She's 17 And Wants To Be A Politician. Her Dad Says He Won't Vote For Her.
On the eve of President Donald Trumps first anniversary in office, teenage girls and their fathers are facing off in the most divided political climate since Vietnam. How one family fights through it.Source: Buzz Feed News
The pizza theyve ordered is half cheese and half meat-lovers, and that on its own says something about Lily Miller, a 17-year-old girl living in Waterloo, Iowa, and her 49-year-old father, Mike.
Shes a vegetarian. He loves meat. She wanted Sen. Bernie Sanders to become the 45th president of the United States. He voted for Donald Trump. They cant agree on anything not a singular pizza topping, nor Lilys political future.
More power to her, Mike says when I ask him about Lilys plan to run for office someday. Because whether she agrees with me or not, her time spent with me is going to rub off on her, is going to affect how she makes decisions in the future.
Mike thinks Black Lives Matter demonstrators are terrorists dividing the country. Lily supports the movement wholeheartedly. He thinks Hillary Clinton should be imprisoned. She volunteered for the Clinton campaign after Sanders was defeated in the Democratic primary. They argue about gun control, immigration and education reform, and Trumps proposed border wall.
Now, for lunch, theyre eating a pie sliced down the middle by their disagreements, at a wholesome sports-bar restaurant playing 80s hits at one decibel too loud for a Saturday afternoon. Across the street is West High School, where Lily is a junior. Mike graduated from the school 30 years ago. He was born and raised in the Waterloo-Cedar Falls area, two hours northeast of Des Moines, and so was Lily. She is, almost predictably, bored by it. She yearns to pack up her political ambitions and her robust garage-sale vintage jewelry collection and head to one of the US coasts for college. Her dad wants her to go to school in the South.
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Young, progressive women like Lily have spent the last year adjusting to a world in which a man they believe to be a misogynist holds the highest office, and their male parent helped put him there. Dads like Mike have had to adjust to a world in which their daughters, who broke down crying on election night, seem to suddenly and inexplicably identify with socialism, social justice, and snowflakes [grr ].
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Well worth the read... Lily sounds like a phenomenal young woman.
Aristus
(66,434 posts)Move to one of the coasts, young lady, and get that shithead out of your promising life.
His kind of retrograde douchebaggery you don't need, even, or maybe especially if he is your father.
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)Then religious right took over the GOP both nationally and in IA.
Carrie Chapman Catt, a leader of the natonal woman's movement of the late 19th and early 20th centuries, was from IA. A building at IAState is named for her (unfortunately at times refered to as the cat house).
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)Aristus
(66,434 posts)A classmate of mine from PA School was from Iowa. She was proud of how liberal they are (or were at the time, or seemed to be, or whatever.) I wonder what she thinks now?
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)Remember thinking IA had had progressive and conservative national leaders for much of its history.
Also, IIRC IA had highest percentage of state males in union army than any other state.
JI7
(89,260 posts)Maybe they will start to move back. Especially when they start families and want to buy a house which would be much more affordable in iowa than the coasts.
StevieM
(10,500 posts)a municipal office, like mayor or city council.
I don't think it is a good idea to cut our conservative relatives out of our lives. I have three cousins who voted for Trump, and as disappointed as I was, and still am, I can't just cut them out.
Aristus
(66,434 posts)I cut my (few) conservative relations out of my life altogether. I don't miss them. I wish them happiness. But I don't need that level of shovelheaded stupidity in my life.
TNLib
(1,819 posts)Fortunately she's in her lat 70's and I'm in my late 40's and I see her once a month maybe. I don't have to live with her.
Recently she referred to my teenage daughter as a snow flake and my daughter doesn't seem to want anything to do with her. I feel sorry for my mother her politics and fox news brainwashing has literally driven us away from her when she seems to want to be around us more.
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)Last edited Wed Jan 17, 2018, 05:48 PM - Edit history (2)
A thought -
Then young men were fighting an unjust war in order to have a future. Now young women are fighting an unjust system, party, and president in order to have a future.
marble falls
(57,144 posts)her dad and I look the same. We screwed it up, allow her the opportunity to fix it.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)gals like Lily give me hope
JI7
(89,260 posts)They would do better to stay there and push for liberal policy.
Although i can't blame them since I'm from a very blue coast .