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red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 06:17 PM Jun 2017

Feeling blue in deep-red America: Advice for progressives in Trumpland

Salon.com
Monday, June 26, 2017

An ethical culture specialist has advice for progressives in predominantly conservative areas.

According to Dr. Richard Koral, a leader of the New York Society for Ethical Culture,
it's a lonely life - but it doesn't have to be.

"Progressives living in predominantly conservative areas sometimes feel isolated and alienated from their community and yearn for the society of others who share their most basic outlook in life, even if they do not agree on every feature of a plan or program," Koral explained to Salon.
"People find emotional sustenance in having an opportunity to be heard and understood by other people.
It gives them confirmation of their core beliefs as well as support and encouragement to take a moral stand."

His advice for these individuals?
Become activists, even if the opposition around you feels overwhelming.

"In the age of screaming, it's important to stop and listen - even to those who do not support our views.
We strive to remember and recognize the humanity of others who have a different perspective.
In order to effectively communicate one's views, especially in a way that will spark change,
it is important to be patient, empathetic, and a listener as much as a talker."

This advice may seem obvious - get involved in activist movements, think beyond yourself and show empathy toward those with whom you disagree.
In a era that elected a race-baiting, science-hating reality TV star as it's president, however, even common sense sometimes needs a boost.
Regardless of whether one agrees with the ethical culture movement's broader objectives,
it's hard to dissent from their sense that our society needs a lot of activism and empathy at this juncture in it's history.

Read entire article:
http://www.salon.com/2017/06/26/feeling-blue-in-deep-red-america-advice-for-progressives-in-trumpland/

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Feeling blue in deep-red America: Advice for progressives in Trumpland (Original Post) red dog 1 Jun 2017 OP
Move. I did 30 years ago. If not possible, find a small Alice11111 Jun 2017 #1
I'd love to move, but can't right now red dog 1 Jun 2017 #2
Frankly, if I were able, &my partner wanted to, I would go to Canada Alice11111 Jun 2017 #3
If I won a million dollars, I'd move to Der Netherlands (aka Holland) red dog 1 Jun 2017 #4
Canada is model coumtry w a soul & a great sense of humor. Alice11111 Jun 2017 #5
Nice fantasy. I hope you win! Alice11111 Jun 2017 #6
Thanks for that red dog 1 Jun 2017 #8
Thx for info Alice11111 Jun 2017 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author red dog 1 Jun 2017 #7

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
1. Move. I did 30 years ago. If not possible, find a small
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 06:24 PM
Jun 2017

Group of your own kind to hang with. I know, it's very hard.

red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
2. I'd love to move, but can't right now
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 06:49 PM
Jun 2017

(due to finances and being underwater as far as my mortgage is concerned)

But I do have a place picked out if I win the lottery.....Mendocino, CA.

I live in a fairly blue town in a very blue state (CA)

red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
4. If I won a million dollars, I'd move to Der Netherlands (aka Holland)
Tue Jun 27, 2017, 02:23 PM
Jun 2017

and open a luxury dog kennel out in the country somewhere..
perhaps Flavoland, the world's largest polder (land reclaimed from the sea, protected by dikes)

Or maybe Tilberg, the highest city in Holland (365 feet above sea level)

(But Canada is nice too).

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
5. Canada is model coumtry w a soul & a great sense of humor.
Wed Jun 28, 2017, 07:49 AM
Jun 2017

France.would be nice too. I love the language and the the people, lifestyle is perfect for me. I would have to dig in and re- learn French fast and proficiently. I would love it though. I almost moved to the Netherlands when my daughter was a tot. I guess we sorta got a better deal here though. I'm alone now. Can I come? I will be a produvtive member of your country and make up for lost tim


French, Canada, if you are listening, there are many of us. Mostly boomers, it seems. I'm Winding down some, but now I could work again as a professor in political science & would politics, in of course, Canada or France. I would brush up, but I would enjoy it. I am also a lawyer, securities traders,.and I'm licensed.in Texas aad New Mexico. My Spanish is good. I lived in Barcelona for a year, some time ago.
.
Alas, I am probably too old. Everyone wamts younger people these days, but I am high energy maybe in public management, I was consultant several years for a consultant company, and a I've head much ecperience with local & and federal govermenta.I know my way in working through democracies.
Teaching something Civil Rights, Womens Rights, enviromental law to porperty or contracts. Moreover, I should never leave our legal writing out. Most lawyers do ineed help and have trouble gettimg it

Careers today, I would love!

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
6. Nice fantasy. I hope you win!
Wed Jun 28, 2017, 09:25 PM
Jun 2017

One of our judges here, who has severe diabetes, and he had to have a kidney transplant, retired, and he won a million dollars the day after. A really good guy...and lucky@!!

red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
8. Thanks for that
Fri Jun 30, 2017, 02:06 PM
Jun 2017

I hope I win too.

Glad to hear about the judge who won a million dollars - it sounds like he deserved it.

Good luck with your Canadian dream.

My cousin moved up there about 25 years ago, and she loves it up there.
(She works at a legal aid office in Vancouver, B.C.)

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