Trump offered a grieving military father $25,000 in a call, but didn't follow through
Source: The Washington Post
By Dan Lamothe, Lindsey Bever and Eli Rosenberg October 18 at 3:48 PM
President Trump, in a personal phone call to a grieving military father, offered him $25,000 and said he would direct his staff to establish an online fundraiser for the family, but neither happened, the father said.
Chris Baldridge, the father of Army Cpl. Dillon Baldridge, told The Washington Post that Trump called him at his home in Zebulon, N.C., a few weeks after his 22-year-old son and two fellow soldiers were gunned down by an Afghan police officer in a suspected insider attack June 10. Their phone conversation lasted about 15 minutes, Baldridge said, and centered for a time on the fathers struggle with the manner in which his son was killed.
I said, Me and my wife would rather our son died in trench warfare, Baldridge said. I feel like he got murdered over there.
Trumps offer of $25,000 adds another dimension to the presidents relations with Gold Star families, an honorific given to those whose loved ones die while serving in support of the nations wars. The disclosure follows questions about how often the president has called or written to grieving military families.
Read more: https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/trump-offered-a-grieving-military-father-25000-in-a-call-but-didnt-follow-through/2017/10/18/8d4cbc8c-b43a-11e7-be94-fabb0f1e9ffb_story.html
In his call with Trump, Baldridge, a construction worker, expressed frustration with the militarys survivor benefits program. Because his ex-wife was listed as their sons beneficiary, she was expected to receive the Pentagons $100,000 death gratuity even though I can barely rub two nickels together, he told Trump.
The presidents response shocked him.
He said, Im going to write you a check out of my personal account for $25,000, and I was just floored, Baldridge said. I could not believe he was saying that, and I wish I had it recorded because the man did say this. He said, No other president has ever done something like this, but he said, Im going to do it.
DRoseDARs
(6,810 posts)When it rains, it pours rancid slime with this guy.
jrthin
(4,836 posts)tanyev
(42,584 posts)Oh yeah, that sounds exactly like something DOTUS would say.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Take everything, give nothing back.
onenote
(42,723 posts)CatMor
(6,212 posts)So it certainly sounds like the check was sent after the Post started asking questions, in other words, sort of like how the Niger calls shook out.
http://talkingpointsmemo.com/edblog/he-shouldnt-be-president
CatMor
(6,212 posts)it took 4 months to get the check out. I get insulted that trump thinks we are all stupid.
Boomerproud
(7,960 posts)Enablers, all of them.
Doodley
(9,105 posts)he realized that instead of having 10 billion dollars as he had claimed, he only had ten million, and couldn't possibly spend 25 thousand on helping a stranger.
NCjack
(10,279 posts)Doodley
(9,105 posts)woodsprite
(11,916 posts)IthinkThereforeIAM
(3,076 posts)... eom
PatSeg
(47,541 posts)it seems inappropriate for a sitting president to donate his own personal money, like when he said he would donate one million dollars to Harvey victims. He is president and as such, he has resources that others don't. With Harvey and other disasters, his job is to coordinate disaster relief, not make personal donations, unless he does so anonymously. A president can have a far greater impact than any philanthropist.
This whole "write you a check out of my personal account" is distasteful and of course as usual, he didn't send the money.
FakeNoose
(32,674 posts)Well you don't have to mail me a check. Just give me your credit card number over the phone.
I'll get a $25,000 transfer off your card and save you the trouble.
Doodley
(9,105 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)part of the survivor benefit. I wish the military could have divided the money between the mother and father as they are both suffering.
obamanut2012
(26,085 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)where the mother and father split up and kids take sides. The son obviously had taken his mother's side here, in some way. But we don't know the whole story, do we?
BlueIdaho
(13,582 posts)the same lesson learned by every contractor Trump ever hired. The check is not in the mail.
erronis
(15,313 posts)Promise everything.
Deliver nothing.
Have good lawyers and rule-makers (congress who are also lawyers in the pocket.)
Democracy - NOT.
BlueIdaho
(13,582 posts)Sunlei
(22,651 posts)PearliePoo2
(7,768 posts)The rat-bastard liar has stirred it up and it's blowing up in his bloated face.
fuck you donnie. You deserve everything that's coming your way and MORE.
Doodley
(9,105 posts)He will say anything to make himself look good at the time - I will provide proof later, it will be tremendous, I've done more than anybody, I can promise this right now - but it is all BS.
obamanut2012
(26,085 posts)His son had his mother as his beneficiary. He could have had his father, or both his mother and father. He didn't. It was his right to do so.
uncle ray
(3,157 posts)i don't know the relationship between the father and son, and frankly, it doesn't matter. if the father was already having a hard time making ends meet, grieving the death of a child will certainly not make it any easier. the guy can ask for whatever he wants. Dotard could have dismissed the request, but he chose to promise money which he never delivered.
DinahMoeHum
(21,798 posts). . .and that's an understatement.
packman
(16,296 posts)Carve all your promises you don't intend to keep on a block of ice and put it in the sunlight.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)From the linked article:
Trump called him a few weeks after his 22-year-old son was killed on June 10.
In a statement today, White House spokeswoman Lindsay Walters said:
The check has been sent.
Four months later, and only after publicity.
Doodley
(9,105 posts)left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Doodley
(9,105 posts)Mr. Baldridge a liar, or he can agree and then be forced to write the check, which will look like he is only doing it because the media (that he calls fake news) called him out on it.
Dave Starsky
(5,914 posts)He has no liquid cash or anything else of value that he can just cash in. His net worth is much less than nothing. He owes millions of dollars to Russian lenders. He could sweep aside all of the nasty rumors about his solvency instantly, if he would just release his tax returns,. But he won't do that, ever.
I am thinking that if you, the reader, sitting at home, have saved up a lot of money in your job, if you inherited some property or money from family members who have passed (or if they just gave it to you) AND you don't have any significant car loans, mortgages, or STUDENT LOANS weighing heavy upon you, then you literally have more money than the President of the United States.
7962
(11,841 posts)Not because it holds some illicit secret deals with the Russians, but because it shows he DOESNT MAKE MUCH MONEY.
erronis
(15,313 posts)Fronting for some conglomerate of interests. The carnival barker, the shill, the traveling salesman, the person at the pulpit.
He would deflate into an ugly mass of epidermis and slime if his lifeline was pulled. His leach-like friends, wives, spawn would all dissolve into nothings except a very bad taste in humanities mouth. Multi-floored towers of nothingness would become wrecks of concrete and rats. The name <unmentionable> will be anathema until the next Stalin/Hitler/PolPot takes center stage.
berni_mccoy
(23,018 posts)Afromania
(2,769 posts)Did he ever give that million dollars to charity? Probably not, because his ugly ass cat anus of a mouth would have been on TV telling us about it. Son of a bitch would have treated it like it was Publishers Clearing House.
vkkv
(3,384 posts)Mrs. Overall
(6,839 posts)My depth of hatred is rather disturbing.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)7962
(11,841 posts)show us the image of the cancelled check
SunSeeker
(51,579 posts)nolabear
(41,987 posts)I don't think he gives a damn about any of them. And I think he's not fit for the job.