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Judi Lynn

(160,542 posts)
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 09:18 PM Feb 2015

Feminist writers are so besieged by online abuse that some have begun to retire

Feminist writers are so besieged by online abuse that some have begun to retire
By Michelle Goldberg February 20 at 12:56 AM

Jessica Valenti is one of the most successful and visible feminists of her generation. As a columnist for the Guardian, her face regularly appears on the site’s front page. She has written five books, one of which was adapted into a documentary, since founding the blog Feministing.com. She gives speeches all over the country. And she tells me that, because of the nonstop harassment that feminist writers face online, if she could start over, she might prefer to be completely anonymous. “I don’t know that I would do it under my real name,” she says she tells young women who are interested in writing about feminism. It’s “not just the physical safety concerns but the emotional ramifications” of constant, round-the-clock abuse.

This is a strange, contradictory moment for feminism. On one hand, there’s never been so much demand for feminist voices. Pop stars such as Beyoncé and Taylor Swift proudly don the feminist mantle, cheered on by online fans. After years when it was scorned by the mainstream press, the movement is an editorial obsession: Sheryl Sandberg’s “Lean In,” Lena Dunham’s “Not That Kind of Girl,” Roxane Gay’s “Bad Feminist” and Amy Poehler’s “Yes Please” occupy, and sometimes top, bestseller lists. “Stories about race and gender bias draw huge audiences, making identity politics a reliable profit center in a media industry beset by insecurity,” Jonathan Chait recently wrote in New York magazine — a proposition that would have been unthinkable a decade ago.

On the other hand, while digital media has amplified feminist voices, it has also extracted a steep psychic price. Women, urged to tell their stories, are being ferociously punished when they do. Some — particularly women who have the audacity to criticize sexism in the video-game world — have been driven from their homes or forced to cancel public appearances. Fake ads soliciting rough sex have been placed in their names. And, of course, the Twitter harassment never stops. “Being insulted and threatened online is part of my job,” Lindy West, formerly of Jezebel, recently said on “This American Life.” Adds Jamia Wilson, executive director of the feminist advocacy group Women, Action and the Media, “It really can affect the way that people feel about themselves.”

Feminists of the past faced angry critics, letters to the editor and even protests. But the incessant, violent, sneering, sexualized hatred their successors absorb is harder to escape. For women of color, racial abuse comes along with the sexism. “I have received racialized rape threats that I don’t think I would necessarily receive if I were white,” Wilson says. “A lot of things about anatomy — black women’s anatomy.” She finds herself talking about the online abuse in therapy, she says. “There is trauma, especially related to the death and rape threats,” she says. Eventually, such sustained abuse ends up changing people — both how they live and how they work.

More:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/online-feminists-increasingly-ask-are-the-psychic-costs-too-much-to-bear/2015/02/19/3dc4ca6c-b7dd-11e4-a200-c008a01a6692_story.html

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Feminist writers are so besieged by online abuse that some have begun to retire (Original Post) Judi Lynn Feb 2015 OP
I know I cannot speak for all gamers DonCoquixote Feb 2015 #1
What a terribly sad state of affairs marym625 Feb 2015 #2
Agree 100% Kath1 Feb 2015 #10
The haters should be exposed and arrested. Darb Feb 2015 #3
And these trolls are real, live people. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #4
You said it all, and they are definitely real life dangerous: freshwest Feb 2015 #7
We all see examples of online sexism -- even here on DU. pnwmom Feb 2015 #5
That is typical, personal and sexually judgmental, is all I can say. freshwest Feb 2015 #6
F--- that guy. F4lconF16 Feb 2015 #8
That is sick. Kath1 Feb 2015 #9

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
1. I know I cannot speak for all gamers
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 09:22 PM
Feb 2015

However, I will con tinue to say, death to Gamergate, no quarter, raise the red flag and kill all prisoners. You little BOYS in that movement hate the fact that you are not the defualt alpha males by virtue of the fact people buy and make stuff that is not oriented to please you. It's a big world, getting bigger, and soon the defualt setting for power will no longer be "western white male who somehow has discretionary income and enough time to be online." I may disagree with some conclusions the Sarjessians make, but I will glady help them take care of you. Note I did not say defend, fight alongside yes, but these ladies need no whiote knoights, but I will gladly apply for the role of comrade -in-arms.

If you cannot take the heat boys, get off the internet!

marym625

(17,997 posts)
2. What a terribly sad state of affairs
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 09:26 PM
Feb 2015

Just sad. We lose great authors because there's no protection from the bigot and misogynist fruit cake with a computer.

 

Darb

(2,807 posts)
3. The haters should be exposed and arrested.
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 10:12 PM
Feb 2015

Convicted and jailed. I know there is a digital trail leading right back to their moms basement.

F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
4. And these trolls are real, live people.
Fri Feb 20, 2015, 10:34 PM
Feb 2015

They're right wing nuts who will openly admit to raping someone. They advocate assault, they commit assault. They're often extreme libertarians (check out the red pill forum on reddit) who own large weapons caches. They are part of what is causing the mass murders in our country, part of a vile misogynistic thread of history. They are sociopathic, and incredibly cruel. And they are among the ones threatening murder, rape, and torture.

The real life cost to all of the women in their lives is immense. These men need to be pursued under the law. This cannot be acceptable in our society. These women have been harassed and abused, and there needs to be consequences for the perpetrators.

I am awed by and grateful to the writers who have written despite all this, and to the writers who continue to, every, single, day.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
7. You said it all, and they are definitely real life dangerous:
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 04:32 AM
Feb 2015
Spitting, Stalking, Rape Threats: How Gun Extremists Target Women - Welcome to the dark side of America's war over guns.

By Mark Follman - Thu May 15, 2014

http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/05/guns-bullying-open-carry-women-moms-texas

I've posted this a few times. This is the real life thing. Taking abuse online never stops there. I don't want to see any more victims or the organized misogyny and don't blame any woman for abandoning the venue. Just as many have left DU.

It's not so much how the person feels about themselves as the OP article says in part of it, but knowing the risks out there. I won't cooperate with abuse by standing there and taking it when so many don't care about it anyway. But one must weigh the risks. We are galloping headlong in feudalism and there is nothing charming about the brutal fantasy being shoved down our throats and those of girls.

Women are treated worse than children, ordered to be 'seen and not heard.' Well, fine, they won't have to see or hear women, since we saw their inhumanity first and the women haters can just GTH.

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
5. We all see examples of online sexism -- even here on DU.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 12:23 AM
Feb 2015

Much of the worst gets alerted on and removed, but not all.

And it's not just directed at female writers, but at all women who are public figures.

Such as Hillary Clinton.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6255478

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
6. That is typical, personal and sexually judgmental, is all I can say.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 04:22 AM
Feb 2015

How would a person feel if it was their girl friend, wife, sister, mother or daughter being smeared with so much inneundoe? It reminds me Limbaugh going after Fluke, daily and doubling down with a continuing to be offensive apology. And Rush was one of the biggest attackers of HRC as First Lady. The RW media has sure done its job.

F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
8. F--- that guy.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 05:20 AM
Feb 2015

And whoever went after her on women's rights the other day. There are many reasons to criticize Clinton, but she's been a major force for women and women's rights.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
9. That is sick.
Sat Feb 21, 2015, 08:03 AM
Feb 2015

I love checking out Feministing and other feminist sites. I had no idea they were subject to such abuse.

Not surprising. A lot of haters out there and a lot of angry old white men who see the change coming. Hang in there.

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