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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 01:37 PM Jan 2014

Pope Francis calls for fresh Church approach to children of LGBT parents

Source: AF-P/via Raw Story



By Agence France-Presse
Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:56 EST

Pope Francis has called for a rethink in the way the Catholic Church deals with the children of gay couples and divorced parents, warning against “administering a vaccine against faith”.

“On an educational level, gay unions raise challenges for us today which for us are sometimes difficult to understand,” Francis said in a speech to the Catholic Union of Superiors General in November, extracts of which were published on Italian media websites on Saturday.

“The number of children in schools whose parents have separated is very high,” he said, adding that family make-ups were also changing. “I remember a case in which a sad little girl confessed to her teacher: ‘my mother’s girlfriend doesn’t love me’,” he was quoted as saying.

The pontiff said educational leaders should ask themselves “how can we proclaim Christ to a generation that is changing?”

:::snip:::

Read more: http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/01/05/pope-francis-calls-for-fresh-church-approach-to-children-of-lgbt-parents/

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Pope Francis calls for fresh Church approach to children of LGBT parents (Original Post) DonViejo Jan 2014 OP
fresh Church approach to children of LGBT parents AlbertCat Jan 2014 #1
Joe Biden and millions of other Catholic Democrats pnwmom Jan 2014 #9
And the pope... awoke_in_2003 Jan 2014 #21
I fail to see that the Pope is going to gain converts to the Catholic Church. lumpy Jan 2014 #28
don't appreciate your anti-Catholic bigotry. AlbertCat Jan 2014 #31
Richard Dawkins is a pedophile apologist, but I don't accuse pnwmom Jan 2014 #32
Richard Dawkins is a pedophile apologist, AlbertCat Jan 2014 #33
He IS a pedophile apologist because he's excusing behavior that pnwmom Jan 2014 #35
I see you still can't do reading comprehension. AlbertCat Jan 2014 #38
Being an apologist for pedophiles of the past, on the spurious basis that they didn't know pnwmom Jan 2014 #39
It's ridiculous to say otherwise. AlbertCat Jan 2014 #41
He said it couldn't be judged by today's standards and that it didn't cause lasting harm. pnwmom Jan 2014 #43
He needs to call an Ecumenical Council. onehandle Jan 2014 #2
I don't see him offering any actual ideas or changes of policy Bluenorthwest Jan 2014 #3
It looks like he is demonstrating how to be a liberal pope -- the "fresh approach" Cal33 Jan 2014 #17
Every word he said about gay families is negative. What's so liberal? Bluenorthwest Jan 2014 #19
He may not be liberal about gays, but he is more liberal in other areas, such Cal33 Jan 2014 #23
"...but he is more liberal in other areas, such as, poverty." Evidence? Humanist_Activist Jan 2014 #40
I take it that you haven't read Pope Francis' directly naming [Reagan's] "trickle down" theoty, that Cal33 Jan 2014 #42
No fresh approach. TeeYiYi Jan 2014 #24
+1000 theHandpuppet Jan 2014 #25
Cool story, bro ... GeorgeGist Jan 2014 #4
Pope Francis has the "sound bite" thing for the media perfected....Harry Reid should take pointers. Fred Sanders Jan 2014 #5
Hmm... davidthegnome Jan 2014 #6
As a former Catholic, I'm not impressed with words. closeupready Jan 2014 #7
He has also spoken directly to that point. pnwmom Jan 2014 #10
He has spoken with alarming clarity against gay families, saying it is child abuse and a form of Bluenorthwest Jan 2014 #13
Message auto-removed Name removed Jan 2014 #8
he has a "long way to go and a short time to get there".... madrchsod Jan 2014 #11
"Pope encouraged Malta bishop to speak out against gay adoption bill" - enough said. idwiyo Jan 2014 #12
Hearsay from a Bishop with an agenda. onehandle Jan 2014 #14
But of course! No way a homophobic bigot like pope would advocate against gay adoption or marriage! idwiyo Jan 2014 #15
When the pope has in his own words stated his opposition to NYC Liberal Jan 2014 #16
The Pope used horrific language against gay parents in Argentina, adoption he called a form Bluenorthwest Jan 2014 #18
But is it a "fresh approach" or just the same old ignorance dressed up more nicely? nomorenomore08 Jan 2014 #20
So don't hate on the kids of gay or divorced couples, JoeyT Jan 2014 #22
So, don't hate on the kids.... uriel1972 Jan 2014 #26
Exactly. NEVER ones to mince words, the silence on closeupready Jan 2014 #29
Always listen to what isn't said... uriel1972 Jan 2014 #30
Francis used a quote regarding a child who said that her "mothers girl friend did not like her" to lumpy Jan 2014 #27
I'm glad you picked up on that theHandpuppet Jan 2014 #34
‘my mother’s girlfriend doesn't love me". Zorra Jan 2014 #36
We know why he did... theHandpuppet Jan 2014 #37
 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
1. fresh Church approach to children of LGBT parents
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 01:39 PM
Jan 2014

NONONO!!!!.... keep that creepy organization away from children.... whoever their parents are!

A fresh approach to brainwashing? (among other things)

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
21. And the pope...
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 09:44 PM
Jan 2014

has encouraged bishops to speak out against LGBT couples adopting. New boss, better marketing team.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
31. don't appreciate your anti-Catholic bigotry.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 01:50 PM
Jan 2014

I have no bigotry against Catholics.

I just don't like ANY supernatural crap having any authority. Ghost stories and exorcism horror films are great fun, but actually believing in such nonsense is just detrimental.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
33. Richard Dawkins is a pedophile apologist,
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:29 PM
Jan 2014

No he's not. As usual, you people didn't get to the end of the sentence. You're all outraged about a statement of how attitudes change over time. Here's what he said:

"I am very conscious that you can’t condemn people of an earlier era by the standards of ours. Just as we don’t look back at the 18th and 19th centuries and condemn people for racism in the same way as we would condemn a modern person for racism, I look back a few decades to my childhood and see things like caning, like mild pedophilia, and can’t find it in me to condemn it by the same standards as *I* or anyone would today,” he said.

Read it a couple of times and see if you can actually understand what he said. I know you can do it....with great effort perhaps.

And I think young people should stay away from Catholicism, and religion in general, until they can clearly understand it is mythology and stone age and bronze age guesses that have nothing to do with the universe or one's place in it. My objections have nothing to do with being "creepy."

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
35. He IS a pedophile apologist because he's excusing behavior that
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:41 PM
Jan 2014

everyone knew was wrong -- even decades ago, when he was a child. And even "mild" pedophilia. Pedophiles and kidnappers were why children were warned to stay away from strangers (even though most aren't strangers), and pedophiles were a lot more common than kidnappers.

The difference between then and now isn't changing standards. It's that society has stopped covering up for these criminals. Most people, unlike Richard Dawkins, don't minimize the crimes of years ago. They were just as harmful to children then as they are to children today -- which is why there have been prosecutions of cases as far back as the 60's and 70's.

I'm sure you can figure this out. With a great effort, perhaps.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
38. I see you still can't do reading comprehension.
Sat Jan 11, 2014, 04:14 PM
Jan 2014

I realize all this reading between the lines and encompassing interpretations of the actual words written may be necessary to make the Bible anything but practically useless in this day and age.... but all that is not necessary with Dawkins.

In his statement he clearly states he condemns pedophilia (and he clearly is not talking about fellatio, intercourse, or seriously sick crap) today.... and in the past.... but one must not project current attitudes onto the past.

But go ahead.... have fun making up meanings to things that aren't there.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
39. Being an apologist for pedophiles of the past, on the spurious basis that they didn't know
Sat Jan 11, 2014, 06:39 PM
Jan 2014

any better because of the cultural attitude of the time, is still being a pedophile apologist. The pedophiles of several decades ago were as guilty as those now, despite what Dawkins says.

When Richard Dawkins was growing up, everyone knew pedophilia -- even mild pedophilia -- was wrong. It's ridiculous to say otherwise.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
41. It's ridiculous to say otherwise.
Sat Jan 11, 2014, 11:29 PM
Jan 2014

where did he say it wasn't wrong?

Still making things up that are not there.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
43. He said it couldn't be judged by today's standards and that it didn't cause lasting harm.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 12:14 AM
Jan 2014

He's a moron. And a pedophile apologist.

I know a man, a contemporary of his, who was seriously harmed by a very similar experience.

Dawkin's own experience, sadly, has warped his perspective.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/09/richard-dawkins-pedophilia_n_3895514.html

CANTERBURY, England (RNS) Richard Dawkins, one of the world's best-known and outspoken atheists, has provoked outrage among child protection agencies and experts after suggesting that recent child abuse scandals have been overblown.

In an interview in The Times magazine on Saturday (Sept. 7), Dawkins, 72, he said he was unable to condemn what he called "the mild pedophilia" he experienced at an English school when he was a child in the 1950s.

Referring to his early days at a boarding school in Salisbury, he recalled how one of the (unnamed) masters "pulled me on his knee and put his hand inside my shorts."

He said other children in his school peer group had been molested by the same teacher but concluded: "I don't think he did any of us lasting harm."

http://www.salon.com/2013/09/10/richard_dawkins_defends_mild_pedophilia_says_it_does_not_cause_lasting_harm/

In a recent interview with the Times magazine, Richard Dawkins attempted to defend what he called “mild pedophilia,” which, he says, he personally experienced as a young child and does not believe causes “lasting harm.”

Dawkins went on to say that one of his former school masters “pulled me on his knee and put his hand inside my shorts,” and that to condemn this “mild touching up” as sexual abuse today would somehow be unfair.

“I am very conscious that you can’t condemn people of an earlier era by the standards of ours. Just as we don’t look back at the 18th and 19th centuries and condemn people for racism in the same way as we would condemn a modern person for racism, I look back a few decades to my childhood and see things like caning, like mild pedophilia, and can’t find it in me to condemn it by the same standards as I or anyone would today,” he said.

Plus, he added, though his other classmates also experienced abuse at the hands of this teacher, “I don’t think he did any of us lasting harm.”

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
3. I don't see him offering any actual ideas or changes of policy
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 01:56 PM
Jan 2014

Where are the details of this 'fresh approach'?

 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
17. It looks like he is demonstrating how to be a liberal pope -- the "fresh approach"
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:12 PM
Jan 2014

will be discussed by all those taking part, and not dictated by him. He is
simply initiating the call for a meeting to deal with this subject. That's
the way it appears to me.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
19. Every word he said about gay families is negative. What's so liberal?
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:30 PM
Jan 2014

It just sounds rude. In the past he has attacked gay families with fierce and unyielding language, so his mealy mouthed words here certainly do not come close to a change of direction. He has much to make amends for if he is a decent person.

 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
23. He may not be liberal about gays, but he is more liberal in other areas, such
Mon Jan 6, 2014, 08:37 PM
Jan 2014

Last edited Tue Jan 7, 2014, 08:15 AM - Edit history (1)

as, poverty.

In the area of sexuality, the Catholic Church is way, way back behind the times.
I don't think the pope has the authority to simply pronounce a change, and I
doubt it that the Church would follow him, if he did. The pope doesn't have as much
authority as you might believe. There is a great deal of tradition -- especially
with the Catholic Church's 2,000 year old history. It's going to take a long, long
time for such changes to take place.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
40. "...but he is more liberal in other areas, such as, poverty." Evidence?
Sat Jan 11, 2014, 09:28 PM
Jan 2014

At least the past 3 popes(including this one) have been harsh critics of the capitalist system, along with emphasizing the need to help the poor.

 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
42. I take it that you haven't read Pope Francis' directly naming [Reagan's] "trickle down" theoty, that
Sat Jan 11, 2014, 11:45 PM
Jan 2014

it does not work as claimed, that it does not trickle down to the poor, that it stays at the top. I
believe the other popes spoke in generalizations. He is the first one to mention a name.

davidthegnome

(2,983 posts)
6. Hmm...
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 02:25 PM
Jan 2014

From what he actually said, I don't gather that he's looking for a fresh approach. It would be great if he was... but, this is all kind of too vague.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
7. As a former Catholic, I'm not impressed with words.
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 02:52 PM
Jan 2014

Particularly from a religious organization that excels in obfuscation and outright lies masquerading as deep, complicated truths.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
10. He has also spoken directly to that point.
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 03:07 PM
Jan 2014

In discussing the process of educating future priests, he says:

http://ncronline.org/blogs/ncr-today/francis-tells-religious-wake-world-outlines-modern-struggles-church

Referencing advice he received as a young man to "think clearly and speak obscurely" the pope says "that was a clear invitation to hypocrisy." "We need to avoid that at all costs," he states.

"Formation is a work of art, not a police action," the pope continues. "We must form their hearts. Otherwise we are creating little monsters. And these little monsters mold the People of God. This really gives me goose bumps."

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
13. He has spoken with alarming clarity against gay families, saying it is child abuse and a form of
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 03:33 PM
Jan 2014

discrimination against the child, so if he really wants to create a new direction he needs to use language equally supportive of those families and apologize for his previous characterizations or he is just sending an RSVP on that invitation to hypocrisy.
I see no such clarity in this alleged call for a new way. I see not one positive word about gay families, and all the words he does use are negative. A hard to understand challenge, my Mommy's girlfriend does not love me. These are not kindnesses.

Response to DonViejo (Original post)

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
11. he has a "long way to go and a short time to get there"....
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 03:11 PM
Jan 2014

the church needs to change and if the conservatives have their way there will be none.

given enough time maybe this guy will be able to pull of a miracle

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
12. "Pope encouraged Malta bishop to speak out against gay adoption bill" - enough said.
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 03:21 PM
Jan 2014
http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/pope-encouraged-malta-bishop-to-speak-out-against-gay-adoption-bill/

Pope encouraged Malta bishop to speak out against gay adoption bill


“We discussed many aspects...and when I raised the issue that’s worrying me as a bishop [the same-sex adoption bill] he encouraged me to speak out,” Auxiliary Bishop Charles Scicluna told The Sunday Times of Malta.

The bishop spoke about the importance of strong families in his Christmas homily. His concerns come after lawmakers in Malta introduced a bill to allow same-sex civil unions and adoption of children.

...

However, the Pope has also said on several occasions that he is a “son of the Church” who agrees with the moral teachings of the Church.

He opposed legislation to legalize “gay marriage” in Argentina in 2010, saying that it was “a destructive proposal to God's plan.”

...

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
14. Hearsay from a Bishop with an agenda.
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 04:35 PM
Jan 2014

Last edited Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:09 PM - Edit history (1)

There is no proof that the Pope told the Bishop to 'speak out.'

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
15. But of course! No way a homophobic bigot like pope would advocate against gay adoption or marriage!
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:03 PM
Jan 2014

And it wasn't pope who advocated against same-sex marriage in Argentina. That was someone else!





NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
16. When the pope has in his own words stated his opposition to
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:06 PM
Jan 2014

adoption by gay couples?

Why do you think he has changed his mind?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
18. The Pope used horrific language against gay parents in Argentina, adoption he called a form
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 05:19 PM
Jan 2014

of child abuse, discrimination against the child and he added lots of language about Satan being the author of laws giving gay families equal standing. Attempts to deny his real history are the offensive tactic that keeps causing division on DU.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
20. But is it a "fresh approach" or just the same old ignorance dressed up more nicely?
Sun Jan 5, 2014, 08:16 PM
Jan 2014

I really am torn over this, especially as a lapsed Catholic boy.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
22. So don't hate on the kids of gay or divorced couples,
Mon Jan 6, 2014, 03:10 PM
Jan 2014

not because it's wrong, but because it makes it too hard to convert them.

A message many liberals will conveniently ignore the last half of, because it utterly negates the faux progressive sentiment in the first half.

uriel1972

(4,261 posts)
26. So, don't hate on the kids....
Tue Jan 7, 2014, 02:38 PM
Jan 2014

Okay fine with that, but what about the parents, can we at least still hate them? <sarcasm>

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
29. Exactly. NEVER ones to mince words, the silence on
Tue Jan 7, 2014, 03:34 PM
Jan 2014

that aspect is deafening, to those of us who know the RCC well (current and former confirmed Catholics).

lumpy

(13,704 posts)
27. Francis used a quote regarding a child who said that her "mothers girl friend did not like her" to
Tue Jan 7, 2014, 03:25 PM
Jan 2014

further his point against gays. Francis, you could hear from many a kid declaring that "mother's BOY friend does like me". Francis just might be over his head in certain areas.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
36. ‘my mother’s girlfriend doesn't love me".
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 11:36 PM
Jan 2014

With all the millions more stepfathers in the world who stepkids have a hard time with, why does he have to single out lesbians and try to make them look bad.

Fail. I'm still not convinced that this man is not playing a role.


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