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1. The Chit-Chatter
Your office would be a boring, mildly depressing place if you didnt spend time talking about that new Netflix show or the weird thing your kid said the other night. But if a co-worker gets a little too into small talk, to the point that theyre monopolizing everyones time, you may want to keep your distance, said psychologist and executive coach Kate Snowise.
These are the people in the workplace who are more interested in socializing than getting the work done, she said. If you get too close to them, theyll be quick to distract you. The downside being, youll still have that pile of work to get done. The chit-chatter can be a massive productivity suck.
2. The Know-It-All
Know-it-alls in your office thrive when they make others feel less capable and inferior: They school your IT guy on the new Apple iOS update without ever being asked, and theyre quick to talk over people in lower positions during meetings. Their confidence may have earned them a cushy position, but dont be swayed by their inflated sense of self or power, said Teresa Marzolph, founder of Culture Engineered, a human capital consulting firm in Phoenix.
If you get close to them, you are signing up for a life of a lackey. They will not recognize you as their equal, ever, she said. Know-it-alls live in a world where they are smart and everyone else isnt. When something goes wrong, its your fault, not theirs. The know-it-alls loyalty is to his ego. Your friendship, career and dignity will come in second, at best.
3. Back-Stabbers
4. The Procrastinator
5. The Soul-Sucker
6. The Martyr
Full story: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/6-types-of-toxic-people-you-should-never-befriend-at-work_us_5b71f564e4b0bdd0620c0c9c
I've worked with them all.
True Dough
(17,305 posts)my only colleague is my dog, and let me tell you, he's never betrayed me!
dameatball
(7,398 posts)Whatever you have, they already had a better one.
No matter what you did, they did it twice.
No matter how cute your new puppy is, their's is cuter.
No matter what new thing you buy, they could have gotten it cheaper with more bells and whistles.
Glamrock
(11,800 posts)dameatball
(7,398 posts)Auggie
(31,169 posts)BarbaRosa
(2,684 posts)or the lastest with the leastest.
No matter how successful you are, they've done it better, no matter how much you suffered, they had it worse.
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,446 posts)FSogol
(45,485 posts)4139
(1,893 posts)Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)hunter
(38,312 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,656 posts)Once worked with a guy that whined about what a shit company we were working for every day...for years.
RobinA
(9,893 posts)very hard to not be that person right now.