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niyad

(113,421 posts)
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 11:33 AM Mar 2015

This Courageous One-Woman Protest Challenged Gender-Based Violence in Afghanistan


This Courageous One-Woman Protest Challenged Gender-Based Violence in Afghanistan


Since the beginning of 2015, an impressive and growing number of women have braved the streets of Turkey and Egypt protesting sexual harassment and other forms of violence against women. Before the end of February, Turkish men endorsed and joined the mobilizations marching in miniskirts in Istanbul and posting photos of themselves in skirts on social media.



As in these and many other countries, sexual harassment and assault, rape, and domestic violence are omnipresent in Afghanistan. Violence against women here has increased 25% and the country’s first Elimination of Violence Against Women law (2012) is rarely applied with police turning their backs on victims. This culture of violence and its normalization is deeper and more widespread in Afghanistan due to tribal norms, the ideology of religious extremists like the Taliban, and other patriarchic mindsets that result in 60-80% of marriages being forced and/or underage and other atrocities such as arsons and bombings against girl schools, poison and acid attacks against girl students, and the traditional increase victimization of women and girls due to conflict.

Against this backdrop, and the high probability of being harassed on the streets for no other reason than gender, a young Afghan woman artist, Kubra Khademi, designed and wore an exaggerated breast and buttock armor in a crowded street of Kabul to condemn violence against women.

Whether male or female, the reactions of passersby were predominately negative and echoed those expressed in a flurry of Twitter and Facebook posts. Kubra was mocked. Condemned. Called a whore. Threatened. Some even demanded she be slapped in the face. Her protest was seen as offensive to women and to Afghanistan. As a stunt to promote western culture. Her outfit was sexualized and viewed as something she dawned only to draw attention to her body parts. Not surprisingly, Kubra and a few of the women accompanying her were touched.

The media’s response was to sensationalize the street scene. Most only shared social media photos with a caption or scant article portraying Kubra as a nameless woman wearing a controversial costume in protest against sexual harassment.

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http://feminist.org/blog/index.php/2015/03/05/this-courageous-one-woman-protest-challenged-gender-based-violence-in-afghanistan/
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This Courageous One-Woman Protest Challenged Gender-Based Violence in Afghanistan (Original Post) niyad Mar 2015 OP
Incredible story, incredible woman! Scruffy Rumbler Mar 2015 #1
I am in awe of this young woman's courage and vision. niyad Mar 2015 #2
Their might makes their right. I have often wondered how long would it take Scruffy Rumbler Mar 2015 #3
your second and third paragraphs give me a bit of hope. niyad Mar 2015 #4

Scruffy Rumbler

(961 posts)
1. Incredible story, incredible woman!
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 09:55 PM
Mar 2015

Thanks for posting her story!

It is truly amazing and saddening to me when I contemplate how many men on this planet are so casual with touching a woman in any way shape or form. Yet if I (as a gay man) were to turn the the situation around and touch any of these men in the same way they so casualy touch women, why I would be lucky to get away with just a beating.

Is it a lack of empathy? Well, what ever enough about them.

Kubra Khademi reminds me of a couple of my nieces. Strong, intelligent, creative, talented, people, taking empowerment from the world they are in to make the changes needed. May her unique and powerful art continue and influence those that experience her.

Art Saves Lives



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niyad

(113,421 posts)
2. I am in awe of this young woman's courage and vision.
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 09:59 PM
Mar 2015

with your reference about touching--I have, on occasion, when listening to guys making thoughtless sexist remarks and whining about why women don't respond when they are just joking or touching, how they would feel if a guy did it to them. one and all, they were horrified. so the next question to them is, "then why do you think it's okay to do the same to women?" no answer.

Scruffy Rumbler

(961 posts)
3. Their might makes their right. I have often wondered how long would it take
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 10:31 PM
Mar 2015

for a cultural shift to occur in how straight men behaved toward women, if women began responding in the same over-reactive and violent ways toward them as some men do when approached by a gay man.

One of the positive changes I have seen among my 20something nieces, nephews and their peer group is a more fluid experience with gender attraction and a more respectful way of negotiating advances from people of any gender. And that includes the straight identifying men in their circle.

I was glad to read an article recently about legislation to eliminate "Gay Panic" as a defense in attacks on Gay men. I cannot remember if it was city or state level bill.

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