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Zorro

(15,740 posts)
Sat Jan 24, 2015, 01:35 PM Jan 2015

How secular family values stack up

More children are “growing up godless” than at any other time in our nation's history. They are the offspring of an expanding secular population that includes a relatively new and burgeoning category of Americans called the “Nones,” so nicknamed because they identified themselves as believing in “nothing in particular” in a 2012 study by the Pew Research Center.

The number of American children raised without religion has grown significantly since the 1950s, when fewer than 4% of Americans reported growing up in a nonreligious household, according to several recent national studies. That figure entered the double digits when a 2012 study showed that 11% of people born after 1970 said they had been raised in secular homes. This may help explain why 23% of adults in the U.S. claim to have no religion, and more than 30% of Americans between the ages of 18 and 29 say the same.

So how does the raising of upstanding, moral children work without prayers at mealtimes and morality lessons at Sunday school? Quite well, it seems.

Far from being dysfunctional, nihilistic and rudderless without the security and rectitude of religion, secular households provide a sound and solid foundation for children, according to Vern Bengston, a USC professor of gerontology and sociology.

http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-0115-zuckerman-secular-parenting-20150115-story.html

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How secular family values stack up (Original Post) Zorro Jan 2015 OP
I find it strange that we are still asking questions upaloopa Jan 2015 #1
Absolutely! This is how we raised our daughter - cilla4progress Jan 2015 #2

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
1. I find it strange that we are still asking questions
Sat Jan 24, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jan 2015

like that in the OP.
Religion does not gauruntee morality. If anything the immoral religious use religion to justify the immorality. The hate for the LGBT community is the obvious case in point. Religion in my opinion holds no candle to living morally because instinctively it is understood to be the way to live.

cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
2. Absolutely! This is how we raised our daughter -
Sat Jan 24, 2015, 01:44 PM
Jan 2015

actually, we did attend a Unitarian Universalist church when she was growing up, which many think is "rudderless," but actually encourages free-thinking. There are UU humanists, Christians, pagans, Jews, Buddhists. We feel that we are spiritual, but not religious.

Our daughter has a strong environmental (and work) ethic, very open mind, and is tolerant of - and excited about - all kinds of diversity. She has strong values, and a great ability to consider and discern.

And yes, the Golden Rule, or, "we are all connected," sums up our belief system.

Thank you for posting this article which our family can really relate to!

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