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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsIf you lost everything
what would you want for Christmas?
My cousin and his wife lost everything in a flood a couple of months ago. His sister had an idea that we would have a small gift exchange, $10 to $20, but SURPRISE, give all the gifts to them. They have insurance and their home is being rebuilt. My cousin was a primary care physician, so they are comfortable but not wealthy.
So if you were starting over, what small things would you like to receive?
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)Replacing everything often comes with a period of reflection.. They may not even know what they will need/want..
we left behind most our furniture when we moved and it was so much fun to start fresh ... with stuff we specifically chose instead of a hodge-podge that we built up over 32 years..
vlyons
(10,252 posts)I recommend kitchen gadgets, a really good chef's knife and knife sharpener, potato peeler, wine corkscrew, some paring knives, some cheery hand kitchen towels. Go to a dollar-style store and see what's in the kitchen section.
MissMillie
(38,581 posts)...and add another suggestion: desktop stuff like letter openers, staplers, paper clips, pens/pencils/sharpies, stamps, rulers, etc.
(little things that people forget that they always had in their home).
Kali
(55,025 posts)does the family have any copies of that sort of thing?
after that, for me it would probably be some of my kitchen tools but people would need to know specifics of brands/styles etc.
genxlib
(5,542 posts)I lost a lot of family photos in a roof leak years ago and it really sucked. One of the few things that insurance and savings can't replace.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,219 posts)I don't have any family photos but my brother might.
Kali
(55,025 posts)Coventina
(27,172 posts)A good pillow is home and comfort to me.
Of course, to give the right pillow you would need to know how they prefer to sleep: back, side or stomach.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,219 posts)But I agree, it's all about personal preferences.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,219 posts)As I said, they had insurance and are comfortable financially, but starting over is hard for anyone.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)The thing that is the most important is that they know their loved ones are safe.
Fla Dem
(23,761 posts)Stuff you take for granted, but use every day.
Coffee Maker, Dishware, Silverware, Glassware, mugs, toaster, toaster oven, kitchen utensils, bath towels, kitchen towels. I know some of these will be outside your pricing guidelines, but they are what keeps your day humming. Pretty much like a wedding shower for a couple just starting out.
herding cats
(19,568 posts)Target and Lowe's mostly, but I tailor them to places near them for the more rural folks. It gives them a chance to replace things as they realize what they're missing, with items they like, but haven't replaced yet.
I've been told they've replaced pet items, linens, kitchen items and office supplies with them.
violetpastille
(1,483 posts)Restaurant gift cards. Or invite me over for dinner.
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)They have a good selection of almost all home ware gadgets and that way they could pick out for themselves. Although, the surprise wouldn't be much fun. Never mind.