Feminist writers are so besieged by online abuse that some have begun to retire
Feminist writers are so besieged by online abuse that some have begun to retire
By Michelle Goldberg February 20 at 12:56 AM
Jessica Valenti is one of the most successful and visible feminists of her generation. As a columnist for the Guardian, her face regularly appears on the sites front page. She has written five books, one of which was adapted into a documentary, since founding the blog Feministing.com. She gives speeches all over the country. And she tells me that, because of the nonstop harassment that feminist writers face online, if she could start over, she might prefer to be completely anonymous. I dont know that I would do it under my real name, she says she tells young women who are interested in writing about feminism. Its not just the physical safety concerns but the emotional ramifications of constant, round-the-clock abuse.
This is a strange, contradictory moment for feminism. On one hand, theres never been so much demand for feminist voices. Pop stars such as Beyoncé and Taylor Swift proudly don the feminist mantle, cheered on by online fans. After years when it was scorned by the mainstream press, the movement is an editorial obsession: Sheryl Sandbergs Lean In, Lena Dunhams Not That Kind of Girl, Roxane Gays Bad Feminist and Amy Poehlers Yes Please occupy, and sometimes top, bestseller lists. Stories about race and gender bias draw huge audiences, making identity politics a reliable profit center in a media industry beset by insecurity, Jonathan Chait recently wrote in New York magazine a proposition that would have been unthinkable a decade ago.
On the other hand, while digital media has amplified feminist voices, it has also extracted a steep psychic price. Women, urged to tell their stories, are being ferociously punished when they do. Some particularly women who have the audacity to criticize sexism in the video-game world have been driven from their homes or forced to cancel public appearances. Fake ads soliciting rough sex have been placed in their names. And, of course, the Twitter harassment never stops. Being insulted and threatened online is part of my job, Lindy West, formerly of Jezebel, recently said on This American Life. Adds Jamia Wilson, executive director of the feminist advocacy group Women, Action and the Media, It really can affect the way that people feel about themselves.
Feminists of the past faced angry critics, letters to the editor and even protests. But the incessant, violent, sneering, sexualized hatred their successors absorb is harder to escape. For women of color, racial abuse comes along with the sexism. I have received racialized rape threats that I dont think I would necessarily receive if I were white, Wilson says. A lot of things about anatomy black womens anatomy. She finds herself talking about the online abuse in therapy, she says. There is trauma, especially related to the death and rape threats, she says. Eventually, such sustained abuse ends up changing people both how they live and how they work.
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DonCoquixote
(13,616 posts)However, I will con tinue to say, death to Gamergate, no quarter, raise the red flag and kill all prisoners. You little BOYS in that movement hate the fact that you are not the defualt alpha males by virtue of the fact people buy and make stuff that is not oriented to please you. It's a big world, getting bigger, and soon the defualt setting for power will no longer be "western white male who somehow has discretionary income and enough time to be online." I may disagree with some conclusions the Sarjessians make, but I will glady help them take care of you. Note I did not say defend, fight alongside yes, but these ladies need no whiote knoights, but I will gladly apply for the role of comrade -in-arms.
If you cannot take the heat boys, get off the internet!
marym625
(17,997 posts)Just sad. We lose great authors because there's no protection from the bigot and misogynist fruit cake with a computer.
Jessica Valenti is just awesome. I love reading her opinion pieces.
Darb
(2,807 posts)Convicted and jailed. I know there is a digital trail leading right back to their moms basement.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)They're right wing nuts who will openly admit to raping someone. They advocate assault, they commit assault. They're often extreme libertarians (check out the red pill forum on reddit) who own large weapons caches. They are part of what is causing the mass murders in our country, part of a vile misogynistic thread of history. They are sociopathic, and incredibly cruel. And they are among the ones threatening murder, rape, and torture.
The real life cost to all of the women in their lives is immense. These men need to be pursued under the law. This cannot be acceptable in our society. These women have been harassed and abused, and there needs to be consequences for the perpetrators.
I am awed by and grateful to the writers who have written despite all this, and to the writers who continue to, every, single, day.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)By Mark Follman - Thu May 15, 2014
http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/05/guns-bullying-open-carry-women-moms-texas
I've posted this a few times. This is the real life thing. Taking abuse online never stops there. I don't want to see any more victims or the organized misogyny and don't blame any woman for abandoning the venue. Just as many have left DU.
It's not so much how the person feels about themselves as the OP article says in part of it, but knowing the risks out there. I won't cooperate with abuse by standing there and taking it when so many don't care about it anyway. But one must weigh the risks. We are galloping headlong in feudalism and there is nothing charming about the brutal fantasy being shoved down our throats and those of girls.
Women are treated worse than children, ordered to be 'seen and not heard.' Well, fine, they won't have to see or hear women, since we saw their inhumanity first and the women haters can just GTH.
pnwmom
(108,978 posts)Much of the worst gets alerted on and removed, but not all.
And it's not just directed at female writers, but at all women who are public figures.
Such as Hillary Clinton.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6255478
freshwest
(53,661 posts)How would a person feel if it was their girl friend, wife, sister, mother or daughter being smeared with so much inneundoe? It reminds me Limbaugh going after Fluke, daily and doubling down with a continuing to be offensive apology. And Rush was one of the biggest attackers of HRC as First Lady. The RW media has sure done its job.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)And whoever went after her on women's rights the other day. There are many reasons to criticize Clinton, but she's been a major force for women and women's rights.
Kath1
(4,309 posts)I love checking out Feministing and other feminist sites. I had no idea they were subject to such abuse.
Not surprising. A lot of haters out there and a lot of angry old white men who see the change coming. Hang in there.