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eppur_se_muova

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Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:02 PM Nov 2017

Women tried to tell and we didn't listen (Archibald/al.com)

What women have been trying to tell us: #believewomen

By John Archibald | jarchibald@al.com
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on November 17, 2017 at 9:03 AM, updated November 17, 2017 at 9:05 AM

Forget about Roy Moore for a moment. I won't talk about him here.

Pretend there's no election Dec. 12, no need to filter every word through the sieve of party, no need to defend every claim as if it were a conspiracy concocted by the other side.

Whatever side.

Because this is not political. It can't be. This is bigger than that. It is - pardon the heresy - more important than politics.

I've come to believe every woman I know - and more men than I imagined - have their own stories of abuse or harassment or something like it. They're not just memories, stored away in boxes like old photographs and Mayday ribbons. They're pain.

Infected. Embedded, like a bullet fragment that cannot be removed.
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more: http://www.al.com/opinion/index.ssf/2017/11/what_women_have_been_trying_to.html#incart_river_index



Definitely worth reading the whole thing. Many sad stories held back for years.
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Women tried to tell and we didn't listen (Archibald/al.com) (Original Post) eppur_se_muova Nov 2017 OP
This is a Must Read. Kick and Rec BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2017 #1

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
1. This is a Must Read. Kick and Rec
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 11:44 PM
Nov 2017

Powerful article and a molecule-sized excerpt of the abuse committed against mostly women, and of the shaming committed against every victim. It also emphasizes how so many men --a large majority, really--simply don't care because they can't relate.


"This is a moment, I keep believing. It's a cultural awakening and the start of a change. We fail when we say boys will be boys. We hurt when we question what a woman wore when she was assaulted. Those who blame the victims - who call them whores and tramps and sluts - are as guilty as those who commit the acts.

It's not just about the past. It's about the future."

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