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MelissaB

(16,420 posts)
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:09 PM Nov 2017

U.S. Rep. Joe Barton apologizes for graphic online photo

Source: The Texas Tribune

Texas Congressman Joe Barton released a statement Wednesday apologizing for a graphic nude photo of him that circulated on social media earlier this week. He announced his re-election bid earlier this month.

U.S. Rep. Joe Barton, R-Ennis, released a statement on Wednesday apologizing for a graphic nude photo of him that circulated on social media earlier this week.

"While separated from my second wife, prior to the divorce, I had sexual relationships with other mature adult women," he said. "Each was consensual. Those relationships have ended. I am sorry I did not use better judgment during those days. I am sorry that I let my constituents down."

Barton, who announced his re-election bid earlier this month, is navigating in a political environment charged with emerging stories of sexual misbehavior in politics, in business, and in the media. The photo, which appeared on an anonymous Twitter account, set off speculation within Texas GOP circles about his political future.

In a phone interview with The Texas Tribune on Tuesday, Barton said he was deliberating that.

Read more: https://www.texastribune.org/2017/11/22/us-rep-joe-barton-deciding-how-respond-after-graphic-photo-circulates-/



For photo see this thread: https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029875355
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U.S. Rep. Joe Barton apologizes for graphic online photo (Original Post) MelissaB Nov 2017 OP
What kind of person sends these type of photos? kimbutgar Nov 2017 #1
a future ex-congressman..... VMA131Marine Nov 2017 #3
People in early stages of a relationship often do that Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #5
I have to my gf, never show my face though, ever... Demonaut Nov 2017 #76
Um, do you know anyone under 30? Nude photos are like tattoos in their ubiquity nowadays. LonePirate Nov 2017 #6
Im old and have been out of the dating scene for 30 years kimbutgar Nov 2017 #10
Nowadays, if a woman wants a nude pic of a potential or current male date, she simply needs to ask. LonePirate Nov 2017 #14
Those who think they're something when they are NOT. sprinkleeninow Nov 2017 #8
I would be turned off if a guy sent me a picture of his junk. kimbutgar Nov 2017 #11
Just alone seeing what wasn't blocked out made me want to hurl.🤤 sprinkleeninow Nov 2017 #13
'members' of congress. nt Xipe Totec Nov 2017 #52
Lots of people sent sexts and nudes to their sexual partners NickB79 Nov 2017 #70
I get it but Barton is an old fart kimbutgar Nov 2017 #71
We'll all be old farts someday, and some couples like to spice things up NickB79 Nov 2017 #74
People like me. Kablooie Nov 2017 #77
how do people not realize these pics can end up ANYWHERE Skittles Nov 2017 #2
He makes sure to say he had relationships with MATURE women. Laurian Nov 2017 #4
Well that's an image that will haunt me genxlib Nov 2017 #7
The email mantra is wise too! True Dough Nov 2017 #27
When I was in college...40 years ago... LeftInTX Nov 2017 #60
You have to be some kind of PatSeg Nov 2017 #9
Outside my realm of experience delisen Nov 2017 #12
Maybe Joe and Anthony Weiner can be cellies jpak Nov 2017 #15
Nah. Anthony is hoping Roy Moore ends up his cellmate onenote Nov 2017 #41
Definitely a generational gap/orientation gap here on DU :) dbackjon Nov 2017 #16
oh really? Baclava Nov 2017 #17
Remember the uproar when all the male and female celebrities had their phones hacked? Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #18
This isn't any 'celebrity' - it's a Congressman - jackin' it for all the world to see Baclava Nov 2017 #21
Sent to some one that wants it, why not? dbackjon Nov 2017 #30
He's gonna be know as congreesman deep and hard Fullduplexxx Nov 2017 #35
Agreed Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #19
Agreed, and a lot of it comes off like attempts to regulate the sex lives of consenting adults. emulatorloo Nov 2017 #26
Keep being the voice of reason, Blue_Adept True Dough Nov 2017 #29
It's been a consistent thing on DU for years Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #40
I agree! n/t True Dough Nov 2017 #48
Yup. Don't want to see this? Don't look. dbackjon Nov 2017 #32
yeah, I'm trying to figure out what the hoopla is about here jberryhill Nov 2017 #42
The most I've seen is that "It's a republican, they'd do it to us, so we better fuck them over..." Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #43
Yeah, that thinking mystifies me jberryhill Nov 2017 #44
I am sure Republicans would be super understanding if the shoe was on the other foot. LisaL Nov 2017 #50
I don't particularly care. I'm not going to act like them. I'm not going to sex shame and fat shame Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #51
Well said n/t emulatorloo Nov 2017 #24
Oh, but old people are GROSS! jberryhill Nov 2017 #45
Yup dbackjon Nov 2017 #49
For me, it's the hypocrisy. MelissaB Nov 2017 #62
Resign! Withdraw! Roland99 Nov 2017 #20
Resign! Withdraw! LenaBaby61 Nov 2017 #66
Whut? sandensea Nov 2017 #22
Jesus tapdancing christ gay texan Nov 2017 #23
Juanita Jean had some fun with this story Gothmog Nov 2017 #25
that is great. Thx JDC Nov 2017 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author Mike Nelson Nov 2017 #28
Old people shaming. Great. dbackjon Nov 2017 #47
At what age are you planning to lose interest in sex? jberryhill Nov 2017 #57
Texas whimsy. Sneederbunk Nov 2017 #31
I am long time cyber dater sending crotch shots was thought of as cool for about 6 weeks back in '95 Backwoodsrider Nov 2017 #33
isn't this the asshole who yelled "You lie!" during Obama's speech in Congress? Archae Nov 2017 #34
No. That was Joe Wilson genxlib Nov 2017 #36
That was Joe Wilson. briv1016 Nov 2017 #38
No. This is the asshole that told one of his constituents TexasBushwhacker Nov 2017 #55
Anyone Else Wondering If ... DoctorJoJo Nov 2017 #37
Is it bad when you start puking up bile? briv1016 Nov 2017 #39
Ewwwwwww. BumRushDaShow Nov 2017 #45
Texas "moral values voters" saidsimplesimon Nov 2017 #53
Shiver me timbers! Deb Nov 2017 #56
Why isn't this getting the same breathless coverage as Charlie Rose and Rep. Conyers? Vinca Nov 2017 #58
Because its not like the Rose and Conyers situations onenote Nov 2017 #59
They didn't hesitate to show the picture of Al .99center Nov 2017 #61
What has that got to do with this? onenote Nov 2017 #63
We haven't heard the women's side of the story. LisaL Nov 2017 #65
Do we have any proof that it was consenual? clementine613 Nov 2017 #81
What happens between consenting adults is DeminPennswoods Nov 2017 #64
Oh yeah baby! Joe you're a stallion. I hope he's toast. YOHABLO Nov 2017 #67
MSNBC can't be bothered to mention it RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #68
O'Donnell had a segment on this as DeminPennswoods Nov 2017 #72
I looked. StepnKretchit Nov 2017 #69
Don't look! you can't unsee this! Demonaut Nov 2017 #73
joe barton johnnylol Nov 2017 #75
I didnt understand a word of your post. tavernier Nov 2017 #78
A Republican apologized! A pig just flew by the window. MT raccoon Nov 2017 #79
Tennie-Weenie sarcasmo Nov 2017 #80

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
5. People in early stages of a relationship often do that
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:18 PM
Nov 2017

Not everyone but a lot do, and not just young'ns or those that are "old enough to know better"

There's a thrill to it that comes from that part of a relationship.

kimbutgar

(21,157 posts)
10. Im old and have been out of the dating scene for 30 years
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:21 PM
Nov 2017

Even when I was young and had a hot body I would have never let anyone see me nude in a picture. Times should have changed. That said I used to wear tiny bikinis that left nothing to the imagination. That’s as close as I got to exposing my body.

LonePirate

(13,424 posts)
14. Nowadays, if a woman wants a nude pic of a potential or current male date, she simply needs to ask.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:28 PM
Nov 2017

And sometimes she may receive one without asking. It’s far less common but by no means rare for women to share their nude photos with their male dates. Nude photos are even pre-requisites for some gay men before even meeting for coffee, let alone anything else.

sprinkleeninow

(20,250 posts)
8. Those who think they're something when they are NOT.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:20 PM
Nov 2017

Most republucres anyway.

They relish this scumbucket stuff.
A qualifier for 'them' electing someone for a public office it appears.

kimbutgar

(21,157 posts)
11. I would be turned off if a guy sent me a picture of his junk.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:22 PM
Nov 2017

Especially an old guy like Barton. Yuck!

sprinkleeninow

(20,250 posts)
13. Just alone seeing what wasn't blocked out made me want to hurl.🤤
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:27 PM
Nov 2017

I gotta go get warm h2o and rinse out my affected eyes. 😫

NickB79

(19,253 posts)
70. Lots of people sent sexts and nudes to their sexual partners
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:46 PM
Nov 2017

If it was as he said (adults in a consentual, sexually active relationship), there wasnt much there to make a story out of. Millions of partnered and married couples do it every year.

kimbutgar

(21,157 posts)
71. I get it but Barton is an old fart
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:54 PM
Nov 2017

Yucky is all I think. I just don’t get the phenomena of doing it. I’d rather see the real thing. Plus if those pictures get in the wrong hands.....they come back to haunt you.

NickB79

(19,253 posts)
74. We'll all be old farts someday, and some couples like to spice things up
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 08:38 AM
Nov 2017

Hell, my 7 yr old thinks I'm an old fart, and I'm only 38 😀

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
4. He makes sure to say he had relationships with MATURE women.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:17 PM
Nov 2017

The picture (from what you can see) is disgusting. I will never understand this shit.



genxlib

(5,528 posts)
7. Well that's an image that will haunt me
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:19 PM
Nov 2017

I have a policy...

I never take a picture I wouldn't want my mother to see and I never write an email that I wouldn't want to see in the newspaper.

It keeps me out of a lot of trouble

True Dough

(17,305 posts)
27. The email mantra is wise too!
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:18 PM
Nov 2017

It's astounding how many civil service workers still send emails that are either inappropriate or contain sensitive information without considering that an access to information request from the media or an investigation by some regulatory body will haunt them later on.

LeftInTX

(25,365 posts)
60. When I was in college...40 years ago...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:58 PM
Nov 2017

We bought a huge dildo...our neighbor stuck it in his fly and we made all sorts of poses with it.

I wouldn't want my mom to see the pic. But boy, we sure had fun!!! (No nudity or exposed body parts involved)

PatSeg

(47,496 posts)
9. You have to be some kind of
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:20 PM
Nov 2017

special stupid to allow there to be nude photos of you to be "out there". Pretty stupid to take the photos in the first place. That's something I never really understood.

delisen

(6,044 posts)
12. Outside my realm of experience
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:23 PM
Nov 2017

I would like to understand what impels adults to send nude photos of themselves to people.
Is it exhibitionism or advertising?

I do think it particularly strange that political officeholders would do so-seems like risky behavior for politicians or for many professional persons.

I get a kick out of his describing the women as "mature." So at least he is aware of the news swirl regarding child and adolescent issues.


 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
16. Definitely a generational gap/orientation gap here on DU :)
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:39 PM
Nov 2017

To me, nude photos sent to a willing recipient is no big deal. Millions of Americans have done it. And even if you personally wouldn't, why is it a big deal if someone else does it?

The human body is nothing to be ashamed of. Nude photos, shared with someone that wants to see them, should have no shame or stigma attached to it.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
18. Remember the uproar when all the male and female celebrities had their phones hacked?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:48 PM
Nov 2017

And lots of naked pictures were shared?

And people who were sharing them were shamed because of it...

but it's ok if it's a republican who has pictures exposed like that for us to use them as a way to shame him and others.

 

Baclava

(12,047 posts)
21. This isn't any 'celebrity' - it's a Congressman - jackin' it for all the world to see
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:55 PM
Nov 2017

How stupid can u get?

just my 2cents

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
30. Sent to some one that wants it, why not?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:22 PM
Nov 2017

Again, between two consenting adults, none of anyone's business and has no bearing on suitability to hold office.

His politics make him unsuitable, not his nudes and messages.


Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
19. Agreed
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:50 PM
Nov 2017

Then again, anything related to sexuality on DU ends up going weird and not exactly liberal places.

True Dough

(17,305 posts)
29. Keep being the voice of reason, Blue_Adept
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:22 PM
Nov 2017

I've noticed you popping up in a few of the threads with themes on sexuality and you are playing an effective role as the "devil's advocate." Perhaps it is a generation gap that creates so much of a divergence in the responses to such topics on the DU.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
40. It's been a consistent thing on DU for years
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:36 PM
Nov 2017

We used to have yearly porn wars that were a lot of fun because it really did show just how conservative so many people here are in regards to sex and sexuality.

The hypocrisy is one conservative levels here with this because if it had been flipped from R to D there'd be a whole lot of defense of it, and rightly so. Someone either leaked or stole personal photos taken between consensual adults and it's like all the cool kids are now having a blast bullying and shaming someone they don't like even more.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
42. yeah, I'm trying to figure out what the hoopla is about here
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:37 PM
Nov 2017

Obviously, he sent it to someone that he shouldn't have trusted.

But other than that, so what?

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
43. The most I've seen is that "It's a republican, they'd do it to us, so we better fuck them over..."
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:40 PM
Nov 2017

"... the same way."

It's one of those times that I get disappointed in fellow liberals and Democrats.

Trump broke a lot of them in how to interact with others. Now they're just as weaponized as conservatives have been for years. It's what's eating away at the soul of our party.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
44. Yeah, that thinking mystifies me
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:42 PM
Nov 2017

If they smear poop on their faces, then we'll smear poop on our faces, just to show them a thing or two.

Idiocy.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
51. I don't particularly care. I'm not going to act like them. I'm not going to sex shame and fat shame
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:57 PM
Nov 2017

someone just because they're the opposite side of me politically. It says a lot about those that will.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
45. Oh, but old people are GROSS!
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:44 PM
Nov 2017

Old people should just stay fully clothed at all times and never never never think of sex.

I guess that's the point.

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
66. Resign! Withdraw!
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:10 PM
Nov 2017

Family Values Christian Barton is not stepping down either.

A spokeswoman said Wednesday he had no plans to resign and had filed for re-election.

Welp

Response to MelissaB (Original post)

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
47. Old people shaming. Great.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:48 PM
Nov 2017

So what is the cut off when someone is suppose to shrivel up and not be interested in sex?


And please don't conflate what Rose did with this - one was consensual, one wasn't.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
57. At what age are you planning to lose interest in sex?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:17 PM
Nov 2017

I'm not that old yet, but I'm amazed there are people on a supposedly enlightened forum who hold the frankly disgusting ageist views that you do.

Backwoodsrider

(764 posts)
33. I am long time cyber dater sending crotch shots was thought of as cool for about 6 weeks back in '95
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:24 PM
Nov 2017

However sense then it has became thought of as more and more creepy trust me.

genxlib

(5,528 posts)
36. No. That was Joe Wilson
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:29 PM
Nov 2017

Different deplorable from a different southern state.

It is hard to keep them apart sometime.

 

DoctorJoJo

(1,134 posts)
37. Anyone Else Wondering If ...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 04:29 PM
Nov 2017

... perhaps this photo was found on Grindr? Now THAT would be a death sentence in Texas!

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
53. Texas "moral values voters"
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:02 PM
Nov 2017

This is your chance to vote for decency. Who can "mind bleach" the facts while claiming the moral low ground by behavior? Republican loyalists, the party of the limbo stick, how low can they go? Contortionists wrapped in a pretzel of lies, dis-information and support for the KGB Tsar of Russia?

"While separated from my second wife, prior to the divorce, I had sexual relationships with other mature adult women," he said. "Each was consensual. Those relationships have ended. I am sorry I did not use better judgment during those days. I am sorry that I let my constituents down."

Vinca

(50,276 posts)
58. Why isn't this getting the same breathless coverage as Charlie Rose and Rep. Conyers?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:27 PM
Nov 2017

Nothing on the CNN web page and haven't heard a peep on MSNBC.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
59. Because its not like the Rose and Conyers situations
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:45 PM
Nov 2017

Those were non consensual in nature. Barton’s actions, while high on the ick scale involved consenting adults at a time when Barton and his wife were separated awaiting the finalization of their divorce.

.99center

(1,237 posts)
61. They didn't hesitate to show the picture of Al
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:59 PM
Nov 2017

And falsely accuse him of groping Tweeden in the picture.

onenote

(42,714 posts)
63. What has that got to do with this?
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:07 PM
Nov 2017

Again, apples and oranges.

And to be clear -- I hope the voters in Barton's district drive him out. But I'm not going to pretend that I find his sexting someone he had a relationship with to be disqualifying. His voting record is what disqualifies him for me.

clementine613

(561 posts)
81. Do we have any proof that it was consenual?
Sun Nov 26, 2017, 09:48 PM
Nov 2017

His claim that it was so is unconvincing. He's a Rethug... everything he says is suspect.

DeminPennswoods

(15,286 posts)
64. What happens between consenting adults is
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:09 PM
Nov 2017

not my concern. But a sitting congressman doing this is beyond dumb although I got a good laugh out of it.

DeminPennswoods

(15,286 posts)
72. O'Donnell had a segment on this as
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:15 AM
Nov 2017

the Wash Post now has a story up that adds detail. This isn't to defend Barton's stupidity, but this could be a case of "revenge porn". In any event, reportedly the Capitol Police contacted Barton and he asked that they investigate.

Former rep Dave Jolly said to expect more stuff to come out after saying there were some (morally) bad elected representatives still serving.

 

johnnylol

(31 posts)
75. joe barton
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:32 AM
Nov 2017

quite a few people if their are going to show you naked do it online... by webcam.....we must be real here.. to think that people don;t do this sort of thing...

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