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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:00 AM Aug 2018

Report: Asia Argento Paid Her Own Sexual-Assault Accuser $380,000

Source: The Daily Beast



Asia Argento, the Italian actress and director who became a leading voice in the #MeToo movement after accusing Harvey Weinstein of assault, paid a young actor $380,000 after he accused her of sexually assaulting him while he was underage, according to The New York Times. Jimmy Bennett said he was 17 and Argento 37 when she allegedly assaulted him in a motel room in 2013, years after they had played mother and son in The Heart Is Deceitful Above All Things. Argento reportedly paid Bennett the money after his lawyer sent her lawyer a “notice of intent” saying the aftermath of the “sexual battery” traumatized Bennett, affected his work and income, and endangered his mental health. Argento’s boyfriend, the chef and TV host Anthony Bourdain, also a leading voice in the #MeToo movement after she came forward with accusations against Weinstein, died in June by suicide.

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Report: Asia Argento Paid Her Own Sexual-Assault Accuser $380,000 (Original Post) DonViejo Aug 2018 OP
A bizarre twist. yallerdawg Aug 2018 #1
Kid's underage but a mean little extortionist as well. Snellius Aug 2018 #4
Say what? Jedi Guy Aug 2018 #5
More complicated than that. Snellius Aug 2018 #6
Not buying it. Jedi Guy Aug 2018 #15
If it were a 17 year old girl accusing a 37 year old male, would you have LisaL Aug 2018 #21
The poster you're replying to is practicing situational ethics BannonsLiver Aug 2018 #10
I despise situational ethics. Jedi Guy Aug 2018 #16
I can only image the names this 37 year old male actor would have been called around here, LisaL Aug 2018 #22
Yep. The double standard is very real. N/T Jedi Guy Aug 2018 #25
The idea of paying off a victim is very old. Igel Aug 2018 #17
If "paying" off the victim is not a disincentive for a criminal act... yallerdawg Aug 2018 #18
This is pretty disgusting. Calista241 Aug 2018 #2
Irony. Nitram Aug 2018 #3
She also used Tony's own attorney last Fall BigmanPigman Aug 2018 #7
I'm not blaming her for his death, BUT eissa Aug 2018 #13
Rape is rape TexasBushwhacker Aug 2018 #8
A story elsewhere said age of consent in California is 18 RhodeIslandOne Aug 2018 #9
Wow. That's surprising TexasBushwhacker Aug 2018 #19
It's in the NYT article linked in the OP. LisaL Aug 2018 #23
Ick MosheFeingold Aug 2018 #11
It's true. Gossip everywhere there, most of it true, that's just common knowledge. Snellius Aug 2018 #12
There's still a Hollywood and a North Hollywood too TexasBushwhacker Aug 2018 #20
Should have said "city" not "place" called Hollywood Snellius Aug 2018 #24
People who live in glass houses... Cattledog Aug 2018 #14
Not excusing her, but what kind of emotional horrors did her father put her through fierywoman Aug 2018 #26

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
1. A bizarre twist.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:20 AM
Aug 2018

We really have some strange notions of morality and legality - institutions pervasive with paying off victims, criminals above the law.

Extortion and bribery are so rampant everywhere. Not to mention the deviant, criminal behaviors.

Snellius

(6,881 posts)
4. Kid's underage but a mean little extortionist as well.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 01:09 PM
Aug 2018

No good guys in this story but can't help but feel she was taken advantage of too.

Jedi Guy

(3,192 posts)
5. Say what?
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 02:11 PM
Aug 2018

How was she "taken advantage of" exactly? She allegedly assaulted a child and then chose to pay hush money to avoid possible criminal charges and/or legal action. She's not the victim here.

If the genders were reversed, would you say the man was "taken advantage of" in this scenario? Would the woman be a "mean little extortionist"?

Snellius

(6,881 posts)
6. More complicated than that.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 03:38 PM
Aug 2018

He was 17, under age but not a child. And from the photos of them flooding around it doesn't look like she was his abuser as much as he was her lover. Whatever was going on. What's proper here, I don't know. He seems to have had a photo of them and was asking money for it. A lot. Not an easy story to paint in black and white. But her autobio, with Bourdain and Weinstein and all, will be quite a story.

http://www.tmz.com/2018/08/19/asia-argento-reportedly-paid-off-her-own-accuser-380000-dollars-jimmy-bennett/

Also that Weinstein may still have some clout, money, connection to this.?

Jedi Guy

(3,192 posts)
15. Not buying it.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 05:28 PM
Aug 2018

They met when he was 7 and she was 27. If the genders were swapped, the discussion would be about a predator grooming his victim from a young age.

She knew he wasn't of age and that didn't stop her. There should be no double standard in play here, and no excuses made because she's female or because she was a loud voice in the #MeToo movement.

Also, your attempt to smear the victim by implying that Weinstein is behind this is distasteful in the extreme.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
21. If it were a 17 year old girl accusing a 37 year old male, would you have
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 07:54 PM
Aug 2018

posted what you did?
Double standards are alive and well.

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
10. The poster you're replying to is practicing situational ethics
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 04:24 PM
Aug 2018

Argento has been revealed as a predator and a hypocrite. But that's okay, because she is backing a cause the poster supports unequivocally.

Jedi Guy

(3,192 posts)
16. I despise situational ethics.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 05:33 PM
Aug 2018

No one would excuse a man who preyed on a child like this. The same standards and rules should apply to everyone.

You're absolutely right that Argento is a predator and a hypocrite, and it's disgusting that people would defend her, whatever their reasons might be.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
22. I can only image the names this 37 year old male actor would have been called around here,
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 07:55 PM
Aug 2018

if he was accused by a 17 year old girl. Never mind in California for a 37 year old to have sex with 17 year old is illegal since the age of consent is 18.

Igel

(35,317 posts)
17. The idea of paying off a victim is very old.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 06:42 PM
Aug 2018

And if justice is resolving a wrong that a person did to another, it's heads and shoulders above what we usually do. "You wronged that person, which is a violation of the contract to society so the real victim is society. Therefore society will punish you, but the victim will be no better off as a result." Perhaps the punishment society exacts is time spent in captivity, sometimes it's a fine paid to the government. But the victim is seldom helped unless they file a civil case--and if the perp's punished sufficiently in criminal court, there's nothing for him to pay.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
18. If "paying" off the victim is not a disincentive for a criminal act...
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 06:49 PM
Aug 2018

then where is the justice for society and future victims?

If you're going to be illegally molested as a child, it's really good luck that it was a wealthy elitist who did it? Otherwise, shit out of luck?

Upon further examination, I don't think this is working.

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
2. This is pretty disgusting.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 11:38 AM
Aug 2018

Apparently she met him on set when he was 7 years old (he played her son in a movie). And their first sexual encounter was when he was 17.

That's some real sexual predator grooming behavior shit right there.

And this was right around 5 years ago, so it may still be within the statute of limitations for prosecution.

BigmanPigman

(51,605 posts)
7. She also used Tony's own attorney last Fall
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 03:53 PM
Aug 2018

to handle all of this. Tony knew and was still madly in love with her. His friends warned him about her but he was "crazy in love". He killed himself after seeing several photos of her and a lover over several day from the previous week. She was hugging, holding hands, snuggling all over Rome with her new young lover and tried to get the photographer not to print them. Tony and she broke up a lot and that last week was the last straw. She broke his heart. The CNN film crew was worried about him all week since they all knew what had happened. It was an impulsive, emotional suicide. I feel badly for his 12 year old daughter and his family and friends. I wish he had listened to them and heeded their warnings.

*As a huge fan of Tony's work I and have been getting bits of info about their relationship since his death.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
13. I'm not blaming her for his death, BUT
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 05:09 PM
Aug 2018

she certainly didn't help his mental state. I guess that was the reason she felt the need to take out a huge ad defending herself when he died. I adored Tony -- followed his career since "Kitchen Confidential." What a shame his final days were with this charlatan.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,192 posts)
8. Rape is rape
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 04:07 PM
Aug 2018

I don't know where this happened, but most places don't have an age of consent over 17. So this was a straight up sexual assault, not a "sex with a minor" situation. In fact, the age of consent in Italy is 14.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
9. A story elsewhere said age of consent in California is 18
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 04:22 PM
Aug 2018

Seemed insane to me, but, there it is

https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/statutory-rape-the-age-of-consent.html

California - The age of consent in California is 18. It is illegal for anyone to engage in sexual intercourse with a minor (someone under the age of 18), unless they are that person's spouse. California employs a tiered system where the greater the difference in age, the greater the penalty. If the person engaging in sex with a minor is less than 3 years older or younger than the minor, then they are guilty of a misdemeanor. If they are more than 3 years older than the minor then they are guilty of a felony. Those over the age of 21 engaging in sex with those under 16 are subjected to more harsh penalties.


So the fact she's much older would make it a felony.

MosheFeingold

(3,051 posts)
11. Ick
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 04:45 PM
Aug 2018

Hollywood is full of people who entertain you in the safety of your home that, if you knew them, you'd be unwilling to invite them into your home.

What a sad and weird group of people.

Snellius

(6,881 posts)
12. It's true. Gossip everywhere there, most of it true, that's just common knowledge.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 05:00 PM
Aug 2018

But Hollywood (about 10 years there) is a closed company town, and what happens in Hollywood stays in Hollywood. Or you never work again. Left long ago but there's stuff I still am afraid to say. The unwritten rule is "do what thou wilt" unless it violates someone else's "do what thou wilt" too. Not a model for Kansas, or general morality, but it's at the same time the most creative town in the world. And that freedom is partially why.

Might add. There is no place actually called Hollywood (though there is a real West Hollywood). It's actually a connection of people in many forms of entertainment all over the world. So it's not an isolated group.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,192 posts)
20. There's still a Hollywood and a North Hollywood too
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 07:20 PM
Aug 2018

Neither are very nice. West Hollywood is much nicer.

Snellius

(6,881 posts)
24. Should have said "city" not "place" called Hollywood
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:45 PM
Aug 2018

When I lived there Hollywood was a neighborhood of LA. Not an incorporated city, consolidated into LA long back. The "mayor" was just an honorary and Chamber of Commerce post. Usually the name stands for the movie biz which is interconnected all over the world. North Hollywood was also a neighborhood. In the Valley and part of the City of LA. West Hollywood, the only real Hollywood, was a separate, incorporated city, not in the city but the county of LA. The distinctions get pretty blurred into to one big sprawl down there. Don't know what's changed.

It was a big deal then when the wealthy in WH didn't want to pay as part of the LA school system and voted to secede from LA.

fierywoman

(7,684 posts)
26. Not excusing her, but what kind of emotional horrors did her father put her through
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 10:20 PM
Aug 2018

by having her act in his movies?

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