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azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 04:51 AM Dec 2015

U.S. Muslim women debate safety of wearing hijab amid backlash

Source: Salt Lake Tribune

On the night of the California shootings, Asifa Quraishi-Landes sat on her couch, her face in her hands, and thought about what was ahead for her and other Muslim women who wear a scarf or veil in public.

"To all my Muslim sisters who wear hijab," she wrote on her Facebook page. "If you feel your life or safety is threatened in any way because of your dress, you have an Islamic allowance (darura/necessity) to adjust your clothing accordingly. Your life is more important than your dress."

The question of whether to wear the hijab is already deeply sensitive for Muslim women. Scholars have debated for years whether women have a religious obligation to dress a particular way. And Muslims disagree over whether the hijab is a symbol of piety or oppression.

Women who wear a scarf or veil say they have many motivations for doing so, including demonstrating devotion to their faith and showing pride in their religious heritage. Well before the latest uproar, it was common for American Muslim women wearing the hijab to be stared or cursed at, or have strangers tug at their scarves.

Read more: http://www.sltrib.com/home/3293449-155/us-muslim-women-debate-safety-of



I witnessed this in Minneapolis in the days following 9-11 attacks on Somali women both physical and verbal
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U.S. Muslim women debate safety of wearing hijab amid backlash (Original Post) azurnoir Dec 2015 OP
Muslims are such peaceful and welcoming people. They would be the last to resort of violence 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #1
That's a ridiculous statement independentpiney Dec 2015 #6
A lot of women here wear the scarf. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #2
I have always thought that the BlueMTexpat Dec 2015 #3
"Your life is more important than your dress"? Not always ... JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2015 #4
Most Muslims can't stand the extremists IronLionZion Dec 2015 #5
My Uber driver in So. Cal. SCVDem Dec 2015 #7
Sad. It could get him killed, currently. Something has gone really rotten in the culture here. n/t Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #15
the hijab has nothing to do with the religion. Also, the first thought i had was about the victims patsimp Dec 2015 #8
I sympathize with these women. My family lost our second jwirr Dec 2015 #9
That's how my grandmother experienced a la izquierda Dec 2015 #12
That is interesting. I did not know about the treatment of the jwirr Dec 2015 #17
I make it a point to smile at women wearing a scarf or hijab Maeve Dec 2015 #10
A small silver lining for women who really want to go without a covering flamingdem Dec 2015 #11
It very well IS a sign of oppression -that is it's entire reason for existence. vkkv Dec 2015 #13
It's a monstrous shame they aren't free to make the choice for themselves, Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #14
soon all Americans will have to dress like olddots Dec 2015 #16
 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
1. Muslims are such peaceful and welcoming people. They would be the last to resort of violence
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:15 AM
Dec 2015

I do not understand why such a wonderful, peaceful and vibrant people are now facing such hate.

It makes me sick

independentpiney

(1,510 posts)
6. That's a ridiculous statement
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:41 AM
Dec 2015

To broadbrush a diverse group of over a billion people as being all peaceful and loving is no better than saying they're all violent jihadists.

Or did you just leave off the sarcasm thingie?

leftyladyfrommo

(18,869 posts)
2. A lot of women here wear the scarf.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 05:27 AM
Dec 2015

It's so common no one pays much attention to it.

But I could be wrong. Just because I don't pay much attention doesn't mean it doesn't bother other people. We have several Muslim families in our neighborhood and I see the women walking around with their children. I think the little kids all play with the other kids around here.

BlueMTexpat

(15,370 posts)
3. I have always thought that the
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:07 AM
Dec 2015
hijab as a headscarf - not a full body covering as some interpret - could be an option for a bad hair day. Some are actually quite lovely.

If I were in the US right now, I would seriously consider wearing one to show solidarity with Muslim women. What is happening in the US in some areas is outrageous.

IronLionZion

(45,494 posts)
5. Most Muslims can't stand the extremists
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:12 AM
Dec 2015

much in the same way many Americans don't want to be associated with American hate groups or mass shooters



I don't remember much backlash against people who look like the other mass shooters in Sandy Hook or Aurora or any of the countless others


 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
7. My Uber driver in So. Cal.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:41 AM
Dec 2015

I saw his name was Singh. Usually that is a Sikh.

I asked him where his turban was since you never see a Sikh without one and a beard. (Usually)

He said that he just didn't need the trouble the turban brings.

What a country we have here!

I feel shame.

Judi Lynn

(160,593 posts)
15. Sad. It could get him killed, currently. Something has gone really rotten in the culture here. n/t
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:12 PM
Dec 2015

patsimp

(915 posts)
8. the hijab has nothing to do with the religion. Also, the first thought i had was about the victims
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 10:29 AM
Dec 2015

not what I was going to wear.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
9. I sympathize with these women. My family lost our second
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:35 AM
Dec 2015

language during WWII - we were nor forbidden to speak German but we faced suspicion and hatred if we did. I was born in 41 into a family who all spoke two languages - English and German. None of my generation learned any German. Years later we could not get into some colleges because we did not speak a second language.

What I am saying is that in times of war sometimes it is better to give up old traditions than to fight. But I would suggest one thing - teach your children about the tradition and the truth about why you gave it up. Just adopt the US position on the issue.

We are in a very difficult time since 9/11 and it is not all one sided. We need to find ways to make peace.

a la izquierda

(11,797 posts)
12. That's how my grandmother experienced
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 12:41 PM
Dec 2015

the 40s. Her parents stopped speaking Italian and forbid her and her siblings from speaking it.

Interestingly, my grandma began speaking Italian again when she developed Lewy-Body dementia.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
17. That is interesting. I did not know about the treatment of the
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:10 PM
Dec 2015

Italian Americans. Only about German and Japanese. We are all united in this and we above all others in this country understand what is happening to people from the ME. Maybe we can help calm this down.

Maeve

(42,287 posts)
10. I make it a point to smile at women wearing a scarf or hijab
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:47 AM
Dec 2015

Columbus has a fair-sized Somali population...and I would have no hesitation to jump in if I saw someone hassling one.

flamingdem

(39,316 posts)
11. A small silver lining for women who really want to go without a covering
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:48 AM
Dec 2015

This in fact gives them "cover". I'm not convinced it's personal choice every time, there is social and religious and male member of the household pressure to contend with for many.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
13. It very well IS a sign of oppression -that is it's entire reason for existence.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 12:50 PM
Dec 2015

It's not freedom, it is fanaticism which we need much, much less of.

Judi Lynn

(160,593 posts)
14. It's a monstrous shame they aren't free to make the choice for themselves,
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:10 PM
Dec 2015

must change their ways simply to protect themselves against violence from racists.

There are many people in the US who have grown up wearing clothing different from mainstream "Christians," clothing which sets them apart and makes them feel like outsiders in their own homeland. Outside gaping, staring, and asking occasional questions, people usually don't, at least, attack them.

Attacking Muslim women for their faith is unworthy of any human being. This should really be their choice, and left entirely up to them, with no one from the outside trying to bully them into choosing otherwise, or, God forbid, harming them.s

On the other hand, if women don't wear enough clothes to suit some US Americans, they are also likely to get rough treatment.

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