Texas toddler dies in car as temperature tops 100 degrees
Source: AP
PECOS, Texas (AP) Police say a toddler died after being left in a hot car during triple-digit temperatures in West Texas.
Pecos (PAY'-kuhs) police say 17-month-old Avrian Villalobos (AY'-vree-uhn vee-uh-LOH'-bohs) died Tuesday.
Chief Clay McKinney said Wednesday that Avrian's mother had Avrian and two older children with her when she dropped her husband off at work. The mother drove home and she and her two other children went inside, accidentally leaving the toddler in the car.
The mother later realized her mistake and tried to resuscitate Avrian. She drove him to a hospital, where he was declared dead.
FULL story at link.
Read more: http://bigstory.ap.org/article/9f657cd50b2b453d86ae352d68d775ff/texas-toddler-dies-car-temperature-tops-100-degrees
Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)Sadness for his mother and family too
valerief
(53,235 posts)I wonder if she's devoutly anti-abortion.
KansDem
(28,498 posts)You get in the car with three kids; you get out of the car with three kids.
How difficult is that?!!
valerief
(53,235 posts)They say it's easy to forget. Hell, I wouldn't want to be in those families.
Don't have more children than you can count when tired, upset, or stressed. Or any combination thereof.
In my mother's case, that was one. In mine, zero.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Of course, had the baby been a dog, no one would stand for melting it in an car oven.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)"Hey, I just ran into the store for five minutes and I got delayed." "The dog is fine -- I cracked the window an inch." That sort of thing.
The people who leave babies have a lapse of memory that they will pay for for the rest of their lives. There might be some incidents where parents intentionally fried their kids, but the vast majority are horrible mistakes.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)She left her in the car on purpose? Because that is the definition of "murder."
Maybe you can call her up and tell her you think she is a murderer. I guess she deserves more punishment beyond living the rest of her life in hell and regret.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)if parents are not practicing retroactive birth control.
valerief
(53,235 posts)closeupready
(29,503 posts)ladjf
(17,320 posts)from leaving a toddler in the car.
Nuclear Unicorn
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dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)eppur se nova terms it...Offensensitivity
The Coddling of the American Mind
http://www.democraticunderground.com/112410613
Warpy
(111,336 posts)and the little kid who kept you up all night over the last few nights is finally asleep.
It's not as hard as you might think and it happens more often than you'd think. If it happens in winter, the kid lives.
valerief
(53,235 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)this is a total nightmare. What is wrong?
elias49
(4,259 posts)lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)seat. Poor little thing was strapped in that shit.
Paladin
(28,272 posts)We get tragic evidence of it, every day.
lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)Paladin
(28,272 posts)Sadly, there always seems to be a few who can't manage it, and they're the ones who make it into the news.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)If you have a lot of things on your mind and operating on auto pilot it is not hard to just think that your baby is asleep in the house.
Everyone of us has forgotten something major in our lives. This is the ultimate example of that. It's horrific.
This mother will be tortured by this death for the rest of her life.
I guess I'm an "apologist" now according to posters upthread.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I think "apologist" is simply the intellectually lazy way of saying "someone who disagrees with me-- but I'm not clever enough to respond rationally to the disagreement."
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)anti-"apologist."
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)at least the two older kids would have noticed and said something. Maybe they aren't old enough to talk yet? Hell if I know, I didn't have kids.
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)the older kids are? Even little ones will notice the baby not with them. (not accusing, just wondering) .
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)We thought the same thing at the same time!
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)enough... I cannot imagine what she must be going through right now..
ALWAYS LEAVE SOMETHING IN THE BACK SEAT... YOUR PURSE, A SHOE, SOMETHING!
lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)Chemisse
(30,817 posts)There must be no worse feeling when your child dies and it was due to your own error.
NJCher
(35,721 posts)Invented by a kid to save kids. This boy entered a contest and won. The device is easy and cheap:
http://wkrn.com/2013/07/18/local-boy-invents-device-to-remind-parents-of-children-in-hot-cars/
It's really nothing more than a rubber band across the door, so the driver cannot forget.
If I were a parent, there is no way I would fail to buy this, as I used to forget a lot of things.
Cher
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)GOLGO 13
(1,681 posts)My son falls asleep almost 100% of the time while driving in the car. He's so quiet back there that you could "almost" forget he's back there.
I can't imagine having to live the rest of your life knowing that "you" killed your own child. Too tragic for words.
Sunlei
(22,651 posts)to leave a child under age 8 or so? alone in a car for any reason.
People don't seem to 'forget' the childs seat or seatbelt use as much as they 'forget' a baby.