"Oh My God, This Is So F---ed Up": Inside Silicon Valley's Dark Side
Source: Vanity Fair
OH MY GOD, THIS IS SO F---ED UP: INSIDE SILICON VALLEYS SECRETIVE, ORGIASTIC DARK SIDE
Some of the most powerful men in Silicon Valley are regulars at exclusive, drug-fueled, sex-laced partiesgatherings they describe not as scandalous, or even secret, but as a bold, unconventional lifestyle choice. Yet, while the guys get laid, the women get screwed. In an adaptation from her new book, Brotopia, Emily Chang exposes the tired and toxic dynamic at play.
BY EMILY CHANG
FEBRUARY 2018
About once a month, on a Friday or Saturday night, the Silicon Valley Technorati gather for a drug-heavy, sex-heavy party. Sometimes the venue is an epic mansion in San Franciscos Pacific Heights; sometimes its a lavish home in the foothills of Atherton or Hillsborough. On special occasions, the guests will travel north to someones château in Napa Valley or to a private beachfront property in Malibu or to a boat off the coast of Ibiza, and the bacchanal will last an entire weekend. The places change, but many of the players and the purpose remain the same.
The stories Ive been told by nearly two dozen people who have attended these events or have intimate knowledge of them are remarkable in a number of ways. Many participants dont seem the least bit embarrassed, much less ashamed. On the contrary, they speak proudly about how theyre overturning traditions and paradigms in their private lives, just as they do in the technology world they rule. Like Julian Assange denouncing the nation-state, industry hotshots speak of these activities in a tone that is at once self-congratulatory and dismissive of criticism. Their behavior at these high-end parties is an extension of the progressiveness and open-mindednessthe audacity, if you willthat make founders think they can change the world. And they believe that their entitlement to disrupt doesnt stop at technology; it extends to society as well. Few participants, however, have been willing to describe these scenes to me without a guarantee of anonymity.
If this were just confined to personal lives it would be one thing. But what happens at these sex partiesand in open relationshipsunfortunately, doesnt stay there. The freewheeling sex lives pursued by men in techfrom the elite down to the rank and filehave consequences for how business gets done in Silicon Valley.
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Read more: https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2018/01/brotopia-silicon-valley-secretive-orgiastic-inner-sanctum
ret5hd
(20,495 posts)alittlelark
(18,890 posts)....escaped.
appalachiablue
(41,145 posts)Squinch
(50,955 posts)BigmanPigman
(51,609 posts)with a sign that says "No Girlz Allowed". Their attitude is misogynistic and they are the new, greedy robber barons...same old, same old mentality.
Skittles
(153,169 posts)Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)You couldn't tell her anything that would surprise her anymore, especially among the Techbros who along with their female equivalent she absolutely despises.
Very early in her career she was working late and wandered into the washroom to change for her bike ride home only to find three trashy women who did not work there were changing into lingerie. She just said "well I'm seeing shit" and turned around and never said a word to anyone for years, she just couldn't believe that men were bringing prostitutes into the office.
Then there is this guy she knew personally: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-california-homicide/prostitute-pleads-guilty-in-google-executives-heroin-death
More recently she was working in a building where the employees of another company in the building were having sex in the bike locker room and after placing a security camera in there they began just going at it in the stairwell and leaving condoms behind.
JI7
(89,252 posts)is because they were the same assholes then as now.