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MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
Sat May 28, 2016, 09:11 AM May 2016

Pakistani men can beat wives 'lightly,' Islamic council says

Source: CNN


The leader of a Pakistani Islamic council has proposed a bill that allows husbands to "lightly beat" their wives as a form of discipline.

In the 75-page proposal, Mohammad Khan Sheerani suggests a light beating is acceptable should the need arise to punish a woman. The proposal bans forceful beating, saying only a small stick is necessary to instill fear.

The Council of Islamic Ideology is a powerful constitutional body that advises the Pakistani legislature whether laws are in line with the teachings of Islam.

Read more: http://www.cnn.com/2016/05/28/asia/pakistan-women-light-beating/index.html

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Pakistani men can beat wives 'lightly,' Islamic council says (Original Post) MariaThinks May 2016 OP
Charming country. nt geek tragedy May 2016 #1
So they're progressing; only a "light beating". 7962 May 2016 #2
With permission. And a safe word. truthisfreedom May 2016 #34
Men discipling their wives... How creepy is that? christx30 May 2016 #3
I don't think it's OK for children or for spouses. David__77 May 2016 #30
Because NOT disciplining children always works out so well 7962 May 2016 #47
Back to the cultural dark ages... ananda May 2016 #4
Yes, they WOULD, if they COULD FrodosPet May 2016 #10
When Trump promises to make America great again IronLionZion May 2016 #17
Backwards we go. bemildred May 2016 #5
See? "Centrist" positions can be found on just about any issue! bullwinkle428 May 2016 #6
Just catching up with some of the Christians alcina May 2016 #7
Except that link isn't a governmental organization oberliner May 2016 #8
i wonder why the poster felt they needed to defend the islamic council? MariaThinks May 2016 #24
You missed Uponthegears May 2016 #9
Thank you for the clarificaiton, Uponthegears alcina May 2016 #11
The difference is law that says you can beat women vs law that says it's a crime to beat women Bluenorthwest May 2016 #18
why post the truth? right? MariaThinks May 2016 #26
Pretending Uponthegears May 2016 #33
Better check up on your religious understanding. Not all religous texts approve men beating up women patsimp May 2016 #44
Pay attention Uponthegears May 2016 #46
You pay attention. There are religions that put men and women as equals patsimp May 2016 #48
Curiously omitting Western religions Uponthegears May 2016 #49
Do you know what Dharma means or are you just copying and pasting? patsimp May 2016 #53
Diversion Uponthegears May 2016 #54
Stop suppressing the truth. patsimp May 2016 #56
Stop lying Uponthegears May 2016 #57
My anti-virus software did not like that link very much JustABozoOnThisBus May 2016 #12
I only deliver the lashes GulfCoast66 May 2016 #50
Is that backed up by the GOVERNMENT??? leftynyc May 2016 #60
I'm not prejudiced... gregcrawford May 2016 #13
America's ally IronLionZion May 2016 #14
"I'm Donald Trump, and I approve this message" FailureToCommunicate May 2016 #15
but its not donald trumps message MariaThinks May 2016 #25
yet. Squinch May 2016 #37
Women: Know Your Limits! Gregorian May 2016 #16
Women: Know Your Limits! AlbertCat May 2016 #19
The Chuckle brothers carving a graven image Gregorian May 2016 #45
I fucking hate religion. The big three are especially abhorrent. CrispyQ May 2016 #20
you are, sadly, quite correct. niyad May 2016 #22
Which big three would leftynyc May 2016 #61
sadly, there is no real difference between that woman crap and the common-law "rule of niyad May 2016 #21
I think were drone striking the wrong people. boomer55 May 2016 #23
Resurrection of The Rule of Thumb no_hypocrisy May 2016 #27
Fuckin' religion. nt valerief May 2016 #28
The need? Men feel less than manly, have to take out their frustration where they can. McCamy Taylor May 2016 #29
Can't be questioned. Fear of emasculation. JudyM May 2016 #42
Congratulations, you have now reached early 13th century civilization CanonRay May 2016 #31
We have Christians in America who teach how to beat babies. keithbvadu2 May 2016 #32
Are these links issued by a government body though? romanic May 2016 #35
Not to worry....... keithbvadu2 May 2016 #41
But they don't. So sick of false equivalency cali May 2016 #52
Are they backed by the GOVERNMENT? leftynyc May 2016 #62
Sean Connery would approve. Mendocino May 2016 #36
Republicans say Pakistan is going soft in war on women yurbud May 2016 #38
The religion of peace everyone NobodyHere May 2016 #39
This is where the xtian fundys want to take American women. Property. Beatings. Slaves. Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #40
And yet many on DU think these right wingers are great Democat May 2016 #55
Can we call Pakistan a failed state now? Coventina May 2016 #43
This is not Pakistani law JackintheGreen May 2016 #51
"only a small stick is necessary" Well I can think of one way to measure "small" yellowcanine May 2016 #58
Some women are fighting back leftynyc May 2016 #59

David__77

(23,423 posts)
30. I don't think it's OK for children or for spouses.
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:03 PM
May 2016

I would prefer that people recognize individuals regardless of age as self-determined.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
47. Because NOT disciplining children always works out so well
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:36 PM
May 2016

Thats pretty much the reason we have so many disrespectful delinquents out there.

But the whole "official approval" of wife beating is ridiculous. Wives dont require "discipline".
And beating a child isnt proper discipline either

ananda

(28,868 posts)
4. Back to the cultural dark ages...
Sat May 28, 2016, 09:40 AM
May 2016

And the war on women continues apace.

I'm sure many in the USA would go there too.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
10. Yes, they WOULD, if they COULD
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:22 AM
May 2016

Fortunately our semi-secular society says they cannot.

No, not well enough, but "light beating" is not permitted or encouraged by our justice system or the majority of religious denominations.

Math. It really does mean something.

IronLionZion

(45,463 posts)
17. When Trump promises to make America great again
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:38 AM
May 2016

and his supporters say they will make the first lady great again.

What do people think they mean by that? Surely it's not just about putting ethnic minorities in our place. They likely have grand plans for women too.



alcina

(602 posts)
7. Just catching up with some of the Christians
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:05 AM
May 2016
http://www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com/how_to_discipline.html

First, it's important to note that "women by their peculiar sin nature resist earthly authority and trust."

Second, "when administering physical discipline, take caution not to deliver the lashes anywhere but the buttocks."

Detailed instructions are provided at the link above. Thank the lord, right?
 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
9. You missed
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:16 AM
May 2016

MT's point . . .

It's not about men beating women, it's about those eeeeeevil Muslims and the eeeeeevil progressives who won't hate them for what their extremists/fundamentalists believe.

Oh, just in case . . .

alcina

(602 posts)
11. Thank you for the clarificaiton, Uponthegears
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:29 AM
May 2016

I was also a little confused by a previous comment suggesting that it was a government issue rather than a religious one. Now I understand. It's a Muslim-government issue only. Got it.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
18. The difference is law that says you can beat women vs law that says it's a crime to beat women
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:49 AM
May 2016

The list of ritualized excuses used to make the law is not at all relevant. What matters is the laws that are made.
You seem to think that the quality of the law is not important, what matters is what excuses were offered for making that law. I do not understand that at all.

MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
26. why post the truth? right?
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:05 PM
May 2016

let's keep pretending it's not happening.

and not care about the women who are currently being killed to make the proposal an improvement.

 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
33. Pretending
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:36 PM
May 2016

Kinda like pretending that Christian, Jewish, Hindu (need I go on) men do not beat their wives just as readily as Muslim men when they are armed with merely tacit religious and governmental approval? (I say tacit because all religious texts share the subjugation of women as a basic tenet, our legal prohibitions are so arbitrarily and infrequently enforced that they place no real consequences on the behavior, and our "Christian" culture finds every reason possible to excuse it.)

Just admit this OP is a subterfuge for anti-Muslim hatred and move on. We all know what you are trying to get across.

patsimp

(915 posts)
44. Better check up on your religious understanding. Not all religous texts approve men beating up women
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:32 PM
May 2016

It seems easy to blame the messenger.

Maria posted a news article. Would you prefer news articles not to be posted?

 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
46. Pay attention
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:25 PM
May 2016

I said subjugate, not beat. The beating comes when a religious tradition mandates male domination, as do most of the world's major religions and all of the major Western religions, and its civil institutions and practices fail to meaningfully limit it.

The messenger isn't being blamed; the religio-, and ethno-, centric anti-Islam message of hate is.

patsimp

(915 posts)
48. You pay attention. There are religions that put men and women as equals
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:49 PM
May 2016

islam does not. Men are allowed 4 wives, can divorce by repeating it three times, and can evidently beat them.

Show me where in Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism or even Scientology that anything like this is allowed in their scriptures. Stop trying to hide the truth.

 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
49. Curiously omitting Western religions
Sun May 29, 2016, 12:08 AM
May 2016

I see (to the point of including a non-religion).

That's a poor job of singling out Islam as worse than those which dominate the Western powers who wish to wage a perpetual war against A RELIGION.

Oh, btw

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_Buddhism

In Hinduism women's role is to contribute to the Dharma of men

Should I keep going?

Perhaps this is why the physical abuse of women knows no boundaries

 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
54. Diversion
Sun May 29, 2016, 09:38 AM
May 2016

Last edited Sun May 29, 2016, 10:50 AM - Edit history (1)

Scientology is a religion?

Well there's a debate for another day.

Dharma . . . know it or just looked it up?

Hey, that's a germane issue too.

These desperate attempts at diversion evidence just one thing. The incidence of aggressive physical violence by men against women is every bit as high in Western societies dominated by Judeo-Christian traditions as they are in Islamic countries. The same behaviors which Islamic councils openly approve are tacitly approved in the West by judicial systems designed to allow perpetrators to escape consequences, religious systems which preach male dominance, and a culture which turns a blind eye, and often cheers, males who are violent towards women. Muslim haters, cannot, and will not, discuss these simple facts.

There is no Western superiority when it comes to this issue.

Find some other reason to hate.

patsimp

(915 posts)
56. Stop suppressing the truth.
Sun May 29, 2016, 10:37 PM
May 2016

The hate is being spread by those who would physically beat women as per the start of this OP.

Stop trying to deflect and stop trying to suppress the truth.

 

Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
57. Stop lying
Sun May 29, 2016, 10:44 PM
May 2016

About Judeo-Christian cultures' superiority on the issue of men's aggressive physical violence toward women.

START living in the real world where the villain is conduct, not religion.

The lives and health of millions of women living in countries dominated by Judeo Christian values are being destroyed while folks are trying to find some justification for religious hatred.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,354 posts)
12. My anti-virus software did not like that link very much
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:39 AM
May 2016

so I didn't continue past the warnings, and didn't look into the details of the warnings.

I must have missed Sunday school the day they talked about "women and their peculiar sin nature", or how to beat it out of them.

I'm guessing I missed that Sunday school lesson by a few centuries.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
50. I only deliver the lashes
Sun May 29, 2016, 01:41 AM
May 2016

On the wife's buttocks when she is in the mood👹. Lay a hand on her in anger at any time and I am rightfully out the door. If not pushing up daisies. Children as well. Hitting people to control them is really slavery.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
60. Is that backed up by the GOVERNMENT???
Tue May 31, 2016, 09:33 AM
May 2016

If not (and you know it's not), you're just using bullshit deflection like so many on DU feel compelled to do in order to prove Bill Maher right every single fucking day.

gregcrawford

(2,382 posts)
13. I'm not prejudiced...
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:45 AM
May 2016

... I despise all religions equally, and evil shit like this is the reason why. ALL the ultra-conservative fundamentalist religions are ruled by misogynistic old bastards, but the savage psychopaths that pervert the Quran to suit their diseased concept of how life oughta be are WAY out in front of that mob.

IronLionZion

(45,463 posts)
14. America's ally
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:59 AM
May 2016

constantly giving us excuses to feel culturally and intellectually superior to those backwards primitives.



 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
19. Women: Know Your Limits!
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:59 AM
May 2016

Excellent! (did you know there are people who think this is a real PS announcement!)

I like Mr. Sharp. Here is his take (well one of them) on religion.

&list=PLABEFD9D1F451F056&index=2

niyad

(113,411 posts)
21. sadly, there is no real difference between that woman crap and the common-law "rule of
Sat May 28, 2016, 12:50 PM
May 2016

thumb" (the stick with which you beat her cannot be wider than your thumb) and all the "wives shall be submissive to their husbands" crap of the other abrahamic belief systems. do we need to cite domestic violence stats here? or rape stats? and how many xians and domionists and other woman-haters in legislative power here?

CanonRay

(14,105 posts)
31. Congratulations, you have now reached early 13th century civilization
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:26 PM
May 2016

Took 'em a long time to get out of the 12th.

keithbvadu2

(36,829 posts)
32. We have Christians in America who teach how to beat babies.
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:35 PM
May 2016

We have Christians in America who teach how to beat babies.

These must be some lovely people (sarcasm).

Beating Babies in the Name of Jesus? The Shady World of Right-Wing 'Discipline' Guides

http://www.alternet.org/story/153006/beating_babies_in_the_name_of_jesus_the_shady_world_of_right-wing_'discipline'_guides

They even recommend what type of plumbing tubing to use.

----------------------------

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2016/05/18/this-christian-is-selling-child-beating-sticks-but-he-doesnt-want-the-internet-to-find-out/

This Christian is Selling Child-Beating Sticks (But He Doesn’t Want the Internet to Find Out)

(easily fits in a ...diaper bag).

romanic

(2,841 posts)
35. Are these links issued by a government body though?
Sat May 28, 2016, 05:34 PM
May 2016

That's the difference here, these Islamic theocracies are the ones issuing these kind of horrid "lessons" to their male citizens. Again, if there is a Christian, Jewish, Hindu, whatever-religion majority country out there telling husbands to lightly beat their wife, let me know.

keithbvadu2

(36,829 posts)
41. Not to worry.......
Sat May 28, 2016, 07:03 PM
May 2016

There are plenty of Christians who want our gov't run by Christianity.

Most are going to be very disappointed because it won't be their version in charge.

If it was this version of Christianity, expect the edict.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
62. Are they backed by the GOVERNMENT?
Tue May 31, 2016, 09:38 AM
May 2016

If not (and you know they're not), you're just using bullshit deflection.

Democat

(11,617 posts)
55. And yet many on DU think these right wingers are great
Sun May 29, 2016, 10:02 AM
May 2016

As long as they aren't Christians, there are plenty of people on DU who will defend or minimize right wing extremists.

JackintheGreen

(2,036 posts)
51. This is not Pakistani law
Sun May 29, 2016, 02:31 AM
May 2016

Leave it to CNN -- and the OP -- to largely elide the fact that this "proclamation" is a response to the February passage in the Punjabi general assembly of the Protection of Women Against Violence Act.

Though the 75 member CII advises the legislature, they are non-statutory and the legislature is free to (and does) ignore them. They are an odious organization, and it was under pressure from these Islamists that the national assembly discussed tabling the bill, but the outcry in civil society has been widespread.

Believe it or not, large parts of Pakistani civil society are trying to do things the egalitarian west would consider progressive. Unfortunately there remains a significant portion of the population that opposes such things. However, given what has happened recently in the U.S. in places like Texas, Oklahoma, North Carolina, ad infinitum, it is beyond disingenuous to pretend that the U.S. is somehow immune to or progressed beyond hateful, discriminatory religious politics.

Don't mistake me: Pakistan is not an easy, egalitarian, or progressive place to live. Pakistan is, technically, a democratic republic (don't get me started on the realities), but it is also only 70 years old. How progressive, and how democratic, was the U.S. in 1850?








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