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elleng

(131,129 posts)
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 12:31 PM Mar 2014

This Is What 80 Looks Like to Gloria Steinem!

ON Tuesday, Gloria Steinem turns 80.

Do not bother to call. She’s planning to celebrate in Botswana. “I thought: ‘What do I really want to do on my birthday?’ First, get out of Dodge. Second, ride elephants.”

edit: MOST of what she does involves moving the movement forward. Speech to meeting to panel to fund-raiser. She frequently travels alone but it’s not lonely, she says: “On the plane I have my flying girlfriends, who are called flight attendants.” (Flight attendants play a large role in Steinem’s life. Sometimes they get her first-class meals when she’s flying coach. We will now stop to contemplate the fact that Gloria Steinem is 80 and still flying coach.)

... Steinem has always been such a positive cheerleader for the future that we really do expect, on one level, to hear her come up with some strategy for standing up to mortality. She’s always had a victory in mind, a vision of a better tomorrow where there would be no hierarchy of gender or race or income, where life flows as seamlessly as it seems to do in the stories she tells about the early Iroquois or Cherokee.

You do sort of count on her having a plan for the next stage. “We’re so accustomed to narratives, we expect there’s going to be a conclusion, or explanation or answer to the secret,” she said. “And probably the answer is, there isn’t.”

But there’s always an elephant to ride.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/23/opinion/sunday/collins-this-is-what-80-looks-like.html?hp&rref=opinion&_r=0

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This Is What 80 Looks Like to Gloria Steinem! (Original Post) elleng Mar 2014 OP
That's a great read...a totally healthy outlook on life BeyondGeography Mar 2014 #1
as ALWAYS, from Gloria! elleng Mar 2014 #2
Love this shot... progressoid Mar 2014 #3
Great one, isn't it??? elleng Mar 2014 #4
I saw her about 20 years ago at a bookstore in Oxford, Miss. LuvNewcastle Mar 2014 #5
I'd forgotten about her research on Playboy Bunnies ... GeorgeGist Mar 2014 #6
There are older women who believe in looking their best no matter Cleita Mar 2014 #7
Glad to hear there's another book in the works. Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2014 #8
She's always been a hero of mine Lifelong Protester Mar 2014 #9
NICE! elleng Mar 2014 #10
Cemented my 'hero worship' of her Lifelong Protester Mar 2014 #11
Aging Gracefully! tea and oranges Mar 2014 #12
Gloria Steinem proves again that woman's work is never done. JDPriestly Mar 2014 #13
a lot of women like her, my mother mackerel Mar 2014 #14
Gloria Steinem is one of my heroes. Blue_In_AK Mar 2014 #15
Yup. elleng Mar 2014 #16

BeyondGeography

(39,380 posts)
1. That's a great read...a totally healthy outlook on life
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 12:39 PM
Mar 2014

Common sense stuff that you hardly ever get to hear from Americans.

progressoid

(49,999 posts)
3. Love this shot...
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 12:52 PM
Mar 2014


From left: Betty Friedan, Elinor Guggenheimer, Eleanor Holmes Norton and Gloria Steinem, among the founders of the National Women’s Political Caucus, in July 1971.
Credit Don Hogan Charles/The New York Times

LuvNewcastle

(16,856 posts)
5. I saw her about 20 years ago at a bookstore in Oxford, Miss.
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 01:00 PM
Mar 2014

I thought she was beautiful then, but I had no idea she was about 60. She's probably beautiful still. She's one of those people you can look at and see the inner beauty as well.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
7. There are older women who believe in looking their best no matter
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 01:26 PM
Mar 2014

their age. My 83 year old BFF is one of them. She still looks good in a bikini and she swims every day to keep herself in shape. She also colors her hair and had some minor cosmetic surgery. I commend her for it. She also had beautiful green eyes that still look like headlights when she turns them on you. Those are still there. I'm sure Gloria is one of those women.

I really don't understand why other women would discourage an older woman from doing what she can afford to do to look her best regardless of her age.

Lifelong Protester

(8,421 posts)
9. She's always been a hero of mine
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 02:09 PM
Mar 2014

Dedicated our high school yearbook to her (in 1973!)-accidentally spelled her name wrong. So I brough IT and her new book to a signing, 20 or so years ago, and she signed BOTH!

Lifelong Protester

(8,421 posts)
11. Cemented my 'hero worship' of her
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 02:22 PM
Mar 2014

She really DID take the time to talk to all of us in line, waiting to hear our stories of how she had changed our lives. I am glad, and not surprised, that she is doing well!

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
13. Gloria Steinem proves again that woman's work is never done.
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 03:18 PM
Mar 2014

Thanks, Gloria for fighting for the equal rights and freedom of all of us women.

The women's movement was almost too late for my generation but my daughters have benefited enormously. We need to keep reminding young women that the equality that they take for granted was fought for and won by Gloria Steinem and a few strong women like her.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
15. Gloria Steinem is one of my heroes.
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 03:35 PM
Mar 2014

It's hard to believe she's 80 -- but then it's also hard to believe I'm 67.

elleng

(131,129 posts)
16. Yup.
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 05:08 PM
Mar 2014

69 here Blue!!!

I used to refer to 'Ms' as 'The magazine,' and a friend's husband wasn't sure about what I was talking!!!

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