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mahatmakanejeeves

(57,489 posts)
Wed Jul 3, 2019, 12:56 PM Jul 2019

A 7-year-old was ordered to leave a fountain because of her swimwear. Even she knew it was wrong.

SOCIAL ISSUES // PERSPECTIVE

A 7-year-old was ordered to leave a fountain because of her swimwear. Even she knew that it was all wrong.

When her mother prepared to write a complaint, the rising second grader drafted her own message

Theresa Vargas
June 27

In a drawing, the 7-year-old girl set the scene.

Starbucks sat in the background. Uneaten food rested on an outdoor table. And smack in the middle of the Downtown Silver Spring fountain, where the water spouted the highest, stood a boy in shorts and a “Surfs Up” shirt. Next to him, two girls in bathing suits played. All three wore smiles.

Off to the side stood another figure, a frowning yellow-haired girl in purple shorts and a matching shirt.

The 7-year-old circled the girl to indicate it was her.



A 7-year-old girl drew this the night she was ordered out of the Downtown Silver Spring fountain. (Roz Dzelzitis/Roz Dzelzitis)

What happened to the rising second-grader on a recent evening at the popular Maryland splash fountain has elicited outrage from some parents and raised important questions about the practices of privately owned, publicly used aquatic spaces where children spend their summers splashing and squealing.

What led to the incident is complicated, but this much remains undisputed: The girl was singled out because of what she was wearing.
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At one point, she said, her daughter walked over to them and pointed at a boy in the fountain. ... “She said, ‘But look, that boy over there is wearing swim shorts and I’m wearing swim shorts,’?” Dzelzitis said. ... “He said, ‘But that’s a boy and you’re a girl.’?”
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This piece originally appeared in The Washington Post.

Theresa Vargas is a columnist for The Washington Post. Before that, she worked on the local enterprise team.
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A 7-year-old was ordered to leave a fountain because of her swimwear. Even she knew it was wrong. (Original Post) mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2019 OP
Idiots jberryhill Jul 2019 #1
"Have people lost all common sense?" mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2019 #2
I concur... GB_RN Jul 2019 #3
Common Sense uriel1972 Jul 2019 #7
I don't know what "swim shorts" means here. Igel Jul 2019 #4
they said the difference was he was a boy and she was a girl JI7 Jul 2019 #6
Since when does it even matter what kids get wet in? flying_wahini Jul 2019 #5

GB_RN

(2,356 posts)
3. I concur...
Wed Jul 3, 2019, 03:11 PM
Jul 2019

After all, "common sense" is a total misnomer, there's not one damned thing that's common about it.

Igel

(35,320 posts)
4. I don't know what "swim shorts" means here.
Wed Jul 3, 2019, 06:05 PM
Jul 2019

Are they short pants that boys swim in, or the "swimming shorts" that is a synonym for "non-spandex men's swim wear".

I've been in places where cut-offs or street shorts were verboten, but swimming shorts were okay. Because one's not swimwear and the other is. It's a fine line, but in some places it's enforced as best they can. That's not to say that it's not violated, but in my experience when it's pointed out that the "swimming shorts" some kid's wearing are really just street shorts the kid's been ejected.

Perhaps this place is different and is discriminating. I just can't tell from what's presented. "Swim shorts" is used too ambiguously by a 7-year-old girl (most kids that aren't aren't noted for their extreme linguistic precision, to be honest).

(Do they make swimming shorts for girls? Not a part of the store I need to pay attention to.)

JI7

(89,252 posts)
6. they said the difference was he was a boy and she was a girl
Wed Jul 3, 2019, 08:59 PM
Jul 2019

they didn't say the difference was type of shorts

flying_wahini

(6,606 posts)
5. Since when does it even matter what kids get wet in?
Wed Jul 3, 2019, 06:14 PM
Jul 2019

Too many damn rules. Some people just have to squish ALL the fun out of everything!

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