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theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 08:10 AM Oct 2013

John Arthur who challenged same-sex marriage ban has died

Source: The Cincinnati Enquirer

John Arthur, who flew to Maryland in July to marry his longtime partner Jim Obergefell, touching off a legal battle to force the state of Ohio to recognize their marriage and those of other same-sex couples, died Tuesday at the age of 48.

Mr. Arthur was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis in 2011, and his terminal illness played a prominent role in the couple’s decision to marry and in the ensuing legal battle. He and Obergefell had been a couple since 1992 but decided to marry after the U.S. Supreme Court’s June 26 decision striking down portions of the federal Defense of Marriage Act.

“We had talked about getting married, and we never ever felt it would be anything more than symbolic because of the nature of our country,” Mr. Arthur said in an interview shortly before the wedding.

But as they watched coverage of the Supreme Court decision from Mr. Arthur’s medical bed in the couple’s Over-the-Rhine condo, they decided that the potential for federal recognition was enough to pursue a legal marriage. Because Ohio has a constitutional ban on same-sex weddings, they had to travel to one of the 13 states that allow gay couples to marry. But their decision was complicated by the fact that Mr. Arthur was bedridden and unable to travel except on a medical transport plane. They settled on Maryland because his partner could obtain a marriage license by himself, requiring Mr. Arthur to travel just once....


Read more: http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20131022/NEWS0104/310220031/John-Arthur-who-challenged-same-sex-marriage-ban-has-died





RIP, John. Your courage and that of your husband Jim, will never be forgotten.
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John Arthur who challenged same-sex marriage ban has died (Original Post) theHandpuppet Oct 2013 OP
Horrible damn disease, I hope he finds rest after fighting two hard fights. Ikonoklast Oct 2013 #1
Truly a bitter sweet story. Allowing them rights everyone else has curtailed no one else's ... marble falls Oct 2013 #2
I will light a candle in his, and his partner's honor. nightscanner59 Oct 2013 #3
May you, soon, Delphinus Oct 2013 #8
Heartbreaking iandhr Oct 2013 #4
() Jack Rabbit Oct 2013 #5
I'm happy that he and his husband were able to marry SOMEWHERE in the U.S. Gormy Cuss Oct 2013 #6
The lengths to which they had to go... theHandpuppet Oct 2013 #7

marble falls

(57,102 posts)
2. Truly a bitter sweet story. Allowing them rights everyone else has curtailed no one else's ...
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 08:57 AM
Oct 2013

rights. It seems to me the only disruption caused here was Ohio's marriage laws and their lack of equal access. Bless John and Jim. Including them only made the rest of our same rights stronger. The more inclusion, the less exclusion.

nightscanner59

(802 posts)
3. I will light a candle in his, and his partner's honor.
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:58 AM
Oct 2013

We've lost far too many brethren in the war for our rights. Fight on, brother and sister, Fight on. I'm worn and tattred, been called so many names, slammed by so many fists and boots (literally... read my autobiography someday I'm working on and I hope gets published for posterity) lost so many friends I have practically no one but my dog left. I'm trying my best not to let anger consume me about it. But it does help to vent sometimes

Delphinus

(11,831 posts)
8. May you, soon,
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 07:16 PM
Oct 2013

find peace and joy. May these horrid experiences never be repeated.

Thank you for never giving up.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
6. I'm happy that he and his husband were able to marry SOMEWHERE in the U.S.
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 12:45 PM
Oct 2013

and sorry that they had to use a medical transport plane to do it.
ALS is a horrible disease.

RIP John.

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