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me b zola

(19,053 posts)
Mon Sep 23, 2013, 09:42 PM Sep 2013

Names

Rachel Rostad - "Names" (NPS 2013)



My heart breaks for this young woman, like so many others like her. No one knows if her birthmother truly never named her, or received communications from her. Anything is possible, but women don't generally give birth without a connection to their offspring. I've heard countless adoptees from China, Korea, and Africa that were told stories that simply were lies. They were told their parents were dead, but when they pressed to find the truth their mother had been looking for her child for decades.

Its a lot to take in. Just listen to it a few times.
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Names (Original Post) me b zola Sep 2013 OP
"Something must have been lost..." me b zola Sep 2013 #1
What a strong young woman! yuiyoshida Sep 2013 #2
I love her strength and courage... me b zola Sep 2013 #3
Another woman speaks up: me b zola Sep 2013 #4

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
3. I love her strength and courage...
Tue Sep 24, 2013, 12:56 AM
Sep 2013

...but how unfair for any human being to have to deal with these circumstances

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
4. Another woman speaks up:
Tue Sep 24, 2013, 09:50 AM
Sep 2013
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I’m an Asian Adoptee from southern Korea and this is my truth: I was told I was an illegitimate child given up by my birth mother and abandoned by my birth father. When in fact, my parents were always married and I had two older sisters. My adoption agency created a tragic story about my life in order for me to be more “adopt-able.” Miss Saigon perpetuates the “White Savior” complex in Asian orphans and paints a tragic sob story where abandoned, helpless and poor children need saving. Countries where people and children are displaced due to economic strife, war, environmental disasters, etc. do not need the the Imperialist West to “save” them. They need the resources to rebuild their lives and ensile safety, love, and community. Taking children away from their country, homes and families is not the answer.

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