 PM
Feb 2015

used learning difficulties so I did to. I think that phrase is actually a very bad choice of labels since as you point out it includes persons who are perfectly capable of making their own decisions and raising their own children and persons who do not have those capabilities.

So the persons I am talking about are most often not able to make decision, need a guardian, have at most a limited understanding of sexuality and need help raising their children on a permanent basis.

appalachiablue

(41,145 posts)
52. I understand, there is confusion sometimes & the two sound similar but are quite different.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:28 PM
Feb 2015

I didn't realize the Swedish woman had reduced decision making ability even from reading the article last night. The necessity of sterilizing transgender people I don't understand & it does recall the atrocities of forced unwarranted sterilizations from state eugenics policies & practices of the Nazis. Many women undergo a hysterectomy by choice for medical reasons like benign tumor fibroids & other problems. I don't believe the term sterilization is used in those situations. For years I worked with blind & visually impaired persons, many of whom were very accompished employees and excellent parents.

MFrohike

(1,980 posts)
14. Maybe history does repeat itself
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:20 AM
Feb 2015

Depression in Europe, the comeback of the fascist right, and now eugenics. I keep wondering if the 30s is happening all over again.

appalachiablue

(41,145 posts)
18. I found myself getting into more WWII history & Nazi policies several years ago. Didn't
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:38 AM
Feb 2015

quite make the F. connection then, but do now cuz it's really here--as Sinclair Lewis wrote in 1936, 'It Can't Happen here'. It's the New 30s, for real.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
46. As a social worker there are often two options when it comes to developmentally disabled couples
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:44 AM
Feb 2015

and their children. Take the children out of the home or use PCAs to help raise the children. In my state we chose the last option unless there was abuse involved. There are not many cases like this because families of the developmentally disabled client are usually very helpful in getting birth control or just keeping their adult members out of sexual relationships.

If the UK is using sterilization as a eugenics tool that is horrible but the article states medical reasons.

cstanleytech

(26,294 posts)
20. According to the article the judge said its not about eugenics
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:38 AM
Feb 2015

"“The ethical, legal and medical issues arising here are self-evidently of the utmost gravity, engaging, and profoundly impacting upon (the woman’s) personal autonomy, privacy, bodily integrity, and reproductive rights.”

“This case is not about eugenics.

“This outcome has been driven by the bleak yet undisputed evidence that a further pregnancy would be a significantly life-threatening event for (the woman.)”"

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
21. Of course the judge would say that
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:45 AM
Feb 2015

Judges were probably also saying that in 1933 at the beginning of Action T4.

cstanleytech

(26,294 posts)
22. Ya some did but in this case in the here and now the lawyers appointed to represent her
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:55 AM
Feb 2015

agreed that it was for her own safety because shes to impaired to make sound decisions.

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
24. Who appointed the lawyers?
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 02:02 AM
Feb 2015

Whatever the rationalisations are, sterilising someone against their will is an authoritarian step too far, IMO.

cstanleytech

(26,294 posts)
26. The courts because she supposedly isnt capable and yes I know exactly what
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 02:26 AM
Feb 2015

argument your going to try next there and yes its possible they were biased but its stretching the whole conspiracy thing a bit far because if they are then so are all the doctors who have seen her and everyone else involved in the case.

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
27. BTW, bringing up Action T4 might seem overly hyperbolic
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 02:46 AM
Feb 2015

But considering what has been (and is) going on in the UK since the Tories got in, it's not actually that far removed - even more so if they go into coalition with far right UKIP after May's General Election.

The Tory message to disabled people: you’re just not worth it
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/oct/15/tory-message-disabled-lord-freud-minimum-wage

UN Committe investigate UK government over Disabled Support
http://www.able2uk.com/news/disabilities/un-committe-investigate-uk-government-over-disabled-support.html

The work capability assessment and suicide – a.k.a. ‘chequebook euthanasia’
http://voxpoliticalonline.com/2014/12/07/the-work-capability-assessment-and-suicide-a-k-a-chequebook-euthanasia/

Work capability assessor asked why depressed claimant had not committed suicide
http://voxpoliticalonline.com/2014/12/06/work-capability-assessor-asked-why-depressed-claimant-had-not-committed-suicide/

UK Sleepwalking into Fascism: Workhouses for Disabled, The #RacistVan, Racial Profiling
http://www.scriptonitedaily.com/2013/08/02/uk-sleepwalking-into-fascism-workhouses-for-disabled-the-racistvan-racial-profiling/

Counting the corpses
http://anotherangryvoice.blogspot.com/2013/04/counting-corpses-atos-wca.html

The disability witch hunt continues
http://anotherangryvoice.blogspot.com/2013/12/the-disability-witch-hunt-continues.html

cstanleytech

(26,294 posts)
28. Oh there is no "might" about it at all.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 03:50 AM
Feb 2015

And yes the varies governments of the world from time to time have tried such BS but that doesnt mean that is whats happening here.
Does it need to be monitored? Sure I agree with that because its always possible they could try it again.

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
30. Well, that's your opinion which you are entitled to, of course`
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 04:11 AM
Feb 2015

There is a large and growing group of victims and concerned activists in the UK who disagree with it.

Even the UN are investigating what's going on...

United Nations Probing UK Over 'Grave' Human Rights Violations Of Disabled

"It is a very high threshold thing; the violations should really be grave and very systemic."

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/08/28/un-dwp-benefits-disabled-human-rights-probe_n_5727580.html




UK becomes the first country to face a UN inquiry into disability rights violations

We need to ask why our Government refuses to instigate or agree an inquiry into the substantial rise in deaths amongst sick and disabled people, as these deaths are so clearly a correlated consequence of this Government’s policies.

https://kittysjones.wordpress.com/2014/08/16/uk-becomes-the-first-country-to-face-a-un-inquiry-into-disability-rights-violations/

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
31. How do you think a situation in which a pregnancy would threaten her health would be described?
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 05:56 AM
Feb 2015

I presume you agree that there are situations in which another pregnancy can be a severe threat to a woman's health. And that it's possible it could happen to a woman who doesn't have the capacity to consent (she has an IQ of about 70).

The judge said the woman had a history of concealing or attempting to conceal pregnancies from health professionals. He said: “This case is not about eugenics. This outcome has been driven by the bleak yet undisputed evidence that a further pregnancy would be a significantly life-threatening event for (the woman).

“The applicants’ obstetric, gynaecological and contraceptive experts strongly recommend this treatment for (the woman), jointly expressing themselves in these stark terms: ‘The risk to (the woman) of a future pregnancy, especially if concealed, is highly likely to lead to her death’.”

http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/feb/04/judge-sterilisation-mother-learning-disabilities-pregnant

You seem to be saying you assume everyone involved is lying. How can you tell the difference between your scenario, and one in which what was reported was the truth?

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
37. .Let's just say you seem to trust them more than I do.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 10:05 AM
Feb 2015

My opinion is that enforced sterilisation is an authoritarian practice I find very difficult to condone.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
38. Enforced hospitalisation is also authoritarian, but sometimes it is best for the health
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 10:16 AM
Feb 2015

of the person. In this case, both the woman and any future children would be at risk ("Doctors said the wall of her uterus was "tissue-paper thin" and likely to rupture in childbirth, leading to almost certain death of the infant.&quot

Do you think the couple would be up to bringing up future children? If not (and that is the opinion of the professionals who know them, and who have taken the previous 6 children into care), do you think she would have a happier life getting pregnant again, and having another baby taken away after a risky pregnancy?

cstanleytech

(26,294 posts)
40. Decisions of this magnitude should always be difficult ones to make and I hope they remain difficult
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 10:34 AM
Feb 2015

ones because when they become easy is when you really need to start worrying.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
48. Look I hear what you are saying and I share your concern but as a woman i know that many
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:52 AM
Feb 2015

women face this issue of life threatening pregnancies. It is not unusual. And as the mother of a developmentally disabled daughter I am wondering what you would suggest be done? Let her die or follow the advice of the doctor and maybe a second opinion.

Sometimes you have to trust someone. And it is not as if there are all kinds disabled people being rounded up for sterilization in the UK. If that were the case then we should be very upset.

My family were victims of Eugenics in the late 20s here in the US. But medical use of sterilization was not the problem.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
56. Guardians, in conjunction with the courts
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 01:16 PM
Feb 2015

should be able to make this decision. Having daughters, I could not imagine what it would be like if one was mentally disabled, but was popping out a baby every few years! Yikes. Break her heart and forcibly remove the baby, or am I stuck raising the kids?

Of course, the question should be, "how disabled" must one be before taking away reproductive rights? Put on birth control? Forced abortion? Forced sterilization? It is a very sensitive subject and one we might not want to consider, but for the responsible parties living through it, they live it every day.

KT2000

(20,583 posts)
29. A drug addicted woman
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 04:04 AM
Feb 2015

is currently pregnant with her seventh child. All six of her other children are being raised by her elderly parents. They are trying to secure alternative arrangements in case they are no longer able, such as finding other relatives to care for them.
The woman goes from rehab, release, jail, release, rehab, etc.
Her husband also has drug addiction and alternates between jail sentences.

What to do about something like this. The children will eventually be separated and sent to various relatives or foster care. There will likely be more children to come.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
49. There are many cases like you are describing. And it is a real problem. Especially since those kids
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 11:56 AM
Feb 2015

are at risk of being born disabled themselves. At present the courts are terminating parental rights and the children can be adopted. Also I know that sometimes the family has the services of PCAs and councilors and all these helpers try to talk the family into sterilization. We do not have a good answer for this.

fingrin

(120 posts)
32. The able bodied community
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 06:33 AM
Feb 2015

Last edited Thu Feb 5, 2015, 07:19 AM - Edit history (1)

is woefully ignorant on issues like these. So lets lay it out from a parents point of view who has a Intellectually Disabled Female teenager.
Like most Intellectually Disabled she is highly sexualised, statistically people with I.D engage in more frequent sex as a means of pleasure the same as you or I. The difference is usually it is their only source of connection as they don't have the skills to emotionally bond due to their Disability.
Judging from the article she has some skills to live in the community with support, but not disabled enough to be in State institutionalised care.
Managing her personal cares and medication properly seems to be beyond her skill level as well as maintaining her health during pregnancy. This is backed up by all of her children being removed by the State.
Calls for the father to be sterilised or take responsibility is again woefully ignorant. In all probabilities the Father is statistically Intellectually Disabled as well. Birds of a feather. Relationships in the community are nearly always within their peer group as they develop over many years. It is important to remember that the Disabled community is a silent community within a community (Yours)
Lastly with the outcry of forced sterilisation and the comments about Eugenics, People need to empathise that not all people should have children even thought it is a Human right. Especially some Intellectually Disabled.
Take my Daughter as an example. A teenager with an Intellectual disability so severe she is unable to read or write and has virtually no cognition or ability to make an informed consent to anything.
Make no mistake, if she were to become pregnant it is rape plain and simple. There is no grey area or "I thought she consented"
A pregnancy which she has no understanding on how to manage. A pregnancy that will result in the immediate removal of the child by the state.
Is she does become pregnant the best and safest option for her would be Abortion. To do this i would have to get the court to agree as she is over 16 and "Has the Human right" to make her own choice.
You ask a preschooler if she wants to give birth to her own baby, Would you ask that of your own able bodied Daughter? Choose now.
She will be in effect a sex offenders perfect victim, easily manipulated and one who does not have the skills to defend herself or cry rape.
So the question I must ask is, Where are the defenders of Women's rights now?
Where is her right to be safe from sexual exploitation?
Would I get my child sterilised? In a heart beat, no second thoughts and no regrets.

As to the danger of able bodied being sterilised against the consent, that should be never allowed. I advocate for medical boards to meet to discuss any case as needed regarding women's health and the intellectually disabled.
Medical issues around the disabled are well documented and Numerous specialists are involved in their care as well as community support workers and Special needs schools and other Government agencies.
Everyday issues around women's health can have a profound effect on the person and can cause lifetime psychological trauma.
You try explaining to someone who is disabled every month year in and year out why she is bleeding and in pain. Try explaining why it is not OK to show Daddy where she is bleeding.
When you have walked in our shoes even for one day then offer an opinion. Sometimes the best people to make a decision around issues like these are the Medical professionals and Lawyers. The right decision has been made in this single case as it was decided based solely on professional evidence with the best interests of the person involved. Sometime just sometimes, Advocates for the Disabled have a minor victory hard fought for in the best interests of the Disabled person and their limited quality of life. After all isn't the quality of life for the intellectually disabled the most important thing? Especially since they have already lost so much without any fault of their own. Look around you own home, look at you spouse and own children. Look at your Holiday pictures and of yourself riding a bike as a kid. Most Intellectually Disabled will never achieve those most simple things we all take for granted. We all have one life to live, lets do all we can to make theirs an enjoyable one.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
33. I'd also add that the health threat of another pregnancy is to the mother, not the father
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 06:49 AM
Feb 2015

If this couple were to break up and she started having sex with someone else, then giving the father a vasectomy would have solved nothing (and, yes, her long-term partner "also has learning disabilities&quot .

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
50. Worked with persons with ID for 45 years. Had very few clients who were sexually active. I do agree
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:03 PM
Feb 2015

with the idea of medical boards when courts make these decisions. I am lucky regarding this my own daughter has total care and 24 hour supervision. Sexuality has never been a problem.

 

Nihil

(13,508 posts)
35. Good.
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 09:34 AM
Feb 2015

The people upthread who are bleating about "Eugenics" either haven't read the
facts about this case or are too stupid to understand anything other than slogans.

LynnTTT

(362 posts)
54. Well,
Thu Feb 5, 2015, 12:33 PM
Feb 2015

It won't happen, but I have my own theory that I truly think would work.
When any woman goes into the hospital to have their third child, the government could offer a free steriliization AND a one time bonus payment of $ 5,000. Would many women take it? Who knows. But I suspect that many people would, especially poor women. Is this pitting poor against wealthy? Yes; obviously wealthy women won't take the deal. But most wealthy people don't have more than three children anyway.
I have a cousin who is mentally ill and been on SSDI since age 18. She had 2 (maybe 3) babies which were adopted. Smoked and drank thru all pregnancies. . Her parents and social workers finally convinced her to get sterilized. I often wonder how well those children are doing.

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
58. I raised a crack baby. It's no picnic. The biological mother
Fri Feb 6, 2015, 12:10 AM
Feb 2015

had nine children before she had her tubes tied after giving birth to the ninth child while she was in prison. There were 5 different fathers. All 9 of her children were taken away. Some raised by family members others were put up for closed adoption. Part me does not find this decision harsh. Part of me thinks we just spared future innocence and society.

I wonder why an IUD placement was considered?

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