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MissMillie

(38,560 posts)
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 07:57 AM Apr 2019

Name something you really like about one person in your life

Family member, partner/mate/spouse, boss/co-worker, neighbor, anyone who provides a regular service for you... etc.

I absolutely love that my guy uses the words "Thank You" several times a day. Every time I make a meal, or when he notices some small thing I've done (like yesterday, I wheeled the trash and recycling bins back in from the curb), or when I bring him a second cup of coffee while he's on his computer.... I could go on and on. I really like that he not only notices, but he almost always acknowleges my efforts with a "thank you."

It's really nice to live w/ someone who shows appreciation.


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Name something you really like about one person in your life (Original Post) MissMillie Apr 2019 OP
My Son. He's not Petty. My late father...Also wasn't petty and Kahuna7 Apr 2019 #1
My grandpa. lkinwi Apr 2019 #2
My best friend's honesty. She is honest to a fault. We have dewsgirl Apr 2019 #3
Hubby #2 SallyHemmings Apr 2019 #4
My Stepmom, who's just made of loving selflessness. pnwest Apr 2019 #5
Name something you really like about one person in your life . stonecutter357 Apr 2019 #6
My husband is so kind and generous happybird Apr 2019 #7
My best friend Johnnyringo samplegirl Apr 2019 #8
My bff cares about her fellow human so deeply & sincerely FM123 Apr 2019 #9
Caring & responsibility. lark Apr 2019 #10
My late husband. TruckFump Apr 2019 #11
My husband's dry sense of humor. redstatebluegirl Apr 2019 #12
My brother. Every time we meet, we hug and say 'I love you.' Aristus Apr 2019 #13
Husband #2 Bayard Apr 2019 #14
My husband takes really good care of me when I am sick, injured, or recovering from surgery csziggy Apr 2019 #15
I really appreciate the fact that my second ex-wife abqtommy Apr 2019 #16
He listens. n/t akraven Apr 2019 #17
My mother-in-law Ron Obvious Apr 2019 #18
My daughter Generic Brad Apr 2019 #19
My girlfriend sakabatou Apr 2019 #20

Kahuna7

(2,531 posts)
1. My Son. He's not Petty. My late father...Also wasn't petty and
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 07:59 AM
Apr 2019

I never heard him speak ill of another person. He was a strong man and didn't need to put anyone down to feel better about himself.

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
3. My best friend's honesty. She is honest to a fault. We have
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 08:09 AM
Apr 2019

been best friends for 20 years. I have never met another person as honest as she is.

stonecutter357

(12,697 posts)
6. Name something you really like about one person in your life .
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 08:24 AM
Apr 2019

My wife is a Gingie and she has the at·ti·tude of a Gingie .

happybird

(4,608 posts)
7. My husband is so kind and generous
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 08:50 AM
Apr 2019

he'd literally give anyone the shirt off his back if they needed one.

It does lead to some arguments because we barely get by, ourselves, and sometimes simply cannot afford to feed people staying on our couch or more stray cats. But, his concern for and desire to take care of people and animals is one the things I love and admire most about him.

samplegirl

(11,480 posts)
8. My best friend Johnnyringo
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 09:06 AM
Apr 2019

here on D.U. He is constant and always there for me no matter how big or small.

FM123

(10,053 posts)
9. My bff cares about her fellow human so deeply & sincerely
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 09:08 AM
Apr 2019

I have seen her literally run after a hungry homeless man trying to give him half of her sandwich....

lark

(23,105 posts)
10. Caring & responsibility.
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 09:55 AM
Apr 2019

I know he is there for me, always, side by side, when things go bad and when they are good as well. He will stand up for me and make sure I'm safe. He's saved my life several times, and I have done the same for him. I can't drive right now because of 2 concussions within 6 weeks and the rides through my insurance co. are unreliable so I missed an important appt. yesterday. So, beloved hubby tells work he has to change his sched. so he can take me to the therapy I need. He was a little irritated that I didn't just know he'd do this, and probably normally I would but my brain isn't exactly firing on all cylinders right now.

So anyway we've been together 37 years and counting and so glad of it.

TruckFump

(5,812 posts)
11. My late husband.
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 09:57 AM
Apr 2019

The most honorable person I have ever met.

Also: Kind, loving, honest, maddingly intelligent, well-spoken, protective, excellent and loving parent, a mind that could wrap around the world, creative, funny, dramatic, well-thought of by all, well-educated -- there is not enough good I can say about this man. He passed over 25 years ago and I still miss him and think of him every day.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
12. My husband's dry sense of humor.
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 10:15 AM
Apr 2019

He is so funny without really trying very hard. His students love him and always mention his quirky humor in his evals. Love this man.

Aristus

(66,386 posts)
13. My brother. Every time we meet, we hug and say 'I love you.'
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 11:16 AM
Apr 2019

Might not seem like such a big deal, but after a childhood together being very close, as teens we became bitter rivals. A rivalry compounded by the fact that he was better at everything than I was. For several years, we absolutely hated each other.

When I got back from the Army, it was as if we started over, and now, we're best friends. It's one of the most joyous turnarounds of my life.

Bayard

(22,099 posts)
14. Husband #2
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 11:24 AM
Apr 2019

I love that he loves our animals and farm as much as I do. He is always making sure everyone, including me, has what they need and feels loved. Big difference with husband #1 of 30 years, who abandoned all of us while I was in intensive care in the hospital in CA. Or the doctor I was in a serious relationship with, that tolerated and eventually hated, farm and animals. When I was finally given the ultimate choice--marry me, get rid of the animals and farm, and move down to the city--I made the right choice, even though I eventually lost that farm.

My big handsome guy is warm, caring, intelligent, tolerant, kind, hard-working, generous, forgiving, talented, loves the outdoors and nature, loves our life together, and is a staunch Democrat. What more could I ask?

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
15. My husband takes really good care of me when I am sick, injured, or recovering from surgery
Sat Apr 6, 2019, 08:45 PM
Apr 2019

He's had lots of practice since I have had a LOT of injuries and now a LOT of surgeries (recovering from back fusion right now). Although he has a phobia with needles and blood, he will be right there when I need him, changes dressings, makes sure all my needs are met, and follows directions from medical professionals great.

While I try to take care of him, I am failure as a nurse - I almost cost him his life when I didn't realize his appendix had burst and waited five days to take him to the doctor. So I really appreciate how caring he is.

This trait runs in his family - his brother lived with their mother for ten years as she got older and really wasn't taking care of herself. When she got so she couldn't drive, he took her everywhere she needed to go and made sure she got good meals and all the medical care she needed.

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
16. I really appreciate the fact that my second ex-wife
Sat Apr 6, 2019, 11:07 PM
Apr 2019

finally stopped threatening to sue me in order to get me to do her bidding. I guess she got tired of me telling her to go ahead and let a judge sort things out!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
18. My mother-in-law
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 03:22 PM
Apr 2019

For being dead.

I used to refer to her as my Medusa-in-law, which I stole from Flashman.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
19. My daughter
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 09:40 PM
Apr 2019

She lives a 14 hour drive away, but still makes it a point to check in on my wife and I by text at least once a day.

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