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struggle4progress

(118,295 posts)
Sun May 15, 2016, 04:42 PM May 2016

Donald Trump has torn my family apart

May 16, 2016 - 12:00AM
Aubrey Perry

Greaseball. Wetback. Spic. Beaner. I grew up with these words in the house. Not because that's what people called us. That's what we called Mexicans.

At least, my parents did. We were white. We lived in Turlock, California. A blue-collar place with a lot of immigrant labour. My dad ran a one-man pest extermination business, and my mum taught ESL (English as a Second Language) and basic English at a local college. Today, both of my parents are vehement Donald Trump supporters ...

I don't use Twitter much. But, wow. My mum does. I recently checked her Twitter page for the first time in a while and was shocked. Hateful memes, ugly language, and appearance-based attacks, targeted at Hillary Clinton, stacked up. And not just hateful, but off-topic and malicious calling Hillary "ugly", "old" and "screechy". An "unlikeable old bag. The 'woman card' stinks!" my mother wrote. My mother! A college instructor! She should know better. She's no internet troll. Is she?

And then I remembered. I remembered the vocabulary my parents used when I was a child. The racial slurs and put-downs thrown around the dinner table, the contempt that was always there, the disdain, the racism, the aggression ...


http://www.smh.com.au/comment/donald-trump-has-torn-my-family-apart-20160512-gotjq2.html

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Donald Trump has torn my family apart (Original Post) struggle4progress May 2016 OP
This really is part of it Depaysement May 2016 #1
Yep, same here Hayduke Bomgarte May 2016 #3
Nice read. Hayduke Bomgarte May 2016 #2
How sad for the author of that peace. SheilaT May 2016 #4
WOW Dr. Xavier May 2016 #5

Depaysement

(1,835 posts)
1. This really is part of it
Sun May 15, 2016, 04:48 PM
May 2016

In my parents' working class house, those words got you a smack in the head and a trip to the sink with some soapy mouthwash for your tasty pleasure.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
4. How sad for the author of that peace.
Sun May 15, 2016, 04:53 PM
May 2016

I don't discuss politics with my family. It helps that no one lives within 800 miles of me. I do know one niece is a strong Hillary supporter, which tells me she's simply fallen for the OMG! A WOMAN president! And not taken any kind of a close look at her actual record.

It's possible a couple of other female relatives are for her, but I hope not.

My parents are long gone, and I won't even try to guess who either one would support if still alive.

Dr. Xavier

(278 posts)
5. WOW
Sun May 15, 2016, 05:50 PM
May 2016

I am really sorry that the writer has to go through this. Family may be important but it is also healthy to realize that toxic people, especially those that we are related to, don't need to be in our lives. Good Luck to the writer and her child.

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