U.S. Muslim women debate safety of wearing hijab amid backlash
Source: Salt Lake Tribune
On the night of the California shootings, Asifa Quraishi-Landes sat on her couch, her face in her hands, and thought about what was ahead for her and other Muslim women who wear a scarf or veil in public.
"To all my Muslim sisters who wear hijab," she wrote on her Facebook page. "If you feel your life or safety is threatened in any way because of your dress, you have an Islamic allowance (darura/necessity) to adjust your clothing accordingly. Your life is more important than your dress."
The question of whether to wear the hijab is already deeply sensitive for Muslim women. Scholars have debated for years whether women have a religious obligation to dress a particular way. And Muslims disagree over whether the hijab is a symbol of piety or oppression.
Women who wear a scarf or veil say they have many motivations for doing so, including demonstrating devotion to their faith and showing pride in their religious heritage. Well before the latest uproar, it was common for American Muslim women wearing the hijab to be stared or cursed at, or have strangers tug at their scarves.
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I witnessed this in Minneapolis in the days following 9-11 attacks on Somali women both physical and verbal
951-Riverside
(7,234 posts)I do not understand why such a wonderful, peaceful and vibrant people are now facing such hate.
It makes me sick
independentpiney
(1,510 posts)To broadbrush a diverse group of over a billion people as being all peaceful and loving is no better than saying they're all violent jihadists.
Or did you just leave off the sarcasm thingie?
leftyladyfrommo
(18,869 posts)It's so common no one pays much attention to it.
But I could be wrong. Just because I don't pay much attention doesn't mean it doesn't bother other people. We have several Muslim families in our neighborhood and I see the women walking around with their children. I think the little kids all play with the other kids around here.
BlueMTexpat
(15,370 posts)If I were in the US right now, I would seriously consider wearing one to show solidarity with Muslim women. What is happening in the US in some areas is outrageous.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,362 posts)IronLionZion
(45,494 posts)much in the same way many Americans don't want to be associated with American hate groups or mass shooters
I don't remember much backlash against people who look like the other mass shooters in Sandy Hook or Aurora or any of the countless others
SCVDem
(5,103 posts)I saw his name was Singh. Usually that is a Sikh.
I asked him where his turban was since you never see a Sikh without one and a beard. (Usually)
He said that he just didn't need the trouble the turban brings.
What a country we have here!
I feel shame.
Judi Lynn
(160,593 posts)patsimp
(915 posts)not what I was going to wear.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)language during WWII - we were nor forbidden to speak German but we faced suspicion and hatred if we did. I was born in 41 into a family who all spoke two languages - English and German. None of my generation learned any German. Years later we could not get into some colleges because we did not speak a second language.
What I am saying is that in times of war sometimes it is better to give up old traditions than to fight. But I would suggest one thing - teach your children about the tradition and the truth about why you gave it up. Just adopt the US position on the issue.
We are in a very difficult time since 9/11 and it is not all one sided. We need to find ways to make peace.
a la izquierda
(11,797 posts)the 40s. Her parents stopped speaking Italian and forbid her and her siblings from speaking it.
Interestingly, my grandma began speaking Italian again when she developed Lewy-Body dementia.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)Italian Americans. Only about German and Japanese. We are all united in this and we above all others in this country understand what is happening to people from the ME. Maybe we can help calm this down.
Maeve
(42,287 posts)Columbus has a fair-sized Somali population...and I would have no hesitation to jump in if I saw someone hassling one.
flamingdem
(39,316 posts)This in fact gives them "cover". I'm not convinced it's personal choice every time, there is social and religious and male member of the household pressure to contend with for many.
vkkv
(3,384 posts)It's not freedom, it is fanaticism which we need much, much less of.
Judi Lynn
(160,593 posts)must change their ways simply to protect themselves against violence from racists.
There are many people in the US who have grown up wearing clothing different from mainstream "Christians," clothing which sets them apart and makes them feel like outsiders in their own homeland. Outside gaping, staring, and asking occasional questions, people usually don't, at least, attack them.
Attacking Muslim women for their faith is unworthy of any human being. This should really be their choice, and left entirely up to them, with no one from the outside trying to bully them into choosing otherwise, or, God forbid, harming them.s
On the other hand, if women don't wear enough clothes to suit some US Americans, they are also likely to get rough treatment.
olddots
(10,237 posts)The People Of Walmart .Not funny but its happening .