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IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:14 PM Nov 2017

I'm going to be alone for Thanksgiving for the first time in years.

I usually go out of town to visit family or go to a friend's house for Thanksgiving. Next year I will deal with traveling and my republican relatives. This year, this is exactly how I want to spend Thanksgiving. I'm looking forward to having a long weekend to myself. I'm not a big fan of turkey so I'm going to make a bunch of sides, curl up on the couch, watch movies and play video games with the cats. I have two cats of my own and I'm cat sitting one more for a friend.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all!

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I'm going to be alone for Thanksgiving for the first time in years. (Original Post) IrishEyes Nov 2017 OP
I believe you have true grit. and points for style. IADEMO2004 Nov 2017 #1
I say go for a sappy movie marathon! MLAA Nov 2017 #2
I was thinking more of watching classic comedies. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #5
That works too! MLAA Nov 2017 #12
I just watched that last month IrishEyes Nov 2017 #29
What hump? WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2017 #50
May I suggest "High Anxiety"? It's one of his best & certainly apropos catbyte Nov 2017 #104
Good one! MLAA Nov 2017 #108
History of the World Part 1! Dulcinea Nov 2017 #113
How about "Duck Soup"? (n/t) PJMcK Nov 2017 #30
Marx Brothers are good. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #33
Marx Brothers best film was Night at the Opera, IMHO ailsagirl Nov 2017 #102
I saw Bringing Up Baby the other day Martin Eden Nov 2017 #105
I love Arsenic and Old Lace. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #110
My Man Godfrey Martin Eden Nov 2017 #112
I love "Born Yesterday" with William Holden, Judy Holliday, and Broderick Crawford. A comedy, yet diva77 Nov 2017 #61
It is a good film. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #74
If it has Judy Holliday, it's a comedy. mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2017 #103
I loved the Thin Man series. flygal Nov 2017 #96
I've never seen that, I will have to check it out 🙂 MLAA Nov 2017 #98
Yes! I own them all and they are great! smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #114
First 3 Star Wars mgardener Nov 2017 #107
If you're in WI you could come on over. AJT Nov 2017 #3
Thanks. I was born in Wisconsin. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #19
Me, too! PJMcK Nov 2017 #31
If you have your cat, you are not alone Angry Dragon Nov 2017 #4
Absolutely. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #13
only when they crap in the cat box. nt trc Nov 2017 #51
Are you sure they won't 'bring him up'? FailureToCommunicate Nov 2017 #52
Enjoy! cilla4progress Nov 2017 #6
tRump has tainted everything good. Freedomofspeech Nov 2017 #71
I need a break from that monster. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #75
I am totally exhausted from this horrible circus. Freedomofspeech Nov 2017 #109
That actually sounds wonderful! Solly Mack Nov 2017 #7
Thanks. I had lots of invitations but I want some time to relax. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #10
Let us know who wins at the video games - you or the cat. :) Solly Mack Nov 2017 #14
Maybe that was their way of letting you know to stop playing and pet them instead. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #37
Sure. Take their side. lol Solly Mack Nov 2017 #38
I did that last Christmas! MaryMagdaline Nov 2017 #8
You're essentially pardoning a turkey Beakybird Nov 2017 #9
Link, please PJMcK Nov 2017 #32
hehehaha...Hope I remember to tell this at dinner. The Wielding Truth Nov 2017 #62
Have a beautiful Thanksgiving, IrishEyes! herding cats Nov 2017 #11
So sorry for your loss of your little loved ones. MLAA Nov 2017 #15
Thank you. herding cats Nov 2017 #20
Can't believe they lived so long! None of mine have. Honeycombe8 Nov 2017 #93
My condolences on the loss of your cats. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #18
That's like my family. herding cats Nov 2017 #22
They don't need anymore toys. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #27
You are a wonderful kitty parent! herding cats Nov 2017 #40
Have a good weekend! I wish I could do that csziggy Nov 2017 #16
Enjoy! Lisa0825 Nov 2017 #17
IrishEyes? sheshe2 Nov 2017 #21
I'm kind of tired from work? What does BOG mean? IrishEyes Nov 2017 #23
Barack Obama Group? Iggo Nov 2017 #25
Barack Obama Group. sheshe2 Nov 2017 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author IrishEyes Nov 2017 #42
Sorry. I mistook you for IrishAyes. sheshe2 Nov 2017 #39
No problem. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #43
They were a friend... sheshe2 Nov 2017 #44
My family's going to Cabo for five days. Iggo Nov 2017 #24
Sounds great. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #46
IrishEyes Polly Hennessey Nov 2017 #26
Sounds wonderful! Enjoy! emulatorloo Nov 2017 #28
Good for you! Enjoy yourself! fierywoman Nov 2017 #34
could be worse Skittles Nov 2017 #36
Me too. Let us check in here, though, for a break! spooky3 Nov 2017 #57
yeah Skittles Nov 2017 #67
Enjoy Your Weekend Leith Nov 2017 #41
I would probably watch my secret shame...... AJT Nov 2017 #45
Nothing wrong with a little schmaltz at Christmas. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #47
The simple minded movies are an escape, but they are also AJT Nov 2017 #49
Don't forget LoveMyCali Nov 2017 #66
I'll be with you in spirit! InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2017 #48
Nothing like a mellow thanksgiving kimbutgar Nov 2017 #53
If you need company, Ive got a daughter in law I could do without Canoe52 Nov 2017 #54
Perfect way to spend a long weekend. What a treat. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #55
When I read your first sentence, I was... 3catwoman3 Nov 2017 #56
That sounds great wryter2000 Nov 2017 #58
Enjoy it. Always nice to get some ME time every now and again. And we make too much of iluvtennis Nov 2017 #59
I envy you. CatMor Nov 2017 #60
Maybe a turkey pot pie? world wide wally Nov 2017 #63
Sounds like a relaxing weekend, Greybnk48 Nov 2017 #64
Check out a good old classic movie. pressbox69 Nov 2017 #65
Sounds good. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #77
Many years ago, I was working out of state and had a Thankgiving alone. Binkie The Clown Nov 2017 #68
Me, too. mnhtnbb Nov 2017 #69
One of the first things I do when I move somewhere is get a library card. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #73
Happy Thanksgiving to You also, IrishEyes! Raster Nov 2017 #70
You're not alone! You have 3 cats! Nay Nov 2017 #72
True. They follow me everywhere. IrishEyes Nov 2017 #79
Sounds peaceful and relaxing. Enjoy! lunasun Nov 2017 #76
One of my best Christmases was spent alone TlalocW Nov 2017 #78
Happy Thanksgiving! Heartstrings Nov 2017 #80
I have to work tomorrow DFW Nov 2017 #81
Our sons are busy iamateacher Nov 2017 #82
I'm going to seat your solitude next to mine and bask in the calm and love! Corvo Bianco Nov 2017 #83
I have stayed away from family and republicans for years around the holidays. Demtexan Nov 2017 #84
Same for me BillyBobBrilliant Nov 2017 #85
There will be three of us. TNNurse Nov 2017 #86
I have a Three Stooges box set Maynar Nov 2017 #87
Add me to the list... Pacifist Patriot Nov 2017 #88
I never much cared for holidays... llmart Nov 2017 #89
It's not bad being hassle-free. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2017 #90
Ill be by myself this year as well and am actually looking for ward to it. My husband is with our Liberal In Red State Nov 2017 #91
I'm with you. Been doing it for years. It's MY day to do as I please, and that usually includes... Tarheel_Dem Nov 2017 #92
I'm with you. And Directtv has free HBO & Showtime TG thru Sunday! stuffmatters Nov 2017 #94
Irish saidsimplesimon Nov 2017 #95
I would rather be alone than with a bunch of republicans too blueinredohio Nov 2017 #97
Sounds lovely. alarimer Nov 2017 #99
As long as you have teevee, you're never alone. NT mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2017 #100
And Happy Thanksgiving to you, IrishEyes!! ailsagirl Nov 2017 #101
You're not alone you're with us. Ellipsis Nov 2017 #106
Happy Thanksgiving!!! Iggo Nov 2017 #111

catbyte

(34,402 posts)
104. May I suggest "High Anxiety"? It's one of his best & certainly apropos
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:28 PM
Nov 2017

after the shit year we've all had.

Martin Eden

(12,870 posts)
105. I saw Bringing Up Baby the other day
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:28 PM
Nov 2017

But my two favorite screwball comedies (also with Cary Grant) are His Girl Friday & Arsenic and Old Lace.

Martin Eden

(12,870 posts)
112. My Man Godfrey
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 08:51 AM
Nov 2017

I would be remiss not to mention that one as well.

Next up, Frank Capra:
Though not comedies, I really love Mr. Smith Goes to Washington and the original Mr. Deeds Goes to Town.

diva77

(7,643 posts)
61. I love "Born Yesterday" with William Holden, Judy Holliday, and Broderick Crawford. A comedy, yet
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:56 AM
Nov 2017

extremely relevant these days...



oops - this is not considered a comedy -- classified as drama/romance; but it definitely has some humor ...

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,484 posts)
103. If it has Judy Holliday, it's a comedy.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:21 PM
Nov 2017

"Born Yesterday" was making the rounds on the cheapskate TV channels a few years back. I've never seen the whole thing.

There's one scene in "Born Yesterday" where William Holden takes Judy Holliday to see the Constitution or Declaration of Independence -- in the Great Hall of the Library of Congress. At the time, the LOC was entirely in the Jefferson Building. Also at the time, that's where those documents were kept. They were moved to the National Archives in 1953 I think. The move was a big deal. Armed guards, the whole thing. Not like "National Treasure."

flygal

(3,231 posts)
96. I loved the Thin Man series.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:52 PM
Nov 2017

We are also having just immediate family for the first time (four of us) and it's so less stressful. Feel guilty not inviting people but I just wanted a year off.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
114. Yes! I own them all and they are great!
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 12:51 AM
Nov 2017

It kind of bummed me out once they had a baby - it seemed to drag Nora down - but they were still great films.

mgardener

(1,816 posts)
107. First 3 Star Wars
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:47 PM
Nov 2017

My go to.
When my kids were sick we would watch 1 star war movie.
I have fond memories snuggling with my kids on the couch and having soup.

cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
6. Enjoy!
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:23 PM
Nov 2017

I feel you. Not feeling it this year. Last year I was in shock and lied to avoid spending it with evangelical in laws.

This is my favorite “holiday.” I appreciate the spirit of it. This year I just feel down and surly.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
75. I need a break from that monster.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:42 PM
Nov 2017

The only orange I want to see this weekend is sweet potatoes and glazed carrots.

Solly Mack

(90,769 posts)
14. Let us know who wins at the video games - you or the cat. :)
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:29 PM
Nov 2017

My dogs always hit a button or two when I'm playing, causing me to lose.

Beakybird

(3,333 posts)
9. You're essentially pardoning a turkey
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:25 PM
Nov 2017

I heard that scientists have engineered a six-legged turkey so people won't fight over the drumsticks, but no one can catch these turkeys.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
11. Have a beautiful Thanksgiving, IrishEyes!
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:26 PM
Nov 2017

I'm spending mine with my closest and dearest family, no extended family this year! It's also going to be a lovely event. Exactly like I want to be spending my holiday this year, too.

I hope more people are able to be like us and just say no to the unwanted and unpleasant family who spoil every gathering.

Hug your kitty for me, please? I lost both of mine this year. My Tink the end of February and my Boo the second of October. Give your kitty some extra love for me and my holiday will be complete.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
20. Thank you.
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:42 PM
Nov 2017

Tink was 22 years old. She had a long and very happy life before she was diagnosed with kidney cancer. Boo... he was just 14 when he became sick with pancreatic cancer shortly after losing Tink.

We love our fur babies. They're our family, too.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
93. Can't believe they lived so long! None of mine have.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:44 PM
Nov 2017

Any secret to keeping them living that long? I do everything I know to do (both dogs & cats), but none of mine have lived the expected lifespan. They all have fallen short of it. Regular exams, vaccines, healthy food, lots of walks for the dogs, all were indoor pets, love & attention, rush to vet if something seems wrong.

Maybe my vets haven't been too good?

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
18. My condolences on the loss of your cats.
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:39 PM
Nov 2017

I will give my cats lots of love. Half of my family are democrats and half are republicans. Politics always comes up.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
22. That's like my family.
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:45 PM
Nov 2017

Except it's split on a marital line, so it's possible to avoid the Republicans when necessary.

Thank you, for giving your kitties extra love for me! It truly makes my heart happy to know. If I could I'd send them some kitty treats for the holiday.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
27. They don't need anymore toys.
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:55 PM
Nov 2017

I spoil these kitties rotten. They were stray one month old kittens when I rescued them from the street. I only meant to get one but the other one showed up. They sleep together, play together and groom each other. I have had them for a year and a half. They are very sweet cats.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
40. You are a wonderful kitty parent!
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:13 AM
Nov 2017

Both of my cats were rescues, too. I get it, we're tender hearts. We spoil them rotten and love them dearly.

Boo was 6 weeks old when I took him and his brother in as fosters, so I can imagine how close you are to your little babies who were even younger. They're so dependent on you at that age and they bond so deeply to you. Enjoy the years, and years of love and joy you have ahead of you!

I'm so glad I chimed in on your post. You made me smile and gave me kitty love by proxy. Thank you!!

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
16. Have a good weekend! I wish I could do that
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:34 PM
Nov 2017

Or, do like my sister does with Christmas now that our family does not have holidays. She has a cookout at her place and a bunch of her friends bring stuff to contribute. Most of them are childless or their children are away living their own lives. It's a fun time, though I have only been once.

Our friends who are childless are getting to that point - their parents are gone and they try to get together for the holidays. Because my in laws always have a big do planned, my husband and I are pretty much obligated to go to their events, even when I would rather stay home for a quiet day.

Happy Thanksgiving to you!

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
17. Enjoy!
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:37 PM
Nov 2017

I once lied to people who invited me because all I wanted was a 4 day weekend to myself.

Happy Thanksgiving!

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
21. IrishEyes?
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:44 PM
Nov 2017

So good to see you. Long time since the BOG.

Enjoy your Thanksgiving...yours may be better than most.

Peace.

Response to sheshe2 (Reply #35)

sheshe2

(83,786 posts)
44. They were a friend...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:29 AM
Nov 2017

and no longer post. I miss them.

No, you forgot nothing, it was my mistake.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
24. My family's going to Cabo for five days.
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:48 PM
Nov 2017

It's just me and my 86 year old Dad holding down the fort.

Filet mignon for me. Mashed potatoes and a bunch of other soft food for Dad. Pie and ice cream.

And then watch all my shows and movies on the 4K.

It'll be grand!

(Added bonus: I play the electric guitar, and my Dad is just this side of stone deaf...lol.)

Polly Hennessey

(6,798 posts)
26. IrishEyes
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 11:54 PM
Nov 2017

Enjoy your solitude and enjoy the furry friends you are lucky to have as company. I guarantee, this Thanksgiving wii be less stressful.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
45. I would probably watch my secret shame......
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:29 AM
Nov 2017

Hallmark movies.......it's all schmaltzy Christmas movies.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
47. Nothing wrong with a little schmaltz at Christmas.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:31 AM
Nov 2017

I've watched a hallmark movie a time or two in my life.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
49. The simple minded movies are an escape, but they are also
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:42 AM
Nov 2017

sending not so good messages. They really reinforce rightwing ideas.

1. City life and city folks are never as good as small town life and people

2. There is never an african american/white relationship.

3. Everything works out as long as you have faith

4. There are no such thing as gays

But I do love me some happy ending schmaltz

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
66. Don't forget
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:01 AM
Nov 2017

My life would be perfect if I just had a man.


Still, I have to admit that I watch them sometimes too.

Irish_Dem

(47,124 posts)
55. Perfect way to spend a long weekend. What a treat.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:13 AM
Nov 2017

I can take or leave Turkey, give me the mashed potatoes and pumpkin pie and I am happy.

Lots of great movies on Amazon and Netflix.

3catwoman3

(24,006 posts)
56. When I read your first sentence, I was...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:21 AM
Nov 2017

...prepared to feel sad for you, but it sounds like you have things set up just the way you want them, so bravo to you.

At our house, it is always just my husband, our 2 sons, and me. We live in the far northwest suburbs of the greater Chicago area. We are not native to the area, unlike all our neighbors. We have no relatives anywhere near enough (New York, Colorado and Wyoming), and all our neighbors are busy with their own relatives - can't invite anyone to join us because they all have plans with their extended families.

Our sons are now 25 and 27. We discovered fairly early on that it takes to young men with healthy appetites no longer to consume a Thanksgiving diner that took 6+ hours to prepare than it does for them to wolf down a frozen pizza that took 15 minutes in the oven. I always dawdle over my dinner so that we stay at the table at least 30 minutes. Now that they both are living on their own, there is at least more to talk about than when they were still in high school and we saw each other every day.

Enjoy your solitude and your kitties. We have 4.

wryter2000

(46,051 posts)
58. That sounds great
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:40 AM
Nov 2017

I'm going to church. Then, I'm going to fry chicken, make mashed potatoes and green beans, and work on my latest book revisions.

iluvtennis

(19,862 posts)
59. Enjoy it. Always nice to get some ME time every now and again. And we make too much of
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:41 AM
Nov 2017

holidays. We should be living Thanksgiving and the current/upcoming holy holidays with the way we live each and everyday. I really disdain ppl who show grace and thanks only on the days when they fall on the calendar versus making those values a part of their day to day lives.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
64. Sounds like a relaxing weekend,
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 02:17 AM
Nov 2017

and a heck of a lot better than listening to Republican relatives. We don't have anyone in our home anymore that supports this grotesque Republican agenda.

pressbox69

(2,252 posts)
65. Check out a good old classic movie.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 02:34 AM
Nov 2017

O Henry's Full House is a good one. Five episodes with twist endings. They save the Gift of the Magi for last but The Cop and the Anthem and The Last Leaf are standouts. With Charles Laughton, Marlyn Monroe, David Wayne, Richard Widmark, Dale Robinson, Anne Baxter, Jean Peters, Gregory Ratoff, Oscar Levant, Fred Allen, Jeanne Crain and Farley Granger.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
68. Many years ago, I was working out of state and had a Thankgiving alone.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:09 AM
Nov 2017

I watched TV (video games and VCRs hadn't been invented yet) and ate a Turkey TV dinner. It was just fine.

This year, a few nearby family members will drop in. Either way is fine with me. I like having company, and I like being alone. Sounds like you feel somewhat the same way.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
69. Me, too.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:38 AM
Nov 2017

Sounds like you have a great plan. Enjoy!

I recently separated from my husband of 32 years--my choice--and moved 3 hours away to the beach for the off season until the end of March. I didn't want to run in to him around town the way a friend reported to me she did the other day. So I don't know anyone around here.

I have my dog with me. We've already established a routine that involves a lot of reading (got a library card this week)and I am retired. I will be very happy not to have to cook. Will miss seeing my grown sons and their partners, though. Hoping they will come visit me sometime in the next few months.

I have always been comfortable being alone. No other family in the state or nearby. It will be just another day for me.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
73. One of the first things I do when I move somewhere is get a library card.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 12:37 PM
Nov 2017

One of the perks of my job is it is right across the street from the library.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
79. True. They follow me everywhere.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:08 PM
Nov 2017

They are very affectionate. They always want to be cuddled and played with.

TlalocW

(15,383 posts)
78. One of my best Christmases was spent alone
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 01:04 PM
Nov 2017

When I lived in Tulsa, and we got hit by a rare huge snowstorm. Most of my family was in Kansas, and they said don't risk it, and I agreed. Peaceful day, looking at the snow. Read Dickens', "A Christmas Carol," went for a walk in the snow. Fortunately, had plenty of food in the house so I managed to put together enough of a feast that I was happily fed, and just thought of favorite memories of Christmases past.

TlalocW

DFW

(54,403 posts)
81. I have to work tomorrow
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 02:17 PM
Nov 2017

I have to be out of the house at 5:15 tomorrow morning in order to be at work by 10:30. Then I leave work at 3:10 so I can be back home at 9:30 tomorrow night. The direct train home was full, so I have an hour layover on the way back.

We celebrate our Thanksgiving dinner on Friday, since most people here will be working tomorrow. Enjoy your day(s) of tranquiity! At times, I envy those who have them.

iamateacher

(1,089 posts)
82. Our sons are busy
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 02:36 PM
Nov 2017

Watching the parade and part of the dog show, then going to Longwood Gardens to see the lights.

Demtexan

(1,588 posts)
84. I have stayed away from family and republicans for years around the holidays.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 03:48 PM
Nov 2017

Life is to short.

I will be at my new farmhouse.

First holiday there.

No republicans and no family members.

BillyBobBrilliant

(805 posts)
85. Same for me
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:22 PM
Nov 2017

Except a dog and 2 cats. The 'christmas' holiday will be the same -- 8 days of beautiful solitude -- watching old movies, and ignoring the hate in the world.

TNNurse

(6,927 posts)
86. There will be three of us.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:36 PM
Nov 2017

Yes, I would prefer a larger crowd, but that would require travel which I hate at the holidays. There will be no political discord, we are all in agreement. So my husband, sister and I will have a quiet day. Quiet and no political arguments are things for which to be thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you, hope there are minimal political skirmishes and if there are please assure them that you belong to a group who generally agree with you.

Maynar

(769 posts)
87. I have a Three Stooges box set
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 05:42 PM
Nov 2017

that was a Xmas gift last year. So I can go anywhere you can!

Enjoy the solitude, Irish. I know I would.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
88. Add me to the list...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:33 PM
Nov 2017

Who think that sounds like a perfectly delightful holiday.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, MATE!

llmart

(15,540 posts)
89. I never much cared for holidays...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 06:41 PM
Nov 2017

especially as they are now. I'm fine by myself but my neighbors always act like they pity me. I had many, many years of hosting big Thanksgiving dinners and it got tiring after years of it. I welcomed any excuse not to do all that work any longer. I know some women probably love it, but not me. Seems like an awful lot of money and time spent on one meal that gets eaten in less than 20 minutes.

I actually like Christmas even less what with all the materialism and very little true meaning left to the holiday. But I try to enjoy the parts of it I do like. I'm not a total Scrooge.

Now that I'm older I don't do anything or go anywhere I don't really want to. I'm so done with all the societal notions of what one is supposed to be doing on a holiday.

91. Ill be by myself this year as well and am actually looking for ward to it. My husband is with our
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:40 PM
Nov 2017

son but work kept me home. I need a break from everything and that includes news. Hope you enjoy your Turkey Weekend! I know I intend to do so. Happy Thanksgiving!

Tarheel_Dem

(31,234 posts)
92. I'm with you. Been doing it for years. It's MY day to do as I please, and that usually includes...
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 07:44 PM
Nov 2017

being alone, not answering the phone or the door. I have wonderful co-workers who know I don't do all the fuss, so the day after T-Giving I usually wind up with a bunch of their leftovers. I used to get invited, but since I never take anybody up on their invite, they finally quit asking.

There's always a good marathon, and some really good movies on T-Giving. That's enough for me.

stuffmatters

(2,574 posts)
94. I'm with you. And Directtv has free HBO & Showtime TG thru Sunday!
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:42 PM
Nov 2017

Catch up on recent movies and eat leftovers...heaven. I'll cook sides (& turkey too) because fun to make and eat them all weekend... turkey cranberry soup finale is the best.

It's not just the long drive and then my discomfort at the family overdrinking. This year I'm especially uncomfortable (wary of me exploding, actually) around RW relatives. Love them, but this year taking a break and looking forward to stressfree TG..

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
95. Irish
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 08:44 PM
Nov 2017

Happy days today and beyond the holidays to you. My trumpublican brother called today, he says rump is toast. That is his apology for voting for it, a beginning.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
99. Sounds lovely.
Wed Nov 22, 2017, 10:13 PM
Nov 2017

My boyfriend and I decided not to go anywhere. Mostly because of work. This is my busy time and my project was behind schedule due to weather. Fortunately I was able to take today off (and Friday of course).

We are having Blue Apron. I am making a pecan pie in addition. We are going to watch football (both our teams are playing, though not each other).

Maybe a good breakfast out, depending on what's open.

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