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7962

(11,841 posts)
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 10:59 AM Nov 2015

University of Missouri assistant professor charged with 'violently grabbing 14-year-old relative by

Source: DailyMailUK

An assistant professor at an American university has been arrested for allegedly grabbing a 14-year-old female relative by the hair and dragging her into a car after he noticed she wasn't wearing a hijab.

Youssif Z. Omar, 53, was reportedly at Hickman High School in Columbia, Missouri, on Tuesday when he spotted that the girl did not have the traditional Muslim headscarf.
Officer Latisha Stroer told the Columbia Tribune in an email that Omar grabbed the girl 'very violently by the hair'.

He then allegedly slapped her across the face, and pulled her by the hair down and flight of stairs and into his car.




Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3338058/University-Missouri-Assistant-Professor-charged-violently-grabbing-14-year-old-relative-hair-dragging-school-not-wearing-hijab.html



Hope they fire him for doing this if it's true. If he does this in public, i wonder what he does in private?
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University of Missouri assistant professor charged with 'violently grabbing 14-year-old relative by (Original Post) 7962 Nov 2015 OP
Horrible. riversedge Nov 2015 #1
Photo.... says he is from Benghazi...... riversedge Nov 2015 #2
He has been able to get a few PH.D's while here in the US.... riversedge Nov 2015 #9
Worldly intelligence has nothing to do with virtue, goodness, decency' indeed, Joe Chi Minh Nov 2015 #12
I'd investigate each and every one of those degrees. LuckyLib Nov 2015 #28
This has nothing to do with academia 6chars Nov 2015 #3
People are often identified by their job. But it actually does have something pnwmom Nov 2015 #6
it depends on university of missouri policy 6chars Nov 2015 #10
Interestingly enough, he does not seem be what he says he is. Buzz Clik Nov 2015 #21
Confirmed from school directory exboyfil Nov 2015 #22
Of course it does. 7962 Nov 2015 #7
Good grief--of course his position in society as an educator matters in this case! riversedge Nov 2015 #11
The hell it doesn't. GGJohn Nov 2015 #14
his being a professor is not why he did this 6chars Nov 2015 #15
I never said his being a professor had anything to do with this, GGJohn Nov 2015 #16
Why he did this has a lot to do with why he should not be a prof. Then again, he isn't one. merrily Nov 2015 #27
saw that -adjunct ta who calls himself assistant prof. 6chars Nov 2015 #32
He should be fired and convicted of abuse/child abuse/battery or some such... pipoman Nov 2015 #4
How about kidnapping? Quackers Dec 2015 #57
People here frequently say that women in the US only wear coverings out of free will. pnwmom Nov 2015 #5
Many do loyalsister Nov 2015 #25
Obviously the young women pulled by her hair to the car did not feel that way and should be Person 2713 Nov 2015 #29
That does not negate the fact that there are women who wear them because they want to loyalsister Nov 2015 #31
So. How should government protect the girls/women who are so hidden pnwmom Nov 2015 #48
Many might. But how do you protect the females like this girl who don't want to? pnwmom Nov 2015 #34
I don't know how to protect them loyalsister Nov 2015 #39
Child abuse Blackjackdavey Dec 2015 #61
I know, right? Coventina Nov 2015 #41
This really has nothing to do with Arabic as much as a conservative man LiberalArkie Nov 2015 #8
Yes, sometimes I think very conservative religion sulphurdunn Nov 2015 #13
Stealing. TalkingDog Nov 2015 #17
Bingo. It's not his religion per se but his sense of male control over females. We see it here ... Hekate Nov 2015 #18
I'd say that's kinda complicated. Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #20
I don't see kidnapping exboyfil Nov 2015 #23
I would have preferred the swat to "go out and cut me a switch" LiberalArkie Nov 2015 #30
The dragging by her hair would be assault Yupster Dec 2015 #56
Why isn't it kidnapping? He's an uncle, not a parent. There is no indication pnwmom Nov 2015 #35
If parents give him permission to take custody exboyfil Nov 2015 #37
I don't know where I heard that he was an uncle. But he obviously was not her father. pnwmom Nov 2015 #38
Once you move to the US, it's not complicated at all. Secular trumps religious law, period. Hekate Nov 2015 #45
Thats the main point. You move HERE, you follow OUR laws or stay out. 7962 Nov 2015 #46
I had a friend who attended Bob Jones U loyalsister Nov 2015 #26
Was she forced to attend Bob Jones U? If not, then it was her choice. Coventina Nov 2015 #40
Could have been loyalsister Nov 2015 #44
Shoot. They did that at BYU. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #51
Anyone who does that needs to go to jail. n/t eShirl Nov 2015 #19
Agree. Jr. High VP paddled me once in the 60s. I was right around her age. Let's dig him up 24601 Nov 2015 #24
do you think this is funny? Skittles Nov 2015 #43
I certainly don't. I do, however, disagree with comment that "anybody" needs to be jailed. What's 24601 Dec 2015 #49
you're equating an abusive father with a paddling incident Skittles Dec 2015 #50
The inference I drew was that eShirl's go to jail meaning was more generic than the narrow 24601 Dec 2015 #53
Yikes. romanic Nov 2015 #33
That's just the way some of those men think. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #52
Irony: An August 2015 Short Essay on Language and Adapting to Living in an Alien Culture.... xocet Nov 2015 #36
I hope they deport this asshole if he isn't a citizen Marrah_G Nov 2015 #42
Perfect! 7962 Nov 2015 #47
Hey Professor, there are plenty of countries where that behavior would be praised, Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #54
This incident would have never made the news had the people been white as snow. Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #55
You're ignoring the religious aspect of this. Oneironaut Dec 2015 #58
Horseshit. "Blindingly white"? What an insulting term. 7962 Dec 2015 #59
Are you suggesting that girls "white as snow" get assaulted for not covering their slutty hair? Quantess Dec 2015 #60
I know very well of what I speak. I grew up in a Protestant fundamentalist home, Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #62

riversedge

(70,242 posts)
2. Photo.... says he is from Benghazi......
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:07 AM
Nov 2015




.......The next day, Omar was arrested on suspicion of child abuse while he was at his home on the 1700 block of Timber Creek Drive.

Omar's LinkedIn page lists him as being an assistant professor at the University of Missouri, Columbia and manager of Artifacts Journal at the University bookstore.

His Facebook page says he's married and originally from Benghazi, Libya. His LinkedIn profile says he was the head of the English department at the University of Benghazi Wahat Branch from 2003-2007.

He was released from the Boone County Jail after posting a $4,500 bond.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3338058/University-Missouri-Assistant-Professor-charged-violently-grabbing-14-year-old-relative-hair-dragging-school-not-wearing-hijab.html#ixzz3stRIpZZh
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riversedge

(70,242 posts)
9. He has been able to get a few PH.D's while here in the US....
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:32 AM
Nov 2015

Too bad it thinks it fine to slap around a young teenage female!!


From his page..




https://www.linkedin.com/in/youssif-omar-aa334442

......
Education

University of Missouri, Columbia
PhD in English Education; PhD in Linguistics; PhD in Translation Studies, English Education; Linguistics; Translation, 4:00
2008 – 2013
Benghazi Libya
B. A. in Translation; M.Sc. in Business Adminstration, M. A. in Applied Linguistics; M. A. in Translation; M. Sc. in Business Adminstration
1994 – 2007

Volunteer Experience & Causes
Causes Youssif cares about:

Education

Joe Chi Minh

(15,229 posts)
12. Worldly intelligence has nothing to do with virtue, goodness, decency' indeed,
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:44 AM
Nov 2015

when it comes down to it, it is more likely to speak adversely about a person's character.

Of course, while the Beatitudes and the Sermon on the Mount, have long been held by many people to be the most sublime teaching in the history of literature and religion, among the worst and most seminal failings of Christendom, worldly ambition and covetousness have actually ended up being cast as virtually the sovereign virtues.

But God knows what a bunch of inveterate rat-bags we are, so he still manages to bring some good out of it all, the private schools in the UK and, I suspect, the US, having been one of the last bastions of Christianity in a world increasingly plunging into darkness.

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
28. I'd investigate each and every one of those degrees.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 03:44 PM
Nov 2015

The list is a bit much. And you'd be shocked how many college and university employers don't do due diligence in vetting applicants.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
6. People are often identified by their job. But it actually does have something
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:24 AM
Nov 2015

to do with academia.

This man is entrusted with the welfare of young people and it appears he may not deserve that trust.

6chars

(3,967 posts)
10. it depends on university of missouri policy
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:33 AM
Nov 2015

obviously this was not a campus incident. there are probably rules about how off-campus conduct affects on-campus status, in particular when criminal charges are involved, more so when conviction is obtained.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
21. Interestingly enough, he does not seem be what he says he is.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 01:50 PM
Nov 2015

Mizzou does not show him as a professor of any rank; at best he is an "adjunct", but he appears to be an instructor/teaching assistant.

That does not change much other than the curiosity that both his Facebook and LinkedIn pages as show him as Asst Prof.

You can be whatever you want on the internet...

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
22. Confirmed from school directory
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:03 PM
Nov 2015

Omar, Youssif Zaghwani (MU-Student)
Email: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx you can look it up
Title: Adjunct Instructor of Arabic
Department: German & Russian Studies

Unless this is a different person he lied on his online resume. Good luck getting any sort of faculty position in the future.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
14. The hell it doesn't.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:50 AM
Nov 2015

This man is entrusted with the education of young people and should be setting a good example in both his private and public life.
He should, at the very least, be placed on suspension pending a full investigation and the outcome of criminal charges.

6chars

(3,967 posts)
15. his being a professor is not why he did this
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:02 PM
Nov 2015

of course, you are correct that his employer should treat this incident like any employer whose staff work with young people.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
16. I never said his being a professor had anything to do with this,
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:04 PM
Nov 2015

but his being an educator has every thing to do with this in an abstract way.

6chars

(3,967 posts)
32. saw that -adjunct ta who calls himself assistant prof.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 04:04 PM
Nov 2015

seems to have delusions of importance across the board.

Quackers

(2,256 posts)
57. How about kidnapping?
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 04:44 AM
Dec 2015

He was her uncle but not her legal guardian. He had no authority to remove her from school property.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
5. People here frequently say that women in the US only wear coverings out of free will.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:17 AM
Nov 2015

Clearly that isn't the case, either in Britain or the US.

I agree with France drawing the line with the burqa, because it turns women who were it into shadows.

(I realize that this article discusses a headscarf only, but it demonstrates the lack of consent that is often involved.)

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
25. Many do
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 03:35 PM
Nov 2015

Have you ever asked women directly? I have, and one woman told me that it helped her feel connected to her family who still lived in Syria. Others have told me it is a religious observance and as they described it, it sounded more like my grandma's crucifix than a forced burqa. Especially coming from the woman who is married to a Christian man.

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
29. Obviously the young women pulled by her hair to the car did not feel that way and should be
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 03:45 PM
Nov 2015

free from public abuse for choosing not to want to wear it

I would have to be forced to wear a crucifix and it would not be of free will although another person may declare it keeps them close to Christ

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
31. That does not negate the fact that there are women who wear them because they want to
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 03:50 PM
Nov 2015

And they should be as free to do so as my grandma is to wear her crucifix.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
48. So. How should government protect the girls/women who are so hidden
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:19 PM
Nov 2015

under their clothing that they can't be identified on the street?

Girls like Elizabeth Smart, who was kidnapped and held in plain sight for a year because of the burqa-like outfit her kidnapper made her wear.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
34. Many might. But how do you protect the females like this girl who don't want to?
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 07:34 PM
Nov 2015

And it's worse with the burqas because they inhibit movement and prevent a girl's identification while out in public. A girl wouldn't even know her own relative if they were both out in public wearing burqas.

Burqas keep women isolated and helpless. That's the point.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
39. I don't know how to protect them
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 09:00 PM
Nov 2015

I do know it isn't my place to tell a woman what she can or cannot wear.

Blackjackdavey

(178 posts)
61. Child abuse
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 09:08 AM
Dec 2015

This seems simple to me, it's child abuse and should be treated as such. Granted this was a public display that in New York would have resulted in an immediate mandated child abuse hotline report, which doesn't do much for the girls who suffer behind the scenes, but it is child abuse and there are mechanisms in place to handle it when it comes to light.

LiberalArkie

(15,719 posts)
8. This really has nothing to do with Arabic as much as a conservative man
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:27 AM
Nov 2015

I have see a redneck southern Baptist dad grab his daughter and drag her because her shorts were too short for him. But then again what would have been said of the same dad for letting his daughter go out dressed "like that" if she had been assaulted or raped.


We are in a strange world.

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
13. Yes, sometimes I think very conservative religion
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:45 AM
Nov 2015

exist mostly to legitimize the beliefs of those suffering from personality disorders.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
18. Bingo. It's not his religion per se but his sense of male control over females. We see it here ...
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 01:38 PM
Nov 2015

....in different flavors.

But -- and this is key -- we have laws here that are supposed to guarantee the rights of women and girls. "Once and for all: women's rights are human rights."

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
20. I'd say that's kinda complicated.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 01:43 PM
Nov 2015

In that Islam institutionalizes male control over females, with the result being an atmosphere of systemic misogyny that enables people like Prof. Omar.

In any case, this is assault and battery and possibly kidnapping. This guy needs to be indicted.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
23. I don't see kidnapping
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:08 PM
Nov 2015

Definitely assault and battery with the slap.

Assuming that this is his child or he has a guardian relationship with the child, what level of force is allowed to compel her to come with him?

A battery charge is appropriate for anyone who slaps someone irrespective of the relationship.

As a hypothetical, what about a swat of the backside to a preteen child?

Interesting parallel with a conservative darling. Swats ok.

http://www.etonline.com/news/175462_duck_dynasty_stars_willie_korie_robertson_get_candid_on_disciplining_kids/


Here it is ok to slap your child at least according to some. Close to same age as above

http://www.cnn.com/2015/04/28/us/baltimore-riot-mom-smacks-son/

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
35. Why isn't it kidnapping? He's an uncle, not a parent. There is no indication
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 07:36 PM
Nov 2015

that he is her legal guardian. He's just a male relative who thinks he should be able to control a female.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
37. If parents give him permission to take custody
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 08:14 PM
Nov 2015

then it is not kidnapping (at least I think). I did not know it was an uncle. The story said a relative.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
38. I don't know where I heard that he was an uncle. But he obviously was not her father.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 08:36 PM
Nov 2015

The news reports wouldn't be describing a father as a "family member."

And it wouldn't matter whether he was an uncle, a brother, or cousin. He didn't have the right to grab her and put her in the car unless he did it with a parent's permission, which is unlikely. (Though I won't be surprised if they try to mitigate the penalty by saying it was okay with them. But then they're also excusing the assault.)

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
45. Once you move to the US, it's not complicated at all. Secular trumps religious law, period.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 10:07 PM
Nov 2015

That is a very hard concept for fundamentalists to grasp, and I mean Christians, Jews, and Muslims. Fundamentalists have a hole in their thinking where this is concerned, but the US Constitution is clear.

We just had another Planned Parenthood murder(s). It's been going on for decades now, perpetrated by our own home-grown terrorists, and every single one of them has claimed to be Christian.

The way to deal with them is to come down hard with secular law enforcement and stop pussy-footing around about their tender feelings about Jesus, G-d, and Allah. And I say this as a religious person.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
46. Thats the main point. You move HERE, you follow OUR laws or stay out.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 10:34 PM
Nov 2015

Reminds me of the people trying to defend female circumcision several years back saying "religious freedom"

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
40. Was she forced to attend Bob Jones U? If not, then it was her choice.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 09:03 PM
Nov 2015

We're talking about women who are not left with a choice.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
44. Could have been
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 09:55 PM
Nov 2015

Her father freaked out when she behaved like a teenager and moved her out of state where he had gotten involved with a hardcore fundamentalist church.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
51. Shoot. They did that at BYU.
Tue Dec 1, 2015, 07:50 PM
Dec 2015

Women students had to wear dresses or skirts that were modest. They may still do it for all I know. But those were Mormon women who chose to go there and knew the rules.

That's a lot different than slapping someone and dragging them out by their hair.

24601

(3,962 posts)
24. Agree. Jr. High VP paddled me once in the 60s. I was right around her age. Let's dig him up
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 02:50 PM
Nov 2015

and jail him.

24601

(3,962 posts)
49. I certainly don't. I do, however, disagree with comment that "anybody" needs to be jailed. What's
Tue Dec 1, 2015, 06:33 PM
Dec 2015

that saying - something like "all absolutes are dangerous or invalid."

I deserved it. I never did it again and suffered no lasting effects.

24601

(3,962 posts)
53. The inference I drew was that eShirl's go to jail meaning was more generic than the narrow
Tue Dec 1, 2015, 08:36 PM
Dec 2015

specifics of this incident. If eShirl's real intent was to advocate jail only in cases where cases where an adult violently grabbed and abducted a minor relative by the hair for a bullshit hijab violation, than I'd agree without reservation.

But if eShirl's intent was to advocate jailing for all cases of an adult grabbing, hitting, etc a minor, then my position changes to "it depends" rather than automatic jail.

And my view also is that that jail comes only after conviction by a court. Even the worst of the worst are entitled to due process where the state is required to prove the case.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
52. That's just the way some of those men think.
Tue Dec 1, 2015, 07:54 PM
Dec 2015

Women get stoned to death for showing an ankle.

Women are just treated so badly in some places in the middle east. I wish there was someway to help them .

Look at all the women who are burned to death in India because their husbands don't want them anymore. Or they have acid thrown in their face. Or their noses are cut off.

It's awful.

xocet

(3,871 posts)
36. Irony: An August 2015 Short Essay on Language and Adapting to Living in an Alien Culture....
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 08:09 PM
Nov 2015
Editor's Introduction
Language and Living in Alien Cultures
Youssif Zaghwani Omar

In its wide sense culture describes the style of life of a group of people in a particular community. Culture encompasses people’s beliefs, traditions, behaviors, values, styles of life and thinking, and the like. People behave culturally through language that passes along from one generation into another. So, it is not an easy task for people to live in an alien culture without understanding the language of the community. Some people, however, can live in alien cultures and adapt the lifestyle of the new culture; other people can’t. It is very hard for some people to be away from their own culture because they find themselves confined to the deep-rooted beliefs and customs they acquired and learned from the communities in which they were born and raised. Such people see themselves as fish taken away from the water.

Yet, with assistance of language, people can adapt to the new culture. When people get assistance with language to live a new lifestyle in the alien culture, they can change their behavior and tradition to accommodate the alien culture. Language, then, provides people power to communicate with each other in a community different from theirs. This indicates that language and culture are two sides of the same coin. People can adapt new lifestyles in alien cultures when they find healthy atmosphere and assistance with language. This is what happens with our students in Artifacts Journal. Students use language effectively to understand the world around them and to help readers from other parts of the world to know about other beliefs, cultures, and practices.

https://artifactsjournal.missouri.edu/2015/08/language-and-living-in-alien-cultures/

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
42. I hope they deport this asshole if he isn't a citizen
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 09:09 PM
Nov 2015

let him take his fucked up views back to his home country....after he spends time in jail here.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
54. Hey Professor, there are plenty of countries where that behavior would be praised,
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 12:11 AM
Dec 2015

but you're in the USA and we don't do that stuff here. In this country even if you see a female relative wearing a bikini you keep your fucking hands off her if you want to stay out of prison.

Judi Lynn

(160,545 posts)
55. This incident would have never made the news had the people been white as snow.
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 01:21 AM
Dec 2015

What happens in public and in private in blindingly white homes would make many people's hair stand on end, and very often no one ever knows outside the family, and any passing strangers.

Children often live in hell, with absolutely no where to turn, and can only look ahead to leaving home, and never look back once they're gone, for every reason in the world, and they don't make the news. No one knows who feels like reporting it to the local news station.

This story makes good propaganda for those who feed on stuff like this, because of the culture of the family, while the same kind of behavior is going on right next door to them and they don't have the vaguest idea.

Oneironaut

(5,504 posts)
58. You're ignoring the religious aspect of this.
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 08:27 AM
Dec 2015

Religion enforces backward thinking. Just because child abuse happens somewhere in the U.S. doesn't mean that this story should be ignored.

Religion doesn't need propaganda against its self. It's already established itself to be evil.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
59. Horseshit. "Blindingly white"? What an insulting term.
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 08:54 AM
Dec 2015

White people get arrested all the time for stupid crap like this. When its known outside the home.
THIS wouldnt have made the news either if it hadnt been in public. No one would have known. "Behind closed doors" doesnt care what color you are.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
60. Are you suggesting that girls "white as snow" get assaulted for not covering their slutty hair?
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 09:01 AM
Dec 2015

And that all these "white as snow" male relatives who assault them for not covering their slutty hair are running around loose?

What ARE you saying?

Your comment seems like false equivalence to me.

Judi Lynn

(160,545 posts)
62. I know very well of what I speak. I grew up in a Protestant fundamentalist home,
Wed Dec 2, 2015, 09:16 AM
Dec 2015

and was treated to physical, mental, emotional violence far beyond my ability to endure.

Thanks for your thoughtful observations.

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