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hurl

(938 posts)
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:22 PM Jun 2018

Am I the only one who HATES potlucks?

Our local Democratic party is having a potluck social and fundraiser. If it weren't an important fundraiser, there's no way I would attend. I don't have any desire to cook for others, and I refuse to eat any food others bring on account of not wanting to 'mooch.'

So an otherwise nice social occasion of local unity leaves me feeling bad about hating on potlucks and wishing whoever decided this was a good idea be removed from the social committee.

Oh well, just venting. I'll go and donate for a good cause. Here's hoping I'm not the only grump about these things.

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NJCher

(35,729 posts)
1. you're a grump
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:31 PM
Jun 2018

Potlucks are a fun way to learn new dishes from people with whom you're most likely compatible. You never know what's going to be there, so the element of chance is involved. It's also a good way to spotlight one of your own favorite recipes.

Mooch? I don't get that. By bringing a dish, you're entitled to try everyone else's. If you don't want to cook, call in a favor from a friend or relative and ask them to do it for the cause. You can also buy some Chinese or some other takeout. I've seen that done more than a few times.

Arazi

(6,829 posts)
3. I don't cook so I usually bring a Portillos Chocolate cake to potlucks
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:35 PM
Jun 2018

Or Ely's cheesecake that I get from my grocery store

There are some really excellent options out there. If I can manage the time, I'll swing by my local bakery for cookies.

Easy peasy

MaryMagdaline

(6,856 posts)
5. I suppose we Democrats are a family and we will continue to annoy one another just like
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:37 PM
Jun 2018

Our blood families. Hopefully no one will make us wear ugly sweaters at Christmas.

Welcome to the curmudgeon committeee. I am right there with you.

bearsfootball516

(6,377 posts)
6. Eating food that others bring isn't mooching at a potluck.
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:37 PM
Jun 2018

Literally the point of a potluck is to bring food for others to eat.

WhiteTara

(29,722 posts)
7. So who would you prefer prepare the meal?
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:38 PM
Jun 2018

caterer? Spend too much of the fund raising dollars on fundraiser. Have the women prepare food and serve you? This is 2018.

Your choices are no food and not much fun or everyone prepare something and everyone share.

The idea that you are mooching would only apply if you brought nothing. If everyone does bring a dish, then there is always so much food, there's more for seconds of something you really like.

Phoenix61

(17,019 posts)
9. I love potlucks
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:58 PM
Jun 2018

People make their best dish so there's always lots of great food. But, if you don't like them just go and have fun. Nothing says you have to bring anything or eat.

Kittycow

(2,396 posts)
10. I'm too picky about food safety so guess I'm a grump too!
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:26 AM
Jun 2018

I'm too paranoid about proper food temperature.

Has it been prepared and kept in the correct temperature range?

I'd be ok with packaged, non-perishable food

I don't even eat the food at my extended family's huge social event potlucks.

Yeah, I'm a lot of fun at parties



 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
11. I'm the same. Worked in food service in my 20s.
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 09:17 AM
Jun 2018

Those ServeSafe classes are forever ingrained in my brain.

mainer

(12,029 posts)
12. My bitch about potlucks is the lack of protein
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 12:16 PM
Jun 2018

Most people bring bread or desserts or salads. I always seem to be the only one who brings meat.

Coventina

(27,172 posts)
13. I dislike potlucks because I don't eat meat.
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 12:18 PM
Jun 2018

That also means no Jell-O, things with marshmallows, etc.

I always try to make sure I have SOMETHING by bringing a veggie tray.

I often can't eat the salad (if there is one) due to bacon bits. ("It's ALMOST vegetarian!" I'm told)

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